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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | What to do about insecurity spikes? | need-advice | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 01:22 PM | |
| 6 | Girl's attracted, has boyfriend. How to keep that option open for later? | need-advice | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 09:48 PM | |
| 3 | Text troubles | need-advice | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 08:54 PM | |
| 1 | Is she interested? | need-advice | /r/seduction | 11/11/10 06:04 AM |
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| 2 | Text troublesThis situation is just making itself easier and easier to fuck up. So, I went to the bar without her, and I had a lot of fun. After I get home, I take a bath, and when I get out, I have a missed call (not a text) from her. It was kind of awkward. She gave her name and the name of the venue we met at (so and so from such and such). (Did she really think I'd forget the girl I texted 11 hours ago? Or is she messing with me? -.-;;) She said she felt bad for missing it and she didn't want to come off… | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Text troublesI am being too available. I guess I was expecting her to be more eager after meeting her. I usually don't get such strong IOIs from a girl. My wording was pretty standard. "I have a proposal for you. Are you free Sunday?" I didn't say what it was, hoping she'd ask, but instead, I got a "busy". She said she was free Saturday, which I was busy on. But I had fun plans, and I was already driving two groups of friends who didn't really know each other to a venue with tons of easy-to-mingle-with peopl… | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Is she interested?A bit late on this one, but way the fuck to assume things. It turns out she was hooking up with the guy who introduced me to her. It had nothing to do with me. | /r/seduction | 12/12/10 06:31 AM |
| 3 | What to do about insecurity spikes?Is a man cycle like a period for men? :P Another way of putting it, is that you realize "I am not my mind." I like this technique and it's helped a bunch. In my post, I hint at this, talking about how "exhausted" I was all day. I find it very powerful to keep my energy level in mind whenever I find myself making self-judgments. I can always blame it on that external condition, rather than blaming it on myself. I like your suggestion about bringing positive people closer to you. It's something I … | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:30 PM |
| 3 | What to do about insecurity spikes?and since she didn't need my approval I was a bit left out I feel you on this. One-on-one, I have no big issues with girls. But in a group (even with just one other person, guy or girl), I lock up and feel left out. A few years ago, I was a mess when it came to that stuff. Now, I am very aware of when I let my insecurities slip. (And when I do, I feel it so acutely, it burns). I know the "alpha ideal" is to be completely opaque, but that emotionally, we're all human, and shit's gonna happen. (Ev… | /r/seduction | 25/10/10 02:23 PM |
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