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It’s not about how well the vagina works. Also men and women are different, and you’d hate your life if the world held you to a male standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:48 AM
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It’s wonderful that you feel that way. Also body counts shouldn’t matter. Actually, don’t judge women on the decisions they make, or their looks, or trends in their behavior. Just be nice to them, take their ineffective advice, and when they end up with a guy who does the opposite of all this just scratch your head lol. Nah but fr men prefer virgins or low body counts for the same reason people like new cars. The idea that is all about taking advantage of an inexperienced person is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:35 PM
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Because women were historically treated bad so basically anything they do or don’t do is considered strong. Just ignore all that nonsense. Funny thing is, if you DO ignore it, they’ll be more likely to go down on you. Feminists are attracted to what they “hate”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:47 AM
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This is true, the problem is that people don’t understand HOW to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:25 AM
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There’s alot of truth to this stuff and it’s very interesting. That being said this place isn’t needed. Try your luck first. If you fail and become an incel come one back and we’ll be waiting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:23 AM
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This is why I always urge men to ignore most dating advise from women. No one has ever heard women discuss how badly they wanted a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:09 AM
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Only if you’ve been around each other for a while. Being vulnerable is unattractive to women if they don’t feel like they earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:56 PM
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Of course attractive people get insecure. Especially pretty girls. They might be more insecure than average ones. How can anyone not know this ? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:44 PM
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Guys sometimes the simplest answers are actual the right ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:33 PM
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Yes. Lie. Don’t lie a lot. Don’t make yourself out to be something you’re not. But absolutely do NOT tell the truth about your virginity. I swear listening to women will let you maintain your virginity forever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:30 PM
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Women ARE more emotional than men. I believe you were probably taught differently but I’m sure life will fill you in. The fact that men suffer emotional betrayal Is mutually exclusive from the fact. I never said we didn’t have emotions at all. A man will cheat out of sexual desire and weakness too it mostly. Inversely, a woman will cheat because of her feels. It’s not all socialization, that’s nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:43 AM
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It is somewhat complex. Try to hear me out instead of being combative. I call you combative because you seem like you’re trying to “own” me when I’m giving you small answers to things that can be discussed for lengthy periods of time. Anyhow Women cheating having an emotional component. It’s no secret that women are the more emotional of the genders. That’s no different in cheating. Most of the time when they cheat it isn’t simply from sex. It’s from some emotional hole. This is common knowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:36 PM
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That’s a lot of work but we can talk about it I suppose. So generally, When women cheat there is an emotional component to it. The way women cheat is often calculated and sometimes done TO hurt as opposed to hurting someone being the side effect. When your girl cheats, like someone took something that’s yours. Even if you aren’t a guy who believes a woman is a possession, on some primal level it feels like something that was yours was taken or given away. Kills your male pride and ego. Bunch of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:06 PM
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For several somewhat complex reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:55 PM
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Women cheating is for sure worse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:29 PM
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Because men feel like the woman they have sex with are somewhat owned. When she lets another man have her it’s like something was taken from you. It’s a little deeper than when you cheat on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:27 PM
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It depends on who you are, how they feel, what day it is, and what time it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:07 PM
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Yes and serial killers and child molesters are people. And considering men have and will always be in power, women will continue to have a place as our right hand (wo)man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:10 PM
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I’ve never cheated on any woman ever. I don’t know who you’re talking about. A win for feminism is a loss for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:32 PM
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No no no. I don’t support getting WITH old ladies. I 1000% agree with getting old with a lady. As a matter of fact, I think we owe them that after they give us their youth. I don’t stand with feminists on anything other than them dying alone. Men tend to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:14 PM
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I don’t support getting with old women either. When a woman gains wait you should’ve already picked her BEFORE she gained. If my girl gains weight I ain’t goin nowhere as she’s given me her incredible current self. Men are weak sexually. To keep things in the best of shape they should at least have a woman they find pretty. It’s just the nature of the beast that being with an ugly woman can lead to cheating at a higher rate. I do at least appreciate that you’re looking for answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:21 PM
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I can see how people think that, but simps ARE society. Simps are men taking the path of least resistance in a time where extra pressures are on them. Not to mention they’ve been feminized. I think it’s important to not hate simps, incels, or these girls for the dumb things they do. Let’s understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:18 PM
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And that number would shrink dramatically if it wasn’t for all the simps worshiping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:21 AM
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And if they improve their health, they’ll rejoin the group of women that are desirable. Idc about any of those hormonal excuses. You are what you eat. But luckily these “men” are so weak they’ll take one of them anyway but it’s a lose lose. They’ll cheat on them in a heartbeat if a pretty girl shows up. Hurts families. We’re in a bad place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:20 AM
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We don’t want fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:05 AM
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Nah some people need to lower their standards. Especially today’s women. Or else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:02 AM
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They are absolutely not. They are just blinded in their early years. When they hit 30 it’s painfully obvious how much they don’t wanna be alone. Men see it earlier, but if it happens we also deal with it better. Also keep in mind that we’re in a time that women are never alone. They are surrounded by pseudo men. Police to protect her. House built by men. Job run by men. Laws from men to get her preferential treatment at said job. Woman only Shelters paid for by men and built by men. Her technica…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:56 AM
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They NEED to say our desire is equal or their arguments die.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:08 PM
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Depends on what the wall is to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:59 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:43 PM
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What does CMV mean. I’ve never understood the flairs here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:33 PM
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Not only do I know it’s true, YOU also know it’s true. I never argued weaker men weren’t free to choose this path. I don’t resent western nations lol. I’m an American, as western as you get. No, I’m not saying it’s your responsibility to fix it. You weren’t the one who damaged it in the first place. I didn’t say you disgrace yourself I said you’re free to, which you are. You THOUGHT I slut shamed you but you didn’t read that slow enough. I’m not struggling with the concept, I’m just disagreeing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:06 AM
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No it’s not subjective. For basically all of human history men wanted women to be virgins or as close to it as possible. Simply because weaker men are choosing the path of least resistance doesn’t mean it’s subjective. It’s more like men in western nations are feminized and crumbling under systemic pressure. No one is saying it’s your responsibility to fix it. It’s not your fault or other women’s fault that you’re free to disgrace yourselves. I’m not assuming anyone has a ton. I just know how se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:14 AM
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Consent is obvious. Feminist consent is impossible to understand. If you aren’t a rapist you understand enough consent for normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:58 AM
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So it’s harmful because this free sex lifestyle leads to women raising their body counts and lowering their value. It messes the guys up cause a small minority get all the sex and at a much younger age. They have to motive to wife the girls up, the less desirable portion of men end up more desperate and inexperienced making them even less desirable. We could keep going but the results are all around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:54 AM
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It’s a fair statement but it’s definitely isn’t reasonable and it does harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:48 AM
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We completely forgot that men and women are different, we approach the dating world in this confused way, add in a couple legal changes and there you have it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:44 PM
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Such a girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:01 PM
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She’s mine I don’t pay. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:24 PM
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Took one yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:56 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:22 PM
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Those are consequences of their own stupidity. Use condoms use birth control. They aren’t held to a standard was my point. I don’t represent the manosphere, and nothing I’m saying is emotional or a victim stance. I’m telling this MAN to not let other people tell him how to live his life. That’s masculine, and you couldn’t understand because it isn’t your place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:13 PM
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Stop letting people tell you how to feel about your sexuality. These days are easy mode for girls, they aren’t really held to a standard. No consequences for any of their behavior. It makes sense that their sex habits will be pedestalized. As far as our male sexuality, part of it is not letting a mf tell you what’s what. That’s when your sex is actually broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:10 AM
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Well in a time where literally EVERYTHING is sexual assault, everyone is toxic, and every person is in their damn feelings, this shouldn’t surprise anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:00 AM
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It is 10000000% possible to cheat on someone you love. It’s possible to hit them too. Or all other sorts of bad things. NONE of these things mean you don’t love them. Also, it doesn’t matter. If you get cheated on you should leave, don’t matter if they love you or not. Especially if you’re a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:55 AM
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I totally agree. The men at the top gave women their freedom in the first place. It’s an effective move to control men who keep everything moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:11 PM
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I’m saying the same thing I’ve always been saying. What we both know is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:01 PM
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Point still stands. It’s opposite for men and women. We prefer virgins. Y’all absolutely do not. Opposites as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:59 PM
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No way. Unless I’m chad which I’m sure I’m not. Guys don’t like to hear that confidence matters. Also they buy into all this modern dating equality nonsense that is unattractive to women EVEN-THOUGH they’re the ones who push it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:53 PM
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Yes. So men with counts are the ones women want. You try and separate it but it doesn’t work. I’m a man and have had more women than you. We used to bring women with us to parties so it would attract other women. Women get in this competitive mindset. A guy who has women must be worth going after. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:48 PM
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I don’t have any problems. I’m just telling you like it is. And whatever your reasons you agree with me. Women want a guy who fucks. You say use prostitution. No one respects that Women WANT a guy who gets girls. Guys WANT a woman who stays away from dick. It’s opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:28 PM
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Nah. That’s reality. Virgin = ew Guy with 5 bodies= better than virgin. That’s female thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:13 PM
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Yes. We should and we are. It’s just the reverse of how women are judged. Women like guys who have a decent amount of bodies under their belt. As opposed to how we like women that have less casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:49 AM
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I’d believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:38 PM
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Lol. Say anything about a women and her gender roles and you’ll get for sure downvoted. But yeah there’s a red pill bias
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:28 PM
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Yeah we could, but that’s basically just helping you with your job. Which most men don’t mind doing Yes women ARE supposed to work. Washing clothes, cleaning, cooking, childcare etc. Women aren’t supposed to be having kids with guys they aren’t with. They honestly shouldn’t even be giving their bodies up to randos. Price of female freedom. Yes after a low quality woman gives her body up to a random man, the loser that knocked her up is free to go about his business, but it’s not like men respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:12 PM
