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May I ask which two traits she didn't have? I ask because I have tiny boobs, and have been told men want big boobs only, and that's a deal breaker.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 09:21 PM
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Jealosuy/hostility between women really makes me feel sad. It can be so destructive and hurtful for the receiving end :/
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 05:39 PM
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It seems he wants to do what you have already done, living the single life. I understand his desires and respect them, but if he had really seen a future with you, he would have stayed with you. So I hope you never romanticized that person, because he certainly didn't do that with you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 02:27 AM
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"I hope they work it out" ..haha the nerve
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:09 PM
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You dodged a bullet. Don't even hold grudges, just move on. That will be the best justice.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:05 PM
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Blue Valentine has a lot of red pill truths all over..you don't even need to be careful or pay that much attention... I remember being very young when I watched it and, knowing shit about red pill philosophy, and still recognizing some patterns of female behavior as clear as water...
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 01:21 AM
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You must be very brave and strong to have dealt with such struggles. I hope you can enjoy good health from now on. I think you're lucky to have found this subforum because being aware of things and knowing the truth enables you to seize your best opportunity while being realistic. The fact that you cook and have nurturing skills can come in handy quite a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 05:51 PM
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That's what I love and at the same time fear about this forum. There are people who tell it like it is. I'd rather learn the truth than live in a lie. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 05:47 PM
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Perhaps that's why some women go for older guys, more established career, better apartment/house, better life style. I hope I'm wrong though...it sounds a bit cold...
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:24 AM
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You're quite naive yourself. There are some manipulative people out there. Some of them milk their cunning abilities, some of them I am afraid are not even aware of how two faced they are.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:27 AM
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I am a bit confused, you mean Lisa Loeb the singer? I just read she is 49, and appears as married on google.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:13 AM
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good enough book! This book has some interesting ideas although I recommend reading everything with your red pill glasses on. There's the wet kitten analogy, and it makes a lot of sense. Seriously. You can get a better idea of the quality of the book by reading the reviews! It is written by a man, and he says it like it is...I wish I had read this kind of insights when I was 18. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 05:33 PM
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I'm a woman myself. I hate to admit this, but in my experience, although both men and women have emotions, I have fount more men are able to dominate them a bit more and make rationality and logic prevail. Not that women don't or can't do it, it's just in my experience for men it comes a bit more naturally...(please don't stone me to death for saying it, I see this forum as a politically correct free zone) On the other hand, I have seen that women are way, way better to empathize, take care and …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 05:24 PM
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If you expect people to be perfect, you're down for a never ending journey of disappointment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 03:27 AM
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It is weird to find a woman who recognizes men have it tough in some areas too...
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 03:19 AM
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I'm sorry, perhaps he is genuinely not an asshole, but he has explicitly stated he's not looking for anything serious. He said like it is...let the ones who have ears hear... If you keep hanging out with him and having sex, he is going to get all the benefits of a girlfriend, without taking on the responsibilities. And boy, is he going to milk that situation and have no motivation whatsoever to give commitment... If you want a friend with benefits, then fine, I wouldn't judge you or him. But it …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 01:20 AM
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but at least she feels bad about hot chicks not giving a fuck about betas :/
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:03 AM
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not OP, but I do think there is a certain age bracket in which it would be too depressing to find yourself single and the RPD at the same time. Although I don't know for sure what that age bracket is... u_u
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 09:55 AM
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that's so true...no matter how much feminism says we're equal. How much education women get, at the end of the day, they want to be provided for for the most part
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 12:23 AM
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Don't tell others about this kind of sites. It serves no purpose. You cannot help someone who doesn't want to be helped. You have to open your mind and leave your emotional reactions aside before reading this kind of information and accepting that alot of its tenets are indeed true.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:51 PM
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but if she's 35 and a doctor, she has the means to go to a gym, eat healthy food, dress nicely, and even get beauty treatments or slight surgery to keep her appearance as long as possible or age gracefully. There isa saying I don't remember, but it was something like: "There are no ugly women, only poor ones"
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:32 PM
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someone on the spectrum haha you made me laugh :)
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:22 PM
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thanks, I'll give it a try... better yet, I'm gonna use on one eye, to compare more effectively
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 05:48 PM
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Yeah, younger men are a bit more eager and a bit more naive..I'd better take advantage of that instead of complaining :/
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 05:19 PM
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how did you impregnate such a woman? That woman is raising your baby...poor kid
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 11:37 PM
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But if he had sex with you, then disappeared,and then the moment he shows up again you think is a miracle... I think you don't appreciate yourself that much...why should you demonstrate enthusiasm right away? why do you have to go along with what he says?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 02:31 PM
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I used to feel really sad when people thought I was way younger..because let's face it, being 18 and told you look 14 sucks big time, the same with being 25, and told you look 18. Now I'm 27 and people say 22-23 and it doesn't bother me anymore but gosh it was so painful back then :/
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 11:00 PM
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is there any way you can upload a pic so we can give advice? Sometimes we judge ourselves too hardly, perhaps the way you view yoruself is distorted...
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 08:38 PM
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I'm not a man but it has been even scientifically proven men place a lot of importance on looks...we may not like it, but it is the way it is... that's even a crosscultural phenomenon
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 02:20 PM
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oh dear... the part of your self esteem hit close to home...I never worried about creams, sunscreen, or taking care of my skin until know that I'm 27...and it sucks noticing the differences in my face...it f*cking sucks and it's taking a toll on my self esteem... I used to wake up with beautiful radiant skin without even trying...not so much anymore..Ladies, don't take your skin for granted!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 02:17 PM
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when a guy notices your looks before anything else? you mean 98% of straight guys? Men are visual and for them, physical appearance is a yes or no matter. No matter how much pain or discomfort it brings about...damn, we even judge men for job and income so let's not pretend we're angels here...
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 02:14 PM
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merci
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 02:11 PM
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I'm happy for you and all...but that's mybiggest fear,having to resort to younger men because the ones my age or slightly older are shopping for younger ladies(which is fine, they have the right to do so). But still...u.u
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 02:10 PM
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:O
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 02:03 PM
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a woman who is no longer (considered to be) young whether in looks or chronological age, but I guess it has more to do with the declining in physical beauty...
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 03:39 AM
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Men don't love women for "who they are". Don't make it sound like something altruistic although I'm not blaming you because it is such a widespread notion. Men love pretty women whose personalities are nice or at least bearable. There you go...
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 12:32 AM
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I'm not 100% sure about this, but I think once you go to live to another country, your degree will serve no purpose. Your diploma is just not valid. That's what I've heard... So if you really want a husband from a 1st world country, really think if it is worth it finishing your degree... I am from a south american country so let me tell you ...there are some working holiday programs available in my country, you apply, if you are accepted, you have one year to enter the country and work (blue col…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 05:05 AM
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you need help...like professional help
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:48 AM
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Believe me, 14 is not that high a number nowadays. You''ll be fine. However, you might want to talk to a therapist regarding the abuse so you can find inner peace :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 11:41 PM
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