| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1433 | “Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn. | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 141 | Any Madagascar fans?😁Spot the LV and HV. | FDS HUMOR | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 140 | Call her daddy | PICKME CULTURE | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:43 PM |
| 105 | Olivia Gatwood - "Alternate Universe in Which I Am Unfazed by the Men Who Do Not Love Me" | QUEEN SH*T | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 88 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise. | FDS RESCUE MISSION | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 19 | The last part about lifetime movies had me thinking about FDS queens! | QUEEN SH*T | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 15 | Can’t raise a man. | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | ndrpeaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 28 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼Congratulations!!!!!🍾🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Women have been shamed and bullied into staying silenct and tolerating shitty, dangerous behavior so they don't look like a "Karen". Why is there no word for men who misbehave in public, much less men who creep out women?That’s not a problem at all! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 21 | Women have been shamed and bullied into staying silenct and tolerating shitty, dangerous behavior so they don't look like a "Karen". Why is there no word for men who misbehave in public, much less men who creep out women?Thank you for articulating this so well. My understanding of Karen has always been associated with the entitlement of mostly white women who use their privilege to cause unnecessary pain or terror to POC. For example Alex Cooper who called the police on an innocent birdwatching black man at the park knowing the possible implications of her accusations; The white woman who followed a black man all the way to his apartment door while harassing him all the way claiming she didn’t think he lived the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Always Google Your DatesMay I get the dm too? please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I Am So Tired of Hearing About Their Damn Penises!!!😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man.You’re here now. We’re all growing and becoming better everyday. Cheers to leveling up 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:07 AM |
| 3 | I don’t want his name on my doctorate.I did exactly this! Dropped my last name and have 2 official names now. It feels so good to be addressed using my 2 names now-like it’s really me without the baggage of the former name added. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want his name on my doctorate.I had a similar concern and talked it over with women in a sister sub. I ended up dropping my last name and using my middle Name as my last name. The uncertainty is Normal but from my experience, it’s very liberating to pick your Name/drop that name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:08 AM |
| 3 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT Attractive😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:39 AM |
| 15 | First time buying myself flowers, no special reason necessary.Happy lovely day to you ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:14 AM |
| 9 | All the proof we need that scrotes are lurking this sub 24/7 in massive proportions 😂I didn’t get it at first but I inferred this; I think Ads get personalized based on the viewing history of users on the platform/subreddit.I’m assuming the product advertised is popular among men? Or the language used in the ad is meant to captivate the male users? So FDS has probably had an increase in male lurkers lately hence the ads. Someone clarify/correct me if I’m wrong🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 4 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 5 - Vice Media Comes For The Queens😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Any Madagascar fans?😁Spot the LV and HV.😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.Me please!🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Yes. We don't owe men anything.Thank you! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 18 | Yes. We don't owe men anything.Resounding yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:59 AM |
| 33 | I honestly don't think I want to get married (and I'm tired of my family saying I'll change my mind)I’m exactly the same way. I learned the hard way by having a roommate and realized I couldn’t stand her. I’ll never again trade having a quiet clean organized private space for anything in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.u/QueensJuju Seeing it as an investment puts it into perspective. especially because I'm very productive and at peace when living in a quiet space. I essentially grew up in the woods lol so adjusting to the noisy city life is so hard! I love flipping the narrative part regarding her qualities. I'll edit my listings. That's brilliant :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi u/QueensJuju. I'll go ahead and post it to my city's subreddit as well. Thanks for sharing your experience and I'm happy you were able to get rid of him and are at peace now. I talked with management and they told me I can find someone to transfer my lease to if I didn't wanna break the lease. In hindsight, I think I would much rather pay more for a quiet and private space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi u/EarthKveik, Thank you for the tips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 9 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi u/KittenyCat5. Sadly I’ ve brought all of this up several times but it seems to just make her defensive. We did agree to quiet hours only at night because im hardly ever home so she has the apartment to herself most of the time and she could make all the noise she wanted, i only asked for quiet night rest times. I will also look into the noise cancelling headphones. I guess I just needed to vent my frustration too because it feels like im living with a minor who I have to constantly clean up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi u/yesmme, I agree with you. she never stopped going out and doing activities even during quarantine and she doesnt consider making changes even when I ask. I’m working on the online ads as well, thanks for your input. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi /u/berned-out, I hadn’t thought about hiring an agent. Thanks for the input. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi u/44756771800, No im not a student. Im a nurse but chose to roomate with someone for atleast one year while I save up because i wanted to live near a medical center for an easy commute to work and decent apartments here are a pricey. I was gonna stay roomates for a year while I build up an emergency fund before gettin a place of my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 14 | Living situation with a pickmeisha roommate. Please advise.Hi u/MakeURegret, I have on diggz but most people that message don’t seem serious. I’m not On Facebook but I can create an account to post. Any suggestions of any other platforms I can post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | It’s like these idiots just don’t even care 🙄 the point of a dating app is to get to know people Kyle🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 15 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣thank you for a good laugh 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 9 | Reddit in a Nutshell🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:20 PM |
| 6 | The last part about lifetime movies had me thinking about FDS queens!😂 Dick is abundant and low value! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 7 | FDS Queens 👑✨This. It’s definitely heartbreaking to let go of lifelong friendships that don’t align with our new vision for our lives but it’s definitely necessary for growth. FDS has really been a gem in my transition. Thank you queens.💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | ☣️ Men as nuclear waste ☣️“This place is a message... and part of a system of messages... pay attention to it! Sending this message was important to us. We considered ourselves to be a powerful culture. This place is not a place of honor... no highly esteemed deed is commemorated here... nothing valued is here. What is here was dangerous and repulsive to us. This message is a warning about danger. The danger is in a particular location... it increases towards a center... the center of danger is here... of a particular si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, do you use dating apps?Great reads. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?😂😂that last sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Ever met a man and suddenly wanted to have his babies and move to Timbuktu?😂😂I had to google where Timbuktu was. Well if you’re clueless like I was, here’s a link. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timbuktu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 81 | I want to hug this poor woman violated by this pornsick scumbag. And then drive her to the police station.I don’t follow most relationship subs and I try to reach out to some of the women seeking advice on the screenshots only to find some of the accounts deleted. Maybe FDS women could try to reach out to the posters in the subs they follow? While seeing such stories may help us learn, I think we’d be more helpful to these women if we reach out and redirect them to a women-centered sub that will offer much more support to them. I’m sure some of you queens are already doing that, just a suggestion if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Male haters: To quote Regina George: Why are you so obsessed with me?This! I love them but they make my place smell 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 6 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?Congratulations on finding your freedom! I’m so happy to see more of us finding contentment in our lives regardless of whether we have a romantic relationship attached to us. Keep being the queen that you are! 👸💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Breaking News: apparently LVM find it obnoxious and condescending when we try to tell them what mansplaining is since they didn't coin the term themselves. Instead, LVM refer to this phenomenon as "Devil's Advocate" when engaging in discussion🤣🤣🤣thank you for a much needed laugh today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 13 | The double standard behind “not all men”😂👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Why would I want to bring substance into the life of such a negative man? 🤔😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else here been banned from r/sex for no reason?Wait what?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | What happened when I invested all my time and energy in myselfCongratulations!!!🍾💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 3 | It isn't feminist to pay on dates, it is patriarchalThank you 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:14 AM |
| 6 | If they're not handing me a cup of tea and a snack, I'm not interested.I’m an introvert. Some of my close friends are extroverts and I love them even more for it! Personally I’ll 100% listen to you and empathize with you when you have a bad day. I just might not have much to say but I do care🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | FDS Podcast?Excellent idea! I’m in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:18 AM |
| 16 | If he says this it's a red flagDemented frog 🐸🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:23 AM |
| 4 | A man comes into MY life and I have to compromise!? FOR WHAT!?I love the song! Thanks for recommending it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 7 | The only man I loveOmg I feel the same way now😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 8 | Black men have the fucking audacity to say this shit after decades of putting down black women and leaving them single mothers? Anyways...“Child support victim” ?!! You mean men contribute to bringing a child to this life and think that being asked to take responsibility for it is victimization? I came to fds for dating strategies and I’m slowly getting reasons to not even waste my time with men at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:09 AM |
| 5 | The guy I have been speaking to during the Coronavirus lockdown seemed relatively okay and I was willing to meet him, and then he came out with something that completely turned me off him and I blocked without a word.Omg this one had his name across his upper chest!😂😂🤣 I forgive myself for ever tolerating such men in my life. Cheers to leveled up lives! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 03:15 AM |
