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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey?		nedflanders1200	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 01:08 AM

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1	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Dude... You just do it... I am really anxious and nervous... Here is where I think MGTOW And the red pill really fucks men over... Women are just people. Yeah we are a little different, but... Take sex off the table, forget about it... Meet people. Talk to them. Don't think about fucking them. Then, as you get to know each other, you can be open and honest about your anxiety. I am a big fucking dork, I'm also pretty attractive and have a decent job and a six pack. So I talk to people, sometimes …	/r/MGTOW	17/12/14 09:29 PM
1	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? You know, I posted that while I was super depressed after a breakup. And I have really realized, that if not having sex, not having real intimacy and partnership makes you happy; then by all means you should pursue that lifestyle. But I did a lot of soul searching, tripped out (I already went to the gym everyday) and focused really hard on meditating. And I have an OK cupid account now. I have been chatting to some really nice women online. With jobs and careers and similar hobbies and interests…	/r/MGTOW	17/12/14 04:12 PM
0	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Oh yes...I have done it a few times. Gotta have a sitter and a good place, and definitely know what you're in for! But it is so good for a perspective shift, it kind if shatters your view of the world for a little while. I rexcomend it to anyone who is into psychedelics and experienced...	/r/MGTOW	28/10/14 03:02 PM
0	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? I know not everyone agrees with this approach, but I just got some DMT, in a week I'm going up a mountain, hoping to really blast my perspective... Start monk mode with a bang:)	/r/MGTOW	26/10/14 01:15 PM
3	A quick primer of being more physically attractive I don't get the not smiling thing...when I smile women tell me I look like a movie star, when I don't, they tell me I look unapproachable and douchey (not in a good way) ....people want to be around happy people...	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/14 10:02 PM
1	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Hmm. Wise words. I liked the philosophy of it when it started for sure....lol, if I was a Jedi I would have gone to the dark side for sure. I need to get over determining my self worth by how many women I fuck before I delve into TRP any more. But you have a good philosophy on it.	/r/MGTOW	25/10/14 05:03 PM
6	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? I like MGTOW, really dislike the red pill actually. The whole site seems to be about becoming someone women would like. Acting...it actually seems kind of like the opposite to MGTOW. Which is doing whatever you want. Being yourself. Having that confidence in your innate abilities a person. Not following a script for how to get pussy....but seriously...to each their own:)	/r/MGTOW	24/10/14 09:32 PM
3	Is this a selfish way of thinking? As long as you're not leading her on with promises of something more, then I don't think you're doing anything 'wrong'...	/r/MGTOW	24/10/14 08:34 PM
3	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? You're right... I know deep down inside how mundane it can be, I've had some casual sex in my time, but, at the same time, that myth we are told, that banging chicks is the measure of a man is a hard one to shake I guess... But somewhere inside me, my inner self knows that you're right... It's just about letting go of years of conditioning. But thanks for the reminder.... All journeys have to start somewhere...	/r/MGTOW	23/10/14 01:07 PM
2	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Thank you. I know what youean about some of the stuff you say. I see my friends who've had kids and done the whole picket fence thing. They don't seem to be all that happy. They can't get away from their partners and kids fast enough when they gave the chance, and I wonder how many of them are aware of how (in my opinion ) they settled for less than ideal partners, because they have that same fear we are talking about. I think we are all kids in adult bodies. It took me a long time to realize th…	/r/MGTOW	22/10/14 02:55 AM
2	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? For sure. I think for me pushing myself is to learn how to be OK with being alone. I'm frequently single, but always hate it and worry about the next relationship or social function. And I'm an introvert too. So learning how to quiet my mind and be in the moment, and become someone who doesn't need to fake it till he makes it... Who just is, no matter what. That's the boundary. CS Lewis, who would have thought...some good stuff...	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 11:17 PM
2	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Heck yes. I'm trying. Gonna really take some time fpr myself anyway...answer some hard questions, and push my boundaries a bit. It will be as it is I guess..	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 09:57 PM
1	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Again. Thanks for taking the time to write all that stuff out. Yeah, if guys have chain mail clubs, I can probably find some more bros to mountain bike, ski and lift weights with:) Its kind of sad though, because, I agree with everything you said almost. Feminism the whole bit. Except for this girl. When I read about other women, and the horrible relationships guys have, I realize how special this one was. She encouraged me to spend time with friends. To do the things I wanted. To go to concerts…	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 08:40 PM
2	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? I have been meditating for a while now (I have borderline personality, so trying to be mindful is pretty key, even though i fail a lot), so yeah. I have given up on trying to be 'happy' I guess. The bliss in sadness or joy, from just being in the moment as it happens, is something I strive for. Obviously I'm still not there yet, but its a never ending practice anyway right? That poem:) good stuff! I have some friends, but the old thing, the older you get the harder it is too maintain friendships…	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 06:05 PM
