ndestruktx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Being short in public areas: Demoralization. like everyone here said - plus work on being successful where you have higher social status	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/23 12:53 AM
3	It appears that women don't want men Most women don’t like average men. I don’t think that’s wrong. Most men don’t want average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 10:07 PM
3	What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Women A little inaccurate in that I would argue Afghani men were just being pussies about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 08:16 AM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? You are 100% right. It’s pretty much equivalent. Men : Status/Wealth/Class as Women : Physical Attraction	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 02:13 AM
2	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? Not sure what everyone else’s experience is but I’ve never met a woman who likes to proclaim that they’re a “strong woman” who is happy. All the ones I know who do this in person or on social media have a chip on their shoulder, have an insecurity, or have bad dating histories. The truly strong women I know never talk about it. They just do what they do and they’re happy. It’s like if you’re really good at something you don’t need to tell someone about it. If you do there’s a big chance you’re i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 06:15 PM
2	Lifting weights and nutrition 100%. Hence the push and pull routines complementing each other.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/21 07:53 PM
5	What kind of guys do you avoid being friends with? I think anyone that’s obsessed with anything too much isn’t a good thing. Time and place for everything.	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 09:07 PM
1	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. Agreed. The just be yourself thing is partly a good thing in that we accept the things we CAN’T change. But sadly it extrapolated to things we CAN change and people started using it as a cop out to shame people that judge them. “I’m fat, well that’s just me”. “I don’t like that job so I quit”. “Exercising makes me dizzy, I don’t like it”. It’s all just bullshit excuses to not be a better version of oneself and society is making it worse. You can’t change your ethnicity, your genetics, or your fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 11:40 PM
3	A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right. It’s not “she doesn’t love him anymore”, it’s “she isn’t attracted to him physically anymore”. You can still love and care about a male partner but no longer want to have sex with them. Many men have this “sexual entitlement” that if they’re in a relationship they should be getting sex. No, you idiot, you have to be attractive. The same way a woman should try to stay in shape and be their best, a man should stay healthy (and not obese) and probably work on themselves to be the best version of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/21 09:28 AM
1	So when do you cash out? Ugh that does sound bad. Maybe the wrong field for you then? I’m in medicine so love my colleagues and staff (young beautiful nurses are a plus) and my schedule might be rough but when you’re around people you like being with, work is great.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/21 05:16 AM
2	So when do you cash out? Sounds like the Ebenezer Scrooge story. Part of what makes life “fun” is the work and challenges that come with a fulfilling career. I don’t think I’ll ever retire. I love what I do and I’ll probably just do less of it or pro-bono. The connection with society is worth much more than the money ever will be.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/21 05:06 AM
10	How do you know if you’ve been settled for? Great and insightful answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 04:42 AM
2	What sacrifices have you made to be where you are today? Find friends who have similar goals and desires. I found these friends while going to school - similar intelligence, similar discipline, similar interests - and we built each other up. You can probably find friends at work or any organization too that you have a passion for. But to be honest it will be harder if you’re around less motivated people or work in a field with unmotivated people.	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 04:38 AM
1	The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus Strength This doesn’t sound like competence. This sounds borderline conspiracy and all conspiracies have one thing in common - blaming others.	/r/seduction	14/01/21 05:24 AM
1	Do Yourself a Favor in 2021 Maybe to some degree. But very advanced math such as Lagrangian dynamics have to be taught by someone who knows what they’re doing. Sure it doesn’t have to be “school” but just some structured way of learning. I’m definitely very keen on experience which is why majority of jobs need that including medicine which for me was residency and fellowship - basically 7 years of “apprenticeship”. But there is no way I could have done that effectively without learning what was taught in school / books. It…	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/21 08:32 PM