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You can protect someone when you’re not there by making good decisions and addressing them when you ARE there. You can also teach your girl how to protect in case of emergency. Mine shoots better than some of my friends. Men are “supposed” to get resources. Whether that’s a job today or hunting yesterday same thing. What you described is absolutely not socially acceptable. Now what IS socially acceptable is a woman taking a mans kids, using government assistance in the spirit of pseudo independe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:33 AM
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Well men do protect children. Women were probably never supposed to have jobs. Didn’t do us any good anyway And yes, freedom to support and protect our families.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:35 AM
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Yeah. Only a woman would try to defend our abysmal child support system. Men aren’t SUPPOSED to look after children. That’s y’all job. It’s why you have boobs. Women are supposed to sacrifice things to do their job, just like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:52 AM
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Yes. That’s what you get called when you do two jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:50 AM
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Imprisoned if she chooses to take your child from you and you don’t pay her. Women are held to a higher standard than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:08 AM
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The difference is that as a man you’re actually responsible for the situation. Not just morally, as we’re held to a higher standard, but legally. And they will take your passport and lock you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:03 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:01 AM
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What did men “gain back”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:02 PM
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Yes. And some people don’t get cancer from smoking cigarettes. I’m discussing what’s likely. The very FACT that everyone else has to bring up the exception proves there’s a rule. The rule is that a woman who is relationship minded is better for a relationship than a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:06 PM
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I know lol. Even the simps will secretly agree with me while they fight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:23 PM
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All this nonsense in the comments. Acting like child support doesn’t do anything and it’s a negligible amount of money. I know single moms that do better than hardworking people living off the system in great neighborhoods never working a day. One of the ones that does work got Uncle Sam to pay her last years balance on rent and this entire 2022 year. No rent. Excellent neighborhood. Not kind of nice. Super nice. She’s got two babies from different men got pregnant with each of them within 2 mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:44 PM
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Yes. 33 word Reddit responses lack nuance who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:03 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:02 PM
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Requirements: Pretty face, I would only LTR a face between 7.5-9 Can not be FAT big no. Gotta have pretty feet lol I have a fetish. Preferences? Nice ass. Not oversized boobs I suppose im pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:45 AM
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I understand why guys like hookups, I just don’t get why women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:30 AM
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Im talking about men. Men care about body counts. Men see a difference in boyfriend sex and getting plowed at a frat party Are a lot of western men confused about female nature today? Yes. That’s because they’ve been fed a bunch of nonsense, tossing away gender roles, being told their masculinity was bad. I actually kind of agree with you in a sense. We understood women far more 100 years ago and i personally understand them today. You say men don’t understand their wife after 30 years of marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:29 AM
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My orientation doesn’t have any relevance to why I can tell you what you do or don’t know. Yes I’m a straight man, what of it? Then you complain about having to work to support yourself. Lady please. Men have been working to support themselves and everyone else for basically all of history. Have a seat. You absolutely do NOT go through the struggles men do. No one expects you to intervene in a crisis situation. People give you a pat on the back for paying your own bills. No one expects you to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:30 AM
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You sound both insecure and delusional. It’s not hard to get laid as a lesbian. Lots of girls want a try. Lots of straight girls want a try. I even used to include y’all sometimes in things I would do. I have several lesbian friends, one being a beautiful stud. It’s incredibly easy for her. What’s hard for y’all is making relationships work, because even though you like women, y’all don’t know how to keep them. That’s because… YOU don’t understand women. Same reasons women can’t maintain friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:55 AM
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Honesty I DONT think 3 one night stands in 5 years is super bad. I was just trying to make the distinction between bodies. Sex with you boyfriend is higher quality behavior than getting fucked by a frat boy and waking up your own vomit. This is a very nuanced conversation so it’s easy to misrepresent. I agree that a woman in a bunch of relationships can also be a nightmare. Theres a lot going on there. I’m not even saying everyone who indulges sin casual sex is a bad person. I was just making qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:05 AM
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Of course I’m losing you. You’re a female and I’m giving you a male perspective. You being a lesbian doesn’t give you ANY male perspective. You’re in bad faith saying I would say anything to defend my position. We don’t have to agree, but most men don’t want to wife sluts. Just because you don’t get it doesn’t mean you’re right. And like a woman you’re getting emotional and misrepresenting me. I’m not saying other factors don’t come into play, they do. I AM saying That relationship bodies aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:34 PM
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I never said I’d want a girl with 5 ex’s. I just said who had more value as a girlfriend. Has nothing to do with “getting laid”, in which case sluts are great. I don’t mind sluts, I’d just never commit to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:15 PM
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Everything I said has been accurate. If she was the kind of girl that slept around then we wouldn’t be a thing. That’s because I’m not going to value a girl who doesn’t value herself to the same level as a woman who does. Then you say insane times. It’s a shame that properly vetting is insane. This is why everyone I see has relationships that barely last. Maybe my system should be adopted by more men because it certainly seems like it gets more results.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:50 PM
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Right. Because I would enter a relationship with someone I know nothing about. The same guy who assumes I’m desperate and would take any female ALSO assumes I would just take someone I don’t know. I knew my current for YEARS. I know people who know her. Know her family. Also, I don’t just enter an exclusive relationship without a significant amount of time spent. Like 6+ months. I do my due diligence because if I’m taking myself off the market (not a cheater) I need to make sure it’s with the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:43 PM
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YOU WOULD see it the exact opposite. You don’t understand the male perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:39 PM
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Ive NEVER dated a slut. Definitely turned down women. Not desperate even in the slightest, and do absolutely fine. I have standards for women I will claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:38 PM
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Lol I bet you’re one of those girls that are never wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:36 PM
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It went over your head. Which is surprising if you’re a resident. Or maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:59 PM
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Yes. 20+ times You ever pet a lion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:33 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:09 PM
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Depends on a couple of factors. For example. A girl who’s had sex with 5 guys but all were her boyfriends has more value than one who’s had 3 one night stands. All sex isn’t equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:02 PM
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Think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:01 PM
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Yes, and being raised to kill and be violent would help in south side Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:56 PM
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Yes in a relationship and very happy with it. Don’t consider myself RP but most ladies on here would at LEAST call me RP and at most call me a woman hating misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:25 PM
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In a similar situation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:24 PM
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Mkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:02 PM
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Anomalies exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:01 PM
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Those don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:44 AM
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I’m not sure if it’s as simple as a test of character when it comes to power. I think it’s a test of MALE character. When it comes to women, it’s like giving a loaded pistol to a toddler often times. Can’t judge them on their character is a situation they should’ve never been put in. It’s not a fair test. When men are able to do our jobs it brings the best out of women which makes us even better. This is damn near impossible in western nations. The further we get from it , the harder the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:28 AM
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Those are some pretty rough examples. I’ve seen things like it. Women can be selfish. They definitely aren’t good at choosing men. There in a world without any direction and a bunch of power they shouldn’t have and probably never wanted. Tell me this, do you believe the bad things they done are in their nature? Like a dog eating your sandwich? Or more evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:05 AM
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Wanna give me a story? Help me understand you a bit? I’ve also been done dirty before. I dedicated myself for 8 years. Never cheated. I can understand pain. I want to know where yours comes from. Then afterwards, maybe we can discuss things more effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:23 AM
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Do you hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:52 PM
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So what’s men’s excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:35 PM
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I agree with you. If anything I’m translating for men. Women telling me to be clear can be a bit misleading. Maybe not on purpose but sometimes it’s like we speak different languages
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:21 PM
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I think we have a misunderstanding. I’m trying to say that you can’t be too direct. You can make it clear you want sex. But it’s not smart to just say, “let’s fuck” Much more successful for be smoother about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:14 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:07 PM
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My bad. I thought you were a girl. I doubt your success because you don’t seem like you understand women. When did I teach men to be liars? That was disingenuous. I don’t need luck. Im doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:43 PM
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Can’t dislike them for their nature tho. I honestly feel like they don’t actually WANT power. I think it’s natural for them to fight for it so they can choose a strong partner. The weak guy that gives it to them isn’t a good father for their kids. Their nature has just been perverted by the current system
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:17 PM
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Yes SOMETIMES he does. Remember the patterns we discussed earlier. MOST of the time “homie” wants solutions. I live in the REAL world and have REAL results from what I’ve learned. I share these to help other men understand y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:15 PM
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No that isn’t what all people want. That’s what WOMEN want. When your bro calls you about an issue, you talk solutions. He didn’t call you so you could just hear him. You can talk statistics with someone who’s as clueless about the real world as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:06 PM
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This isn’t a debate. Waste your own time with statistics. I live in the real world. I have experience with women. Any man who has any success with women knows damn well that they don’t want you to be super direct. Even when they have an issue they want you to LISTEN to them. Not solve it. Women are different than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:58 PM
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It’s not an over generalization. It’s a generalization. And it’s correct MOST of the time. And It breeds results. Somehow I’m sure I’m more experienced on the topic than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:47 PM
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Nah. What’s illogical is choosing to not recognize trends. Which will lead to failure. I never said we should dislike women because they don’t like being direct. I said it isn’t their language and it makes them uncomfortable. Which it does. If you want to be successful with one, be less direct. Nicer. Warmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:40 PM
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How would that possibly lead to bitterness. I would argue the exact opposite. I’m curious of how you got to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:36 PM
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I think being direct isn’t a woman’s first language. Because it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:34 PM
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So in other worse, not extremely clear. Gotta make the magic even if it’s just a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:28 PM
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To be clear I’m referring to casual scenarios. You don’t get a fuck buddy by saying “let’s fuck” Being clear with intentions for relationship I agree this is desirable to women, but even HERE there’s some nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:01 PM
2

