nebthefool Archive

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13	I am aware that the right wing doesn't care about men, but how can anybody in the UK stomach the open misandry British left wing parties show towards men? I'll be honest, I really doubt living in the UK as a man is worse than living in the US right now. I'm a man in the UK and under no circumstances do I find myself pining for life in the US.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/12/25 04:30 PM
12	So I was re-reading The Hunger Games The Hunger Games is a legit good book series, At least the starting trilogy is, they go in for a lot of genuinely good dystopia writing, which is to say suzanne collins writes a dystopia that feels horrifying and isn't just there for the aesthetic.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/12/25 04:22 PM
4	As a feminist ... Ok, first of all I appreciate you responding, You're not recieving a particularly welcome reception here. I am also not particularly keen to argue about definitions. Personally I consider something misandry if the harm being caused to a person is specifically due to them being a man. Similarly I would define misogyny as harm done to people specifically due to them being women. These definitions aren't perfect and won't cover all fringe cases, but they can cover quite a lot of scenarios. I think …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/09/25 10:16 PM
26	As a feminist ... Do you have a source on this claim? The arguments for keeping the draft to men come from a place of "women are weaker / can't possibly be in the military" which comes from this idea of women are inferior. If not, It would be equally valid to claim that the draft excluding women is due to social pressure on men to "protect women and children". The fact that conservative men are opposing women being added to the draft wouldn't be inconsistent with this line of thinking either. Anecdotally conserva…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/25 04:59 PM
3	There's something about consent that most people not talking about. This is basically why a yes means yes and enthusiastic consent principle are the best way to go about, well basically anything but definitely sex. What needs to be taught is that to practice enthusiastic consent you need to be doing two things. -Keeping an eye on their enthusiastic consent, watching if someone's energy starts to drop. -Maintaining your own enthusiastic consent, make sure to be expressive and affirm you're enjoying what's happening. This works best when everyone in the encounter …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/25 08:20 PM
15	A genuine question (no hate please ) Where would you put growing wealth inequality and/or increasing poverty? Or good old climate change? Or authoritarian governments? I am sincereley interested in your answer, but you can probably tell I'm of the opinion that any one of those is a more significant existential threat. To all of us really.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/06/25 11:27 PM
16	A genuine question (no hate please ) I would love to clarify, For myself I think the majority problem facing women in the West today is male violence, and the fear of it, causing women to self exclude and stay away from places, situations, times of day where that risk is amplified. Do you consider this to be the majority problem women in the west face that's due to them being women, or is it the biggest problem verbatim?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/06/25 05:37 PM
7	Liz Plank sexually assaulting men in the streets calling it activism Sexual assault doesn't feel like an accurate term for this behaviour. Physical harrassement feels more accurate. I'm not sure touching anyone on the waist can be accurately described as sexual assault in most circumstances. It certainly is an invasion of personal space, someone's waist feels like a more intimate area than arm or shoulder. I'm not a fan of those who decide to replicate bad behaviour in an attemp to fight against it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/01/25 08:18 PM
3	They executed him... I'm not in the US so I'm not familiar with this case. Someone in the comments has posted a link to an article that puts forward a fairly convincing case as to why it seems likely that this guy was guilty of the crime. Though it's hard to imagine that it's not a gross oversimplification of the cae against this guy. Seeing as how the 2 main points of evidence against him are based on witness testimony, I'm not exactly convinced of this guy's guilt. Regardless, the death penalty is an ineffective m…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/09/24 07:33 PM
4	Why is there always so much pushback to young men who claim that the reason they can’t get a date is 100% the way they look? It's possible you're coming off as a little needy. Also, romantic relationships are tricky, they tend to be exclusive so there's a higher barrier to entry. I'll let anyone consider me a friend providing they don't do or say things I consider actively abhorrent (racism for example). A romantic partner has a whole bunch of extra stuff there because I'll want to build a life with that person. Circling back to my original statement, when you're being sociable with the interest of making a romantic c…	/r/ExRedPill	04/08/24 07:33 PM
5	Newcomer here. Im not exactly sure what means "leftwing" in the name of the sub. I'm copying a comment I made on a previous post as it more or less answers your question. I'd say a lot of the solutions I have to "men's issues" are inerently left wing. I say "men's issues" because these aren't issues exclusive to men a lot of the time and I would argue are more "human" issues disproportionately affecting men. Like male suicide, obviously there are many factors leading into this, but a common factor is men feeling like a burden on people around them. I don't think this is an u…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/24 06:47 AM
14	Does anyone else feel like this sub’s entire existence is proof that everyone assumes the worst about men’s issues? I'd say a lot of the solutions I have to "men's issues" are inerently left wing. I say "men's issues" because these aren't issues exclusive to men a lot of the time and I would argue are more "human" issues disproportionately affecting men. Like male suicide, obviously there are many factors leading into this, but a common factor is men feeling like a burden on people around them. I don't think this is an uncommon feeling for a lot of people in current society, but I think men feel it more keenl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/24 06:11 PM