1	Do Yourself a Favor in 2021 I worked in Malawi and Kenya for months during med school. I’m a wilderness medical provider for expeditions. I will argue most of my skills I did learn in school - but honed with experience. Without school, the experience would not have been complete. I say this because I similar work before school and then after school - it was vastly different how much more I understood. I worked on cars during college, designed better fuel delivery systems, and did aircraft engine design on my first job at a…	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/21 07:00 AM
2	Do Yourself a Favor in 2021 I agree. Education is paramount for a great society. It depends though too. Gender studies versus applied physics - huge difference lol.	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/21 04:50 AM
1	Do Yourself a Favor in 2021 I agree with a lot that you said but this is inaccurate. It depends on the job. Very few engineering firms will hire you without a degree. Very few law firms will hire you without a degree and passing the bar will be very difficult without formal education. No one is going to let you operate on them without a degree. Sure some lower level jobs like programming, graphic design, and business related jobs can be done without school but it’s much easier to have formal education. I agree with work ex…	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/21 04:31 PM
2	Do Yourself a Favor in 2021 Education from a university does make you learn to think in a different manner and also gives you social capital. It’s not just for showing off a degree or for “preppy twats”. This type of thinking is dangerous for a society because society advanced because we have people educated in different things. There’s no way society could continue to advance without the problem solving skills that universities teach. Would you go to a surgeon that learned on their own? Who would do the research for futur…	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/21 04:22 PM
1	99% of you are pathetic losers If you have inherent value, you won’t need expensive things to look good. Case in point - one person who is a cardiologist wears a fake Rolex and everyone thinks it’s real and doesn’t really care what he’s wearing. Another person is a club promoter and wears a real Rolex and is often shit tested and questioned about it (these are real people I know). One has true value to society. The other one doesn’t really give much back to society. No kid in school says they want to be a club promoter when t…	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/20 10:50 PM
2	Hey guys share your thoughts about this perspective - Do you consider sex as merely a form of action or is it more than that? Can it be equated to activities like Dancing or Singing? true, but these endorphins are much higher after sex. i guess drugs toox	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 10:59 PM
4	Hey guys share your thoughts about this perspective - Do you consider sex as merely a form of action or is it more than that? Can it be equated to activities like Dancing or Singing? Sex releases more neurohormonal chemicals the brain than dancing or a massage. That physiological response makes sex a much more “intimate” act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/20 03:08 PM
0	Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores? pretty much any man with average intelligence can do most of the necessary work. you just need someone to show you or watch you tube. most of the guys i did summer work with barely had high school diplomas and were great at remodeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 07:03 AM
2	As an Engineer and a Doctor, how can I put myself out there to successful women not in my field? I was a mechanical engineering major and am now a doctor (in a highly sought after specialty). I would try to be involved in organizations or clubs that appeal to your hobbies. Examples for my life include running or crossfit clubs (a ton of pretty cool people who have similar activity interests and goals and throw in the excitement of pre-race day travels, race day, and post race day celebrations), community service organizations, and going to conferences that involve things outside your specia…	/r/askTRP	07/10/20 06:28 PM
2	At a complete fucking loss. Holy shit this is a clusterfuck. Expression of your frustration with physical abuse is never okay. If you want her to respect you, that is not going to work. In fact you are making yourself look worse. I assume you are not Asian. She probably married you in the first place thinking you would be a good catch and provide. You mention you aren’t well off - well you already disappointed her expectations (not your fault persay but few Asian women marry outside their race for anything but hopes of a c…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/08/20 08:40 AM
2	CMV: Women are almost never used for sex. Plenty of women are intimate with their husband and don’t want to be but do it out of feeling bad aka “pity sex”. Otherwise the husband gets whiny like no tomorrow and everything in the home falls to shit. Easier to just let him have the wife and finish in 10 minutes. In the same way how many husbands want to buy that 5000 dollar Chanel bag? Not many - but you do it to keep them happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/20 11:38 PM
2	Women are attracted to a Man's Hands like we are to her Breasts Nah, I met plenty when I was a resident in training making 40K a year. Most of the women were on the nerdier side and more classy/intellectual sluts. Then again I don’t do ONS with trashy women (the ones you might be referring to).	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/20 09:15 PM
10	Women are attracted to a Man's Hands like we are to her Breasts Guess that’s part of the appeal of being a surgeon. Home repairs and car repairs are one thing too.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/20 07:47 PM