Women know how they want to feel. They have no idea how to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:59 PM
3

Absolutely false. Y’all don’t like clear intentions. Takes the magic out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:51 PM
12

This is false. Players don’t waste their time learning about rp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:50 PM
1

There’s a lot of pretty women who are mean af. I don’t think this is accurate. When you hit that 9-10 range it gets rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:24 PM
15

I don’t support being a victim at all. ESPECIALLY AS A MAN. That being said, there’s a lot of truth here. The misfortune of being born in this time, the circumstances of western nations and their women. They’re spoiled. They want to be men with all the advantages of women. The small group in power is ok with this system. Basically no disadvantages to them. Only hurts regular guys. And most women. Oh you thought women were winning in this situation? Hell no. They’ve never been more unhappy. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:24 PM
2

Women worried about getting left when their the ones who leave. It’s like a cheating partner that wonders if you’re cheating. All of that aside, men are simple. Try and look as best you can, don’t be annoying, do your job. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:10 PM
1

Lol. Special rights? What are you talking about? And plenty in compared to what? Elephants?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:06 PM
1

I never said I deserved things from women. That being said, I get what I want from them. I STILL protect them, still break out the tool box and help my female friends. Still do my job as a man. And congratulations to the lady you mentioned, but that’s “not you” so have a seat dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:33 PM
1

I’m giving my opinions based of what I know and through experience. What makes sense to me. After experiencing women, I feel like I don’t need a chemistry set to determine who make better leaders. But I respect your argument. I don’t think I need a degree in Evolution biology either. Not that it has no value, It’s just obvious to me already and not that deep. I can give the cautionary, one day I could be wrong and women can rise to be the leaders us men never could. I suppose anything is possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:56 PM
1

You put way too much on intelligence. Intelligence without logic. Intelligence without smarts. I’ve met plenty intelligent and useless women. Most of them I met hanging out at Drexel lol. Innovation, new ideas and progress are primarily male things. Most of the time when some lame propaganda campaign shows me some wonderful new green invention a woman “invented” if you look deeper, the invention is useless. Or she worked on a team with 12 men. It’s almost always overblown in some way. I’d go as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:06 AM
1

That’s not how that works. A person doesn’t need to share your kink to enjoy it. Especially not women, the beautiful emotion driven goddesses they are. Women who love you are pretty malleable as I’ve said. They like a lot of thing you like. Music? Tv shows? It’s not that they don’t have their own identity, but they’re open to things. I believe this is part of their DNA. Like a puzzle piece to connect with a man. That being said, she doesn’t have to share your kink lol. Admittedly if she does it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:38 AM
1

That means you shouldn’t unfairly overindulge. Letting a girl please you once a year is absolutely pathetic. Would you settle for that standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:06 AM
1

That “left to our own devices” saw men in charge and created much progress. Only in western nations that have gotten significantly more backwards over the last century do we see these foolish changes. Yes it would lead to a different and much better society that would make more sense. Reward people on competence and not victim hood. Create a world where families are together and not broken. All that good stuff. Strength IS still required. To act like how much guys could lift is the only reason t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:05 AM
1

You sound inexperienced. If someone opted to please you once a year would you stick around? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:54 AM
1

If I had someone who gave so little fucks about me that I would have to wait for my birthday then I have way bigger problems than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:41 AM
1

Nah that’s not how it works. Plenty of guys happily married are into weird stuff. Not many girls at all into feet. Long successful situations still happen. Gotta know what you’re doing. It’s not really about if she’s into the kink. If you’re kink is THAT big of a deal in your relationship then you’re doing something wrong. I would advise a guy like that to choose between his fetish or his relationship. Can’t be selfish like that and expect things to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:08 AM
1

I see that your arrangement worked out for you. That is a beautiful thing. Exceptions exist. I still think the traditional model works best overall. Birth control isn’t really the issue with broken families the problem is far more complicated. I can agree that if there was a “left to our own devices” it was probably long ago. If we had to be pushed in a certain direction I’d prefer we get pushed in the direction that’s natural to us. That brings us to the push. I think there’s definitely a push …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:03 AM
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Lol that’s pathetic. That’s what you think women do? Haha. Those are weak women who settle for men they don’t love. I don’t like weak women. “Soft men are the best men” I’m sure they love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:46 AM
1

False.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:02 AM
1

I call those sexually submissive “men” you talk about boys. This is why. You must be a man first, Personally I like some things sexually that are VERY submissive. I also like things that are the complete opposite. I used to dominate a army strong lesbian a couple years back and she was no pushover. But even if I was purely submissive sexually, as a man you don’t really have a choice here. Your sexual proclivities must take a back seat to pleasing your woman. It’s NOT about you. If you choose to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:58 PM
1

That’s only if you know who you are. Lots of women have no idea what the want for breakfast, let alone what makes them happy. I love giving advice to foot guys as I feel I’ve been exceptionally successful with it. Most of them suffer because of the nature of the fetish. It can make things difficult, but also extremely fun. Finding a girl who’s is GENUINELY into your foot fetish is a tall order. It’s that way for a lot of the weirder kinks. You as a FF guy should be able to compromise with a girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:39 PM
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Depends on the situation. If you care about your partner you’ll be as reasonable as possible. If you aren’t relationship ready you’ll fight them on this tooth and nail. Red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:22 PM
1

Perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:12 PM
1

Nice. Whatever works for y’all works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:10 PM
1

I believe that too. I believe that if left to their own devices, men would provide and woman would play the role the always have played. I think the force is very much coming from the opposite direction. I think “independence” and this “strength” basically male caricature identity that many women have today is pushed on them. Both thru propaganda and especially through social construction. And I think it’s done to weaken families which in turn, weakens the population. They already did it pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:10 PM
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I’m aware that women use the freedom and rights men gave them as well as the systems men built to protect them against men. I think it’s funny that this defines being “in control” to you. Then again it was never in your nature to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:48 PM
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I believe men need to be men. I think we’re built for being the provider just like we were when we were in caves. I believe we’re supposed to take on as much as the financial burden as possible so we can have our kids with our wives. I believe that’s the BEST place for our kids. We shouldn’t have them in daycare, shouldn’t have them being raised by nannies. Even grandparents should be used but not all the damn time. Our kids should be getting mommy time. I see how things are without that. All th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:38 PM
1

Believe it or not I have an incredibly similar philosophy. Years ago it basically led me to very similar conclusions that you get from it. To put it simply, I think it DOES hurt others by not having these expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:21 PM
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Men shouldn’t be expected to be the provider. Men shouldn’t be scrutinized for feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:06 PM
1

Talk about illusions. Well at least we’re both happy in our realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:04 PM
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No. The choice is ours. We choose YOU for marriage. And if a man chooses to not marry you, then you will not get married. And in her case I didn’t choose. I already get what I want. And I’m not the one who’s deviated from the original plan. YOU have to wait and see how things turn out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:57 PM
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Yes. Because every unmarried man is unmarried because a woman didn’t want to marry them. MEN choose wives. If I wanted to marry that one I would’ve. I’m very glad I waited for my current.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:32 PM
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No. Because men do EVERYTHING. In addition to knocking you up. We built the world. Including your house and the electronics you’re using to respond to me. And made the laws you use to protect yourself while you say what your saying. And we enforce your protection so that you’re free to say what you’re saying. Hell, we gave you the right to say it. Y’all are needed though for kids. Guidance in a way. Motivation. Emotional understanding etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:30 PM
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Yes yes, women are better at following rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:27 PM
2

