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| 1 | The flip side of the "male loneliness epidemic" coin is "KNOW YOUR WORTH - NEVER SETTLE QUEEN!"How you took that from my comment is the insane thing. If anything it's the hating the opposite sex from both sides that's getting us nowhere fast | /r/MensRights | 10/12/25 06:38 AM |
| -1 | The flip side of the "male loneliness epidemic" coin is "KNOW YOUR WORTH - NEVER SETTLE QUEEN!"I'd feel the same way about it if the roles were reversed - hence my example. There's no room for stigmatising 'jokes' in a space of human rights. Also, the initial womansplaining comment was in response to being the recipient of the word. The word mansplain on this sub gets met with hostility because of the gendered assumptions that it is loaded with. Even the clutches pearls thing is disrespectful, and turning it around on the person having a response. No one made fun of me, I'm just highlight… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/25 09:26 AM |
| -1 | The flip side of the "male loneliness epidemic" coin is "KNOW YOUR WORTH - NEVER SETTLE QUEEN!"So, if a man was raising an issue in a women'srights space, and a women commented.. 'Oh go back to work or go k*ill yourself' just some 'know your place' comment. And someone called that women on their comment And another man came to their defence saying that women lacked a sense of humour What would your comment be? Because honestly, you'd be posting it on mensrights as an example of how feminists hate men. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/25 09:13 AM |
| -15 | The flip side of the "male loneliness epidemic" coin is "KNOW YOUR WORTH - NEVER SETTLE QUEEN!"So you don't like being womansplained at but feel entitled to tell women to get back to the kitchen? This sub is cooked with men like you in it | /r/MensRights | 26/11/25 10:11 AM |
| -4 | The flip side of the "male loneliness epidemic" coin is "KNOW YOUR WORTH - NEVER SETTLE QUEEN!"Man, what?! 'Your vagina renders you immune to existential ennui'. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/25 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Hiw hard is it to believe any of this shit when the feminist run Movember is involved.The link doesn't mention anything that you've just commented on? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Gendered initiativesLord, yes there's loads of research on how the trans community are pushed into the illegitimate economy and even the illegitimate parts of that economy just to survive. No, I'm not suggesting that there's currently a sector where women are denied, but your saying the gulf is going the other way? I'm saying that equity in the workforce had to start with including women into sectors previously denied from, and I agree more needs to be done to encourage men into fields associated with women. But, I… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/25 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Gendered initiativesThem being overly discussed doesnt mean that the discussion centers around letting them into economical opportunity. Are you suggesting there's a sector where men can't enter a workforce? If so, I'd be interested to know about it. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Hiw hard is it to believe any of this shit when the feminist run Movember is involved.I'm confused... Men and women as a people don't decide where funds go? Isn't this an issue for the people making the decisions of where the funds go? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/25 06:55 PM |
| -7 | Gendered initiativesI mean, if we consider men's exclusion from the workforce Vs women's, it makes sense that there's a turn to making some sectors more equitable for women. I agree that more should be done to attract men to feminised sectors, but that doesn't mean that gender workforce equity is a bad thing. If you see the world as women more equals men less, then you might be subconsciously fueling into the notion that women have a certain place, and men have a certain place and it should go back there. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/25 10:56 AM |
| -4 | Gendered initiativesI agree, but I also agree that there should be more in place for the trans communities and we still only have binary man/woman conversations. I also feel that you need to consider the gulf between women's exclusion from the workforce vs man's. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/25 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Defining (female) violenceI think I just meant in an applied sense (anyone supporting people who have experienced DV) I can see how using the physical pain analogy might help some people take their suffering in a more serious way. But, I feel it should only be used as an opener to support people to realise and even be able to process it. Especially as we think DV we jump to the physical elements of it. Self-gaslighting is an insidious byproduct of being invalidated. I'm glad you can recognise that this is what you're doi… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/25 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Defining (female) violenceI dunno, I don't think quantifying non-physical violence by making it a physical scale would work in practice. Its more about validating the emotional as just as meaningful, if not more as the physical. More needs to be done to acknowledge all forms of abuse and I do think strides are being made, such as coercive control being legally recognised in the UK. There's a growing body of research about male victims, but little action. I feel its the action, the research is there, some of it has even b… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/25 11:18 AM |
