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| 2 | Getting out from tricky situation with unstable wife? | need_to_gtfo | /r/askMRP | 02/01/16 03:57 AM |
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| 1 | Getting out from tricky situation with unstable wife?Thanks! If you think you can "play act" for a few months, then I think this is what you should do. I think I can do it considering what's at stake. It'd feel fantastic to go down to the garage and drive away tonight and get out of this hell but looking at the alternatives and the possible outcomes it's not economically wise. At the same time maybe it struck me that maybe I'm hamstering, rationalizing why I shouldn't confront her and call her on this bullshit. Maybe she wont be that crazy this ti… | /r/askMRP | 02/01/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Getting out from tricky situation with unstable wife?Thanks. I've researched and found some lawyers I'll call first thing Monday. Leaving quickly makes sense, even though the difference in salary back home will probably be 60k less per year. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/16 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Getting out from tricky situation with unstable wife?I think I admitted it with: I was a BB from the start big issue is beta behavior After reading TRP I see so many places where I did wrong: I didn't set boundaries, if I did I didn't follow through on any consequences. I bought her things she pointed at. Let her limit contact with my friends. I bitched and moaned to her about my job, asked her input on this and that, didn't make decisions on my own. There's more for sure, but it's clear I wasn't the Captain that I need to be. Hindsight is 20/20 -… | /r/askMRP | 02/01/16 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Getting out from tricky situation with unstable wife?As mentioned in the other comment, nothing's stopping me but she can still get me at my workplace and start with "character assassination". Thanks for the book recommendation, bought it on kindle right away. I need all the information I can get. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Getting out from tricky situation with unstable wife?Wow. Thanks for the thorough response, very sobering. Not UAE, somewhere in South-east Asia. From what I've heard from other expats, legal options here rarely works out. You grease palms, pay fees and you're not guaranteed any outcome - heavily biased towards natives versus foreigner. Concepts like restraining orders etc do not exist. I've got cash reserves so I could stay in a hotel for a couple of months until I've got things sorted out. I've also got a car so I can pack up the most valuable t… | /r/askMRP | 02/01/16 05:32 AM |
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