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CMVndiw83h4bdn/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:32 PM
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I've seen calm women turn crazy with off the cart libido when they are around a hot guy. Really their libido is fine, just males are typically not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:06 PM
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Women are objectively attractive and men are typically not attractive. Guys are acting that way because female beauty really is a powerful force.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:51 PM
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I don't think so. Males are deeply attracted to females and having sex and a relationship. Nothing can really fully compensate for that. Speaking for myself this is how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:56 AM
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Yeah they basically just stand around and look pretty, which is enough for them. They need to shave, put on some makeup, not be obese, and those are the main things for female beauty to be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:03 PM
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Okay cool I'm so surprised to hear a top level guy has had "lots of relationships". I don't need to do any reasarch but I will confidently say he has had plenty of casual sex in between dating 10/10 women. Actually he is on the level where they will probably tolerate him cheating because he brings so much status boosting to them. So this is an awful example. Aside from the top famous people, there are just gifted guys here and there around a city that are much hotter than average guys and will f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:02 PM
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Yeah sounds nice in theory that a guy and a girl would just date their "looks match" but they don't need to and don't. Too much pressure to be a top guy and have lots of sex, and too much pressure from women competing for the tip guys. Famous people are actually having tons of sex so that's a terrible example. Like I said, eventually people get old and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:44 PM
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So crazy how a guy is just not good enough and can't expect to try to get women to like them but instead have to go out and apparently build this life while a women cam just stand there and do nothing while guys fall overthemsleves for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:36 PM
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True lowering standards and paying are sometimes an option but still not that great. And no, but it would be nice if women found guys more attractive. There would be less frustrated men everywhere, that's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:22 PM
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8/10 women aren't nearly as rare as an 8/10 guy. So the guy can get 8s from time to time and maybe some 7s and 6s. Hot guys are just so rare that whenever a women finds one they go crazy, even if he is in a relation its constant opportuties to cheat. Onlu hhen people get older there are less 8/10 women and people get married so things change then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:20 PM
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Yeah that's true and they shouldn't but it's biological so it's hard to ignore it. And you basically get it if you are born female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:57 PM
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Yeah they so totally aren't attracted to a wide variety of men. And yeah women aren't interested in casual sex because if they wanted it they could get it so they already have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:53 PM
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Yes I think your list is good. On #3 tho, these guys stop being average. And yes it can be stupid but someone can have it a couple of times to at least know they are attractive. # 1 really isn't the way to get that confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:45 PM
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Weird how there are so many "i*ncels" everywhere when guys are supposedly hooking up all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:31 PM
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I think that women report they don't want it because they already have the ability to it. Guys don't. I think if the world was more equal, guys would be more of the same. The reason casual sex is such a big deal for men is that only the best get it so it's a prize to brag about. Plus I assume a lot of women secretly have a few hookups in their life. I know that's not backed up by a study on women self reporting, but still, women are humans and probably wouldn't mind have sex with a hot guy maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:30 PM
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Yeah you are right it's a part of life and people can feel good from being attractive, hence when it's missing from someone's life they feel ugly and unlovable. Especially males because they get such an ego boost when they get attention from women as I was saying above
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:21 PM
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A lot of guys are specially depressed because they feel ugly and unlovable. So yes, female attention will solve that. If they have other problems it won't solve it. But for me I think feeling attractive and being able to get someone to like you can just help someone have a more positive life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:19 PM
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It's applicable because that's what my post was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:17 PM
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So you disagree with me and think that average guys should expect casual sex because they can get it? Or are you on some "pro women" quest to try to shoot down anyone who may suggest that women have some forms of advantages in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:06 PM
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Hard to say sometimes, also hard to measure I think. But it's not important I'm not here to talk about libido. Just the option to have causal sex if someone wants it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:36 PM
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I bet I could to to any of my female friends and get them a sex date in a week or really probably in hours. But I can't do that with any of my make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:34 PM
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Yes but a small piece of those things should be realistic. Most people would be happier if they could afford something nice once and a while and could get a few casual sexual encounters when they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:30 PM
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Yes totally. Too little and too much I think are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:18 PM
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The difference is that when a women has causal sex its free and she knows her attractiveness pulled a guy in which is a power she has. When a guy does it he has to pay because he knows he's too ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:18 PM
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The famous people are exaggerations and everyone knows it. But it's proof that males still see casual sex as a status symbol. Your social bubble is weird, many of my male friends from many years of my life have bragged about getting women whenever they actually could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:16 PM
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Well sex is important, reproduction is very common with things that survive evolution. I don't think it's the only thing but when it's completely missing from your life it's really sad (speaking from persobal experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:14 PM
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Yes it's not like it's going to solve all your problems, but if you didn't have it I would say your life would be worse. And I think 6 months is too short. I don't think super muscle guys are what women want but I think they like some muscle and that takes years to build. Although sometimes a six pack with small muscles seems to work, so maybe like 2 years for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:13 PM
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Having casual sex once and awhile isn't the same thing as hedonism. And if something is actually bad then it should have some negative effects. If a person takes care of their health, had their financial life in order, on good terms with family, has some friends, then adding casual sex won't make their life worse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:09 PM
