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ncredman69/r/Divorce_Men02/08/21 06:47 PM
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ncredman69/r/Divorce_Men10/09/21 10:15 PM
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It's awesome for you to assume what I'm trying to do, but in the future don't act like the females and instead ask for my clarification.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 11:08 PM
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That's not true, you don't always need your dad. If this was the case, then how do you explain children who lost their dad in an accident or war? What kids need are values and principles to live their life by that is taught by you. U can live in another country as long as they know you don't allow or put up with bad behavior and they will be dealt with when your back in their presence.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 09:46 PM
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She ain't going to get half of anything that was purchased before the marriage, don't let her try to scare you. Get yourself a MALE lawyer and tell him you don't want her to get shit she doesn't deserve
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 01:21 AM
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Don't say shit to the heifer. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself. In the beginning her and her friends are going to talk shit about u, even some of your "mutual" friends. But keep working on urself and stick to the kids when you and her have to talk. In time she will realize what a pos she was and then u can smile.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 11:45 PM
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Hey brother, I'm 41 was marries for 13yra and with her for 15. I worked thru it and am happier now even not seeing the kids everyday then when I was living in the home. I would argue that my kids are happier as well. If u need someone to reach out to, just message us and hopefully we can help
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 06:50 AM
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Ok, so in order to attract a female who thinks you are attractive means you have to put urself I to situations where Women are at. Not bars and clubs cause most of those women are looking for hookups but that's not what you are wanting, correct. Meaning, u need to focus on your "peacocking" and putting urself out there to be snatched up. How do u do this, focus on urself like health and hygiene and carrying urself like a MAN and not a Boy. For substance: once I figured out what type of Woman I w…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 08:59 PM
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Yep!! Ur longing for that feeling that you grew accustomed too. How long have u been by urself, meaning living on ur own. Did u actually stop looking for woman or did u still cold approach? Alot of these things make a difference when it comes to attracting a lady who wants to spend her time with u.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 02:16 AM
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Don't try and work it out, she will always hold this over your head. Yes, single life will be better and u should do it. Sex in a Marriage is just as important as communication and truth. You sought after Sex because you weren't being satisfied and it's understandable. If you told her in the beginning, then u didn't "cheat" ( I use the word cheat loosely) but if u didn't, you were wrong. The next women who chooses u, let her know what ur requirements are in order to be with you. If u desire sex …
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 08:37 PM
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A Marriage in this system is a Business deal between 2 equally invested individuals. If you think you are going to Amount to anything as a MAN by the age of 40yrs old, then don't even consider marriage until then. I consider making $10K a Month at that time in ur life would be around 7500 now. So, at that time in ur life u need to get a lawyer and have her sign a pre-nup. A Woman who wants to be with YOU and not for any other reason then SHE REVERES YOU, will not give u 1 second of hesitation to…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/22 12:34 AM
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Don't do it, DONT DO IT! Not only do you need this time to get to know ur new lady, u don't need any extra stressors on your relationship that "in laws" can bring. Just cause it's common in Indian culture, doesn't mean you have to go along with it. Potential issues with Parents being in the home: double or even triple teamed, constant feeling like you are being compared, trying to appease everyone but at the same time neglecting yourself. Just don't do it right now and if she doesn't want you an…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 01:29 AM
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When it comes to dating, the first thing you need to realize is that "you ain't shit". The value you have of yourself never compares to the value others place on you. Secondly, know one owes you shit, only Reapect. Every one in here shitting on "Alpha" have No idea what they are talking about and it's obvious from their comments. Being Alpha means realizing your worth and ensuring that the Women that come into your life know that "if they want to be a part of your life, they have to work on it a…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 12:22 AM
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When it comes to dating, the first thing you need to realize is that "you ain't shit". The value you have of yourself never compares to the value others place on you. Secondly, know one owes you shit, only Reapect. Every one in here shitting on "Alpha" have No idea what they are talking about and it's obvious from their comments. Being Alpha means realizing your worth and ensuring that the Women that come into your life know that "if they want to be a part of your life, they have to work on it a…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 12:22 AM
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Listen!! Do not wait one more day, go find a Civil Lawyer today and get him on retainer. The first person to file has the better chance. Also, go for everything at the beginning; I don't give a fk if "I don't want anything, I'm just so hurt, boohoo boo hoo"! Wipe ur eyes, stick out ur chest and tell the Lawyer "I want to take her to the cleaners". The reason why is because we love these women and we don't want to be mean to them, but in reality SHE DIDNT GIVE A SHIT ABOUT UR FEELINGS, cause if s…
