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You literally keep editing your comments. You know what I’m talking about. I’m done talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:22 PM
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My point was you don’t believe that women can be ambitious and successful without involving men. It’s literally in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:20 PM
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I’m like 90% sure you edited your previous comment, and if you did, that’s low. And besides, my question was very straightforward so I don’t know how you could have misinterpreted. You’re still avoiding the topic by manipulating my question to mean something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:18 PM
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Well in the comment I was responding to, you said that women often believe that are doing well in their careers think that it gives them an advantage over other women. So yeah, it does seem like you think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:05 PM
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In the original context of my first comment, yes. But that’s not what you were responding to. But you obviously don’t believe that women can be successful and ambitious without involving men, because you stated that women typically believe that being successful and having a career makes them more attractive to men. You can’t argue my point so you’re creating a straw man and not addressing it. Also, you can read my thoughts? Wow! Impressive! That was a very weak argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:58 PM
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you were responding to, “Can women not be successful and ambitious without involving men in some way?” not me asking if women pursue careers for attracting men. So yeah, if you do believe that women typically believe that being successful makes them more attractive to men, that is involving men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:41 PM
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You literally said that women believe that being successful and having a career makes them more attractive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:34 PM
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And like I said, not wanting to settle is not the same thing as thinking a career makes you more attractive. They are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:28 PM
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I will say it again. Can we not be successful and ambitious without involving men in some way? Don’t see how that’s controversial at all, but so many people seem to have a problem with it. Anyways, the original comment said that women do not pursue careers to attract men. I was agreeing with them. That is how it was brought up, and you all seem to have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:24 PM
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Most successful, independent women do not want to settle for a man that is not also successful and independent. That is not the same as thinking being successful and having a career makes them more attractive. And I stand by what I said, it is not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:10 PM
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Umm, no. I stand by everything I said. The fact that women don’t pursue careers to appeal to men shouldn’t even be controversial in the first place. You all are the ones making harmful assumptions what women believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:54 PM
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Yeah actually, you do seem think that way. It shouldn’t be controversial that women can be successful and ambitious without involving men, and you felt the need to argue it. “I’m a successful and independent woman, why can’t I find a man?” I don’t doubt some women are asking this, but it’s literally not exclusive to women. And besides, I was talking about their drive to be successful in the first place. So yeah I stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:30 PM
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Why can’t some of these men comprehend that maybe… just maybe… men aren’t always on our minds? Maybe some of us pursue careers because we enjoy it? Why would I spend 4 years on a college degree for some man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:22 PM
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This literally makes no sense… I’m not working my butt off in college for male approval, and most other women aren’t either. This is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:11 PM
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But are most successful women actually asking these questions? And even if they were, their drive to be successful probably wasn’t male approval in the first place… I’m working my butt off in college for a career I really care about, and I don’t give a fuck what any man thinks about it. Why do you assume everything women do is for male approval? We are people with thoughts and feelings and ambitions. Please go outside and talk to actual women instead of making up these weird assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:08 PM
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I mean I don’t even think it crosses their mind in most cases. Can we not be successful and ambitious without it involving men in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:54 PM
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Okay and that’s not what I was talking about at all. No, go back and read your comment. it was addressing whether women do stuff for themselves or for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:39 PM
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Yeah, and men do that too, it’s not exclusive to women. And some people just like to dress nicely?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:06 AM
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Grooming isn’t just being treated poorly. Often it happens with someone the person trusts, and then that person exploits and manipulates them. Because the victim is young, and probably less aware of boundaries, they might not even understand what’s going on or why it is harmful. How is it different if a younger person is doing that versus an older person? Well to answer your question, (and this should be obvious so I can’t believe I’m saying it) younger people tend to be more naive and immature,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:17 AM
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I already said, that is not what I meant by power. By equal power, I just mean that both parties are equals in the relationship. That question is entirely irrelevant to my point. You’re the one who’s misunderstanding. You obviously know the answer to the question, and you want to use that to invalidate my point. But it’s not even relevant in the first place because you misunderstood what I was saying. So why don’t you tell me why you’re so offended by my original point that you’re trying to dera…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:08 AM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about. You all are bringing up stuff that’s not even relevant to my point. You’re putting words I didn’t say into my mouth. My original point was yes, sometimes older men take advantage of younger women and it is not uncommon. Don’t see how this is so controversial, and it’s really weird that you’re getting defensive over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:37 AM
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That’s literally not what I’m talking about. You missed the entire point of what I said. That is not relevant, and not what I meant by power if that’s what you were talking about. Anyways still don’t understand how my original point was controversial. Yes, it is not uncommon for older men to take advantage of younger women. It happens, and I was responding to the original commenter who seemed to think that it was an exaggeration. I’m done with this discussion. Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:09 AM