Yes. And a car doesn’t have to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:21 PM
1

MOSTLY agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:13 PM
1

That’s a strong argument you got there. In other words, that thing you were acting like was some impossible wish is actually quite possible. Actually, before my wonderful, amazing current woman, I had a similar situation with another. Seems like getting a woman to fit her natural role isn’t as hard as you would suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:12 PM
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No. I don’t want. I HAVE a woman who does the things I want sexually as well as the traditional things a woman does. It might be you that doubts the female versatility after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:49 PM
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Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:47 PM
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It means that simply because you don’t adhere to your nature job doesn’t mean it doesn’t apply to MOST women. It probably applies to you as well but you fail to get out of your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:28 PM
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Lol it’s amazing that women believe this. If we just had ONE day to treat you like men 70% of you would go traditional. One WEEK and the rest of you would follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:27 PM
1

Trends exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:24 PM
1

That’s absolutely fine. Turns out you’re allowed to make bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:04 PM
2

Then you are very very confused. Why do you have boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:02 PM
0

Yes there is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:58 PM
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Being a mom. Cleaning. Cooking. Handling things while the man gets the resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:57 PM
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This is false, and pretty whiny. Women ARE visual creatures albeit not as visual as men (dont care if they disagree they’re wrong) BUT personally definitely matters. They know how they want to feel but they aren’t really good judges of what will give them the feeling. Want to feel safe and pick a man that can beat up the world including them Want to be treated like a queen and fall for guys who love bomb. Sheesh some of them even fall for gay guys looking for someone who dresses nice. It’s not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:55 PM
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Yes there is ugly women. It’s just men are realistic and are willing to settle at the proper time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:48 PM
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It’s not so much catering as doing your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:37 PM
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So you still want to do these things you just want men to do them with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:26 PM
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Sheeesh. It’s like women don’t want to be women anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:23 PM
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So what should you do instead of these things ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:20 PM
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Nah. You hopeless women ignore my opinion which doesn’t matter. My opinion matters to MY woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:33 AM
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The whole “women with self respect” ship has sailed in the US. Some of us will get lucky and find a straggler
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:47 PM
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Well it’s almost ALWAYS going to take an effort from men. Predator vs prey and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:00 PM
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Well yeah. I suppose we agree. I’m not implying the guy doesn’t have to pull the trigger, but the women are definitely more available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:56 PM
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When women know you have a steady source of vagina they’re a lot more available. Not slightly. Co-workers treat you differently. Your confidence is different which attracts women too. It’s a lot more significant than you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:51 PM
2

You’re underselling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:47 PM
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That last statement is false. Having women attracts women. I would argue that most pussy guys get while in a relationship is thrown at them. No work. Or minimal work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:37 PM
1

Being difficult only makes things harder for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:49 PM
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The influx of simps is a systemic issue. You won’t stop simping. We simply got to a point where a large portion of the male community believe that simping is the path of least resistance to getting laid. Our problems are far more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:48 PM
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Depends on why I’m not getting the sex. If it’s a power trip she’s on then maybe 1 day shit maybe 1 hour. If she’s sick maybe indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:37 PM
0

A necessary evil
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:23 PM
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Look as good as you can. Be cooperative. Be sexy (no sexy isn’t just appearance) Lower body count Be feminine Be confident Value yourself! A guy might really want that 10 to take home from the bar but for a relationship 9-10 are dangerous. Many men know that a nice 6-8 is probably the sweet spot for relationships. Under 6 is still the same rules. Just will probably get a less attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:23 PM
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Giving one of the rare examples of where a women could possibly win a fight with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:27 PM
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Both are ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:55 AM
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Decent shape. I’m not a daily gym rat or anything. Played football, basketball my whole life. Some boxing. Even a little karate at one point. To be honest though even without any of that, I think the average male not only could knock out the average female, but would probably kick a female ufc fighters ass. Of course if you took a TINY adult male against the largest female UFC fighter she would win. The very fact that y’all have to dig that deep to find a winning example only proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:51 AM
1

I’ll take that as a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:46 PM
1

Serious question. Are you an incel? I love talking to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:39 PM
3

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:36 PM
2

Same. Should I spoil our moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:13 PM
2

Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:10 PM
2

I agree with most of that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:42 PM
2

Yeah I’m vulnerable as well in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:42 PM
2

They couldn’t. But that’s not the point. Because men on average can knock women on average out they see them as vulnerable. Because they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:41 PM
1

Until women can step in the ring and not get knocked out, men are going to see them as vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:14 PM
1

Yeah. But at the same time it makes sense. Actually following a movement, believing in its tenants is more difficult that buying a shirt or dicking around on its forums. Living values is hard af
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:40 AM
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Everything seems to go wrong when people start wearing the logo t shirts of a movement lol. You don’t have to model your damn life after something. Take the good. Just so many people lost today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:28 AM
1

100% Imo women have been convinced their femininity is worthless. So they try and be like us and it ends up being quite the caricature. Similar to guys who grow up with no dad. Messy stuff. Lots of men are and SHOULD be wary of losing their masculinity. It’s important. Helps you find a mate Helps you do your job as a man Helps you be responsible. Helps you get past your emotions. All that base level stuff like how a guy sits isn’t the MOST important stuff. Masculine energy is mostly inside not o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:52 AM
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I was never confused about why people looked RP like that. It’s cringe from the start to label yourself something like that. I’m a man and I do what I do, and RP didn’t tell me anything I didn’t already know. RP has bad reputation from the people who carry the flag just like feminism. Or incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:40 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:32 AM
1

Nah. You can explain rp stuff to women and they’ll still ride you like a champ if you talk to them correctly. I got y’all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:28 AM
1

Mainly I try to give some realistic male/female relations advice is this place so devoid of it. I also enjoy seeing others challenge it. Mostly here for fun and to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:51 PM
1

Almost no one here is making sense. Having game isn’t making your true self. Is presenting your true self in a way that’s favorable to women. Making is lame. Women can and WILL find out if you’re weak. My girl can spot a pussy a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:45 PM
1

There’s nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:54 PM
1

Yes. Still stuck on the chicken and the egg thing lol. I won’t beat a dead horse. Yes I’m a dying breed. A man who is allowed to think like one as opposed to the new feminized batch of boys I see here. You have a little circle lol. The sluts have low value as a LTR partner. I know sluts that drive cars I can barely afford. Everyone does have preferences, and men in general prefer girls with less bodies. Lots of words but they change nothing. We all know this. You and your couple of pals disagree…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:05 PM
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I don’t consider myself red pill but most Reddit girls would probably say I am. Feminists tend to hate me. White knights tell me I hate women blah blah. I love women. When I’m single I mingle but once I have a girl it’s me and her. I’ve NEVER cheated in my life. 1st relationship lasted 8 years. My current hopefully forever. You gotta understand that most men, red pill or otherwise, don’t understand women. I believe I do. Women aren’t “shallow” they are complex, especially when compared to men. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:55 PM
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“It’s not always different for blah blah” notalllll. Got it. No. YOU are the one trying to paint my point as women like men purely because they have more sex, like “oh he’s has 15 bodies so he’s more attractive than the guy with 14 bodies. I’m saying that women are attracted to guys who attract women. If you go to a party bringing women with you it will be EASIER to get more women. Because women are attracted to men who fuck. It’s simple. Yes you don’t encounter this with you friends. Yes YOUR f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:02 PM
1

Absolutely not. I always tell my friends that 7-9 is the sweet spot. A 7 is MORE desirable than a 10. 10s come with far too much risk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:54 PM
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I’m glad I read the end first. You’re a child. That’s why you don’t know what you’re talking about. You’re idealistic about sex and women when you most likely don’t know much about either. By the time I was 21 I had sex with like 14 girls and even had a long term fwb for 5years. I had a relationship at that point that lasted for 8. I understand that you’re upset but understand that I’m WAY more experienced than you, and even when I was your age I was probably still WAY more experienced than you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:46 PM
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Men aren’t giving themselves to random strangers. They’re hunting. Sure, history and the majority don’t instantly make something right. But if one side has history, current majority of BOTH SEXES, logic and biology on their side your side looks a little weak lol. You think this system gives men their cake and their eating it? That just shows your ignorance on the topic. Many men hate the way things are. Don’t have ANY success with women. Which is why the ones who do are praised. You talk about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:56 PM
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Giving yourself to random strangers isn’t respectable. Yes. Yes I can. Men generally prefer women who aren’t sluts. Once again both history and current day agree with me. If you believe most people don’t care than you were free to live in ignorance. So you agree with me. Men that have sex attract women. Men who don’t, don’t. Groundbreaking. Once again displaying a lack of understanding and a false equivalency. They are wired differently. You’re just desperate to act like we’re the same and we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:11 AM
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Icky for women yet they STILL prefer men who get laid. I’m speaking on it because I know it. Both in my own life and in general observable reality. Was in the virgins in high school getting the girls or the ones who were already getting them. Men who get women tend to get women. Being a slut makes you a slut. Feel bad if you want, system has worked fine for me. It’s not one trait. Slut behavior implies lots of traits Getting laid takes effort getting fucked is effortless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:06 AM
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A guy who sleeps with random women is more likely to spread stds. I agree with the other part too he’s more likely to have sex with someone his gf knows. “If it’s icky for women it’s icky for men” That’s when your wrong. Men and women are NOT the same. Things that are a bigger deal to men are not always a big deal to women and vice versa. It’s cause we’re different and want different things. Men need self control in a different way because they’re different. Who am I to set the rules? I didn’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:20 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:43 PM
1