| 2 | In a new DEI push, the Nature Reviews Psychology journal asks authors to prioritise race and gender (we know which one) in citationshttps://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10662734/ https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/11/3/e037935 https://annalsofintensivecare.springeropen.com/articles/10.1186/s13613-023-01157-2 https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/11/7/e051224 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0048733323001580 https://academic.oup.com/rev/article/doi/10.1093/reseval/rvaf008/8038236 https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00330-021-07928-4 | /r/MensRights | 03/11/25 07:44 PM |
| 5 | So basically women are good and men are bad. Google AI is at it again.I've just done the same search and it produced one for a woman (searched first) but then gave me the same message for the man (searched second) seems it needs a minute to realise the request is unethical? | /r/MensRights | 02/11/25 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Concerns on the subYet no one (still) wants to address: Representation and solutions The fact that prevelance data isn't causal data, whilst using the data to make a value judgement. Not bitter; disagree but at least own what the data says and where you depart from the prevelance statistics to assert why the prevelance exists | /r/MensRights | 31/10/25 10:47 AM |
| 0 | Concerns on the subAlso, I never claimed to know a self employed fire fighter when I said that many of them (trades people, if I must clarify) ended up going self employed because of the not fitting into the culture. That doesn't seem hard to understand. Now, did I say; I know one billion female firefights, all self-employed. Your stats are bullshit. No. All the fields are male dominated, I'm just offering how it might start to look different and sharing a very small sample (8) of experiences to suggest that we, a… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/25 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Concerns on the subBro did I say misogyny, no. I'm saying that making it all about 'all women = insert generalisation' isn't fucking helpful. I didn't say 'oh no guys, these settings are totally 50/50" I was talking about how to get more women into those spaces. Again, you make zero comment on representation and improving something, just cherry pick the things I'm saying that you want to say statistically probable ans improbable- incredible how everyone turns into a scientist here. I'd love the study that proves t… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/25 07:20 AM |
| -1 | Concerns on the subThere's a difference from a hostile response proving a point and a lack of introspection. This sub is full of sweeping generalisations about women. In the same way that feminist groups are full of sweeping generalisations about men. Today, for example, 'women aren't interested in being in male dominated spaces, they want to work less for more' (insert list of domains women refuse to work in). I commented that representation is important and also women being welcomed into those spaces / encourage… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 11:31 PM |
| -1 | Concerns on the subGood luck making this post, each time I try to have concerns that it's just women hating and not productive I get dog piled on, kinda proving my point - but still. For what it's worth, I agree with you, it's as unhelpful as misandrists doing the same re:men. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Gender diversity seems to be promoted only in male-dominated fields. Why?Fuck me. 7 of the ones mentioned, and yes I've met a lot of people in my occupation and lifespan | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 07:50 PM |
| -11 | Gender diversity seems to be promoted only in male-dominated fields. Why?Never said I know all, just talking about how representation might be important to encourage more women into these spaces and they can be actively discouraged when they try. Same for men when they try to enter female dominated spaces. The replies I consistently get on this sub makes me realise most of you just want to hate women rather than find solutions | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 04:51 PM |
| -28 | Gender diversity seems to be promoted only in male-dominated fields. Why?Weird that the presumption is that I'm lying. I'm also talking about the importance of representation. The same logic goes for men in female dominated spaces. I'd love to see male nurses in children's shows. And yes, I understand what an outlier is but sweeping generalisations that all women show no interest in (something) is a cognitive distortion. I'm saying that normalising gender equity from all sides begins with representation | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 08:08 AM |
| -66 | Gender diversity seems to be promoted only in male-dominated fields. Why?This is a weird take, I know women I most of the fields you've just listed. Many of them faced a lot of hostility trying to fit into the field and moved into being self employed. Other than my masculine lesbians friends who were more accepted as 'one of the guys'. I get there's no big scheme for these roles but that doesn't mean no women exist in them I feel representation is important and we can start by having these roles in kids shows and showing different genders doing the role. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/25 07:20 AM |