5	Approached and got told to F off It might be helpful to understand the perspective of someone who might be regurlarly dealing with creepy men on a daily basis. For a lot of women they are routinely judged and reduced to their appearance, so they aren't exactly in a frame of mind to receive compliments about their appearance well. She is also a busy human who has shit to do and might have been in a hurry. Regardless, you appeared into her life while she's busy getting on with things and instead of saying something helpful or com…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 08:36 PM
20	How to respond to people who choose bear over man. I actually quite like the lost in the woods question because it shows how much people are becoming divorced from the reality of the world we live in. Like, overall, global statistics for violence have been on a downward trend for a very long time and we live in safer times than ever before. But people will frequently site the scary things in the news to refute this. The average man is such a low threat to any woman it's not a useful trait to identify danger. This is also irrelevant to most human…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/24 04:18 PM
6	Why is it misogynistic to not want to be with a woman that's had casual sex? It's not inherently misogynistic, but there is a lot of overlap. This is one of those things where defining societal or community values is tricky, because there's a lot of variability in the context of each community. I do have a question though This isn't a double standard as I haven't had a ton of girlfriends or casual sex so I'm not holding women to a standard I don't live up to. If you did end up having "too many" girlfriends or casual sex. Would you say that means you are no longer capable…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/24 07:21 PM
12	Seeing the genuine wrong vs the prioritization of woman's comfort over men Would love a DM so I know what the question was. It's pretty relevant to how we gauge other peoples reaction. Like I've been the guy being complained about for essentially existing as a man, so I'm sympathetic, but without knowing what you said in the first place it's impossible to judge this.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/24 08:50 PM
67	Do We Need a Minister for Men?; Are 'British Blokes' Demonised Unfairly? -- BBC Politics Live, 25.09.23 I mean, I'll give the bbc credit. This segment pretty effectivley demonstrates the challenges faced my advocating for men and men's issues. Couldn't stay on topic for 5 minutes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/23 07:30 PM
11	I run a university club. How do I deal with people saying we need to encourage more women to join? The woman who brings this up might feel a little self concious being in a significant minority within the club, the same way a guy joining a crochet or knitting club is probably going to be in a female dominated environment and might feel singled out/ self concious. Ultimately in that situation she may have to accept she's in a male dominated hobby/environment and there's not a lot that can be done about it. She can make her peace with it or move on. You could also suggest that she try and run s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/23 08:02 PM
2	Falsely accused The reason your lawyer wants you no to talk to the police is because it cannot help you. Anything you say can and will be used against you. Not for you.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/08/23 08:26 PM
1	Do you believe Jordan Peterson is not an ideal role model for young men? My issue with Jordan Peterson is that he says a lot of reasonable sounding things because he can hide it behind semi ambiguous language. It's sort of like someone saying "all people deserve fair and equal treatment under law" but then you find out x minority group don't count as people in their eyes. They weren't lying and what they said sounded reasonable, but what they meant was actually very predjudiced. I've seen jordan peterson make insane blanket statements like apparently all woman wear l…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/23 05:35 PM
3	Does this sub believe that "traditional" masculinity and/or gender roles should be promoted/encouraged? I think it's important to highlight the positive aspects of "traditional" masculinity. Strength and endurance are excellent traits to have as is confidence. The important part is understanding there aren't any inherently masculine traits, nor are there any traits exclusive to masculinity. The key is flexibility with whatever traits you look to posses. Being stoic and having a handle on your emotions under pressure is very useful. Defining it as the only way you can be so you never express emotio…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/03/23 08:20 AM
-8	A lot of "left wing" people revert to "bootstraps" mentality when it comes to men and dating. Has anybody else noticed this? I mean, "Incels" absolutley do choose to be hateful assuming we're using the term to identify people who use that label and also spread hateful rhetoric about humanity. What they didn't choose was to be alone, but they aren't forced into feeling any specific way. What should be done about this is giving people the skills they need to deal with whatever situation they find themselves in. Plus, y'know, the standard left wing solution of social support so people have the breathing space to self imp…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/23 09:19 AM
78	I don’t know what’s left My recommendation is to employ the same perseverance many faced with bias and discrimination throughout history have used. It won't help you to give up. No it's not fair that it's like this, but if your born in the west it's quite likely you're already coming out ahead of the majority of humanity both globally and historically. Doesn't mean you have it easy, you say there is no place in society for you. Then make a place for yourself. Find an independant field where people see your personality a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/23 01:12 AM
50	The over the top love and support victims receive from domestic violence shelters leads to more false accusations Honestly, I don't think there's a lot you can do about this. Unless you can accuratley assertain someone is lying about their experience you can't in good consience deny them the support you would consider appropriate to give a victim. The best way to reduce the impact of false accusations is to separate the accusation from the victim. The victim is a victim until proven otherwise and should be given support till they can survive without it. The accusation is false until proven true, the accused…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/12/22 11:31 PM
5	At what age do male persons cease to be considered just as innocent and worthy of protection as their female counterparts? I mean, arguably from birth. We don't allow surgery on female babies genitals for reasons of aesthetic and religous fundamentalism. But mostly when boys start to become noticeably men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/09/22 10:45 AM
