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I laughed. This is so true.
/r/seduction31/08/15 07:01 AM
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HAHA I love this story! Can totally imagine myself in her shoes, with growing interest in this rando and watching him be entertaining to other chicks. Great job! Also I love that she said "I'm with him." Girl's got a little chancey game there too. I gotta remember that line for myself. Thank you for sharing! <3
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:59 AM
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I love sex! But only with people I mentally really click with. Also, there's something fantastic that happens to a friendship once you've fucked - there's less bullshit, there's more closeness, a casual sort of intimacy. Definitely my reason to be in the game. Also to find another guy that can fuck me absolutely mindless, because my current mainstay for that travels at a degree that outpaces my horniness.
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:57 AM
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Girl here. Don't lie. Listen to what /u/absolutemint said - you can definitely spin it as a good thing. Act like you don't care! Because genuinely, it isn't a big deal. As an experienced girl, I stay away from guys who say that they're inexperienced and seem insecure/bitter about it, because that's a bag of emotions I don't want to deal with. The virgins that I have hooked up with always seemed like they didn't really care, that it was more a matter of timing and discernment (but not in a super …
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:55 AM
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Haha thanks! And that's totally what happened - I could sense her intrigue growing so I basically had to find ways to keep stoking that fire and keeping her entertained. It was really fun!
/r/seduction25/08/15 04:05 PM
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You gotta flip the script - this super hot smart girl - she chose ME to go on a date with? I must be pretty goddamn awesome, then!
/r/seduction23/08/15 04:03 AM
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Oooh this is a complicated one! Without knowing more detail it's really hard to say. I genuinely believe that honesty is the best policy and you should be allowed to have your feelings on the subject, but what is the outcome you want to obtain from her by bringing it up? I'm not sensing any goal except for satisfying your curiosity. Y'all haven't had an exclusivity talk, from what it sounds like - and I wouldn't mention what her friends said specifically, but if you want to have that talk in of …
/r/seduction23/08/15 03:46 AM
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Let me rephrase: do guys just strike up conversations with each other in the bathroom? Like, total strangers? and vent and offer life advice to each other?
/r/seduction22/08/15 04:17 AM
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K I'm curious - do guys chat in the bar/club bathroom and befriend each other the way girls do?
/r/seduction22/08/15 02:11 AM
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AHH THIS IS AWESOME GO YOU! Best of luck. Sounds like she's already super interested in you - the hard work is done, man! Dinner and a movie isn't the awfullest idea really, it'll give you something to chat about during dinner too. I hope all goes well. For nervousness I suggest working out lightly day of. Totally helps me.
/r/seduction22/08/15 02:06 AM
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I was going to post something but honestly this is really legit. You just gotta take a chance with coming off creepy - I do this all the time. You never know until you try? It's hard to guess with the first kind of girl, so what I do is just keep it platonic touching and rack up the flirtiness in other ways, and seeing if she reciprocates. The second kind of girl normally will know to indicate that she's interested. Also, framing yourself as the prize - YES. It's self-confidence in spades.
/r/seduction22/08/15 02:02 AM
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This is a wonderful comment, I completely agree. Spending more time around women, realizing we're weird and gross and awkward just as guys are - it's normalizing in the best way.
/r/seduction22/08/15 01:55 AM
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By all means! That's why I gave some info about myself and the people I'm typically with at the top, so there'd be perspective. Every woman is totally different for sure.
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:03 PM
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I'm bisexual, this greatly skews the results. Also, it was nymag, and came out over a year ago - okc has positively exploded in popularity since then. And I'm not sure it was the best experiment, because honestly - I've seen the inboxes of some of my cuter friends, and they'll get even more messages than I do. So when I read it I was also pretty confused that she receives actually about 35 messages a day (245 in a week). Also, she's among the top message recipients, not the actual top - just one…
/r/seduction21/08/15 05:51 AM
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My dream daygame situation is that I'm reading something in the bookstore and somebody starts talking to me about the book/what I like. Please, by all means interrupt me. I don't get daygamed frequently - even my ultrahot friends that are a 9/10 to the general population don't get daygamed frequently either. But I like this because I'm a nerd, and I want you to nerd out with me in a delicious literary way.
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:52 AM
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Thanks. That's a perfect summary of why I'm here!
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:43 AM
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Like, if you're standing aside from each other, it's like a "hey look at this" kind of nudge with your hand.