| 1 | "Men want sex women want love" my girlfriend saidI hate sweeping generalisations of men this women that anyway. But as a woman I've . - been addicted to porn - been very superficial in attraction - hate romance novels - enjoy smutty novels only if they're fantasy or really well written, 50 shades of grey is terrible - have a fairly even split of male / female / trans friends - have worked in male dominated spaces and been able to have connections with them and build friendships (it was another women who disliked this as she has the same mental… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/25 08:57 AM |
| -9 | Hello, I'm Korean. What do young American men think about feminism?It's also plummeted due to sperm motility decline. Its plummeted because women have more choices than to be a housefrau - doesn't stop men being stay at home parents though. Microplastics, pollution, processed foods, culture in general lead to lower fertility. The awareness that the planets dying, also a big drive to not want to bring children into it. So saying its due to feminism is a small slice of a big pie. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/25 01:34 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female PE teacher denies sexually abusing two girls and a boy, but admits sending sexual communications to child under age of 16. OP: Of course it is only covered in the DM.If I was skilled enough, I'd homeschool my kid. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Is it ok to Hate Women?No, being mistreated isn't a justification to hate all women. As much as this is a protective act, and as understandable as it might be, a generalised hatred of 4 billion people just further hurts you, and the people you deflect your pain onto. You can use your experiences to discern the good from the bad and give no energy to the bad. You can remove yourself from all the hurtful women (yes, even your mother) to protect yourself. And you can do the inner child work needed to be a safe nurturing … | /r/MensRights | 12/08/25 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Female stalker lied about being pregnant and followed her ex to the gym before nearly running him over after they broke up "She received a 12-month community order that requires her to carry out up to 15 rehabilitation activity days and pay a £292 fine as well as £85 court costs plus £114"A fair point I'd not fully considered that the sentencing only was in respect to women and not both parents. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 04:05 PM |
| 10 | Female stalker lied about being pregnant and followed her ex to the gym before nearly running him over after they broke up "She received a 12-month community order that requires her to carry out up to 15 rehabilitation activity days and pay a £292 fine as well as £85 court costs plus £114"🤯 I agree, the subtext is that 21% of males are incarcerated for sexual offences. There's a lot of narrow mindedness here. I mean, for one, if a serial rpist gets chemically castrated, you think they're just no longer violent or capable of rpe or other sexual offences? Messing with hormones has so many other health implications too. It's such a ghoulish 'quick fix'. Again, instead of properly funding actual rehabilitation. I'm sure Sterilising women for harming children as a blanket sentencing m… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 07:03 AM |
| 9 | Female stalker lied about being pregnant and followed her ex to the gym before nearly running him over after they broke up "She received a 12-month community order that requires her to carry out up to 15 rehabilitation activity days and pay a £292 fine as well as £85 court costs plus £114"This has since been back peddled due to sexism | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | why is men’s mental health still treated as secondary?I wasn't raising it as an issue just reflecting on there being a women only space that has a different function to the male only space. I agree that there's nothing stopping anyone starting a female support space, but our gym chooses to focus and prioritise male mental health. If you could elaborate on why you felt I was 'crying' I assume moaning about it, that'd help me reframe and support us understanding each other in a more meaningful and accurate way | /r/MensRights | 16/07/25 12:19 PM |
| 0 | Why is seemingly nothing ever women's fault?I personally don't agree with the statements you've presented that you're assuming all women are a monolith. I'm struggling to answer something I see as fundamentally false. All other women I choose to befriend hold the values that: issues stem from complex social inequalities in which socialised gender roles, often crafted by a smaller group of empowered people trickles down into 'shoulds' - those 'shoulds' trap everyone. intrafamilial abuse is a core reason why people blame, deflect and abuse.… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/25 12:16 PM |
| 4 | why is men’s mental health still treated as secondary?My gym has a male only, male led counselling service in memory of a regular who took their own life. They have male only group relaxation classes and I (female) have only experienced this as celebrated by our gym community. There's a small female only gym which is poorly equipped with what is largely seen as female exercise equipment, I often feel there should be a similar space for men and more recognition the women also like to lift. That being said, there are no women only classes or meets fo… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/25 12:27 PM |