2	Should boys start school a year later than girls? So the short answer to this is. No. The long answer is a wholesale overhaul of the education system where academia loses emphasis in favour of properly preparing children for the rest of their lives and encourages them to make the best use of thje skills they have. Also pay teachers loads more and employ more so they have the time to provide the specialist care some students will inevitably need. But, uh, I don't think that's going to work out, so I guess delaying boys by a year could help?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/09/22 11:28 PM
4	How do any of you manage to date non-egalitarians? I wonder if, because he has little/no experience growing up as someone perceived as a boy/man. He just believes a lot of cobbled together stereotypes he's got from all over and tied them together with circular logic. Personally I have no idea how I'd screen for specific political opinions. Generally I would be unlikely to take issue with different opinions assuming they can back them up with a reasoned argument and some level of evidence. That way if I'm wrong or misinformed about something I ca…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/22 10:31 PM
11	Why cheating is now a good thing As long as your specific in your example. Likely not, though it's important to remember that it's down to a lack of accountability and human nature. Not something that's inherent to women. So women may be more likely to falsely accuse others of rape because if they will see little consequense for it and if they believe it will have the desired effect.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/22 05:47 PM
184	Why cheating is now a good thing This is precisely the sort of shit that pushes men further down the red pill rabbit hole. When you read an article like this it can be very hard to remember -woman are just as moral as men, broadly they aren't more or less predisposed towards shitty behaviour than men, -the presence and evidence of women devoid of a moral compass doesn't mean the majority of women aren't decent and well meaning people who will, nevertheless, make mistakes from time to time. -stuff like this is almost always on t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/22 01:20 PM
10	Remember: to feminists, men are simply a means to an end. This sort of thing is what really pisses me off about feminists. In almost the same breath you see feminists decrying every mens rights discussion or organisation as misogynistic and also it's unecessary because didn't you know feminism will solve all these issues for men. Then when you try and engage in a discussion on how feminism will achieve gender equality and help men your told to sit down and shut up because feminism isn't about men. You quickly learn these people just want you unwavering…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/08/22 10:19 PM
74	Wednesday Addams castrating her brother's bully with a piranha is played for laughs. Sexual violence against teenage boys for minor offences is a despicable thing to laugh at. This should not be featured in a teen rated show aimed at a wide audience. This feels weirdly similar to alison's attempted rape of luther in the umbrella academy. In which a woman commits an objectivley heinous crime that would be considered evil if equivalent were attempted IRL. But also which could and would never be shown in a gender flipped scenario in the same show. The show then just... doesn't address it, or care about it in any way. Genuinley I don't care to much about individual instances of this sort of thing. I'd much rather live in a world where creative m…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/08/22 02:40 PM
3	Do You Dislike The Term "Men's Rights?" TL;DR- Mens Rights as a term is fine but when used as anyhting other than a descriptor of values/actions it opens the way to guilt by association. Men's Rights as a term is fine. Though it doesn't encompass everything that I would fight for to help reduce inequalities men face. I think it's an important term and component to discussions around gender equality. As a movement it's fine, but starts to have issues where the term stops being descriptive and starts being a generic identifier. Mostly b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/08/22 12:16 PM
34	I'm not sure does this really count, but I saw this with title "What women are tired to hear, is what men want to hear". Is there truth to this? I think there is a kernel of truth to this and it shows why it's hard for a lot of guys to understand this particular womens issue I think "what women are tired to hear, is what men want to hear" is a very fair statement. The point is more about understanding why. I think it's more accurate to say that women in general receive many more compliments they consider unwelcome than men. This is likely because men receive so few compliments they'll take any ill conceived compliment as a massive boon t…	/r/ExRedPill	07/07/22 08:30 AM
6	What do you think of the possible future restrictions on abortion? Will men feel the effects of it? I mean abortion is a good example of an issue where while men will suffer as a consequence (becoming a parent unwillingly is no fun for anyone) women will absolutley suffer more from it because pregnancy is a whole other ordeal to parenthood which has the potential to kill the individual suffering from it. Ultimatley abortion being illegal sets concerning precedents. If someone miscarries must they be investigated for willful termination of the pregnancy? Do we compund the trauma of losing a pre…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/05/22 12:52 PM
49	A man walks into a hospital... Honestly it feels like a good piece of dark humor comenting on how mens issues are regularly downplayed and men typically just go along with it because that's what they're socialised to do. Not sure that's how it's intended though.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/05/22 12:34 PM
48	The scapegoating of male feminist I think the problem is a lot of feminist men will loudly proclaim that 100% of men are evil predators that all want to rape women. Which, kinda includes them, which they know. They basically straight up admit to wanting to do this themselves and assume all other men do as well. Whereas the average man just doesn't have any wish to violate another person's consent. So they know the claim is bullshit and don't have any interest in spreading it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/05/22 02:35 PM
-1	What do you guys think about this? I definitely think he should have helped, but was it his obligation to help? In my view, living in society brings with it an obligation to provide help to people in need where you can. Obviously this is an anecdotal scenario so it's pretty impossible to tell if it was possible to help her. Especially as when you're not used to violent/dangerous situations it's not uncommon for people to freeze up. OP's partner may have had that exact reaction and autopilot sort of took them out of the situation. You could argue the guy should have called the police as that is the recomen…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/22 12:47 PM