1	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out Agreed	/r/seduction	08/06/20 12:47 AM
1	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out Thanks! We’ve all been in the same situation at some point in life. If we’re better for ourselves we’ll be better for society.	/r/seduction	07/06/20 09:58 PM
4	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out Look, I’m not trying to criticize you or tell you not to do this. By all means if you feel someone looks good and you want to approach them, it’s all you. I do the same thing and put my reputation on the line all the time - it’s just part of life. At the same time don’t assume they want to have interaction with you. You can think the interaction is positive all you want but if they didn’t want to give you their number (and even if they do they still might not be interested) then the interaction …	/r/seduction	07/06/20 08:34 PM
4	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out YOU might be okay but plenty of other men are creepy simps. Plus most of them aren’t attractive at all. I guarantee if they were good looking she’d be okay with it. Sorry that’s just life. Fat women have flirted with me before and I hate it but an attractive woman who does the same thing I invite it. The fact you don’t realize this and interpret it as judgmental suggests you don’t know how women think. You were behind this woman, then you called out (yelled actually), caught up with her, and tri…	/r/seduction	07/06/20 07:39 PM
22	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out It sounds like you’re living for other people. You need to live for yourself. 1-10. Get rid of the weight. This is an absolute must. Not only is it good for attraction but more importantly it is healthier. Get good at some type of PHYSICAL activity. Lifting, running, skiing, wakeboarding, cycling, rock climbing, something like that. Get decent enough you have some credibility (like running some marathons or being able to deadlift a certain weight or having some triathlon experience). Go to schoo…	/r/seduction	07/06/20 07:15 PM
3	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out Doubtful. My SO is always being hit on by people like this when she goes running and she thinks they’re creepy as hell. To the point she’ll find a different trail to go on or different hours.	/r/seduction	07/06/20 06:50 PM
10	Women Like Catching You Checking Them Out You need to have higher social value than them. Few people want to hang out with someone of lower social value - even as friends.	/r/seduction	07/06/20 06:47 PM
11	Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study finds I have my own passions. But the sex is great with these crazy women and honestly I don’t mind the chaos because I just ignore them / ghost them while they’re crazy and they eventually just come back and want it again. Literally is the easiest way to live. Can’t complain.	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/20 05:48 AM
11	Men are drawn to borderline personality traits in physically attractive women, study finds sometimes the passion is worth the chaos	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/20 04:19 AM
1	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? Most guys do not go bald. The ones that do need to learn how to make it look good for them, otherwise you’re SOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 02:31 PM
3	Scepter's Guide to Curing Your ONEitis. When I was in graduate school, I dated a girl I met as an undergrad. We were together nearly 3 years. I knew she had been communicating to an ex but I let it slide. I had my suspicions but I had some major ass one-itis. One day we got in a huge fight and I didn’t talk to her for a day. I felt bad so I called but no answer. I ended up going to her apartment to find her ex in her bed. I flipped my shit and dumped her. And it hurt. Bad. I focused on grad school (medicine) and ended up dating 3 othe…	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/20 05:34 AM
8	Cheap Places to Take Girls for First Date Trail run or hike.	/r/askTRP	28/05/20 07:33 AM
2	How can I maintain my gains during the quarantine? Go to the grocery - there still open. Get protein supplements etc. Stock up on eggs.	/r/askTRP	22/03/20 01:53 AM
4	Every Single PPD Woman Would Be an Incel if She Was a Guy very specific there	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/19 09:17 PM
3	Are your married friends happy? Number 5 is huge. Have a high quality position in whatever field you’re in. Don’t settle for being in a low value place. If you work on a factory line then find opportunities to be the line manager eventually. If you work in accounting, become a controller, if you’re an attorney- get partnership. The worst is being underemployed or unemployed. No amount of RP is going to make you desired in that case (well to low value hoes maybe but nothing above that).	/r/askTRP	20/12/19 07:32 PM
9	30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share. I had this exact conversation the other day with my friend. Women in their 30s and 40s and remain thin with a nice body are the best. They’re mature, good conversationalists, cultured, and know what they are doing in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/19 08:56 AM
1	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? ER doctors generally tend to have a lot of outside interests. They also know very little about a lot (we call them triage nurses). Nephrologists are usually very nerdy and intelligent yes. Though not widely known - cardiology, GI, orthopedic surgery, dermatology are some of the hardest specialties to get into so those with the best grades and hardest workers get into those.	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 08:44 PM