| 0 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodThis post made me care less about men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend cheated, everyone takes her sideBoth her and her family sound very dysfunctional. If they were drunk it's not the time to talk about how you feel, but that's no excuse for her (and her parents behaviour), and utter disregard to your feelings. They clearly see you as useful more than a person (I.e you're the driver and their annoyance centers around you stepping outside of your perceived use). I've stepped into situations where everyone's ganging up on a guy because he's upset and the assumption is the guys in the wrong and the… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why male sexuality is so demonizedExactly, both men and women are demonized for their sexuality for example Women sleeps with lots of men - she's a slut, she's used up, her vagina is baggy. Or, weird dogma about men leaving their seed in there so the implication of both ownership and a following guy would therefore be also having sex with the guy who's now a part of her genetically- that one's my favourite 'no homo' warped belief. Mocked for weight and labia.They may be praised by people or shamed, depending on who's asking. Man… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Why male sexuality is so demonizedThat's some Tate bullsh*t right there. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Would you say that calling men who aren't obsessed with women "gay" is a form of toxic masculinity?Also, hard to say if it's toxic masculinity, it feels like it but homophobia is present on all sides. Depends on if he sees his expectations as making him a man, or making him super straight? Either way he's a douche | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Would you say that calling men who aren't obsessed with women "gay" is a form of toxic masculinity?Sounds like he's probably at least bi and projecting he's the straightest guy in the room because of his own internalised phobias. I'd probably end up distancing myself from him as I find guys like that reallt exhausting and 2 dimensional. Also, f*ck that guy for using gay as a slur. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 08:15 AM |
| -9 | Sabrina Carpenters' New SongI mean... Female pick mes hate on their own gender for male brownie points too. And both sides can ostracise their own gender because of their position within their own gender and towards an opposite gender. It feels both the staunch women's rights and men's rights crowd just want to say the opposite sex is terrible | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 12:29 PM |
| -17 | Sabrina Carpenters' New SongDon't men do similar things to guys who can't get girls attention? Just feels like either end of the spectrum is whack. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 09:43 AM |
| -7 | Sabrina Carpenters' New SongWell, you've just made me consider if pick me girls are female mysogynists | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I am a Man, i fucking hate it.Where do these shaming beliefs come from? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/25 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused?I think it's one of those situations where it's so rare that someone says 'yeah I did (insert thing)' that when anyone states they were set up, it naturally arouses suspicision because you then don't know who has harmed someone and who is being harmed. I feel its harmful to take the approach that all people are lying about it, but I can see why it feels safer to assume everyone's a risk - and why it feels too vulnerable to believe everyone who says they're falsely accused. Especially for people … | /r/MensRights | 09/05/25 08:42 AM |
| 1 | 13 yo boy made to 'lift up penis so that his scrotum could be seen' on new TV series where he is called an incel.Feels like you really didn't get the point | /r/MensRights | 26/04/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Different Beauty standards for males and femalesOK but you're saying they act in a performative way to pretend they don't so what exactly is your point? I'm saying that performative behaviour is enacted by everyone- sure there can be some trends and themes depending on gender , sexuality, class, race, politics etc etc insert intersections here What's your point? | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Different Beauty standards for males and femalesThat's not women specific though? | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Different Beauty standards for males and femalesUm, women compete with each other all the time. I've known so many women tear other women down for being attractive, especially if they are also smart. That being said it's really refreshing when either a man or women can freely express a visual attraction to whoever without their partners or friends / family reeling threatened about it. E.g whenever my dad used to compliment me my mother would immediately make it about her and the relative lack of compliments she recieved Also no idea what poin… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/24 08:04 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?I've not been personally criticised, and I'm not saying someone's been inconsistent - but I am saying people are incorrect in all the sweeping generalisations being thrown about that reflects their experience but not everyone's experience. It reflects the women close to them, or the men close to them, but doesn't reflect all the diversity in the land. It's dangerous to say there are only two types of peope: man and women. And the go on to be like 'women don't care about men' and 'men care about … | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 08:06 AM |