10	What are your thoughts on Daniel Sloss’s statement in his stand-up? I mean, that's quite possibly true for daniel sloss. But I scincerely doubt it. I think it depends on what you define as a concern. If it's defined as, the thing you worry about the most and it never fully goes away, many women may indeed have not being raped as their biggest concern. I'm not sure that will be what daniel sloss is most concerned about by that definition, if it is, he must have lived an absurdly blessed life and be blissfully unaware of all of his bodies basic survival needs. But…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/01/22 11:52 AM
1	This complaint by a woman is strange to the brink of being incomprehensible; did she ever even give a thought to the possibility of there being invisible men? There are significantly fewer women on dating apps than there are men. Which means yeah a smaller percentage of the men on dating apps are going to get success out of them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/11/21 03:37 PM
8	This complaint by a woman is strange to the brink of being incomprehensible; did she ever even give a thought to the possibility of there being invisible men? Do you have a source for that statistic? I know I've heard about similar statistics from dating apps but that only proves that dating apps aren't an effective means for most men to find a relationship. It doesn't mean the statistic holds true for broader society. I'd be interested in information that suggests that is the case in broader society.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/11/21 02:39 PM
6	Female replacements deprive boys of good role models Honestly, I think this take is being done in a stupid way and misses the problem by focussing on what is irrelevant. To a certain extent I wonder if the argument is being made in bad faith. I couldn't give a flying fuck if the ghostbusters, doctor who or luke skywalker are portrayed as, or replaced by, female characters. The original ghostbusters, multiple male iterations of the doctor, and luke skywalker all appeared alongside female characters that were plenty well written. They all, as pieces…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/11/21 10:46 PM
6	Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me? To be fair, seducing your own wife again and again is a great way to maintain a healthy marriage.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 10:42 PM
15	Watch people twist themselves into pretzels to justify female privilege as equality With this issue I think there's a real variable answer based on a lot of factors. If I, say, ask a girl out and take her to a really expensive place without asking, I don't think it's fair to ask her to pay. If we're going for a nice meal somewhere reasonably priced then I don't think it's unfair to split the bill on the first date. After that it's a discussion to be had between the individuals dating. I do think it would be better for splitting the bill to become the norm and not the exception.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/10/21 11:54 PM
31	The weird erasure of male victims in favour of the less affected. It's a good example of a wider problem. As you say, UN women is an entity entirely concerned with women. But it begs the question, where is the UN men organisation? If UN women is only concerned in protecting women journalists. What is being done about the majority of journalists? UN women describes itself as an organisation for the advancement of gender equality. It is impossible to achieve gender equality by only focussing on women's issues and/ or human issues but we singled out the women vic…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/09/21 03:59 PM
12	When you google "male friendships" this is what pops up. I don't love how this article is set up. I will say I think it does well to at least highlight that a great way for individual men to deal with emotional support. That is to say it suggests forming a group of men to explicitly support each other emotionally. I don't love that is breezes past the much greater number of male suicides in favour of having several paragraohs about how much men struggling for emotional support is a massive pill for women to deal with. The author also appears to be som…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/09/21 10:27 PM
11	Leadership It is my firm belief that the leader of the home is the cat. Those who possess homes without cats have forsaken their god given duties to serve our feline overlords. Less facesioustly I think it makes sense for whoever spends the most time in the home to run it. That's not the same as leading it but they're most likely to see the problems and know what needs fixing. In traditional gender roles that would be the woman. I don't really subscribe to traditional gender roles though. I think they exis…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/21 07:24 AM
1	Should I apologize for ghosting someone when I was still in the red pill mindset? I would highlight that hey sorry this isn't working out Would be a perfectly valid way of putting it without offering friendship. Friendship isn't a consolation prize for not getting a relationship, it's it's own dynamic and I find potential relationships do not typically transition well into a platonic frienship. You also seem to really regret thinking with your dick as you put it. There's nothing wrong with prioritizing having a sex with someone over developing a bond or relationship with them…	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/21 06:08 PM
5	Bette Midler calls on women to commit Domestic Violence No it's not domestic violence. If I don't want to have sex with someone that's my legal right, no one is entitled to sex with anyone. Is it, under certain circumstances, emotional manipulation. Yes, for sure. So is lying to your partner a lot of the time. I don't consider either to be desirable behaviours in a partner, but they shouldn't be counted as illegal. The law exists to maintain order, not stop people being assholes. If a woman were to follow her advice and stop having sex with her partn…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/09/21 10:24 PM
10	Bette Midler calls on women to commit Domestic Violence I think that's insane that withholding sex would be considered a form of domestic violence. Is that legally recognised? The link appears to be an opinion piece, with no references to anything external from what I can see. I'm going to assume you don't actually think Bette Midler is advocationg women commit domestic violence. You're simply drawing a link between what she has advocated women do and what others have labelled as domestic violence. Unless you can show Bette Midler has stated withhold…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/09/21 09:38 PM
