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need_rp_advise/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 03:54 AM
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If they ll change, and then so will you. You dont commit to who they are when you meet them. You commit to changing together..with each other, perhaps even for each other a litttle bit
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 02:07 PM
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I mean you should firstly let your boyfriend know that you agree on his way of handling things and that you can see how your dad is frustrating. So atleast in future, your boyfriend would know that you are on his side and not going to team up with your dad. Secondly, talking to your dad is good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 05:37 PM
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Well anger cannot see reason. Best way in these situations is to try the aggressor get rid of his ego. To be honest, it's not a bad thing to apologize in this situation. Not because you did something wrong but because you need to get out of there. As they say, when you are at the gunpoint, it doesn't matter what you believe. ( heard that in a movie can't remember which)
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 02:20 PM
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TRP has over a 100,000 subscribers. I think thats a whole lot of data traffic. I dont think they will do this. TRP slowly will become mainstream. I have seen people mentioning/referencing TRP in many many places. So I am assuming there is atleasy 20% more traffic on that sub, than just the people who are subscribed. Means at the least 20000 more people are just viewing it if not subscribing. Thats just too many people. Even if it gets categorized as hate site, i think they will think twice befor…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 10:37 PM
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I am in the same situation. I am into computer science and full time jobs are stressful and too much consuming. While I want to be able to pay the bills and keep things comfortable, I know for a fact that once I am married and if my future husband is onboard with the idea, then I wouldnd mind staying home. Of course I wouldnt leave coding, and would keep contributing from home ( open source) and keep the skills fresh. You just have to look for the right kind of job. That doesnt suck the life out…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 10:13 PM
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You should be a housewife, if in the future your situation allows. But it has to be a matter of choice and not compulsion. There is a world of difference in keeping career aside, staying home and staying home because you dont have skills for a career. You are not married yet. If there is some window of time between your marriage and now, then yes, make money and have a safety net.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 08:59 PM
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This hits home, and is very true in my situation.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 11:01 PM
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Yes but those words are not meaningless. He is not just catching up with her asking her what's up. Those words mean something to him. More because he never said anything closely as emotional to me. I get it I am feeling very jealous and hurt, but is it unjustified? If women are hitting on him all the time, I can get how that is meaningless to him. But his own words cannot be meaningless right? Dont think that is some serious emotional hangover?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 10:45 PM
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I knew, I was expecting it too. But sometimes you just need to be shaken up. I am going to try coming out wiser and stronger out of this. I just don't wanna look back again. Plus I am graduating. So my circumstances will change very soon, probably making it lot more easier.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 01:52 PM
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I knew I was rebound. But I never knew for certain, at least at that time that rebound relationships are doomed from the start. Now I can see why.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 01:49 PM
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Thanks. I know I have to end this, there is nothing in it for me now
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 01:47 PM
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Thanks. I know I just wanted to write everything here and be completely sure before I end things with him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:46 AM
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That was my line of thought too. That I cannot be secondary to some other woman. Just wanted someone to echo that back to me I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:13 AM
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can you elaborate more?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:07 AM
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I feel we do understand each other. Except this aspect of his. But since we had something amazing, no matter how short, I wanna think carefully before nexting,
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:06 AM
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Since its been a month, this is new for him. He us testing waters and right now he is being reactive and not active. He is trying to understand you and know you better. He will take some time to probably judge you or even really man up and this is not because he is afraid of pissibg you off. It could be just because things are still new and he wouldn't want to dominate someone he doesn't know well. A leader should know his followers well and should set a precedence that he cares, before really l…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 03:50 PM
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You are not entirely correct here. There are guys, who are different and sometimes may not have as high sex drive depending on other factors like age/lifestyle or just general drive ( testosterone related? ). Although what you say might be a legit possibility, but I dont think you can be very certain about your theory. If he is really not sexually satisfied, IMO it will show up in his behaviour someway or the other. You yourself mentioned that you showed some anger/resentment towards your ex. Ac…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 06:37 AM
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I have had some recent instances where women around me ( my friends/roommates) have been in situations, that are extremely disgusting from an RPW point of view. Sometimes, I try explaining, other times i dont. I feel just glad, that I was never that blind.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 04:52 AM
