ncolon2393 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Men, how do you want to get seduced by a woman? At this point I don’t trust a woman until she’s comfortable enough to pass some gas around me.	/r/seduction	14/09/25 11:12 AM
1	It's crazy out here You nailed it. I’ve had way more success keeping it casual and daytime. Coffee + walk > dinner + pressure. If there’s a spark, it’ll show without the theatrics.	/r/seduction	21/08/25 06:59 PM
0	How do you get women to feel "the spark" Don’t seek the spark, be the spark.	/r/seduction	21/08/25 11:17 AM
-1	Men are like a moving train with a clear path. You either stop letting women steer your destination or you lose their respect. Definitely AI, but solid advice!	/r/seduction	21/08/25 11:15 AM
39	It's crazy out here I feel you, bro. You’re out here playing with a clean heart in a game full of people who don’t even know what they want. And that sh*t’s draining. You’re not crazy. You’re just operating in a space where clarity and effort ain’t as common as you think. Here’s the real, it’s not you putting in effort that’s the problem. It’s when you do it and why. You’re meeting these women, vibing hard, and the moment they show a little effort, you go, “Damn, finally someone real,” and start matching energy too…	/r/seduction	21/08/25 07:08 AM
50	Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You? “Can I chat with you?” is lowkey weak, not gonna lie. It sounds like you’re asking her for a hall pass. Girls hear that and instantly hit you with the “I got a boyfriend” dodge, it’s autopilot at this point. You gotta switch the energy. Don’t ask for permission, just slide in like you belong in the convo. Say something like, “You looked kinda mysterious over here, what’s your story?” or “You look like you’re about to say something sarcastic, am I right?” Something playful. Low pressure. High con…	/r/seduction	21/08/25 05:02 AM
3	How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed? Bro, it’s always like that. Life’ll have you down bad, stressed, no job, wondering what the hell you’re doing then boom, the baddest girl you’ve ever met shows up talkin’ about “energy” and soul ties. Like, where were you when I had my sht together?* It’s almost like the universe waits til you got nothing to offer on paper just to see what you’re really made of. And that’s the thing, when you’re unemployed, no title, no suit, no fake front, you’re just you. Raw, present, honest, not tryna prove …	/r/seduction	21/08/25 03:36 AM
2	Talking to my girl “friends”made me realise I’m actually not that guy Yeah, you nailed it. That’s exactly what’s happening. When you show all your cards right after a good convo, it kills the tension. She hasn’t had time to get curious about you yet, and you’re already handing her the trophy. The trick isn’t to play games, it’s to understand timing. You can be real and intentional without being too available. Give her space to miss you a little. Let her wonder what you’re thinking. That’s what keeps the energy alive. Next time you feel the urge to escalate quickly…	/r/seduction	21/08/25 03:00 AM
1	Failure after failure Man, I get why you’re frustrated. Thirty approaches, nothing landing, it makes you start questioning if you’re doing something wrong. The truth is, it’s not about you being unattractive or unworthy. It’s just that the way you’re going about it isn’t giving women a real reason to engage. DMs and cold approaches are high risk, low reward if there’s no vibe behind them. Most girls get random messages all the time. If you’re coming in with basic conversation and asking them out within a day or two, …	/r/seduction	21/08/25 02:57 AM
2	Talking to my girl “friends”made me realise I’m actually not that guy You’re watching your friend get played in slow motion, and it’s frustrating because it’s obvious to everyone but her. The thing is, it’s not about logic. She probably knows he’s no good. What’s keeping her there is emotional attachment. That kind of bond runs deep, especially when someone gives just enough attention to keep you hooked but never enough to feel secure. He throws out nicknames, gives her just enough affection to keep the hope alive, then turns around and does whatever he wants. It’…	/r/seduction	21/08/25 12:42 AM
2	Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you? I understand, I’m told this often because of the way I tend to space things out.	/r/seduction	20/08/25 06:14 PM
9	Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you? Because it’s nicely worded? Is this how poorly educated you’ve all become?	/r/seduction	20/08/25 12:11 PM
32	Does not reaching sex when escalating physically make women distance themself from you? Yo, I get where you’re coming from. You had a great date, real connection, and the physical chemistry was strong. But now she’s pulling back, and you’re stuck wondering what changed. Here’s the truth: she probably enjoyed the moment, but afterward, she realized things moved faster than she was emotionally ready for. That doesn’t mean she’s not into you, it means she’s questioning whether the pace matched the kind of relationship she actually wants. If you had gone all the way and had sex, there’…	/r/seduction	20/08/25 10:02 AM
4	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy What does “I was in couple” mean?	/r/seduction	18/08/25 11:10 AM
6	Why does it take you so long to respond to texts? Women get so many more dms then us men. Their inbox are some of the most toxic places and they have to filter out so much nastiness, so I imagine. I love ask females about their inbox because it's show how far man has fallen in the dating realm over the years.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 06:49 PM