| -1 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?I don't see it as dealing with negative emotions, but more having to absorb multiple peoples mental tasks and be in charge of ensuring things get done. Distress tolerance would certainly play a role but mental load or emotional labour doesn't necessarily mean negative emotions, more there's a toll placed on that person because those around them aren't concerned with day to day (low dopamine) tasks | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?We ignoring their response as a dismissive reaction to me? Of course we are. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 08:42 PM |
| -1 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?By emotional labor do you mean the general 'mental load' that comes with usually playing 'mom' to the entire household? If so, I feel there's a heck of a lot contributing to it. And I feel that whilst men might not use the term, they express emotional labor in many other ways. Even today on this thread I've had someone say then men are socialised to care how women emotionally respond to them, whereas women do not. Maybe men just don't feel supported in stating they also have emotional labor in t… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?Thank you | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 07:48 PM |
| -3 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?face palm | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?Tbf there's also a chunk of literature that shows behavioural changes for people on testosterone treatment as experiencing an attraction towards men (either new or previously supressed). So yeah, it's narrow minded to think biology isn't a factor. Interesting that it also debunks the theory that men being attracted to other men have more estrogen (or are just more feminine etc etc). Thanks for sharing the papers. I feel that any emotion or action/ thought perspective etc can be performative so I… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?Ah yes - the two socialisations | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 06:46 PM |
| -9 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?Women are physically abusive and are far more likely to use some form of weapon, but not always. In the same way there are multiple forms of non-contact physical abuse too. I feel that your definition of abuse more fits manipulation at its core, but manipulation is a core facet of dysfunctional family systems and some relationship dynamics. The more I learn the more I find the '4F threat responses' as a good way to look at how people relate to themselves and one another. Also, biological determi… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 04:35 PM |
| -6 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?There's a bug difference between someone's lived experience and a sweeping generalisation. My mum was abusive - doest that mean all women are? No. My mum had zero hobbies and her hobby was and is controlling my father- does that mean all women and men have this relationship type? Nope. If anything I should be wholeheartedly agreeing with this post because it reflects my experience. But I have enough of a variety of other experiences and diverse friends to know my experience isn't THE experience | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 03:42 PM |
| 9 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?Never said there wasn't a problem. I just don't agree with 'all women this ' or 'all men ..', it doesn't help solve the issue and it isn't accurate. Never said men and boys are privileged and don't suffer- the suicide rates alone speak to the fact that they do. I just don't agree it's women's fault or mens fault we have ended up hear. I think a shit load of trauma from all angles created how things are today Loads of men are treated like dirt by other men. You know? | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 03:38 PM |
| -39 | Why don’t women have sympathy for men?Women utterly do have hobbies. Any abusive person (regardless of biology) isn't sympathetic or caring towards the people they want to control. Loads of women feel sympathy for men in the same way loads of men feel sympathy for women What a bleak outlook on life. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 02:08 PM |
| -3 | Do you blame the man or the woman?This is pretty privilege and it happens with men and women. Also, how do you know these poor old professors are vulnerable when they're using their powers to give her special privileges. What are they after? For all you know, they are grooming her. It really isn't about blame here, it's about how people use their leverage. In this instance her power is in her appearance and the professors power is in their status. If you're going to make it about blame I feel you can comfortably say 'both'. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | The 4B will hurt the women who support itSo angry. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 03:17 PM |
| -2 | The 4B will hurt the women who support itKorea - largest pay gap in the developed world Korea - strict maternity policies often meaning a choice between work and family Korea - high prevelance of women being perceived as lower social standing, especially if they are working class and don't weak make-up Korea - a rich history of women being confined to the home and taught to be subordinate. Could go on, probably won't listen up anyways. But sure, call them brats and pretend its only men that suffer injustices. Folk like you are the reas… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 11:46 AM |