3	Abortion rights and mysogony No, I don't know. Honestly I expect there's a non zero amount of individuals in each category.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/21 03:57 PM
5	Abortion rights and mysogony But are the people advocating for the social safety net the same as those opposed to abortion. If not those opposed to abortion cannot claim to care about the child based on the existence of social support they do not advocate for. As others have said the American welfare system is not known for providing consistent support enough to compensate the financial loss of raising a child.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/21 03:42 PM
5	Abortion rights and mysogony Could you elaborate further?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/21 03:26 PM
3	I don't hate the hypergamy, I hate those who kept me weak Ultimately I will oppose and critique feminism where I consider it to be damaging. I will also likely support and affirm feminism when it's doing good. I'm quite certain I would be considered anti feminist and pro feminist by different people without actually changing my stance on any issues.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/21 03:25 PM
35	Abortion rights and mysogony The problem is frequently those who claim to care aboutthe life of the child only care insofar as they aren't aborted. After that they rarely care about providing social support for the child's welfare.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/21 03:05 PM
13	I don't hate the hypergamy, I hate those who kept me weak The flaw in feminism, as I see it, is that it only ever challenges female traditional gender roles. Male traditional gender roles are ignored or out right supported by feminism if they turn out to be beneficial to women. Add in that there are always feminists ready to fight against any movement men make themselves to advocate for their own rights and... it's not hard to see why people are critical if the movement. Or at least you'd think. I'm personally not sure hypergamy is a universal thing. B…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/21 07:44 AM
10	ContraPoints - Men I like that after taking a really long time to get to anything resembling a point. She identifies a problem and then makes sure to establish she isn't going to do anything to help the problem. Which is hilarious as she just criticised toxic masculinity for essentially telling men their broken and need to fix themselves but not offering any advice or help in doing so. Which is it's own kettle of fish, instead of identifying it's fucked up to tell men they have an inherent toxicity to unlearn as m…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/08/21 09:13 PM
32	I'm really uncomfortable with posts like this. How is this helping anyone? This isn't empowering men. It's convincing them that they are exclusively the problem. Wow. That dude dodged a lot of questions, especially about the Duluth model. Considering he seems incapable of acknowledging male victims if domestic violence it doesn't surprise me. At least menslib didn't exactly respond favourably alot of his statements.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/08/21 12:13 AM
5	this is a little stupid but I think you really have to look at who the book appeals to. broadly twilight found appeal with teenage girls who rarely felt like they were desireable because they didn't fit into what mainstream media tended to depict as attractive. I have found that a lot of people are willing to put up with a lot in order to feel desired by someone. Especially if they have low self worth. Hell, this is a large part of how people get stuck in abusive relationships. For example, I can count on one hand the numb…	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/21 02:41 PM
7	this is a little stupid but From what I know of the twilight books you're not missing out by not reading them. I think a lot of people talk about them because the movies had some serious production value, and toned down the properly fucked elements. If only slightly on points. Also a lot of the appeal from the twilight books is that characters like edward and jacob are literally supernaturally attractive (at least physically, the whole stalker elements of the story are disturbing and super fucked up) buit also head over he…	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/21 01:59 PM
2	this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who you are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmon This really demonstrates the flaw in Red pill thinking. At most there are 2 shitty people in this story one male one female. But both are being considered reperesentative of their respective sexes in a redpill mindset. Unsuprisingly shit people exist, these ones don't represent anyone but themselves.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/21 10:28 AM
9	What are some thoughts on this statement? Children should have diverse role models. Having one male and one female role model is important because it helps to cement developing healthy relationships/ friendships with both. It's also important for children to have adults similar to them as role models. A child doesn't need these things in the same way they don't need comprehensive sex ed. But it comes in damn useful because otherwise they end up muddling through making it up as they go along, possibly hurting others and themselves in the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/07/21 11:09 PM
1	Does believing in some "red pill" talking points make me a misogynist? I don't exactly see how they're false Ok, I'll bite. Going through your points in turn. -This point is a yes and no for me. I don't think women are uniquely oppressed for their sex in the west. For the most part at least. I think it's quite a complex give and take between the sexes where you really have to break things up by demographic to be certain. It's true that more women are going into college/ university than men at the moment and I believe has been for some time. It's known that more of the people that commit suicide are men…	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/21 10:55 PM
1	I've always found it kind of baffling that the same people who will denigrate men for saying "not all men" will in the same breath say "not all feminists" I'm not saying don't oppose someone if they promote and or support dangerous and harmful ideas and practices. I'm just saying don't oppose someone purely because they're a self identified feminist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/04/21 09:07 PM
2	I've always found it kind of baffling that the same people who will denigrate men for saying "not all men" will in the same breath say "not all feminists" You know the pope is head of the Catholic church not Christianity right? Like I see your point of if a prominent leader makes statements it's representative of the organisation they are a leader for. So if the pope makes a statement it is absolutely representative of the Catholic church but that doesn't represent all Christians. So in much the same way if a prominent feminist makes statements they represent any organisation they are prominent in/ leading. But it doesn't represent a local women's…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/04/21 02:53 PM