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:42 AM
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TELL ME ABOUT THE SHOES! That is super unique and very cool - I'm a complete shoe lover myself. Did you see the boot post on /r/DIY lately? Also there's a great luxirare post where she makes a pair of women's shoes from scratch. Look - this is legitimately interesting if you care about it and get excited! :D And depending on the girl, and how you talk about it, videogames are cool too! I used to play LoL and Dota some. And I'm fine talking about it, as long as it's clear that's not all you do, o…
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:37 AM
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WAH. THANK YOU OH MY GOD. First reddit gold! thanks for taking my cherry <3
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:36 AM
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I listed this as a helpful guide to get your groove on, if you're wondering on how to begin to connect! None of this is a perfect formula, of course. This is mostly stuff that accelerates the connection, and most especially - it racks up my sexual desire towards the person even more, if I'm initially on the fence/don't know enough about them to start to be attracted in the first place.
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:36 AM
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That's fine. Quick clarification, though - trans is a massive umbrella, so the kind of trans you think I am is actually not the kind of trans I am. I actually identify as genderfluid, so I've got days where I dress and present extremely masculinely, and on those days I really do feel like a boy. I was born with a vagina, uterus, breasts, etc. Thanks for the questions! I feel like they were totally respectable and I commend you for reaching out. :)
/r/seduction21/08/15 02:34 AM
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Honestly, /r/sex is a great resource
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:09 AM
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100% - this is not so much a rulebook as some insights. Don't overload yourself for sure! :)
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:09 AM
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UH HOLD UP you snagged a girl through insta???? Jeez man your game. I can't give any advice about specific situations like that - it could be anything! sorry :( Honestly maybe just lay it out? Sometimes honesty like that is the best you can do.
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:08 AM
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Thanks I really appreciate the support! <3
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:07 AM
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Yeah, you're totally right! To be honest, the kind of guy I usually pick up is like you - on the quieter end of things, someone who seems like an introvert. I KNOW they're probably not going to approach me so I always just gulp down my drink and take the lead. I wouldn't worry right away about talking to people, but rather going out and doing things and gathering some interesting experiences by yourself. Everyone likes an interesting person who cares about themselves enough to into the world! Re…
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:06 AM
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Nah, I meant like - sitting at a table or something. Like if they were already positioned there. Sorry for being unclear!
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:00 AM
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I don't know if it's fair to think of women not thinking in terms of those concepts - we're a diverse bunch! Plus, I frequent this sub a lot, which is how I've picked up those terms :) Like I've said elsewhere - if there is genuine doubt I'm a guy, I'm willing to PM a mod about it...is there a way to summon one here? To be honest I love calling myself dirty things. I'm into pretty rough sex, being degraded, and cunt is such a fun word to use on myself. I'm sad that you think I'm an imposter, tho…
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:00 AM
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HAHA I hate propping up my beej game! Like, I don't want to disappoint - especially if the guy I'm gunning for is as big of a slut as I am! But I almost always do hear back from guys that I give some of the best head so....hah. Honestly I just say let's watch netflix I my place. And I have a bottle of wine, let's split it. Context. Clear.
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:58 PM
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To be honest, it's the same as managing hanging out with friends. I have a calendar that I pencil people in for. If there's an expectation of sex I usually use a particular color (blue) so I know to get ready beforehand at a quick glance. Financially, I'm a cheap girl. I do not care what we're doing, but where I live, there's tons of free shit going on. A quiet night in with wine and homemade dinner is great (cooking together is p sexy). Emotionally? I'm the kind of person that likes a lot of pe…
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:56 PM
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Absolutely, that's why I included some info at the top. Upvoted! Every girl is totally unique.
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:53 PM
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Nah, I don't expect guys to do all this stuff! In fact I do say earlier that if I'm into you, I'll pursue you hardcore and it doesn't matter to me if you've got no 'game' - in fact, in my comments here I've detailed an exact story where this did happen. I LOVE approaching guys! And I agree with you - women should definitely do this more.
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:53 PM
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Ahhh John Waters. That's beautiful.
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:52 PM
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I absolutely refuse to let guys pay for me on the first date - I ALWAYS split. Actually, it's incredibly rare that I let anybody pay for me at all. So that doesn't give me any alarm. In fact, I usually bring up the topic of the bill before that happens - or, I prefer coffee shops where you'd naturally kind of pay for your own deal anyhow. Smileys are fine! I don't mind. This is just me, though.
