You remind of a single mom relative that had problems in dating a new guy. Then with my family we told her to date single dads as well and stop looking for "nice guys". 3 years later she married with a former chad who also had children around there, and now they are happy.
Pretty much this, Indians take marriages to another level. It's not even a contract between 2 individuals like the West. For good or for better? who cares, it's different.