11	I've always found it kind of baffling that the same people who will denigrate men for saying "not all men" will in the same breath say "not all feminists" I think the problem is very much that feminism is very much like a religon. So in much the same way I wont judge my friend who goes to church for the actions of the westboro baptist church. I won't judge my friend who is identifies as a feminist because they support campaigning for womens rights, for the actions of a self identified feminist who believes in culling men down to 10% of the population. The big issue feminism has is a lack of orthodoxy. There isn't a way to distinguish between the d…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/04/21 12:37 PM
1	Telling boys to just “not rape” people is very lazy advice that doesn’t actually address the problem I have a top crime prevention tip, just don't commit any crimes. Then no crimes will ever happen ever again. What's that, there are people not you doing crime? Well just make sure to tell them not to do crime as well, I'm sure they'll be reasonable about it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/03/21 02:13 PM
5	I always struggle with how to react to posts like this I get more worried that people with that mentality open themselves up to be super vulnerable to a female abuser. Just because they only have their guard up around men. Past trauma is an explanation, not a justification. It explains why someone will hold certain predjudices, doesn't justify those predjudices.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/02/21 01:52 AM
2	Walked in on Wife getting tossed up (part 1) That is a fucking depressing story to read. Feel bad for you man.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/21 12:53 PM
6	my partner has been getting into red pill thinking and i don’t know what to do Really sounds like it's best to leave him. "he took no responsibility for them, and said basically he takes personal responsibility for his life by the people he keeps in it (aka- he doesn’t have to acknowledge his behavior or correct it, he should stay the same and he can cut off everyone else, cause they don’t act right for him, if they don’t like it the door is open to leave)." Fair enough I would take him up on the offer of the door. He isn't acting right for you and there's now way to have …	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/21 02:19 AM
1	Accepting you cant have certain things in life? Ok, so I don't know what mental disability you are dealing with but I'd be curious to know who has told you that you can't have any of those things. Having friends is essentially establishing a meaningful bond with another person. It's not easy to find friend but it starts with having common ground. A mutual interest in something or a shared experience. It will take time, patience and some work to achieve because as far as I'm aware the best method of finding friends is basically trial and error…	/r/ExRedPill	10/02/21 06:30 PM
1	What do all think about this? On a subconscious level, yes we do. But what's valuable changes from person to person and trying to say people are less or more valuable as people is just shitty behaviour. Like yeah people can be more or less valuable as sexual partners but that value will vary from person to person depending on what they are specifically into. Natural instincts for humans are to find people who are better for the species as a whole but some of the best and worse things humans do is directly caused by us not fo…	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/21 08:22 PM
2	What do all think about this? Only thing I can say is this guy doesn't speak for all men. He might think all men are like that but we're not. In much the same way woman are not all a certain way. I certainly give a shit about income. Someone supporting themselves is an independent person and that's attractive to me. The woman in the video doesn't sound entitled to me. She sounds lonely if anything. I don't know your boyfriend but if I were you I'd ask myself how he sees me and whether the relationship has a happy future.	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/21 12:01 AM
1	What do all think about this? Yeah, I read the top comments and moped out of it. Not a lot of point to making myself angry and trying to argue about in the comments is nearly always an exercise in futility.	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/21 10:42 PM
1	What do all think about this? I mean obviously when I see a woman I think I find attractive I need to know her dress size. She might have the wrong number and then I'll realise I don't find her attractive. The whole thing with the sound affects just feels tacky and annoying. From what I can tell these people are going to you for advice not mockery.	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/21 10:20 PM
3	What do all think about this? I don't like people who talk about people a high or low quality. Like the whole idea is completely ignorant of how people are. People are either good or bad at being the version of them self they'd like to be but there isn't a good way to assign universal quality to people because no two people assign the same value to peoples traits and characteristics. The guys repeated attempts to talk for all men was fucking annoying. I do not share his values and he does not speak for me. The insistence tha…	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/21 09:21 PM
6	Do you guys think that the Shit Test is a real thing? If so, how do you pass it? If I recall correctly shit tests are essentially them lying to you about something to see how you react. I mean I tend to take everything at face value and act accordingly. If they're lying to me and I find out then that's it I'm done and gone.	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/21 08:12 PM
1	What's your opinion about Paul Elam Haven't seen much about him and would love see sources on both of those.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/21 09:22 PM
0	24F, finding some of these claims about women to describe me, hoping it doesn't mean I'm broken I mean, from what you've said, if a guy is really super into you it's a lot of pressure. If a guy has a lot else going on in his life, there's less pressure because he has other stuff to do besides fawn over you. If a guy is a jerk and doesn't care about you there will similarly be no pressure.	/r/seduction	09/01/21 01:38 PM