1	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? 110% agreed. I think it’s their youth and though I am beyond that stage in my life, I remember those days with much joy haha.	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 08:18 PM
2	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? Yep. ER nurses are generally younger and right out of school. They’re definitely too young and naive for my taste nowadays (if the only thing you know about wine is red versus white, then next). You won’t get your hot tight milfs usually in an ER. ER nurses are also very good at triaging but they don’t have in depth knowledge about long term advanced pathology. So a little too shallow for me to date ;)	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 07:11 PM
0	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? Again usually depends on their specialty. The nerdy ones usually do some kind of scientific endeavor. People like myself go into more aggressive specialties where there are life and death decisions made on the fly and have to command an operating room. Assertiveness is required in some specialities and the socially backward ones generally don’t do that shit. Natural personalities funnel us into our specialties I think.	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 07:07 PM
2	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? Depends on the nurse but yes you definitely have your share of the ER nurses, I won’t disagree. ICU and pediatric nurses don’t get to see you as often. Neither do the oncology nurses - whole new world there. There’s a reason there are call rooms in the hospital.	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 08:57 AM
1	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? I don’t disagree with you. I’m also not wrong in what I said. Our thoughts are not incongruent aside from you implying that most men who make a lot of money don’t get sex. I think majority of high powered successful men probably have it easier in getting laid than unsuccessful low on the totem pole men in general (not age specific). There are always exceptions and yes, game is definitely necessary. Although I would also point out that the more power a man wields, the less game they seem to need.…	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 04:59 AM
3	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? Just because you’re a doctor doesn’t mean you don’t know how to do practical things. I’m a cardiologist. I was a mechanical engineering major. I worked in a machine shop in college for a job and an auto repair shop as well fixing and modifying cars. I ran division 1 track on a scholarship. I have a teammate that went on to become a high powered lawyer. I have a med school classmate that played football in college. We don’t have to talk about n count but I never had a drought. Intelligence and mo…	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 04:48 AM
-2	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? depends on the kind of doctor. work in a clinic for old folks? yah not that cool. work with people with allergies? not cool either. trauma surgeon? cardiologist? orthopedic surgeon? much more badass. whatever field you go into - be at the top of the food chain	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 04:39 AM
15	So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing? no need to go on dates. just make good friends, have a great time, and do well in school.	/r/askTRP	03/11/19 04:37 AM
3	Feel like giving up boys...Dont know what to do or say with my girlfriend anymore. she has no respect for me. She is bossy and demanding.. I feel like im a piece of furniture around her....not sure what to do anymore..Ive tried dread, ignoring, focusing on me..Nothing..Need advise Leave	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/06/19 08:56 PM
1	Are women always attracted to the alpha male of the group they are in? Totally the case with doctors in the hospital. Lots of alphas in that setting but outside of work really low SMV. Key is to keep it going everywhere you go. Having it at work is a plus that just needs to build on.	/r/askTRP	29/03/19 07:14 PM
1	Most of you are too fat to have High SMV Yes and no. While we all are losers in some way, being fat is one of the worst. I'd much rather be losing at video games than losing to food. Losers in both situations but definitely different.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 07:37 AM
1	Most of you are too fat to have High SMV Do you have any concern over the downsides of taking hormones?	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 07:19 AM
2	Most of you are too fat to have High SMV You can't increase height once growth plates have fused. That occurs anywhere from 18-25 for most humans.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 07:18 AM
3	Just Fucking Lift I work 70-90 hours a week at times...no excuse not to work out. Not only have studies shown it to improve lifespan it's also proven to improve mental wellness and decrease anxiety and depression. Like many have said - you don't need to be a bulky bodybuilder. Just be stronger practically speaking (carry suitcases without struggling, change tires, move furniture, etc). I'd also add that running is great too - being able to run a 5k under 25 minutes can appeal to many women plus it's healthy. Even…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 07:01 AM