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Because older people are too old to be educated. If it was about misogyny. Why then would they have no problems with divorced people getting married again? Well, they fought no-fault divorce laws tooth and nail, and in other countries widow remarriage is still illegal. If it was about misogyny. Why would they not zealously go after infidelity-cheating-women with HARSH prison time punishments, worse than abortion? They used to. And if they could get away with it, if the liberals did not hold them…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 10:32 PM
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True, but also not related to what I said.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 01:59 AM
1

Deflecting. The ideological consistency of people who call themselves feminists is not the topic of discussion. The ideological consistency of people who are part of TRP is.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 01:56 AM
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You do realize that this is more or less what happens if you post pro-feminist things here.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 01:52 AM
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I don't understand, would you rather she say she wants a modern feminist guy or an old fashioned guy? What is the third option? Doesn't someone who advocates TRP pretty much resigned to paying for the date if seeking an LTR in order remain ideologically consistent? Because TRP frequently says "don't date feminists", but the only large group of women splitting the bill (that I'm aware of) are ideologically consistent committed feminists? So if you don't date feminists and you also don't date peop…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:03 AM
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Traditionalist: "Gender roles are good and right." TRP and Feminist: "Fuck you, gender roles are horrible, nakedly amoral power exchanges" Feminist: "Yeah. Let's change them, make men and women equal". TRP: "It's all a lie, gender roles are innate, fuck you." Traditionalist: "Yeah, let's bring back gender roles" TRP: "Fuck you, you're just secretly a feminist with double standards" You can never please a defeatist philosophy, because it wants to be unhappy. TRP is just like the woman who settles…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:55 PM
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You're the dumb fuck here; she says she wants chivalry and feminism is ruining it, not that she wants feminism.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:26 PM
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"I also blame the women of this area who demand to do it all themselves...women killing men's ability..." She's explicitly speaking against feminism, though. It sounds like you guys are agreeing with her in the comments even as you call her a dumb bitch?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:29 AM
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It's not to protect Milo, it's to increase the rhetorical power of what he's saying. Sky News is run by the same people who run Fox News, and right wing media frequently seeks out the minority of black/gay/whatevers who are willing to air opinions that the majority of their group opposes. Milo's a hand picked product.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:33 AM
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Fyi women actually have better pfc function. It's one of the better studied gender differences.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 06:57 PM
1

There's neither narcissism nor BPD described in this article. She's not being emotionally erratic, she's not defending her social status or self esteem. She just knows what she wants out of life takes it, without factoring in the feelings of others. At best you might argue for low-level sociopathy coupled with extreme thrill seeking. That's a personality combination which often leads to wildly successful careers. What she's doing is the sort of thing men do more than women.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:39 AM
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The extent to which TRP and radical feminists independently converge on the same ideas is kind of weird considering the different solutions they pose.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:51 PM
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A diagram of the thought process in this post: It's hypergamy -> it's hypergamy. It's beta bux -> it's beta bux It's not hypergamy or beta bux -> it's a damned, dirty lie.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:54 AM
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Why do you use words like "values" and "integrity" and "community" on a forum which for the most part at least attempts morally neutral observation and discussion of what works to achieve one's ends? I'd be hard-pressed to point to any coherent values here. Ideas, yes, but not values.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 11:33 PM
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The nature says "love power". The nurture says "suits are power". That's exactly what I said. I'm further saying that nature says "seek comfort and loyalty",and nurture sometimes says "displays of vulnerability mean loyalty". There are trade offs between power and loyalty regardless of the medium, the fact that vulnerability means powerlessness to some level is totally besides the point. But culture determines if emotional openness is signalling more towards loyalty or more towards powerlessness…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 11:09 PM
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The worst part is, it's really hard not to fall into the trap. Because the nature of the trap is: "Hey, I'm aware of your ideology, and mine explains and transcends it." Liberal academics completely understand mainstream conservatism, and have dissected it to pieces, shown all its flaws. Mainstream conservatives, meanwhile, don't even realize how thoroughly outwitted they are. They just repeat tired aphorisms as their traditional culture slowly dies. Neo-Reactionary movements like theredpill hav…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:33 AM
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Yeah? How come women like men in suits? (They were told it is powerful, rich, symbol of success. Pure conditioning.). If showing vulnerablilty is culturally seen as a sign of emotional investment, it might not be hot, but it might be sweet, like a gift of flowers. If showing vulnerability is culturally seen as effeminacy, however, it will only be a disgusting turn off. I realize it's not red pill, but it's true.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:25 AM
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I think this forum is just overly emotional. Me personally, I was knee deep in evolutionary psychology way back when, so I knew terms like "hypergamy" and "dualistic mating strategy" as politically neutral scientific terms before theredpill was a thing. PUA was just getting started back then, but it wasn't linked to reactionary politics yet. I also was a BDSM type of guy, and obviously, you know, most submissives are women and stuff, and I thought it was just common sense that girls like muscula…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:16 AM