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 01:51 AM
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No, as I rose in ranks in the Army I realized that I was more valuable then the way she was treating me. The Army taught me to worry and constantly contemplate the "what ifs" but in order to live this one life that we have, we can't just focus on the future but we also need to enjoy the NOW. In order to fully enjoy life we have to stop and smell the flowers. To answer your question about my wife, NO I was already gone by the time I came to this realization. I am choosing to move and live in my h…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 05:32 PM
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I'm actually going through this as we speak. After a few months of contemplating, I actually decided to move back to my homestate and a few hours from my hometown in order to "reset". I joined the Army right after high-school and met my wife while serving. I was a different person, a happier person before the Army because I could be myself, CJ. But in order to serve I had to become "insert last name here". After retiring I didn't want to be the Army guy anymore if I wanted to be happy. The Divor…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 12:27 AM
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She chose other Men over you; you don't owe her anything. The message you even thought about writing was too much. SHE CHOSE OTHER MEN OVER YOU. Let that sink in for a second. When a MAN chooses a Wife, he chooses a good thing. A Wife only desires her husband and follows him and his leadership. If she doesn't listen, doesn't follow your decisions then she doesn't want you and she made that clear. So now, she should be giving the same attention as an unattractive female you passed while shopping …
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 10:16 PM
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Listen man, you are going to be just fine. I'm a recent seperated (still waiting for Divorce to go thru) 41yr old man with 3 young daughters. I was like you once I made my mind up to leave. Took me 30days of solitude to get my mind right. I have a great support group of other grown Men who helped me logically work through this. Now I'm about 1yr past leaving the house and my life is great. In better shape physically, mentally, and financially. After a couple months of making up lost Sex time tha…
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 09:36 PM
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I don't think you are understanding me. U are saying that the Husband might be doing this to show the son how to be a man, and its better late then never. But u wouldn't trust these acts based on past behaviors. I'm asking you, what past behaviors did he exhibit that would make u say she shouldn't trust them? Was it because he was "rude and passive aggressive" as she states?
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 08:54 PM
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What past behavior are you talking about?
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 07:26 PM
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It doesn't matter if he admits it or not, if u know for a FACT that he did, then ok. But let's play devils advocate for a sec, what if he DIDNT CHEAT and only said that in hopes that it would make u want to have sex with u. But, u actually did it and that's why he is saying he DIDNT.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 12:45 AM
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From one man to another, Ask them damn kids why they didn't say shit when they new it was happening. They darn sure new how to speak up when they wanted something or when they wanted to go somewhere. How is ur relatiinship with ur kiddos? Do they confide in u or seek ur advice when dealing with stuff? Did u teach ur kids to speak up or say something if something isn't right? Or did u teach em to shut it and stay in a kids place? Hell, are they even your kids if the wife is a cheater? In the end …
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 11:42 PM
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Thats bullcrap because who decided what is and what isn't "cheating". You both did what you wanted too and that's it. His excuse was that u were t given it to him enough so he sought it elsewhere. What's ur reason for cheating? It obviously wasn't that he didn't want SEX cause he wouldn't have cheated. So u say u were clear to him what u needed in order for u to "Desire" him. That's bullshit as well because if it was so difficult for you to get turned on by him, then how did u get turned on by a…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 09:54 PM
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1st question, how old are the both of you? A man doesn't slow down sexually until he gets around his 40's. In his 20' u need to be breaking him off at least 2 times a day, in his 30's at least 1 time a day, in his 40's always be ready cause that's my age now and I'm still getting it in like a Rabbit. If you aren't willing to do this, then don't be upset when he gets his needs met somewhere else. This is why I tell all young men I come in contact with, get ur kids out of the way in ur 20's and do…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 09:28 PM
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In order to answer ur question, it needs to be asked. Who approached who first? If she approached u or sent someone to u to tell u she liked u, what was your life like at the time? Did u VET HER, were you on ur on purpose, what was ur life like at the time. If you saw her and she saw u and yall met by happenstance, or if she worked with u or any of those other scenarios, if u approached her first and u didn't VET Her, then yes it was all FAKE.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 06:15 PM
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I'm 41M seperated for 6mths and wasn't looking for anything, just minding my business. Was approached while dining by a 23yr old woman who thought I was in my early 30's. After ensuring she understood the age difference, she was still set on getting to know me. Yes the age maturity thing can be an issue only of you make it one in the beginning. She keeps me young, we go out often, we laugh and joke, her libido is still very high so no complaints there.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/22 03:32 AM
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I wouldn't say he is lying, I have also done this on a couple of occasions.