/r/seduction20/08/15 11:52 PM
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To be honest, I'm fond of all body types, short, built, fat, tall, lanky...the thing that gets me is charm, intelligence, and a really cute smile. Also mild facial hair. Unnf.
/r/seduction20/08/15 04:31 PM
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Thanks x__x it can get a little stressful sometimes. I appreciate it :)
/r/seduction20/08/15 04:29 PM
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How did I forget this? Semi picked up a straight girl at a party last week, while dressed pretty femininely (so she had no clue, I had to bring it up). We were both going to this (nice, sitdown) party without dates (I cancelled on mine bc he was way too into me and it was getting gross), so I smiled at her, sat next to her, and we both laughed about being single girls and how sorry we looked. "But it's okay, we're cute, you can be my date! Let's make all the guys jealous." She was friendly and r…
/r/seduction20/08/15 04:16 PM
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You know, I haven't experienced this much when I'm the one being escalated on. But I totally see how strong comeons can reduce the amount of tension early on. Tension is so key. That's all I can really say! It's incredibly hot when a guy just leans into me and breathes me in and grabs my hips, but doesn't kiss me. Drives me absolutely wild and makes me totally cockdrunk for him. This has happened twice when I was picking up girls, but I wouldn't necessarily call it last-minute resistance? Just a…
/r/seduction20/08/15 04:01 PM
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Girl to girl - GO YOU! WOO! Read up on some self-confidence stuff and go in. There's some handy guides about introversion on here as well. Congratulations! And don't forget to reciprocate kino if he initiates some ;)
/r/seduction20/08/15 02:39 PM
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if you search on here you'll get good breakdowns of it!
/r/seduction13/08/15 06:03 PM
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Physical contact
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:55 PM
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I feel you. I know that for this part of my life I'm definitely in the position to get a lot of dick. It's not as simple is just showing up and being cute, though - there's plenty of work on my end. Is it probably easier for me though? Yeah. Demand/supply, right? But I see what it's like to be the pursuer when I'm going after a hot girl and feeling nervous. Tbh bc of the friends I made in college - queer community - I've stuck in that zone and have met poly people that way. Also, my okc is stric…
/r/seduction12/08/15 03:29 PM
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Soooo here's the thing about just telling a girl that they're really attractive (mind you, this isn't true of all women). It's an empty statement and it's about you if the girl is a stranger. The girl thinks, "cool, that's nice, but I can't do anything with that statement." There's no challenge there, or hook in that phrase. I would gently advise to not get upset when you are treating someone with the definition of what you consider to be a gentleman, and they don't respond the way you want to. …
/r/seduction12/08/15 04:02 AM
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Okay! My apologies for being unclear - I didn't intend for simple to mean inexperienced. Was wanting just to express goodwill in your future endeavors! (my tolerance for bullshit is p low....for every success I have there's so many more flirtations that I cut because of bullshit)
/r/seduction12/08/15 03:54 AM
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no offense taken! we all good bro
/r/seduction12/08/15 03:53 AM
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honestly i'm boring and actually prefer netflix and chilling
/r/seduction11/08/15 11:06 PM
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Hm - in this situation I specifically meant, if you're a straight dude anguished about your number and another straight dude gives you shit about it, that's kind of odd and you should disregard him. There are many reasons to be uncomfortable with someone with a low/high/whatever number - you are ABSOLUTELY right. Different strokes for different folks!
/r/seduction11/08/15 11:05 PM
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Gosh, to be honest I hate the word "turned." Sexuality is such a nebulous, strange thing! But I think I know what you're trying to ask - have I convinced a straight-identifying girl to sleep with me? Yes, several. One was the one I mentioned. The other one was actually the second girl I ever slept with - we were cuddling and I was rubbing her shoulders and suddenly she began to grind on me and I gently slipped my leg between hers and let her get off on my thigh. Then we tore each other's clothes…
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:39 PM
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Most of the more 'innocent' guys I've been with have been turned on by the concept of my bisexuality but if we started dating they would get weirdly possessive of me talking to anybody, not just men. I've just adjusted to not dating folks like those - easier for both of our minds! Bi women can be fun! Some of us are boring, some of us are sluts, some of us wanna find The One. I would say though - more girls that you'd think are bisexual.