And I agree with you. There IS more nuance to this topic, we just haven’t been able to get there BECAUSE everyone ignored the reality. There’s a cap on such things. Women might like a celebrity with 100 bodies but in general that’s a scary number. It can eventually work to man mans disadvantage. To most women though a guy who’s had 0 or 1 bodies isn’t beating out a guy with 10. You can take those raw numbers and disagree but within context it makes sense. The guy with more sex tends to be more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:43 PM
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It’s framed different because men want different things from women and vice versa. I mentioned male confidence because male confidence is EXTREMELY important to women. As are money and masculinity. Not saying sluts can’t be confident. I’d bet on the nonslut though. Feel free to mention all the good parts sluts have that they can’t get from a girl with discipline. I’ll wait. I say she’s giving herself away cause that’s exactly what she’s doing. Giving your body to another guy. Another guy that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:37 PM
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Are you a female? You don’t have to answer I’m just curious. It DEFINITELY has to do with the women around him. Guys in relationships find women easier because women are attracted to guys who have women. Being a virgin is unattractive to women. When I was single I literally used to being girls to the club with us because their very presence made landing other girls EASIER. MEN know this. Maybe Reddit guys don’t, or they just don’t want to agree out of fear of misogyny or something but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:16 PM
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I’m saying observable reality. Think back to high school. Was it the guy who got no girls who was popular? Or was it the one with the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:07 PM
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Sex is for reproduction. THAT is why we enjoy sex, because our body wants us to reproduce. This is ALSO why we have a good opinion of those men who are successful at it. If I didn’t have to simplify things to a 4th grade level for you I wouldn’t be condescending. Who’s talking about a guy with 10 baby mommas? You? The funny part is, the last five baby moms knew he had kids by different women and they STILL gave him what he wanted. Women LIKE a man who gets laid. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:03 PM
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Your personalizing this. I couldn’t care less what men do. I’m telling it like it is to someone with their head firmly in the sand. Having a lot of sexual partners for a man is much harder than it is for a woman. This is why women with low body counts are praised This is why men with higher bodycounts are respected. We all know this is how it goes you just don’t like it and that’s fine. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:57 PM
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Yeah I don’t really think the downsides are the same however i concede that there can be downsides to a guy who gets a lot of sex. No need to fight the specific downsides because it has nothing to do with my point. There are downsides and upsides to a man that has bodies. With the women it’s mostly downsides. Unless she’s just for fun then it doesn’t matter much. You say men shouldn’t find promiscuous women gross. I don’t think they find them gross, they find them good for sex and not good for L…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:55 PM
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If it was pointless then sluts would have the same value as non sluts. But they don’t. And it doesn’t matter if YOU value a person who fucks. It’s universally valued. Even the women value it. The men respect it. It’s actually pretty hilarious how mad people are at this fact. But it IS a fact. I didn’t come here to praise men who get laid a lot but people trying to attack this very logical double standard have put me here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:44 PM
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Right. Because the point of us being here is to get tattoos and rob banks. Clueless. We probably are supposed to reproduce since basically every other organism does that. It turns out that SEX is for reproduction, so it’s probably pretty important. That’s PROBABLY why men who can manage to get it are praised. Glad we worked through that champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:40 PM
1

Yes. I actually do. Women who have sex with lots of partners were never really desired on a large scale. There’s also lots of upsides to men who get laid. Tend to be more masculine. More confident. Maybe make more money, look better? What’s the advantage to the slut? She likes sex? You could get that with a girl who has restraint. Looks better? Plenty of non sluts that look good. No I don’t have to give you anything. Like I said, most guys don’t want a slut. YOU are the oddball. You tell me why …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:38 PM
1

Yes because double standards are bad and we should eliminate them for the good of all peoples or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:29 PM
1

There’s plenty reasons. A loose girl brings all kinds of complications . Insecurities. Lack of self love. Bad relationships with men. Low self value. Better chance of cheating on you. Sex is less special cause she’s done it with everyone. Better chance that she slept with someone you know. I could probably write an essay on why to avoid a slut. Lots of people could. MOST people agree with this. I know a lot of these young inexperienced sexual freedom obsessed feminists and their enablers (people…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:32 PM
1

Rebuttal for what? I saying what it is. I’m not debating. I’m explaining why people value body counts on men and don’t like them on women. As far as I can tell you just don’t like the reality of the situation. You haven’t told me why it should be different. Minority of people agree with you. Even many women don’t agree with you. Nothing to rebut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:57 PM
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No I don’t do anything. SOCIETY praises men for sexual conquest because it is DIFFICULT and sought after. It does NOT praise women for sexual conquest because it is easy, and any woman can rack up 100 bodies. You’re still confused about this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Because we are talking about sex. Lol this guy. At this point if you don’t get it that’s fine. Most men understand, which is why we tend to value women with low body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:06 PM
1

You’re a man and you’re wrong. Yes it’s a blanket statement. It’s a generalization. Do you think saying “not all” is effective? That’s interesting. MOST men care if a girl is a slut or not. That’s what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:04 PM
2

Yeah, People do see it as bad, but as I said before it’s not relevant because I wasn’t making a moral argument. Personally I share the opinion of most men that it is bad either way it is still “low quality” “Just because something is difficult doesn’t mean it should be prized” Duh. It’s difficult to self delete but it shouldn’t be praised. You should at least TRY to make sense. It’s called a generalization and dispute what your friends on Twitter told you they aren’t always bad. We use these to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:35 PM
0

Why don’t you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:34 PM
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I didn’t say it doesn’t hurt men. I said it hurts them more. Women aren’t told to consider men’s feelings as much as we are told to consider there’s. Why? Because their feelings are easier to hurt in that way. There are things however that can hurt a man more than it would hurt a woman but this is where the conversation would get controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:23 PM
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Because women are more emotional. When you say something about their appearance it hurts them far worse than it hurts men. In general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:14 PM
1

Thank you. It’s a shame that it needs to be articulated seeing as how the concept is INCREDIBLY simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:30 PM
1

That’s not a snowflake. There’s other women with restraint that enjoy sex. You’ll get there one day buddy keep your head up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:24 PM
5

It does explain it Whether you or I think something is right or wrong isn’t too relevant right at this point We don’t often praise the completion of EASY tasks. Getting fat, beating a game on easy mode, walking down the street, earning 20$. We tend to praise getting in shape, beating a hard game on a hard difficulty, running a marathon, earning a lot of money. It wasn’t about right or wrong. The double standard is because one thing is impressive and one thing isn’t. Is far more difficult for a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:23 PM
2

That’s ridiculous. I’m not above average looks and I’m also 5’6” and I still have a super pretty gf. My last gf was pretty too, and in my off season I’ve done well with sluts. Fwbs looked great too. The things that need to be worked on also include the things in your head as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:35 PM
-2

False. Men CAN control their nature more than women. That is why we lead things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:28 PM
-1

Lol you think “Stacy” wants a guy with self control? You don’t know stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:26 PM
2

Then I feel sorry for the Kurdish men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:17 PM
1

It speaks to quality. As a man it’s hard to get laid As a woman it’s easy as hell. Indulging in the easy task of sleeping with any random guy doesn’t garner respect. Having sex with women is difficult, that’s why it DOES garner respect. We ALL know this, but people continually try to act like we don’t know why there is a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:54 PM
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I don’t think you understand what I mean by values. Me and my girl both value her sexual restraint with random guys at the bar. Not being a slut is valuable to BOTH of us. As far as the double standard (assuming you mean between men and women) is doing just fine and well. It’s a double standard that makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:51 PM
0

Oh and being a slut is the way to live hmm? I’m going to guess you’re either 22 or an incredibly inexperienced 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:48 PM
5

It’s no longer amazing to me because I understand it. Men are simple. Almost every time they show some “simp” behavior it leads back to sex. Maybe they have a weird ideology cause it’ll help them with sex. Maybe they try and be sensitive to women for sex. One way or another lol. Women here are just fighting for their own interests, like a puppy trying to eat another hot dog even though it’s stomach is about to burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:46 PM
2

If society broke down women would immediately go back to being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:37 AM
15