5	Girlfriend broke up with me. Randomly ghosts me for a week then sends me this. Says she still wants to be friends. Did she find someone hotter and is just keeping me on the backburner or is this real. This reads to me as she doesn't think she's able to be in a relationship at the moment. That's a valid reason and even if she ends up involved with someone else it doesn't mean she's lying or wrong. Knowing the healthy thing to do and then choosing the unhealthy thing is almost humanities specialty. Personally I'd wish her all the best and tell her you need to go non contact for a while. My view would be that I'm looking for someone who knows they are ready for a relationship and knows I'm what …	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/20 09:23 AM
6	I want to be like you guys - but can any of you seriously debunk the redpill without just saying its misogynistic? Ok. So I don't know what exactly most of the things you refer to are. I'm going to pick out the one I understand and talk about it but I don't know what the other terminology refers to so can't talk on it. More female ancestors than men, I assume that this is down to how human mating works with males a d females. Ultimately the only thing that needs to happen to cause this is a sudden drop in the male population. Then suddenly the remaining male population has a lot more work to do in order main…	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/20 10:25 AM
10	I want to be like you guys - but can any of you seriously debunk the redpill without just saying its misogynistic? The red pill regularly asserts it's claims without evidence. That which is asserted without evidence is dismissible without evidence. If you want to come at me with specific claims to debunk though, sure I'm more than happy to do that.	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/20 09:34 AM
7	my experience with a red pill ex This post is a perfect example of why the red pill is so goddamn terrible. Especially the part about how trp "works" because yeah, unsurprisingly, emotional abuse is very good at controlling people. It's also makes you a shitty and terrible person to try it. OP, I'm really glad you are no longer in that abusive relationship. It sounds fucking horrible.	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/20 11:22 AM
31	I just found out #notallmen is a mocked meme from feminism. Did you know this? I'm not a big fan of saying not all men because to biased people it sounds like your saying most men are. As such I prefer to respond not most men where appropriate.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/12/20 12:54 AM
3	I took today off from work and turned into a "house husband". And I would switch roles permanently if I could. Honestly I think it can really depend. If you really like your home it's fun to be there and clean and such because the your environment is a much nicer space. Especially if it's a change of pace from a job you don't enjoy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/11/20 02:22 PM
5	they are right You come over hear and say that. I'll love the shit out of you till you stop wallowing in self pity.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 09:51 PM
3	Male Sexlessness Is Rising, But Not For The Reasons Incels Claim (Article) That makes sense. I think.	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/20 07:16 AM
2	Male Sexlessness Is Rising, But Not For The Reasons Incels Claim (Article) Thank you. I think I get it now.	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/20 07:13 AM
5	Male Sexlessness Is Rising, But Not For The Reasons Incels Claim (Article) I feel like I don't follow the logic here. Wouldn't sex be something that precedes marriage so I don't understand how lower marriage rates causes less sex. It would just be another indicator of less sex being had wouldn't it?	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/20 11:34 PM
1	I am a MGTOW, just not the toxic kind. I mean, that sounds like a supremely fucked culture to try and build a relationship in. Some of it seems to stem from an obsession with women being untouched and/or "pure" from sexual contact. I don't know how important any of that is to you specifically. If I recall correctly you made reference to despising female nature in your post. Out of interest what is in your opinion female nature? I would expect we may disagree on a few points there, which is good, can't learn anything if you only talk …	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/20 01:46 AM
1	I am a MGTOW, just not the toxic kind. This is why I added my cultural circumstances. There are so many viewpoints and beliefs that are routed in practical reasons that stem from specific circumstances. That sounds like a sensible viewpoint for your circumstances. Personally I don't know if I would ever get married but if I do it will be after already having formed a long term relationship with my potential wife. I'm thinking there would have to have been 5-10 years of us being committed to each other . Basically it would be a forego…	/r/ExRedPill	31/10/20 12:55 PM
6	I am a MGTOW, just not the toxic kind. Ok. So I would disagree with you because it sounds like you are generalising all women as unfaithful and possibly a couple of other things. I would also disagree that we are in a gynocentric society. Don't get me wrong I don't think we're in a patriarchy either. I don't think either sex has been uniquely oppressed for their sex. I do think within various classes either sex has been better or worse off depending on circumstances. My views on society largely stem from a western viewpoint (UK) so i…	/r/ExRedPill	31/10/20 12:15 PM
1	What's your true view on marriage as oppose to the red pill's? I like the idea of marrying someone but hate the overly romantic view had of it. It's a legal process to join your families together, gives you plenty of perks as a married couple bit is by no means necessary to have for a relationship. Good if it goes well but can get all kinds of messy if it fails. I suppose I like the idea of spending my life with a woman I choose every day who chooses me every day. Don't actually need to be married for that. But like I said, legal perks.	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/20 09:31 PM
3	"Divorce Rape" No, there's already an equivalent to rape that happens to men, it's called rape. I don't know if the term originated in response to the overuse of the word rape by radfems to describe situations which are relatively trivial by comparison (i.e man ogles womans tits and or ass in an unwelcome/creepy manor = stare rape. Obviously it's wrong to happen and uncomfortable/potentially scary for the woman involved but it isn't rape)(Also it's entirely possible that example is just Poe's law in action). A…	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/20 07:39 PM
36	Watch what they do I mean, this applies to everyone. There's another adage "actions speak louder than words". There's is literally no reason to focus it down to just women. It's just solidly useful advice in general, peoples actions can inform you of their motives and also show you who they are. I consider this to be an example of RP repackaging something already known and giving it out like they are the first people to think of it.	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/20 09:14 PM