| 16 | The guy I have been speaking to during the Coronavirus lockdown seemed relatively okay and I was willing to meet him, and then he came out with something that completely turned me off him and I blocked without a word.I’ve heard another one. “Stab”.😡🤢🤮🤮. Why are they turned on by violent /demeaning language and acts? blocka blocka blocka🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Facts 💅I love target candles! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 5 | 365 Days in NetflixUgh it’s similar to 50 shades of grey; the bdsm bs, guy acting like he’s some sort of sexual prowess, girl pretends to be bad and into it. Just bleh. The guy is super low value imo. And he looks basic to me, not attractive 🙄. I watched it passively while doing my friends hair so maybe those that really liked it may be onto something?🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Dinner + “Movie” = Sex😂🤣😂🤣gallows and rotten vegetables has me dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Ladies be careful out there. A serial killer once said, “Women would rather die than be impolite”.I tried to watch the video but I just couldn’t 🤢 the audacity of those scrotes 🤮🤮 and even worse the ‘ students’ taking this as gospel. So pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Women are raised from birth to give even when it's detrimental to them in the name of 'romance' - 5 ways fairy tales suck you into narcissistic relationshipsVery informative. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:48 AM |
| 17 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.“Force field of confidence” I like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Hell no. I worked my ass off through the toughest of times to get where i am, there is nothing wrong with wanting a financially stable man and breaking it off if he cant build a financially stable life with me🙌👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:03 PM |
| 5 | LVM (specifically white) are uncomfortable talking about issues the concern the oppression of any minority.Sis I just had matoke with avocado for lunch. the best😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:58 PM |
| 6 | LVM (specifically white) are uncomfortable talking about issues the concern the oppression of any minority.😂ugh I tried keto but couldn’t let go of the ugali. Those carbs are essential 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 240 | Why What He Spends MattersVery insightful post. When people say money isn’t everything I think, “okay, it isn’t everything but you can’t eat love, wear it, have it pay for your bills, house, education, etc.” Money isn’t everything but it IS a BIG THING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVP😳😳😳why oh why | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | "Love is not enough" - the article that gets me through the dark daysThanks for the link. I’ll definitely explore his other works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Men understand other men’s motives. This guy 100% gets it.🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Pickme coworker strikes again she was giggling "this is so my fiance" like she was actually proud. Then went on to tell me and the other coworkers how "he never likes my cooking?" &I Asked what does he cook? "OH HE WORKS" me: "you do too! He should cook too!"😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 08:05 PM |
| 5 | When did this subreddit start? And how?LMAO " if they take the number give them pizza hut!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 07:09 PM |
| 24 | I used to be a whole messCongratulations! Keep the momentum going! All the best in your studies and life goals:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 25 | Are you sureee you’re looking for someone smart? Are you positiveeee you’re only 27?as the good ladies of FDS say, "let the trash take itself out". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. DisgustingI am sorry someone did this to you. I have been scarred by this too. It's hard to find the right words. You are not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. DisgustingThis! She DOES remember. I DO remember. I was in preschool. Around 5yrs old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How did you stay positive?Hi OP! It took me a while to finally break my pattern of just accepting below minimum effort from LVMs. I was in a toxic mindset of keeping them around because I didn't want to be alone. Most of my friends were in relationships and I didn't want to be left out, etc. I grew up around very abusive men so that's the only red flag I screened for. The LV partners were not abusive physically. However, they lacked commitment but still wanted me to invest time and emotions because they 'had feelings' an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The reason why you are upset about not being in a relationship is not that single is worse than dating, it is because you are comparing yourself to the best-case scenario.A very insightful post. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 11 | Call her daddyLove yourself first. No contradiction here. You shouldn’t need anyone, man or woman, to assert to your beauty or worth as a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | This post enraged me! Seriously glad I don’t have a husband anymore. Today marks my and my daughters one year of freedom. I also had a husband that cared about this much about me.Happy cake day 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 11 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 12 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!Omg yes yes and yes! I tolerated them but their dark side always revealed itself again. Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!Me too! Block and delete are suddenly my favorite functions on my phone. zero tolerance for BS!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke it off with LVM ex BFI have the same toxic pattern and I’m working on breaking the cycle. Thank you. I needed to hear this.<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Hi Kenyan here:) Trust me we have our own share of controlling, arrogant, entitled, misogynistic, disgusting, irresponsible scrotes from Kenya as well. With globalization and widespread connection through tech, all the western ideals are spreading to the previously “traditional” nations and being absorbed as the new “cool and classy” normal because people in the west are doing it. I’m still in contact with some of my friends in Kenya and the dating scene is pretty much similar to here; everyone … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Thank you so much. I needed to hear this conversation among women. I’m just getting off a cycle of seeing men who wanted the benefits of sex, my time and being there for them without any commitment whatsoever. I’m from a very patriarchal country and I fought so hard to free myself from the expectations of early marriage and basically being a servant to a man. I started a new life here in the US living with my uncle’s family until I could start working. I was 19 and a few months into living with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:09 PM |
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