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:39 AM
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Naw
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/21 11:18 PM
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Are we able to make this comment permanent and store them in the history cause this info will get lost in time and it's invaluable. People 10 years from now will find this info invaluable in their effort to move on.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 07:25 AM
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How's it going brother? Are u making it?
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/21 10:46 PM
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First thing u need to do is GET AHOLD OF YOURSELF. Are you a MAN or a MOUSE? Ok then, act like it. Secondly, get urself some clothes that fit, shave ur face, get a haircut, and sit down for a second. Be honest with yourself without being drunk, and without the emotionally aspect ask yourself WHAT DO I WANT? Ok then, fuck her and what she is talking about. She had u but she obviously didn't know how to treat u so now ur gone. There is no reason why u should allow anyone to mentally break u. Figur…
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/21 09:31 PM
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How old were u when u got married, and then divorced? Why did u get divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 02:17 AM
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I don't blame my wife one bit. I found her before I was ready but I commend the fact we made it this long. To answer ur question, ima figure out who I am when I am not beholden to anyone and have enough money in my pocket to be comfortable. I want to learn myself and build my real estate empire that I've been dreaming about since 2008.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 10:42 PM
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Listen, I got that. But if she is being a B, then fk it. A MAN WILL RECOVER but a MOUSE will cry foul. A woman can be a vile, disgusting, Medusa and it's ur decision to engage or not. Fk the credit score, fk the house, use this time to figure out EXACTLY WHAT THE FK U WANT as it pertains to the kids and property, give that shit to ur lawyer, and let it ride. Don't engage, don't argue, don't fight with her. Let the lawyer do his or her job and in the end, u will win because ur Happoness is worth …
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 05:36 PM
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Heck naw!! After the first few days I started feeling so much better. I'm sleeping better, feel rejuvenated, and had my experience with a random lady within the 1st week of being on my own. My house is clean, my clothes are washed, no one aggravating me, and I'm at PEACE.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 05:17 PM
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Do me a favor, go find the child's book "If you give a Mouse a Cookie" the Mouse is ur wife and u are the little boy. How long u let this shit go for is up to u.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 05:12 PM
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Don't argue with her, she is just trying to hurt u the only way she can and that's using the kiddos. Fk her and her opinions! Tell ur lawyer what's the bare minimum you want, and let him fight that shit. If she doesn't want you to get ur kids while the seperation going thru, then that's good. Go have fun, meet other women, fk some prostitutes. Whatever u do, don't sit home in ur own thoughts. The system isn't bad as people make out to be and if u got a decent lawyer, ull be fine and ur kids will…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 05:08 PM
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That's dumb as hell. If that's ur house, then why did u leave? Cause she wanted you gone or cause u wanted to leave? If u chose to leave, then are u still paying all the bills at the house where ANOTHER MAN is enjoying the fruits of your labor and fking the shit outta ur wife. So what u gon do about it? Stop being a door mat, and pull out that man card. U don't have to get violent but don't go along just to get along. Either go back home or start a new home, but ur home with her is over. Get an …
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 05:05 PM
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Ur number 1 problem is YOU STILL GIVE A FK ABOUT WHAT SHE SAYS OR HER FEELINGS. Other then sharing kids together, SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO TELL U HOW TO DO SHIT!! U want to let the kids sleep in ur bed, then fk her and let them. See, just like u I fkd up early in the relationship by letting her run shit. The whole, go along to get along Mantra or, if momma ain't happy then nobody happy. It should be, if Dad isn't respected and appreciated then all yall getting yo ass whipped. I'm the King of my castl…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/21 04:52 PM
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I decided to just leave everything and start over. I know financially that's not feasible for everyone but, I didn't want to deal with the headache
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/21 12:36 AM
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