It’s DEFINITELY about a difference in values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:30 AM
18

No. It’s a lack of discipline and self control. My girl is damn near more sexual than me but she still wasn’t a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:26 AM
19

That’s a great lesson to learn. When talking to women it’s about HOW you say it as much as what you say. If not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:49 AM
6

Terrible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:36 PM
1

No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:00 PM
1

Woman have not been given the ability to do those things is another way of saying men defended woman from danger. Men exist to make women worse? We’re the ONLY reason you’re alive. Like I said before. Without us you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:18 PM
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Your first paragraph is mostly true. I don’t have a problem with it. My point was never that women didn’t contribute. My point was once again that you NEED us for survival and we don’t NEED you for survival. That’s still true. On average I actually believe women are smarter than men. On the highest level men are though. I also think women are better than following rules than men which explains why they do better in school. That’s neither here nor there. Id take a less intelligent man over a more…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:49 PM
1

Men weren’t “left to their own devices” to lead. They had to compete with nature, and other men. Imagine a weak man saying, “if all the other men would just disappear then I could rule the world” That wouldn’t make sense. Just like what you said didn’t make sense. If you were left to your own devices you would’ve been lunch for some predator and would’ve never made it to 2022. Unless you think women were the ones fighting off wolves, inventing weapons, building shelters, and fighting wars. I’m s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:19 PM
1

Yes society needs both if it wants to be at its best. I made a distinction for you since you said you don’t need men. Once again that distinction being that we could live out our natural lives and YOU could not. Which is still true. The only thing we absolutely NEED from you is reproduction. The other things may be vastly beneficial, but we could SURVIVE without it. We don’t need you to lead, invent, get food, build things, defend us, or anything else. You NEED us. Get it? Maybe you just don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:20 PM
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You belittled women in general saying they don’t contribute. That’s false. I never belittled your independence, that’s just your emotions and insecurities talking. I said FACTS that you didn’t like and you got in your feelings. Lastly, I said technically yes we only need you for reproduction, as in we could live out the rest of our lives without you. Women aren’t capable of this. That was my point and it still stands true. Also I’m glad you come together for decisions. So do I. It’s like you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:45 PM
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Let’s dig in Women are peaceful by nature? I’d say women have a natural proclivity to be gentle, and potential to be peaceful if socialized correctly. Otherwise women can be literally anything but peaceful. Woman on woman relationships are anything but peaceful. The closer equality comes in any given nation the less peaceful women become. That article on men “skewing off course” is full of opinions and many men would agree with few of them. “Men are more xenophobic than woman” sure, like a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:45 PM
1

When did I ever say that? There’s a lot of men who complain about the dating market today (mostly in western nations) and they have solid reasons. Relationships have been harder too secure when women have too many options. This coupled with how weak and fucboi-ish alot of the men are causes many complex issues. But, I wouldn’t say they’re oppressed. Unless you’re talking about divorce and family court. Then they certainly have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:46 AM
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No. You feel salty af because I’m right and you’re wrong. See I only have to let MY women win the argument. You random “independent” girls can taste reality. Btw saying women don’t contribute anything is dumb. I’d be HALF the man I am without my girl, an ACTUAL strong women. A woman who, while strong enough to navigate these modern times better than a lot of these men, still allows me to lead her. College educated, plenty of money before I even met her. Singer. Painter. And shes hot 🔥 You should…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:35 AM
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I never said that nor would I want to. I sleep next to a woman every night and I would die for her. We don’t need a discussion. I was educating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:18 AM
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Saying men “took women rights” is as dumb as saying a wolf took a sheep’s rights. But as a woman it makes sense that you don’t and can’t understand it. Your life especially in a westernized nation could hardly allow it. Men and women work today sure, but the difference is that you couldn’t live without us. We just really y’all for reproduction if you want to get technical. Our superiority is rooted in the fact that, of the two of us, we’re the smarter and more logical. You’re the weaker and more…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:14 AM
2

I’ve never heard of nothing like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:44 AM
1

Yes. The rights men gave women. Whether you feel you deserve them or not doesn’t change the fact that we gave you them. Nobody GAVE men power. Our superiority is rooted in the fact that we are the natural leader. Always have been always will be. The way you were raised and who raised you is evident in your confusion. You do need men. I already proved it. Saying “I don’t need a man” didn’t change anything. Soon as somebody kicks in that door, you’ll be calling a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:40 AM
1

I’m not really experienced in OLD but that sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:31 AM
4

Nahh. Plenty of pretty sluts and average decent women. Often times the average girl has more time not being objectified and actually builds a personality while the pretty one is based off attention. This is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:28 PM
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That’s not really accurate. Society said that men had to take care of the bills and work hard, didn’t tell them to be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:25 PM
1

Enjoy your career in the country led by us, while you’re being protected by us, drinking water Secured by technology we created, Living in the house we built, With the economy we philosophized, Armed with the rights we gave you. The idea “you don’t need men” is a ridiculously privileged perspective that thankfully and hopefully you won’t ever have to test. My take is that we NEED EACH OTHER. But we are certainly NOT the same, Lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:53 PM
4

Yeah… the way you’re following MY words here literally mirrors your purpose on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:44 PM
1

No. That’s ridiculous. Men are your lifeline. You choose the one you think is best suited to furthering the species. Or…….you pick the one that makes you feel all fuzzy insiiiiiide. Lol same thing different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:42 PM
4

Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:39 PM
3

Yum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:21 PM
3

I think that’s a fair and useful point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:01 PM
9

Yeah. I’ll do whatever I want with y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:51 PM
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Women aren’t a right but the are certainly not a privilege. They’re closer to a reward or conquest. Something at the end of a tunnel. Makes more sense that way. What would YOU call women? Unless actually you though privilege was accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:47 PM
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I understand that but unfortunately relationships aren’t philosophy class. You can “make” you’re partner (especially women because they’re more emotional) unhappy. Sure you technically aren’t doing it, but the technical is less than useful in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:04 PM
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People who say this baffle me. Your partner being unhappy is often times your fault. It’s an indication that you aren’t doing what you should. YES A PERSON COULD HAVE CHRONIC DEPRESSION THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU Most time it has to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:41 PM
2

Definitely a high percentage but less with these younger guys. Way more sensitive. I really don’t see what the point is talking to an ex-girl. Nothing she can do for you. Most things don’t end without issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:34 PM
2

Only if he plans to be in a LTR with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:54 AM
1

Number three literally says “constantly happy and laid back.” And yes women and everyone else need positivity. But they need much more than that. I would argue men need a constantly positive woman way more than women need a constantly positive man BECAUSE they are more emotional. They want to see you sad, and mad, and full of sorrow at times. It proves to them you can feel. A guy who I look up to once told me that I’m far too stoic, and other guys have the advantage because they’ll yell or even …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:47 AM
1

It’s a handicap but not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:43 AM
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Im not. It’s the constant part that folds under pressure. Simp behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:15 PM
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Nah. Nice guys are generally simps who let women take advantage in hopes that they might get a crumb of vagina. As far as the guys that get cheated on that’s any guy. You could be alpha. Once she locks you down, she COULD go and do what she wants depending on her character, discipline, and outside stimuli. That last category is bs. Women don’t want a harmless guy. It’s unattractive. Like a mouse. You can’t be “constantly happy” and “laid back” That’ll get you cheated on faster than #2
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:21 PM
1

With women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:05 PM
0

Because most of the time it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:03 PM
1

Do you have any experience at all? Or were you just trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:47 PM
1

This is so incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:40 PM
3

Yeah 9 times out of 10 this is gonna give you the best results. Growing up I had a friend who would do this while I refused. We both did very well as far as casual situations were concerned but he had far more consistently. Swear to god one time he had 16 FUCKING girlfriends. This was back before ig or snap or anything. Basically right in the beginning days of FB so no one knew everything you were doing at all times. 16 gfs was easy sex at basically any time he wanted. With results like these I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:36 PM
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You tried to give a bunch of random things that happened in the past to establish commonality between women of the past and this ridiculous generation of females. The rate was not the same. If you ban murder/if you don’t the rate would not be the same. In the past, women had all sorts of rules, community, consequences, standards, religion you name it. Kept them from being who they are today. So did women (though I’m sure most of you rddt feminists will disagree) This all led to a lower rate of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:23 AM
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The reason I take issue with this is that women having life on easy mode when it comes to this kind of stuff is pretty new, and bad for everyone involved. This kind of post makes things seem far more balanced than the are HOWEVER, I will totally acknowledge that men don’t really understand women in general or their struggle. They don’t even understand female language. On the inverse, women don’t understand me at all. What’s worse is they don’t even care to. They just project whatever they think …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:21 AM
1

I was trying to explain what would happen but I included race.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:57 PM
2

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:03 PM
1

Didn’t mean to offend. Can we not mention race at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:14 PM
1

It might be false by and large but a section of men do chase attractive women. Personally I believe that if you date a woman who is less pretty than you are then you’re taking a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:01 AM
1

