nearlyantisocial Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Making sure a specific girl shows up at a party? I recommend Blueprint to beginners because, if you truly digest and use the information, it's all the game that you need. If you can master inner game, outer game really handles itself.	/r/seduction	15/07/10 07:04 AM
1	Seddit, please provide me with material related to being a man, alpha-male, and/or inner game. Try Blueprint Decoded from Real Social Dynamics. It sounds like just the thing you're looking for.	/r/seduction	07/07/10 05:04 AM
7	Seddit, I'm desperate, please give me some advice Become a masochist and make failure your best friend. Approach, approach, approach. Force yourself to do it, even if you don't know what to say. If you're in a public place, ask them where the bathroom is or something similar. Always survey your surroundings for situational openers. Get comfortable with that, and then proceed to more direct game when you're ready. This confidence that you seek doesn't come from being good with women. Confidence comes from the realization that the consequences of…	/r/seduction	04/07/10 06:26 AM
2	Because anywhere outside seddit it would be considered bragging: how many girls have you slept with? That's a good question. I'm not sure that it's something that most people can come to rationally. The usual method of overcoming an irrational fear is to subject yourself to it many times. You might understand that rejection is of little consequence right now, but with experience, you will know that it doesn't matter. The funny thing is that this creates a feedback loop. You fear rejection less and this results in better body language, less nervous behavior... basically, more attractive behavior…	/r/seduction	30/05/10 06:06 PM
3	Because anywhere outside seddit it would be considered bragging: how many girls have you slept with? I'm 24 and I've slept with ~60 girls. 13 different girls last year. The biggest improvement to my game came when I finally completely let go of the fear of rejection. That's one of those things that you have to come to terms with yourself through repetition. But when you "get it", it completely frees you to go after what you want and to experiment with different ways of getting it. I'll add that it also helps to take care of your body. I lift weights 5 days a week, get 8-10 hours of sleep every …	/r/seduction	26/05/10 07:10 PM
1	Why getting blown out sucks so much It's important to keep in mind that the way people respond to you, sometimes, has very little to do with you. If a person is in a negative emotional state, busy, or just lost in some particular thought process, it can drastically alter their response. A girl that is "too good" for you right now may have been completely receptive yesterday. I can only imagine how fragile your sense of self is if you allow absolute strangers to damage it.	/r/seduction	19/05/10 11:34 PM
1	"Dude, no offense, you are punching well above your weight" - Response from boss re: conversation about recent number Link to her IMDB page? Also, fuck your boss. Like he's the authority on pick-up or something. Get your head in the game and go for it.	/r/seduction	26/04/10 02:38 AM
2	Some noob questions If you're truly a fresh rookie, I'd suggest that you skip the routines, checklists, and flowcharts. Focus on your inner game and develop a true sense of self worth. Here's what happens when you venture in to the field with tactics and no inner game: You spend the entire night in your head, planning and plotting. More often than not, you'll come off as a creep and get blown out. Too much of the advice you'll hear on game revolves around executing specific actions and they're based on the presuppo…	/r/seduction	25/04/10 10:15 PM
19	ATTENTION SEDDIT: There is no such thing as online game. Go out and find real girls to game on. Every rejection is a learning experience. Online game does exist and it should be a supplement to everything else you do. I don't think it should be anybody's primary means of meeting women, but I've personally f-closed more than 20 girls that I initially met online without putting much effort into it. So clearly, it can be an effective tool. Besides, if somebody is on reddit reading this post, they could just as easily be meeting new chicks.	/r/seduction	13/04/10 08:49 PM
3	People always tell me I look young! That's always been the case for me. I have a baby face and I seem to be aging better than my peers because I stay in shape and I'm generally health conscious. This is not a bad thing. Looking "young" is generally equivalent to looking "attractive." The only way this could work against you is if you're self conscious about it. If a woman brings it up and there's even a hint of insecurity, you've failed the game. Be proud of your appearance and embrace it. That's the key. It's not about having a l…	/r/seduction	06/04/10 03:50 PM