| 0 | The 4B will hurt the women who support itThanks for explaining! OP, I think you've a point on the longer term consequences - but that only relies on how big the movement becomes and also how others respond to it - and how the movement may evolve over time. If sex is power, then removing it swings that pendulum, but the ripple effects of that are unknown That being said, there's nothing to stop men similarly saying 'no sex' to harmful women who don't care about the values rights and dignities of men. Do I think it should be political. N… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 08:28 AM |
| 3 | The 4B will hurt the women who support itApologies, what's 4B? | /r/MensRights | 08/11/24 07:41 AM |
| 5 | Boys sections in clothes shops shrinking to extend girls sectionsRight?! I am trying to find my son some regular pants, his first pair as we start to potty train. He's small for his age and do you think I can find anything? No. My wife counted 3x the selection in the girls section. It's wild. I teach about gender and often talk about gendered clothes. It's interesting how students don't think men or boys are sexualised. So I challenge that they are, but in a very different way. They have less expressive choice, more 'adult' optionsn- I.e shirts and jeans and … | /r/MensRights | 29/10/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Safest way to defend against women?Have you spoken to your management at work? If she's genuinely having a psychotic break then an adult safeguarding needs to be raised as she needs professional help and you need to be documenting your concerns and asking how your work is going to keep you and others safe. Make it clear you do not feel safe, and it might be wise to also add about the customers safety. Some bosses are more incentivised to act if they think the issue is business critical as opposed to staff critical, sadly. However… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/24 09:07 AM |
| 0 | And then she went and deleted all her replies... but lmk if anything ive said was at all off base... cause ive been left confused i did nothing but try to be completely respectful and open... it never seems to work, why is it impossible to have a conversation in good faith about these topics?Bro, the man hating feminists are a fraction of feminists. It makes me sad, as I know so many women advocating for men's rights that identify as feminists, that you'd think all feminists would hate to see a man smile and thrive. I'm a feminist, and on the whole, I have more male friends than female as I grew up fearing women because of a very abusive mother / grandmother and much later recognised my fathers enabling was not a passive act. I'd tried to rescue him from her, I wanted him to be happ… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | And then she went and deleted all her replies... but lmk if anything ive said was at all off base... cause ive been left confused i did nothing but try to be completely respectful and open... it never seems to work, why is it impossible to have a conversation in good faith about these topics?Where did she say that? | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 04:58 AM |
| -2 | And then she went and deleted all her replies... but lmk if anything ive said was at all off base... cause ive been left confused i did nothing but try to be completely respectful and open... it never seems to work, why is it impossible to have a conversation in good faith about these topics?The first post is confusing. If someone is saying incel and talking about consent over entitlement. They are saying you're not entitled to sex just because you want it. It's about the attitude towards sex and in attempting to obtain it that dehumanises the other person. Not about demonising being horny. But being horny doesn't mean you can objectify someone who's not consenting to your advance. That's just you using them for your own gratification and again- the other person is reduced to an obj… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 04:56 AM |
| 19 | How can men keep safe from womenThe sad reality is that abusers look and act like ordinary people at first, that's what is so scary. I'm sorry you've been through abuse and have witnessed your friend go through an ordeal. For me, it was going to therapy and healing and working on the childhood traumas passed over to me from my parents, especially my mother and grandmother. Both very narcissistic, and I ended up being in relationships with women like them from the age of 14-27, the last gf almost costing me my life. I now have … | /r/MensRights | 12/10/24 02:34 PM |
| -17 | something i realized about gay bars and male spacesOooh OK, gotcha! | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 01:17 PM |
| -21 | something i realized about gay bars and male spacesYeah, it's a thing. Same time there are women who don't take no with men too. What are women at fault with, just wanting to clarify as I don't understand your meaning | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 09:14 AM |
| -40 | something i realized about gay bars and male spacesUm there is a variety of gay / lesbian / mixed lgbtq spaces that exist. Increasingly, same sex attracted women go to gay bars to avoid men due to numerous poor experiences, and because the vibe is usually friendlier than the mainstream bars. Most women don't see men in general as predators, but a lot of been abused and its a stress response to seek safety. It makes sense that men that aren't attracted to them don't pose the same level of threat. This is more of an encroachment on the lgbtq space… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/24 08:15 AM |
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