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Probably both. I think when women get older they see the difference as a result of their physical aging and get a little sad. And unattractive women live their whole lives without it (well typically women always get more in comparison to men) they are also sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:07 PM
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Yes but it doesn't happen enough so many men are depressed over it. I dont know the stats well, but I bet a majority of male suicides are partly or completely related to sexual and romantic frustration in some way (rejection and feeling ugly and unloved)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:04 PM
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People like to have sex with hot people. After they do it, they put their clothes back on, go to work or school, and the world keeps spinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:02 PM
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I also think a lot of average guys can transform themselves. That's probably their biggest problem, guys don't really understand beauty. I think more guys can be hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:01 PM
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I know women say that it doesn't make them feel any better but if it disappeared I think they would be depressed. But of course, I understand women get too much aggressive attention and it's not a good thing. Too much and too little is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:56 PM
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Yes that is how things are currently which is what I wrote about in my post. You then comment about how in your conservative paradise nobody would be having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:53 PM
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Yeah but thee guy can go to different parties on different nights. Can go to other social outings. Can use various social media sites, and of course online dating from multiple apps over weeks and months, he can get a few times a week, a few times a month. A guy can really get around if he wants too and is hot enough to get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:52 PM
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It's relevant because most guys would want to have some casual sex and they can't get it. I think when you know you can get casual sex you feel attractive and validated as a human. I think a person lives a happier life when they feel like they can be wanted sexually, and that feeling can be validated in real life with some proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:49 PM
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Guys often crank up music about how the rapper or rock star is banging tons of hot girls. They also watch action movies where they guy is sleeping around. And then the crazy people go on mass terror attacks they target women. Plus most of the posts I see on here and other places, I think not once did I ever see an angry sexless male criticize a top level guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:48 PM
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My point is about the subject of casual sex and male expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:40 PM
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Not really, if a guy has friends, family, sex, that is a nice life. When you get older you can want a family but when you are young it's not like a relationship is going to fix your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:39 PM
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I don't really see it towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:38 PM
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Yes I think typically males shouldn't expect it but various exceptions exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:36 PM
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I don't think left parties are anti man, but often they take male issues as a joke. I think they can and should get better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:35 PM
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I even find it hard to believe that most young guys would pass up a life of causal sex if they could. If they say they don't want casual sex I assume it's a cope because they can't get it anyway. At least generally speaking, some young guys might not but the most I think do. When guys get older then maybe they want it less because they want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:33 PM
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They are missing out now and they would miss out in your conservative paradise society. The only thing is that they won't see it happen for other guys so at best you remove the jealousy in your ideal wold. (But in my opinion guys aren't typically jealous of top level guys they are typically resentful towards women)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:30 PM
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I think that's silly. Society will be just fine if people have more sex. It's just sad that a huge majority of men are missing out on being young and having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:26 PM
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Yes, rankings exist in other places in life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:24 PM
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Well you are living a life much better than males around the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:23 PM
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So you think rights should be taken away from women or that they should be shamed more so they stop having sex with hot guys they want to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:13 PM
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Well then you should share your secrets with the rest of us haha. I think you are either attractive, are dating below average women, or you are just really lucky somehow. But even below average women don't really like it with average guys from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:11 PM
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I think they are lucky if they get it and probably don't get lucky that often, usually. So generally it's just not a thing for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:10 PM
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True but here we should talk about casual sex. And maybe with not overweight women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:08 PM
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I should emphasize that typically normal guys can't get it. But we can get lucky sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:03 PM
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Yes if your overweight then I think you know it's not possible and hopefully doesn't stress you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:02 PM
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Weird social bubble you have. Listen to some music and movies from men. The rappers, rock stars, Hollywood actors. They are all having casual sex and bragging about it always. It's a big deal for a guy to get sex easily, men worship it. Well the men outside of your social circle do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:00 PM
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I'm not sure about that. In male culture it's such a prize to be attractive and get casual sex. I think lots of guys would love to have sex with a few different girls on different days of the week. Also it's not that time consuming to date and have sex. They can go to the gym and socialize, work, etc. with their free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:57 PM
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Yes, but still as many point out the prostitute sex can make them more depressed after. So sad it's only a half measure at best. Still I think it should be legal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:49 PM
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If you have a small city of 100k people and let's say 5% of the guys are top level than that's 5,000 guys that can see different women on different days of the week. I think plenty of guys wouldn't give that up to settle down until they are old. And yeah I think lots of the women think the guy will stay with them but since the guy is hot the "risk" that he leaves is worth it since the sex would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:46 PM
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I think a lot do. Most guys assume that women are attracted to average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:44 PM
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Yep, 80/20, or even more like 90/10
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:31 PM
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I heard you get a boost when you switch your location, not sure about it however
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:25 PM
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