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:30 PM
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I'll answer some of these: Kinkiest - This really depends on the person, in my opinion! I'll settle for 'the thing I'm least likely to tell my mother,' which is I've whipped and then fucked a guy in the ass with a strap-on while feminizing him. But jeez, this is so normal to me now that I don't know if it qualifies. Also public sex is insaaaanely hot, go YOU! That sounds super sexy. Also wow I'd totally fuck in a courthouse. Judge Judy and RBG are my she-roes. I'VE READ YOUR THREAD. Wow, worlds …
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:26 PM
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Hey! I hope I can help, as a girl who gets about 40 messages on a high volume day. It really depends on what kind of girl you're going after. I automatically delete anything in my inbox that just says "hey" or "what's up" or mentions my appearance as being anything other than "cute" or something equally nonsexualized. I find that the messages I respond to most are longer ones that address a lot of points on my profile, but there's a specific formula for shorter ones that will work - one joke, on…
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:51 PM
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I'm sorry you've had those experiences! I hope you find girls in a more stable place in the future :) Though I have to politely disagree - there are plenty of very sexually active people out there that are in good places in their lives. If anything, when I'm less in a good place I just stop having sex with people altogether. Joy in life is a great source of my libido.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:43 PM
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Yes absolutely listen to this guy! Upvoted
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:40 PM
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This is generally true of bi women I've met outside of queer circles, I've found. In queer circles, the game is so different.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:39 PM
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eeesh, i hope not. i'm excited to become a milf.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:34 PM
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HAHA, slutgirl here. Please don't feel anger/enviousness. Really - numbers aren't everything - what you learn, the quality of sex, that's so important. And trust me, even horny as fuck 16 year olds who are sexually active aren't getting that much action (nor is it particularly skilled/mature action). You aren't missing everything - you're at a great age, with lots of open-minded single girls. This is your moment! Be proud of what you've done. I genuinely believe that most decent women won't care…
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:34 PM
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Good for you, this sounds like an awesome experience! Being in the middle kinoing them both was a really good move on your part - probably how most of mine start this way. For me the pleasure is having the sensation of being touched but also seeing (on the other girl) exactly how she's being touched too. High five!
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:31 PM
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I don't know if it's fair/correct to say it's more undesirable to women. I guess it might depend on the circles you run in, too. I know in my circle of friends I am not the outlier - I'm not even the biggest slut! There's a girl I reaaaally admire that's about to hit 100, actually.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:28 PM
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True! It's definitely not for everybody - stick to your convictions! I hope you find a nice simple girl to settle down with/fuck silly :)
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:26 PM
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YES! This is 100% what I'm looking for. To be honest I've had INFINITELY more trouble with guys getting very clingy on me rather than girls, despite both knowing exactly what I'm going for. Ah, if you lived in my city I would totally go to a bar and check out/chat up girls with you.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:25 PM
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You know, sorting by top of all time isn't bad. Also, I'd just search within subreddit about stuff I was curious about. Mostly it was "kino" or "sexual tension." Now I find myself freaking touching people all the time, even just to casually/nonsexually know them >.<
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:24 PM
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That's me - proud slut. :3 Oh my god, this is adorable. I LOVE THIS VIDEO and am sending it to one of the guys I'm seeing, he'd love this. Thank you! Also can I ask? What kind of details/story type are you looking for?
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:23 PM
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Out of the 20 or so girls I've hooked up, 8 or so identified as curious, only 2 really identified as straight, and the rest were pretty even as bi/lesbian.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:22 PM
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Hmmm...I don't know if it makes much of a difference, but I do identify as polyamorous and see all the people I'm with in their own special way. My two FWBs and I share mutual kinks and they're just like masturbation+. Also we can chat about dumb friend things after! I'm not lovey dovey with them. As for the two people I'm casually seeing, they're both really awesome for very different reasons - one is super activisty, really bookish and nerdy, and fulfills that side of me. The other one is incr…
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:21 PM
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Awww, thank you :) EDIT actually it's my big fear that somebody will recognize me on here LOL so I tried to be as detailed as possible while also saying nothing. woo, heart attack
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:15 PM
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Absolutely true - it IS a very different situation for women (augh maybe I should say that more in the main post, I did comment elsewhere about it....). So curious, what would have made this post more worthwhile for you, so I can include that sort of information next time? This was more of a thank you but I do want to do a more informative type post in the future breaking down what's going through my head as I'm getting picked up/how I apply that later, maybe...
