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I’m wtfing over the fact there’s a men’s rights and anti feminist subreddits and yet somehow FDS is considered a hate subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:47 PM
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“Helped her find a therapist” oh close man... except you probably need to go to therapy because you are obsessively jealous of her cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:57 AM
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I went “50/50” on a trip with my ex, I made him sign an agreement that he was going to pay me back his half for any expenses I had to front and he was a whiner about paying me back despite the fact that I was a uni student with no income and he had a $72k yearly salary. He’s tucking trash and I was a fucking idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:34 AM
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I watched through Outlander and the series, though brutal, reflected surviving sexual violence (and other kinds of violence and abuse) and coping with it in many ways. It is not an easy series to watch, but i feel like it is a good one to pick up and put down for a few weeks at a time. You cannot binge this series, it’s too intense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:11 AM
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There is good content on tiktok too. Just have to find the right communities. Just like Reddit is full of shitty misogynists but FDS is a shining light
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:51 AM
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I have no issue with making acquaintances, but a deep level of friendship is difficult to maintain over long periods of time. I’m struggling a little bit because a friend I have known since we were 8 years old has been spiralling more and more out of control, meanwhile I’m getting my shit together in life. She is an alcoholic, and a pick me who has gone back to the gross loser that groomed her from a teenager and abused her for years. I have been trying to support and uplift her, and keep my exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:14 PM
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Yikes... can we please stop labelling women as objects to be consumed? Especially the “sandwich” analogy is pretty offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:52 AM
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I got removed as a mod on twoxsupport and they have been sipping some haterade over there. Honestly, FDS has done more for me than some of the other “support” subreddits, because instead of complaining about the bad shit men have done to us, this offers guidelines and support. Not just to cope with the hurt that has been inflicted on us as women time and time again. It offers us a path to change the system and raise ourselves and our sisters and future daughters up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:51 AM
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Go on adventures, travel, put yourself first and get to love who you are and who you will become. You are never too late to make your dreams come true. With covid, I know you cants really travel right now, but it could be a good opportunity to save money for your long term goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:56 AM
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My ex said this to me, two weeks after I threw him a birthday party for him and got him expensive gifts I couldn’t really afford. My major wake up call that he was LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:17 AM
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At a certain point... maybe stab him sis🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:19 AM
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THE MISOGYNY IS COMING FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:37 AM
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Ugh, this used to be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:56 PM
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The “Non-starter” look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:06 PM
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Been getting discouraged with my job and apartment hunt and starting to feel like I need to settle for less. Thought I was ready to thrive but it’s beginning to look like I really just need to focus on surviving. Also was banned and muted in r/ feminism even though I don’t think I’ve ever posted there. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:32 AM
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I just got a ban from r/feminism and I’ve never even posted anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:23 AM
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THROW THE WHOLE MAN AWAY SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:10 PM
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Yesterday was my birthday too my twinster ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:50 AM
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Happy birthday!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:02 AM
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Exactly! My point being that perhaps it’s not the hill to die on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:53 PM
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I’m confused too. The cognitive dissonance coming off her is toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:34 PM
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Ugh I don’t even know anymore. She’s making it so black and white when there’s really a lot of nuance to finding men’s behaviour problematic but also acknowledging that they have trauma too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:19 PM
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the majority of perpetrators are men- even when the victim is a man. It’s not got much to do with women or sex, it’s about power and control. And I’m tired of men trying to have power or control over me. Hence why I love this subreddit for a supportive safe place to discuss how all our other, very limited spaces are being taken over by men once more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:25 AM
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I just know if I post this on my social media some snarky pick mes and LVM will say “wHaT aBoUt tHe mN tHaT gEt rped”. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:18 AM
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Oops. 🤷🏼‍♀️tbh tho she was saying pretty hateful things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:16 AM
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I fucking love the shortest necklace she wears though. I’ve been looking for something like it everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:09 AM
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I’d look up the market value of a kidney and serve him up a big ass bill+interest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:12 AM
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Thank you for reminding me of this great song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:10 AM
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I did a relationship course my last year of uni, I can send or post pics of the literature I was given
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:05 PM
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This guy is screaming NVM/LVM. Do you want to discuss the particulars or context of this? (Ie how long you were dating etc?). I’m sure you can bring up plenty more red flags he has displayed and based on the comments I have read from you, DUMP HIM. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:59 AM
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Fuck my pickme past, I’ve done this many times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:01 AM
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what a great way to know if a guy is nice this post can help us find those nice guys lurking in the community haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:32 AM
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Absolutely, it’s about the effort and time has value. Scrotes in the comments be mad tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:19 AM
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I feel like Iggy Azalea is not a pick-me, but she is divisive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:54 PM
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I think perhaps taking a self defence class might be beneficial? That way if they do something untoward you can subdue them or get to a safe place. I often put a little pull button alarm on my keychain or wallet, because if someone is touching you, not only are they violating your personal boundaries, but they also might be trying to steal something from you. The thing is also to be around people you trust, and have an exit strategy. Also, if your drink tastes off (salty=ghb), leave it behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:17 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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