2	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Thanks for those links. I've always been an introvert, but also have always hated being that way. Its an important reminder. Its not being alone that hurts, but what I'm doing (or not) with that time, and the way Im Looking at that time. Thanks a lot, really. It is really nice to get this kind of support and responses from a reddit community. I don't even know what to say, but you seem lime you have it really figured out.	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 02:53 PM
3	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? I've actually been alone a lot in my life, but it's always been a negative, perspective is everything I guess... I've done all those things you talk about, it always felt like something was missing. But obviously the things I've been trying to fill that void with (or people) have not been the right ones... I'll try harder. Try to enjoy it for a change instead of lamenting it. Thank you.....Cracks breakfast beer, she always hated that....	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 10:56 AM
5	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? OK...wow. Not much to say to that obviously. That was awesome. It'd hard to believe that could be me some day with that attitude or life. Societal conditioning is pretty strong I guess... But, I'll read that when I'm feeling like my self worth is determined by those things that you have done such a good job of letting go of.. I actually got a little bit teary eyed there. Its stupid, as much as I don't want to believe the crap, (women and self worth and all of that) , you're totally right. My sel…	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 10:52 AM
1	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? I hadn't, but at least reading/learning about something beats stewing in my own head... What would you recommend to start? Camus? I only know that cause I googled it BTW:)	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 04:32 AM
5	Was anyone else scared, sad, lonely when they started their journey? Hmm..you make good points. Thank you. I'm actually in my thirties, but emotionally immature and a little crazy. I guess i know I need to totally shifty perspective on this stuff. Woman and dating, and focus on myself. But its a scary prospect. Being alone. I want it. I want to be able to do it. I'll lurk more anyway... Thanks:)	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 02:14 AM
5	Loss and acceptance Wow...this was just what I needed. I'm really angry right now, at a failed relationship, and wondering how to move on, angry at myself for being used like such a tool.... But sadness at how fucked the whole thing is, that's something I didn't think much about. Great post!	/r/MGTOW	21/10/14 01:14 AM
3	Women Never Suck Dick In Their Stories lol, this thread actually caused me to unsubscribe from this subreddit. This is one of the biggest circlejerks on Reddit, but, It's so obvious now, none of you have ever had real female friends! You know, the kind you openly and honestly communicate with? The thing about close friends, is sometimes, when you're single, and really tight, you fuck each other, and fool around. But 90 % of the articles on here now, are just straight up women bashing, and even more of the comments devolve into that. …	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 02:32 PM
4	Women Never Suck Dick In Their Stories umm, too slutty to ever date, not too slutty to let suck my dick?	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 03:14 AM
12	Women Never Suck Dick In Their Stories You know what, I am going to disagree with this statement. I like TRP, wish I was man enough to apply it more, but all my female friends, constantly talk about blowjobs. How they are good at it, how buddy hadn't washed his cock, how they tried to deepthroat it and ended up puking, road head stories...I have heard them all from my chick friends. And they have frequently told me how they give the best blowjobs. the right look, a cocked eyebrow, and an 'oh really' and frequently they have been givi…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/14 11:15 PM
1	Girls with boyfriends Definitely fair, if they aren't doing it with you, they'll be doing it with someone else.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/14 01:19 AM
12	I let my girlfriend have sex with other guys all the time , is it unfair she wont let me have other women ? I learned something actually, don't be that fucking guy...	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 05:03 PM
8	"Feminists are not a monolith. We are diverse and unique. We don’t fit into every stereotype." C'mon, there are two men in the pic...and they might not have evn castrated themselves yet. This article made my morning!	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 04:58 PM
7	Drugs with the red pill? Pyschedelics drugs really change your perspective, but it is rarely a permanent thing. It sounds like you had some amazing realizations, but next time you trip; while you are still feeling the mental boost you get (but when you're not up to your eyeballs in hot chicks:) take some time to write out what you're thinking; how it compared to what you felt before your trip. It might help you to keep some of those realizations a little longer, and make them a real part of your mental patterns. Good lu…	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/14 05:17 AM
2	Guy dumps his girlfriend on the side of the road for saying her ex was a better fuck. R/AskMen PMS's all over the place as usual Oh the shame; of dating her for a few more months, while she cheated on me. Eventually I found pictures of her online, in a MFF threesome, and that was the final straw. Thank fuck I've changed since then! TRP and all your stories, is helping me never be that way again	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/13 01:25 PM
3	Guy dumps his girlfriend on the side of the road for saying her ex was a better fuck. R/AskMen PMS's all over the place as usual I had a woman I was dating a few years ago, tell me we couldn't have sex that night, on the drive to her place. I asked why, and she said she had a bladder infection...Unfortunately, not two hours before that,she told me she only gets bladder infections, from having, ass to pussy sex...Which we had never done. I looked at her when she said it, and she nodded, and said 'yeah, it's from what you think'...I was beta as fuck then, and have spent so much time over the years wishing I had kicked her o…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/13 01:16 PM