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:15 PM
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Absolutely! Hm. I only meant to put up some numbers, I apologize if I sounded as if I was bragging.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:12 PM
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Ah! Please don't feel like shit. As others have mentioned, the game is different for men/women. Volume isn't a necessity for everyone, but for some it's just a preference. There is nothing wrong with having had sex only once. Just keep going out there and approaching and figuring out yourself, that's the important part. I believe and trust! :) A lot of the guys I've hooked up with, it's been a situation where I was the 1st/2nd girl too. Sending you much love and sexual encouragement <3
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:12 PM
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I don't flirt romantically with my FWBs, but I do flirt romantically with my casual dates and treat it like the honeymoon at the beginning of the relationship - but still with very little emotional expectations attached. The easiest way to describe it is that if I farted in front of an FWB I'd find it hilarious but if I farted in front of someone I was casually dating I'd still blithely laugh it off but text all my friends after "FUCK I TOOTED IN FRONT OF THEM"
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:10 PM
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As a bi girl - sometimes the only girls I am able to approach are other bi girls. Occasionally lesbians will be a bit suspect towards us - so we look after each other's funparts :) and I'm glad that you like bi women! The world needs more of you.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:09 PM
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Absolutely! I'll maybe make a separate post when I have time. :)
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:08 PM
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Sure! pm away.
/r/seduction11/08/15 09:07 PM
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It's incredibly unattractive to me when I meet a guy who is into nerdy shit but is legitimately embarrassed about it/tries to hide it. It just screams a lack of confidence - and if he judges that about himself, he's definitely going to judge me for being nerdy too. Honestly? Own up to it, act like you don't give a shit. Nerdy chicks can seriously get down too (if anything, they can be wonderfully imaginative. You think we're reading good clean fanfic online? hell naw). Just don't act like it's t…
/r/seduction11/08/15 06:46 AM
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So, here's a tiny little tip if kino makes you nervous - start out by using the back of your hand instead. Only light brief taps or GENTLE pushes. Use it in conjunction with any expression of surprise (oh come on)/disbelief (no freaking way)/mutual joy (wow, look at you!). It'll feel less 'predatory' to the both of you than using an open direct hand.
/r/seduction11/08/15 06:40 AM
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case in point i'm getting laid tonight and it's 1 in the morning. holla.
/r/seduction11/08/15 06:34 AM
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This is true for the most part, so if anybody is feeling bad, please keep that in mind...
/r/seduction11/08/15 06:33 AM
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Aww, feelin' flattered.
/r/seduction11/08/15 06:32 AM
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Really though, the phrase "prove me wrong" has probably been the thing that's worked the best for me. Super versatile. Effective with the lightest of shoulder punches.
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:45 AM
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No problem! I hope this might help the other lady lurkers on here too :)
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:44 AM
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Welp, that was speedy! I didn't see anything (so thank you for your action!)
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:34 AM
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I'll be straightup though - about 40/60 are guys, and it's really hard as a decently cute girl to get rejected from a guy, especially if the trend tends that they approach you first. I do get rejected from girls frequently because I don't get confirmation if they're single/even into women, but I read a few posts about removing fear of rejection and that helped me a lot. Every interaction is a gift! And I frequently post my most embarrassing shit online - I'm a bit known for that - so I know at l…
/r/seduction11/08/15 03:17 AM
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Ahh that's perfect. Detailed play-by-plays have taught me so much on here. Like just knowing that sometimes the confident guys have been freaking out - makes me a lot more warmly receptive to them. Also tells me I'm not a fraud for feeling my heart race as I've got my hands on some girl's hips.
/r/seduction11/08/15 02:30 AM
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Thanks! I was nervous because it was my first time posting. Like aughhh I'm so happy but what do I say?? There are so many good examples of stuff that's happened and I didn't want to make it too long.
/r/seduction11/08/15 02:19 AM
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I remember being panicked for my first kiss. Watching videos on youtube of how it was supposed to go down, even looking at wikihows....and you know what, it's not a terrible thing to do if it makes you more confident in approaching. The thing that surprised me was just how natural it felt once you start. There's a reason why kissing is pretty much in ever culture. You'll be surprised at how instinctual it feels. The only real advice is don't use (too much) tongue too soon. Light grazing is fine.…
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:19 AM
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