See I kinda think men SHOULD go after women who are more attractive than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:59 AM
1

False.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:53 AM
5

It’s a sad day when a decent looking girl with wife aspirations is a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:03 AM
1

How about you go after the most attractive woman that can still fit the criteria. Like grab an 8 if she can still be a good mom and wife. If not grab the 7. Don’t just go for the 4 that’s dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:14 AM
1

Depends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:09 AM
1

Of course it doesn’t. Imagine an economic system where women needed men to be providers? Then instead of running off to some guy with tattoos and a bad attitude, she’d be with you guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:32 AM
3

Yes. 100%. This is why we’re more sexual than women. Everyone used to know this until now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:19 AM
1

You can call it what you want. Male strength is why, in the beginning, men led and continue to lead till this very day. If that led to social conditioning then it did. I don’t really understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:06 AM
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Definitely more men want it. The media and propagandists have convinced women that traditional life is slavery, demonized the stay at home mom and the masculine male. Then it told them happiness lies in getting plowed after a tinder date and ghosted. The men on top just got more hedonistic while the men on the bottom got more hateful. I love the idea of a traditional life. Soon as I make enough my girl will be a stay at home mom. 1 step at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:39 PM
1

Right I mean we can agree to disagree about the kid situation. I think you’ve been a great sport btw. I know my views can feel like an attack at times, but you didn’t really lash out or anything which made this a unique experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:41 PM
1

I’m sure there’s plenty of things you don’t notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:39 PM
0

It’s definitely both. And they’re connected. It’s super complicated and encompasses some hard truths but we can all understand what’s going on with time and experience. Where to even begin? Let’s start with the “high” standards. We shouldn’t confuse this with good standards which makes high misleading here. I’ll explain. I 6ft tall guy with an attractive face and body you could say is a high requirement but many women would take him even if he doesn’t really have money, marriage plans, a crumb o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:38 PM
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They let traditionalism disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:08 PM
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Yes and I saw a cat with 3 legs but MOST of them have 4. Trends exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:06 PM
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Well of course. Though I still constantly get told I’m a misogynist that doesn’t know what im talking about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:25 PM
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I accept women for who they are (and I KNOW who they are). If anything I’m disgusted with how men dropped the ball within the last 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:12 PM
0

Yes, but it hurts them more than it hurts us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:09 PM
4

Lol, in rare form.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:08 PM
2

Yeah that comment would have ended the relationship for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:07 PM
1

The exact number? Probably. It’s more effective to just understand that y’all are or can be addicted to attention. I used to play this game with friends on the gram. I would see a girl who’s likes were getting high, like in the 200 range. I would say “when she gets 350+ she’s going to leave her man” Was right about this several times. Social media is important here because it showed normal men how far girls will go for attention. I look at it like what guys would do for sex. It’s a similar level…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:58 AM
2

I know there’s some out there. It was one of the things that attracted me to my current gf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:53 AM
-2

Yes sure it was an exaggeration. 93%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:51 AM
-1

Only if you don’t understand women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:45 AM
1

That’s absolutely false. Everyone knows that child court is one of the most corrupt places and it’s far easier for women to get the kids than the men. I’ve even know a woman addicted to drugs to get her kid over the father. I don’t even think people dispute this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:44 AM
0

I can believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:42 AM
2

Increased white divorced rate. They’ll be grabbing women from other races. Men going out the country for island girls or wives from other countries. We’ll probably end up with a bunch of “strong” independent women, who will inevitably blame men for their loneliness while completely ignoring how insufferable they are. It won’t be good for anyone but it’ll hurt women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:38 AM
1

It’s far more a female thing than a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:33 AM
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Yes but 99% do. Your exception just proves the rule. And it IS the rule. Women love attention. Its like heroin level addictive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:33 AM
1

I gossip at brunch with males.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:28 AM
1

Yes. Men pay for the kids taken from them by “independent” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:52 AM
1

It wasn’t supposed to be a flex. Like I said the point was that either way, whether attached to us or not, men still pay. And I don’t disagree with those stats. Makes sense whites have the lowest divorce rate and blacks have the highest. I’m well aware of the reasons for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:49 AM
1

My only point was men pay for y’all either way. And the times we don’t tend to be when your the worst for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:42 PM
1

It wasn’t about you specifically. My girl for instance is completely self sufficient financially. But if she was ever homeless she’d have a place. Got pregnant? State will pay. Divorce? Man will pay. My point was that even if you aren’t self sufficient men will still pay for you. By force. I say men because the represent the majority of the taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:37 PM
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I don’t blame women. I think they were doing what they were supposed to. I never thought they were supposed to be leading in the first place. Whether it’s something to be proud of or not is irrelevant. It’s the way of the world. See a female leader would ignore this and be conquered. More confirmation. The only reason they aren’t appendages of their husbands is because they are funded by the state aka men. Everyone lives on conquered land. You can say you hate it all you want. It’s reality. Why …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:22 PM
1

Yes and if women were more capable maybe they WOULD have participated more. They were not and they didn’t. Not until me LET them. And if society ever broke down the same thing would happen. Women got most of their rights in Rome right around the end of Rome. You say men took things that weren’t there’s. At the end of the day the victor decides what’s what. That’s why y’all weren’t leading things and men were and are. Who are you to say what belongs to who? Every piece of land was owned by someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:04 PM
1