20	Love or understand Any statement that decides to generalize a group based on semi arbitrary characteristics is fucking stupid. You can say that women have higher statistical tendencies to be x or y but that doesn't mean shit on an individual basis. Even if you were to assume that the majority of women share the traits red pill is convinced they all have, it wouldn't mean shit because the goal isn't to love all women it's to love one woman and for her to love me back. Besides, humanity as a whole has all the despic…	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/20 04:58 PM
1	Men only become violent and commit crimes because their needs aren't being adequately met by society I don't imagine it's a large percentage of all crime, though it is a percentage. I imagine more prevalent on more violent crimes and with crimes such as rape that have little to no logic behind their motivation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/09/20 09:09 PM
2	Men only become violent and commit crimes because their needs aren't being adequately met by society I feel like it needs saying lest this become similar to the regular narrative that women are all lovely sensitive beings and would never hurt another person ever.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/09/20 09:06 PM
31	Men only become violent and commit crimes because their needs aren't being adequately met by society Well yes and no. I think this effectively applies to most people but there are some people who will just choose crime when they absolutely didn't have to. Also, there are literal psychopaths who don't need a reason to be violent. Having said that I absolutely agree with what you have said and do think men's issues need to be properly addressed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/20 11:48 PM
8	Examining the pithy quip, "when you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression" I think it would be more accurate to say women were not uniquely oppressed. There was, and arguably still is, an issue with the disparities in wealth between classes. Women and men were affected differently by being poor, especially if you were in a two person team of marriage. I suppose a argument over whether or not the wealth disparity counts as oppression belongs on another sub.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/20 09:22 AM
17	i noticed this post and it seems most RPers have had some very bad experiences in their relationship with the opposite sex. Could the redpill theory be some kind of emotional refuge for men who are hurt by relationships? do you think RPers have been victims of a toxic relationships ? Well yeah, a lot of red pill paints women as all being the same and frequently not in a flattering way. I remember one post that tried to sell that the only woman that would ever have truly cared about you was your mother. That was also only a probably, they weren't certain. That kind of thing is a hard sell if you've had plenty of good relationships/friendships/what have you with good people who were also women. It's also a really easy sell if you have dealt with toxic relationships/friendships…	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/20 06:32 PM
1	How do I get over the stigma of being a older virgin and attract women? I turn 25 in a month or three and am still a virgin. So of you figure something out let me know. Personally I've considered moving to a country where prostitution is legal and ethically done because that way I can plan for a future where I'll have sex that doesn't feel like a complete fantasy.	/r/seduction	03/06/20 08:28 AM
4	Protect yourself at all times. A woman’s morning after regret. This is an issue of people who want to make being an arsehole illegal and judging crime based on a victims reaction not the perpetrators actions. This guy essentially threw a tantrum until he got his own way. It's not a surprise she wasn't into it the guy was killing the mood. But bad sex is not rape. The most, um, rapey it gets is the guys apparent multiple attempts to finger her after being told no. Which assuming that's what happened pretty sure that would be a sexual assault. Anyway, Sounds …	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/20 09:07 PM
7	A post for those struggling with the quarantine. Motivation is something that happens in the moment. If I think about it. Discipline is part of what gets me to the gym several times a week. Motivation can turn any of those workouts from routine to awesome. But without the discipline I wouldn't reap the benefits of the motivation.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/20 10:11 PM
15	Grab The Wheel See, stuff like this is awesome because it's motivational wisdom anyone can benefit from hearing. But then I see some posts that just make me think, "well that's just fucking stupid/ really fucking disturbing". So I can understand why Reddit does the whole quarantine thing even if I think it's a bad idea in general. If a sub gets quarantined it's more likely to become an echo chamber because fewer new people and ideas come along and less debate happens. Which is a shame because debate is where n…	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/20 04:44 PM
4	The Blue Pill Slop-Eating Pig: And how not to be one The same as if one of my long standing friendships stopped I would imagine. Which is to say a unique emotional bond/relationship. This post as alot of one size fits all thinking which is just an insult to the variety of human experience.	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/20 08:33 AM
3	How do you get over a crush? I got over my work place crush after she started fucking a guy I had considered a friend and they both lied about it. It was a good object lesson in, do not involve yourself with coworkers.	/r/seduction	28/11/19 03:38 PM
1	Something that holds me back: I legitimately have no idea if women find me attractive It's really as simple as. If you start wondering/ fantasizing about asking a specific girl out, do it before you build it up in your head. I should point out I typically don't get a yes, but I don't spend forever wondering if a girl likes me anymore. Which is a relief.	/r/seduction	25/10/19 10:18 PM
1	Something that holds me back: I legitimately have no idea if women find me attractive Do not take life inspiration from it's always sunny. The show is about terrible people being incompetent. I stopped worrying about if women find me attractive by asking them out. I get my answer and either way I don't have to worry about it. The way I see it when you have something about yourself you don't like your choices are accept it or change it. I have to accept, for instance, my bone structure, but I can change my face by the expression I wear. You can change how you dress and style yours…	/r/seduction	25/10/19 09:41 PM