| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 37 | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sex | CMV | ndiw83h4bdn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardI've seen calm women turn crazy with off the cart libido when they are around a hot guy. Really their libido is fine, just males are typically not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Can't even blame em.Women are objectively attractive and men are typically not attractive. Guys are acting that way because female beauty really is a powerful force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Men would probably simp less and be desperate for female company if they just got more positive reinforcement/affirmation in their everyday life, I will explain in better detail what I meanI don't think so. Males are deeply attracted to females and having sex and a relationship. Nothing can really fully compensate for that. Speaking for myself this is how I feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 09:56 AM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexYes I think your list is good. On #3 tho, these guys stop being average. And yes it can be stupid but someone can have it a couple of times to at least know they are attractive. # 1 really isn't the way to get that confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:45 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexI think that women report they don't want it because they already have the ability to it. Guys don't. I think if the world was more equal, guys would be more of the same. The reason casual sex is such a big deal for men is that only the best get it so it's a prize to brag about. Plus I assume a lot of women secretly have a few hookups in their life. I know that's not backed up by a study on women self reporting, but still, women are humans and probably wouldn't mind have sex with a hot guy maybe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:30 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexYeah you are right it's a part of life and people can feel good from being attractive, hence when it's missing from someone's life they feel ugly and unlovable. Especially males because they get such an ego boost when they get attention from women as I was saying above | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:21 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexA lot of guys are specially depressed because they feel ugly and unlovable. So yes, female attention will solve that. If they have other problems it won't solve it. But for me I think feeling attractive and being able to get someone to like you can just help someone have a more positive life in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:19 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexIt's applicable because that's what my post was about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:17 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexSo you disagree with me and think that average guys should expect casual sex because they can get it? Or are you on some "pro women" quest to try to shoot down anyone who may suggest that women have some forms of advantages in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 04:06 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexHard to say sometimes, also hard to measure I think. But it's not important I'm not here to talk about libido. Just the option to have causal sex if someone wants it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:36 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexI bet I could to to any of my female friends and get them a sex date in a week or really probably in hours. But I can't do that with any of my make friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:34 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexThe difference is that when a women has causal sex its free and she knows her attractiveness pulled a guy in which is a power she has. When a guy does it he has to pay because he knows he's too ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:18 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexThe famous people are exaggerations and everyone knows it. But it's proof that males still see casual sex as a status symbol. Your social bubble is weird, many of my male friends from many years of my life have bragged about getting women whenever they actually could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:16 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexWell sex is important, reproduction is very common with things that survive evolution. I don't think it's the only thing but when it's completely missing from your life it's really sad (speaking from persobal experience) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:14 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexYes it's not like it's going to solve all your problems, but if you didn't have it I would say your life would be worse. And I think 6 months is too short. I don't think super muscle guys are what women want but I think they like some muscle and that takes years to build. Although sometimes a six pack with small muscles seems to work, so maybe like 2 years for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:13 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexYes but it doesn't happen enough so many men are depressed over it. I dont know the stats well, but I bet a majority of male suicides are partly or completely related to sexual and romantic frustration in some way (rejection and feeling ugly and unloved) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:04 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexI know women say that it doesn't make them feel any better but if it disappeared I think they would be depressed. But of course, I understand women get too much aggressive attention and it's not a good thing. Too much and too little is not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:56 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexYeah but thee guy can go to different parties on different nights. Can go to other social outings. Can use various social media sites, and of course online dating from multiple apps over weeks and months, he can get a few times a week, a few times a month. A guy can really get around if he wants too and is hot enough to get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:52 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexIt's relevant because most guys would want to have some casual sex and they can't get it. I think when you know you can get casual sex you feel attractive and validated as a human. I think a person lives a happier life when they feel like they can be wanted sexually, and that feeling can be validated in real life with some proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:49 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexMy point is about the subject of casual sex and male expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:40 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexWell you are living a life much better than males around the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:23 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexWell then you should share your secrets with the rest of us haha. I think you are either attractive, are dating below average women, or you are just really lucky somehow. But even below average women don't really like it with average guys from what I can see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:11 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexI should emphasize that typically normal guys can't get it. But we can get lucky sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexWeird social bubble you have. Listen to some music and movies from men. The rappers, rock stars, Hollywood actors. They are all having casual sex and bragging about it always. It's a big deal for a guy to get sex easily, men worship it. Well the men outside of your social circle do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:00 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexI'm not sure about that. In male culture it's such a prize to be attractive and get casual sex. I think lots of guys would love to have sex with a few different girls on different days of the week. Also it's not that time consuming to date and have sex. They can go to the gym and socialize, work, etc. with their free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:57 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexIf you have a small city of 100k people and let's say 5% of the guys are top level than that's 5,000 guys that can see different women on different days of the week. I think plenty of guys wouldn't give that up to settle down until they are old. And yeah I think lots of the women think the guy will stay with them but since the guy is hot the "risk" that he leaves is worth it since the sex would be good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:46 PM |
| – | Average guys typically shouldn't expect casual sexI think a lot do. Most guys assume that women are attracted to average guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Creative professionals vs technical professionals , is one easier to date than the other ?I heard you get a boost when you switch your location, not sure about it however | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 05:25 PM |
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