I wasn’t making the argument that men should be held in high regard for giving your rights. I was just telling you what happened. The idea that giving you rights made men any more or less violence horrid or shitty is nonsense. Men building the world wasn’t a gift. It was just what men do. Their motivation was in no small part their women and children. I agree they kept women out of leader roles. Sometimes they made it there but it wasn’t handed to them. You know who else wasn’t handed leadership…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:39 PM
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“They stopped withholding them” Yes. As in, if they didn’t give you your rights you still wouldn’t have them. So they GAVE you your rights. I also agree all people shouldn’t have kids. Your choice. I agree men built things and kept women from power. Nothing to disagree with there. I am her leader. Men lead. Your man is your leader too. He probably just doesn’t say it. When push comes to shove it will show. You act like traditional men yell at their women to bow and call them king or something lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:59 PM
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You not looking for help from men and men not helping you is both a result of people who think like YOU. That’s the world y’all created. If men and women are basically the same then let them take care of themselves. Just confirmation that my worldview makes more sense. “The only thing I need protection from is men” Yes because men have made it so your life is nice, comfortable and safe from everything else. Don’t worry about the heat, the cold, parasites in the water, fresh water access, sewage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:25 PM
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That’s not good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:18 PM
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You should only care about what they think when y’all are committed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:41 PM
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Welcome to the wonderful world of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:40 PM
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The fact that you cant see the value in men protecting you from other men and it’s “not a flex” shows the child part. I’d be willing to bet anything that when a male attacks you and the vast majority of other women would call a man for help. Hypocrisy. Or delusion. One of those. “Women could exist without violent men” I’m not sure of the relevance. If no one was ever violent then there would be no need for protection. That doesn’t represent reality but that makes sense because it’s consistent wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:37 PM
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Sheeesh. I’m sure none of that stuff is true. Lol nah I do believe that stuff represents most women. That being said my girl is stronger than most of TRP guys I’ve met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:13 PM
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The reality is this entire disagree is a simple case of women saying “it’s not what you said, it’s HOW you said it.” Women don’t want to hear these thing so directly. They don’t like direct things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:52 AM
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This made me spit my coffee out laughing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:42 AM
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You couldn’t live without men. They built your whole world, gave you your rights and protected you from everything since the very beginning. Invented basically everything. To say the problem is men is so clueless. You say they’re fat and weak. So why don’t you just lead us then? Why don’t women lead. Where’s the ONE country led by y’all? It’s almost like without all of mens violent capabilities women can’t exist safely. “Marital rape was quite common so blah blah” Stats? Was every guy raping his…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:00 AM
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Social conditioning that came from our biology. Men being stronger than women naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:06 AM
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Yes safe from OTHER MEN. I don’t understand what you don’t get about that. I hear western girls always complaining about sexual assault or a rape culture and all of the sudden being saved from that is no big deal. I think you’re confused. Then you say men don’t deserve authority. That’s interesting. Who says you get to determine that? It kinda seems like nature already solved that battle for us too. Very obvious reasons why we’re in charge. The more I listen to y’all the more I’m glad we’re the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:15 PM
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I mean the fact that you can’t see value in male protection only makes me MORE steadfast. To women like you maybe it sounds dumb but men KNOW that you’re defenseless. We’ve just made things safe enough where you can’t see it. Until of course you’re forced to, then you call us. We can say historically, because that’s technically accurate. Another way of seeing it was from the beginning till now. That’s just in America, and everything is still male dominated. It never really stopped. Men gave wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:19 PM
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There’s crocs in Florida. Around people. Snakes in Arizona, bears in plenty of states. That’s all in the first world. You say it’s not a flex if we didn’t protect you from men. If it wasn’t for us protecting you from men you wouldn’t have any rights at all. For your sake, I hope men keep protecting you lol. It is paternalistic, which is why you husband took the place of your dad historically. Boobs and a womb are natures way of saying you’re for childcare. If you can’t understand this then I hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:43 PM
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We defend you from everything. Wild animal in your backyard or your house? Call a man. Woman tries to attack you for messing with her boyfriend? Call a man. Your bf hits you? Call a man. Robber? Man, you hurt yourself? Man. Stop it lol. You don’t know what women would be happy doing, half the time y’all don’t even know what you wanna eat. You don’t know what men to pick. I don’t believe you know what’s good for you. Im not in childcare but I know women are made for it. They are far more patient …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:09 PM
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I think it is by default. Maybe it’s nurtured but the ingredients for it were there naturally. I think people are far happier in their gender roles. Men for the most part never really left them. We pay for things more and we defend y’all with our lives. It’s y’all that would be pushed into your natural roles and you’d most likely be happy there. I’m always hear girls complain about their jobs and the pressures out there. They handle kids and the home better. More suited to the work. Same with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:31 PM
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I disagree. I think you’re naturally suited for empathy like other women. Makes you better mothers which is basically your purpose There’s a lot of reasons why women were given rights and sure some of them wanted them, among other things. More competition in the workforce causing companies to pay employees much less. This is why my gpop was able to take care of 7 kids and own a house and a car and property in Puerto Rico while having a factory job. Can’t do that today for many reasons including …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:14 PM
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Lol I never said they were more faithful. Given freedom women are incredibly unfaithful. They’re also physically weaker which allows men to control them. It’s like a check and balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:03 PM
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I’ve listened to many women. I grew up living with them, and I sleep next to one every night. I have for the last 10 years. Many close female friends. They are more empathetic. Maybe YOU aren’t. Exceptions prove rules. You say it’s a disservice. To who? Society ? Or women? Also it did and still does work. Men gave you your rights. Y’all didn’t take them. In many countries men still haven’t given you them. I’ll bet marriage rates are higher and kids have more stability with less rights. You telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:51 PM
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That’s false.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:01 PM
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Situation 2 for sure. Better for the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:07 PM
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I believe the proper way is a woman staying home and handling things there with a guy going to work HOWEVER, this is not always possible. We don’t live in the 50s before a number of things ruined our economy. If both people work it’s only right that both do things in the house as well. And that’s not some equality nonsense this is masculine. I couldn’t have my girl working and also doing EVERYTHING else that’s the opposite of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:14 AM
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Yes very different which is why it makes sense that we have different roles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:08 AM
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Yes learned, but I believe that women are biologically more suited to empathy by the same things that make them more sensitive. No one is saying they aren’t intelligent. And I think they would be better if in large part they were at home. I don’t see the disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:07 AM
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I agree. But it does mean that their violent had to be curbed because of their biology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:04 AM
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It means that women had to ADAPT to be more gentle because the alternative was futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:03 AM
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Yes, so their violence is naturally curbed by their weakness…which is also natural. As a matter of fact the violence in lesbian relationships just furthers my argument. Can’t be violent like that with men. Gotta comply
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:30 AM
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And because they are gentle and empathetic naturally. Obviously that’s their domain considering they aren’t nearly as strong as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:23 AM
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Our brains are absolutely not the same. We don’t think the same. We don’t act the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:22 AM
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Nah. I don’t believe it’s just socialized. Or at least if it is, the social came from the biological. Like women being at home with kids. They get pregnant, they have boobs, they’re more emotional, they’re more gentle etc. all biological things that lend to the gender role of a traditional wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:59 AM
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They’re great, just not for ltrs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:54 AM
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I’m not too sure about what you mean by building a belief around these theories but I definitely believe in tradition gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:48 AM
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Women act like they care about safety but then meet up and fuck a tinder date on the first night. Their safety only matters to them sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:43 AM
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Clean break
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:26 PM
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The whole thing is a little confusing. I don’t treat women or men like people. I treat men like men and women like women. We aren’t the same. What is this idea that we should treat both like “people” Treating men and women the same will land you in the HR office, fired, canceled, and all other kinds of ridiculousness. As far as objectifying women? I’ll only do that if she’s objectifying herself. I refuse to respect someone more than they respect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:18 PM
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This is mostly nonsense. I agree that on average women don’t want sex as often as men. There’s a disparity people argue here but I agree men want it more, however this has very little to do if not nothing at all to do with why women reject men. Furthermore all the advice given is nonsense. “No amount of self improvement will change outcomes” what? Just no idea what you’re talking about. Plenty of men and women would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:05 PM
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Where are all these women that don’t like sex? As far as them weaponizing it that has always been a thing. It’s their leverage. Imagine if they couldn’t leverage that? They would have 0 power. I think this system makes sense. Also it was never an equal value exchange that’s nonsense. If she let you in there then she did you a solid. If you take her out and treat her nice then y’all piv it’s an equal exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:33 AM
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Yes. 100% would be the best decision you ever made, and it would make not only him happier but also YOU. Better be with a traditional man though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:09 AM
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This is a bunch of nonsense with a little truth in. I’ll just point out the truth. “The issues men have in dating come from lack of knowledge about male and female interactions” Also finding things that fulfill you staying busy and all that shit you already know. “Learning specific ways to approach women and exactly what to say” lol sounds like PUA. Anyway yeah mostly bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:34 PM
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Somehow that feels worse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:41 PM
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I totally agree. Men have made things safe enough where they almost seem unnecessary. That’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:22 PM
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I totally agree. The men aren’t really men anymore for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:01 PM
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When someone kicks the door in at night, cougar on a hike? Incident at the park that includes a angry male, literally any danger at all, MY life is on the line. Because of this, you WILL be more pretty than me. Always had it this way and I always will lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:00 PM
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Yeah cause why the hell would you get a girl who isn’t prettier than you are? Getting a girl of equal attractiveness isn’t an equal exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:55 PM
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Yeah. I said freedom AND social media. Like freedom to make irresponsible choices and an overload of attention from social media to virtually all women. Attention is like heroin to y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:42 PM
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I think like most things you need a little of both. A lot of my beliefs people would think are red pilled because of how sensitive everyone is, but if they seen me with my girl they would probably think I’m blue pilled. I just extract the realities of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:18 PM
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This isn’t true. Here’s how, If you were middle class you could NEVER experience a billionaires life. Not today, not 100 years ago. The same guys who are single and can get wives or girls right now would’ve been married in the 50s and most likely to the same women who are turning them down today. It’s just that more freedom and social media dms have inflated the egos of basic ass girls to the point where they think they are worth more than what they are. It’s like if Toyota Camry’s went up to 65…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:12 PM
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I don’t think it’s 90% socialized. I think if we all died and the world had new humans, the same exact thing would happen again. If it is mostly socialized it’s DIRECTLY connected to our genetics. I think men do the things they do cause they’re build for it. If a country started letting women do the dangerous jobs and the fighting I believe they would simply get conquered by a country who followed natural gender roles. Also as far as the parent/child situation, I look at it more like a team. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:09 PM
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Under our current climate? No way. Monogamy will keep breaking down. None of these other systems really seem to work. There’s basically no consequences for leaving which means people will leave. We’re animals at the end of the day. Need to be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:07 AM
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My girl doesn’t just not mind but also actively agrees with most of my views on women. It’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:01 AM
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By your definition yes basically ALL men are misogynists. Like 90 percent. We don’t like women who are easy (unless it’s just for sex in which case we love them). We rate women with low body counts as higher quality. We value female attractiveness over their education. We think “Independent modern women” are annoying. Wish things were more traditional. I could go on but yes your post is accurate. Guys talk about this stuff all the time. Maybe not your feminist guys but your average men yes of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:26 PM
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Women have more options to get laid. They don’t choose relationships. We do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:15 PM
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Nah. Money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:05 PM
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I love redneck bars in PA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:55 PM
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This is a dumb solution that won’t solve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:48 AM
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Lmao there’s literally nothing holding people together anymore. When you marry someone you’re literally promising to be there forever, but people don’t even have any loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:45 AM
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Oh so you’re saying that they don’t actually tell you what the problem is they just complain? Have you ever had a GIRLFRIEND? Well you better learn how to speak woman. I learned a couple years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:43 AM
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Yes. We care less. We care more about being able to defend you and provide. We still want to be desired but looking pretty isn’t our job, it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:39 AM
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Because it’s more effective. Men are so much simpler than you ladies give us credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:37 AM
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Absolutely cheating. Dishonestly. If you become an addict If you act like one of these dumb chick from deadbedrooms. I’m not gonna be in no sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:34 AM
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I disagree. There’s definitely some overlap because men and women have some similarities. There’s also quite a few differences. Most of them stem from how we’re expected to keep our traditional roles and y’all don’t. Or how we’re supposed to treat you like equals but we’re still expected to risk our lives for yours, or pay for you, or deal with your lack of self control gently, accept your weird pseudo independent behaviors etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:29 AM
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