| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 309 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycle | THINGS SCROTES SAY | necro_wafers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 11:46 AM |
| 220 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childish | THINGS SCROTES SAY | necro_wafers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:32 PM |
| 7 | "A LTR with flair" | MALE DEPRAVITY | necro_wafers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | HVS | QUEEN SUPREME | necro_wafers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 01:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | This Reddit ad I keep seeing is clearly missing the mark in its targeting... lolYou can't even reply to a message on Match unless you are a paying member. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:03 AM |
| 7 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂That's why it's called going "Dutch" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:05 AM |
| 3 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Can you link me to your post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 5 | I hope she peed after sex, because if a man lives like this, he for SURE doesn’t wash his dickCan you tell me which groups so I can join? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:01 PM |
| 38 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.I've found proof in the phones of 3 different exes. With that said, just because you don't find proof doesn't mean he's not being unfaithful, some guys are really good at hiding their tracks. Like others have said, if you are really that suspicious it might be time to bounce anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | "A LTR with flair"On mobile I see the logo but when I click on it I get the image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | "A LTR with flair"Of course! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Ladies it finally happened: I no longer care about having a significant otherI feel like I wrote this myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:25 AM |
| 2 | I hope she gets picked, I really do.I'm also calling bullshit that his clothes wouldn't possibly fit her. She was "a little thicker" than he usually likes? I'm a tall and "thick" woman, I wear a size XL in ladies clothes and a medium in men's tops. He doesn't even have one loose gym shirt he could part with? Bull shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else consider being a febfem?I have been thinking about dating women a lot lately, but I feel like most gay women wouldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole knowing I am bi and have only been in het relationships... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Mistakes were made & and I put up with TOO much but - Thank you all (you'll see <3)I just wanted to let you know I appreciated reading your story, because I've been in shockingly similar situations and it made me feel better to know I'm not alone. Leveling up is a process, you have to start somewhere. Celebrate each victory. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 6 | I mean, who cares what people think but yeah, that is most definitely not the solution!WOW this changes everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Grew up hoping I could “prove myself” to guys who weren’t already attracted to meI JUST HAD AN EPIPHANY ABOUT MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. Wow, what a break through. 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 6 | Do any of you have an alternative style? What’s your experience been and how do you attract HVM instead of duds?I'm 42, goth, and heavily tattooed with a mohawk. I also have a professional job. I disagree that upping the couture of your style has anything to do with increasing the quality of men you attract. But I do agree that polishing yourself up is good FOR YOU. I have pretty much given up on finding an alternative HVM. I think there are so few of them out there it might as well be impossible. I'm on the fence right now about "settling" for a regular dude. Since finding FDS I'm just focusing on doing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Are there any 30+ women in this sub who don't intend to marry? Care to share your thoughts/experiences?42, I will never get married. I had a close call with a LVM a couple years ago, we got engaged and he showed his true colors, thankfully before the wedding. I was never really interested in marriage to begin with, but now I am adamantly against it (for myself). My dream is to live next door to a HVM boyfriend. Maybe I'd consider a duplex with the right guy. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Please let you imaginations run wild picturing the man attached to this bioThere's a picture of me in my muscle car on my profile, I'm always amused by how many people seem incredulous that it's actually MY car. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I think my husband is cheating on meI don't know if this goes against FDS principles or not, but you could consider hiring a private investigator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:21 PM |
| 6 | [WARNING: LONG] [30sF] unburdening myself and sharing so no one makes my stupid mistakes ever againThis was so well written, and so similar to some of my past. Change a few small details and it could have been about me. Thank you for sharing your story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:48 PM |
| 11 | Some thoughts on BDSM and why it throws women to the wolvesI'll answer this question too, I got in to it because I liked the aesthetic (I'm goth) and it seemed like all gothic people had to be in to it. I was attracted to how edgy it seemed. But my experience was the same, full of NVM abusers looking to take advantage of vulnerable women and feel "powerful" because they have no real power or esteem in their lives. I cringe hard when I think I've the things I've done and I cringe harder when I think about the mental gymnastics I went through to explain t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | We try 🤷Can you link it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I'm doing it in a couple months, I have slight rosacea and I can't wait to get rid of those broken capillaries and dark spots! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 3 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleI took pity on him because he's a widower dating for the first time since his wife died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 99 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleRight? I mean isn't a relationship like 80% conversation at the least? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 6 | Actual dumb things LVM have said to you with a straight faceUpon giving me no acknowledgement that I finished my last exam and last day of school, he says the next morning "Let's go shopping for my friends graduation present, he's having a party today". When I got upset: "Well you don't actually have your diploma yet, they won't send it out for a few more days" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 24 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishI don't think expecting a token of affection on my birthday is making a "big fuss". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:37 AM |
| 17 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishOh wow, Midol?? How back handed can you get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:35 AM |
| 32 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishThat was my point. People are human, we haven't been dating that long (4 months) and he had a hectic week last week. I was waiting for him to recover by ordering some rushed flowers or at the very, very least buy me a digital gift card or something. I still wouldn't have been happy but I might have given him a pass in light of the circumstances. But he just chose to ride out on "only children get birthdays". Scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:32 AM |
| 48 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishMy eyes just rolled out of my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 63 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishThank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 52 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishThank you, I love this community so much, it has changed my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:05 PM |
| 330 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishIn case anyone wants more details: He TEXTED (no phone call) 'Happy Birthday!!!!" sometime in the afternoon after seeing it on Facebook probably. I knew then that he forgot, but I waited a few hours to see what he would do. HE DID NOTHING. I confronted him and he admitted that he forgot and TEXTED (again no phone call!) that he was truly sorry and felt like a piece of shit. That was right before these texts in this screen shot. He is dumped and blocked. I thank FDS for opening my eyes to seeing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood workOoh I'm dying to read this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careMe too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Avoid online dating if you want to meet the love of your lifeSo you are saying men are forced to message women they aren't interested in? I highly doubt that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 12:28 AM |
| 4 | [CMV] Avoid online dating if you want to meet the love of your lifeI love the whole "online dating overvalues women and undervalues men" notion. The reason why women get bombarded with messages is because men cast their nets much, much wider than women. In most cases as long as a woman has tits and is at 98.6 degrees is sufficient to approach. Every man I've ever talked to on Tinder says he swipes right on every woman no matter what. Does that give a woman a big head about her worth? Maybe in some cases, but if she's actually getting out and meeting guys irl sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:27 PM |
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