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Yes I am. Your claim: women “infer” that older men take advantage of younger women My claim: That actually happens pretty often So I don’t see what the issue is. I don’t see why this is controversial. I don’t see how you don’t understand my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:06 AM
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And that has literally nothing to do with what I said so I have no idea why you brought it up in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:04 AM
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I don’t see how that’s relevant to my point… And I never said it was exclusive to women? I agree that sexual assault against men should be treated seriously, and it’s sad the way a lot of people view it, but that’s not relevant at all to the conversation. All I said was that at least in my experience, I know older men who have taken advantage of younger women and it’s not that uncommon. Can go the other way too. Still don’t understand why that’s a controversial take but okay. And by the way, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:02 PM
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Yeah I realize that, you’ve made it quite clear. And women are aware, because most of us have faced some form of sexual harassment or assault in our lives from a man. And maybe stop assuming what women want, because we’re all different. I hate being told what I want, what I think, what I experience by someone who has not been in my shoes. Literally all I was saying is yes, some younger women do get taken advantage of by older men. I am aware that not all age gap relationships are like that, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:27 PM
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When did I say that was the default? The original commenter claimed that women always try to infer the older men take advantage of younger women, and I said yes, that actually happens quite a lot. And as I said earlier, power should be equal in a relationship. In my personal relationships, power isn’t even something I consider at all because I think in a healthy relationship, power should be equal. Unlike the original commenter, I don’t believe that power necessarily correlates with age all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:21 PM
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I refuse to argue with you because you are intentionally missing the point. Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:36 PM
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No, I’m saying that younger women tend to be less mature and more naive than older women, so they are easier to take advantage of. Not saying older women are better, but they’re less likely to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:19 PM
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“these experiences happen when women are young and naive” That is exactly the point I’m trying to make… older men taking advantage of young and naive women. it is part of life, yes, but that doesn’t justify anything. that’s exactly what I’m saying. And don’t tell me to stop complaining until you’ve faced this yourself. It’s creepy and sick and it happens way too often. Stop trying to speak over women and diminish the problems we face. You telling me to shut up and deal with it also isn’t fixing …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:13 PM
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You said, and I quote, “they always try to infer that older men want to take advantage of younger women.” I was replying with my experiences, telling you that yes, that happens, and it happens quite a lot, and more often that you probably think. I did not claim that every age gap relationship is like that. I think it depends on the maturity of the individuals as well, for the most part. I do not think I’m a perpetual victim because I’m a woman. I never said that. I said that I’ve faced creepy be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:36 PM
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If you’ve never been a woman, and you’ve never experienced this, then I don’t think you should be sharing your opinion on this. I’ve had much older men (one of which was my BOSS) wait until I was 18 to make a move on me. I had a friend who was manipulated into a relationship with a man who was 10 years older than her… when she had just turned 18. Some men definitely go after younger women because they can’t get with anyone their own age. Maybe instead of making stupid assumptions like that, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:09 PM
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Not sure why you’re comparing height difference to age difference, because they’re two completely different things, but okay. I’m 5’1, so most people are taller than me anyways so I don’t really have much of a choice but to date people that are quite a bit taller than me. I’ve been with a guy who is 6’4, and a guy who was 5’4, and the 6’4 guy liked me just fine even though I was waaaay more than 7cm shorter than him. I think it just depends on the individual person more than anything. No, this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:08 PM
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Or maybe it’s just something that changes depending on the situation? I think it should be expected to look nice for a date, so I, as a woman, dress up to make a good impression. That doesn’t mean that I’m ONLY doing it for the man and not myself. It’s not completely black and white :/ EDIT also don’t men want to dress to impress on dates too?? are you doing it for yourself or for your date?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:36 PM
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Well, anyone should look nice for a date in my opinion. In general, these are things I do for myself, but I’d expect whoever I’m going on a date with to make themselves look nice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:42 PM
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I agree to a very small degree. I usually offer to split, or insist on paying on my own. but I partially agree with her but for a different reason. Women are much more likely to put their safety at risk by going on dates. We’re more likely to be drugged, date raped, you name it. So… while I think I’m not owed anything for simply being a woman, I also think it’s the least they can do. I never EXPECT anyone to pay for my dates, but the ones who do are much more likely to get a second one (and I’d …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:37 PM
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I mean maybe I focus on my career because that’s what I want to do, not even taking relationships into account. I (and many other women) never even considered using a man as a plan in the first place. I don’t think that’s as common as you seem to think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:07 PM
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Could you link these studies? Because as a woman I have NEVER heard of this, nor find it to be true in my life, and it sounds very, VERY questionable. No, I don’t feel that way, and I agree with some of the other commenters that women don’t experience sexual frustration the same way as men. I don’t see an attractive man and immediately get aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:11 PM
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if a man even brings up “the wall” like it’s a real thing, I highly doubt they actually respect women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:11 PM
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