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okay one serious question? Is she more attractive than you? Yes, then yes, your concern could be legitimate. No? then you are good, but keep your game stepped up anyway. The thing is from what I know about guys ( it can differ) esp through my SO, is that, the most precious thing he can invest in a girl is his time. If he is spending more time with her ( for no reason) then you might have something to worry about. Guys dont think about "friendships" with a girl. We women think about friendships a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 01:45 AM
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Idk, I can get when you say your body is still healing from 2 years of treatment. Its a sensitive situation.Maybe you should wait it out.. and see if you change your mind with time? Definitely let the thought sit in your mind for a couple of months, and see if you can recounsel your fears, and maybe even want more kids? In all cases, be honest with him. But in the absolute case, if we assume that this is it and you are not going to have more kids, then I guess you will have to leave it upto him.…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 01:28 AM
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She obviously doesnt get it. Never will. She is too busy in her own head. Most women outside of RPW such as her, get confused about things like being stay at home. The thing, its not expected that one uses a relationship for a meal ticket. RPW is not about that. Women are not being discouraged from pursuing careers. They are discouraged from being selfish. For women who are stay at home wives/mothers, what she says is in fact a legitimate concern. She is not wrong there. But however, she fails t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 12:13 AM
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yep thats true. Most american women will not believe my childhood. And, no I wasnt oppressed by any measure. But I have definitely seen it around me. When I was young, I wasnt allowed to stay out late after 6-7 pm. Mind you this continued till I was 19 years old. I wasnt allowed to wear a tank-top or a cami. No shorts. No short skirts. But would i say I was oppressed? No. Why? Coz my family loved me. they did all this for my safety. We had dinner together every night. My dad worked hard for us a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 01:17 AM
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In middle Eastern and Asian countries yes there is a huge issue. You know in these countries the definition of rape is still sane- a woman kidnapped and forced into sex, is what happens there and gets called out as rape. In India for example, even in major cities it's not safe to got out for girls late at night, coz they literally may get kidnapped. In wester countries however, we define rape as "I was drunk and got careless, so maybe I was raped". It actually trivializes what women in other cou…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:03 PM
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I guess probably because , TRP/RPW is touches base on a more personal level for people. They may not want to put up "agenda" based videos.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/15 03:05 AM
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Going by your comments, i will place my bet on her shit testing. I mean, logically speaking, assuming your bf knows how this girl is and she is dating his best friend, I am sure he wouldnt be stupid enough to cheat on you with her and not expect it to get blown up. I mean no one would be that stupid. Now that being said, it could be true there might be some legit attraction between her and your bf. But again, I will place my bet on the fact that she is the one trying on him. Coz if those are exa…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 05:26 AM
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You need to heal yourself. You need to heal yourself a lot. You need to give an overall better verison of yourself to him. I can understand that it probably sounds like words with no meaning to you right now. But soon, you will find meaning. Leaving him aside for a second, you probably have to undo what you have done to yourself all these years. And how you may ask? I think you need to be more in touch with your feminine side. You need to feel like a woman again, in order to behave like one. Jus…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 05:38 PM
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lol trust me, coffee is that devil in disguise for people who tend to get anxious/ and have tendency to skip meals. If you are having coffee, and not eating, is seriously the worst combination ever. Seriously, pay more attention to your diet. Coming from a coffee addict!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 03:43 AM
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lame advise i know- but I have noticed one thing with myself, that whenever i am about to lose my temper ( even in my head, if not verbally), i am usually hungry. Really, you will think its stupid, but trust me its not. Everytime, I am hungry, i tend to lose my temper more ( atleast the chances are more) . And while I am eating/having a meal, i tend to just see how retarded i was being. So i have made a note to myself, that whenever i am angry, to go have a fruit to gather my thoughts. Helped me
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 10:01 PM
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I have never been on many dates to actually try, but in my imaginary scenario, I would do this- If i like the guy and i know i would intend to see him again and if by the end I know he feels the same, I would let him pay. Then I would offer him while he pays that "Thanks for the dinner, and next one's on me :-)". This accomplishes two things, I let him know that I would want to see him again and secure another date ( this also lets me pace our interaction on my terms, something i consider import…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 01:39 PM
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As others have said, you need to stop feeling insecure, Hit the gym, work out like crazy in your free time. Once in a while, ( not everytime) you can ask him about his feedback, to keep you going, and let him know you are working towards your fitness goals. I think thats the best way. meanwhile, feel sexy, buy good clothes etc
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 09:29 PM
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I believe i can help here. Still learning RP woman concepts. However, in my honest opinion, if you as a father share a RP type of relationship with your wife or the mother of your daughter, then the product of that marriage will be a kid who will strictly learn to respect boundaries, and base her ideas of marriage and partnership on yours. My dad and my mom shared a very RP relationship, because thats how older generation's relationships are. However, besides observing my mom and dad, I learnt o…
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