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Dog barking is not a dominance display, it's communicating excitement. Silence is not a submissive display. A submissive dog goes limp, rolls over, or attempts to lick your face. What the dog sensed was the fact that you were non-verbally sending it a threat, and so it went from friendly communication to mirroring your aggressive mood. Going stiff and quiet is the first warning it sent you. The second warning is growling. The third warning would have been a softened bite which just barely broke …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:53 AM
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Like come on, the reason you ended up here is because you started questioning the social status quo Some people got here from questioning pre-existing liberal beliefs. Those people still have pretty much liberal-to-libertarian beliefs in that they support gay marriage and all that jazz, but now it's slightly tempered with some more conservative and more cynical ideas about human nature and gender. Others got here because they were already conservatives, and reactionary ideas provide a more intel…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:21 AM
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Uhhh...mind explaining would you think that an ideology which espouses the merits of patriarchy-style male-led relationships would make her more tolerant of crying and weakness, rather than less? If you give a girl the message that she wins at evolution/SMV/whatever if she's with a strong man, that'll intensify any natural tendencies in that direction, not weaken them. You didn't get any kinder upon accepting the ideology, so why would she? Why don't you go ask redpillwomen what they think? They…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:03 AM
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Got that plausible deniability, eh? The real test is if you'd want to hang out if he didn't pay.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 11:55 PM
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You do know that psychologists were using terms like "hypergamy" and "dual mating strategy" in published literature way before theredpill and PUA appropriated and politicized the fuck out of them, right?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:34 PM
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Rather than leadership skills, that could easily be explained by poor visuospatial skill leading the females taking more time to count the edges, and more time to navigate blindfolded.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:51 PM
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A classic case of confirmation bias. You went in looking for one thing hoping to support Narrative A, found the exact opposite, but spun it into Narrative A anyhow.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:04 PM
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From his perspective, if he actually avails himself of that support, TRP theory says you'll lose your attraction for him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 01:31 AM
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So, the obvious follow up question: Why are you trying to get big in Hollywood? Real passion for acting, or...? Because what you've described - competing with 9s, shortage of heterosexual men, short shelf life...sounds more like a lottery ticket than a successful path.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 01:22 AM
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I think you're misusing the analogy. Let's say Jimmy freely gives the party the beers on some other pretext and then asks to join the DM (like it is with nice->sex). The DM might say "The story line is really customized to having x number of players and we can't really have another" (turns him down). If Jimmy now complains over wasted beers or attempts to retrieve his cans of beer from the party, he's a "Nice Guy" and everyone hates him. He's broken rule #1 about gifts, which is that any expecta…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:40 PM
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It's just a slightly smaller version of the same thing. Dial that slight aversion nob up and you'll get hate. Doesn't make you a bad person, but means there are bad parts in your subconscious.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:15 PM
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Means that somewhere in your brain there's a racist component, even if as a whole you aren't a racist, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:14 PM
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What if preference for taller men is biologically driven in woman, in a way largely independent of culture though? I'd rather the comparison be with weight or boob size or something. Race preferences indicate underlying racism, height preferences is just an extension of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 05:40 PM
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First off, adults are responsible for themselves, so just at face value you can't make decisions on Claire's behalf You realize that you and the 15 hamsters upvoting you read the exact same comment and interpreted it in the precisely opposite direction just because it said Karl and not Claire, right? The genders are swapped with a script. Confirmation-bias much?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 05:12 AM
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You are being a whiny complainer. If the uniform of power is a suit, wear a suit. If the uniform of power is something else, wear that.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 01:00 PM
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Back when I had exam and didn't want to study, my ex used to wrap her naked self in blankets and then say if I studied for 3 hours I could fuck her. That was fine. I think it depends on how the rest of the sex life is, whether or not this is allowed.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:40 AM
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Wow, way to put her pictures and first name up for the entire internet to see, after talking about what a double crosser she is.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:30 PM
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Patriarch: The man who heads the household who makes decisions.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:53 AM
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I'm sure he can appreciate the sentimen It's all about the sentiment. Ultimately she's still picking the dress, obviously, but now its a sexy thing because it's for him. Do you care about the flowers and chocolates on valentines day? Like the actual literal flowers and actual literal chocolates?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 11:13 PM
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To my knowledge, infidelity rates are roughly identical.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 10:13 PM
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In the beginning, women did not used to marry. No one married. No one owned property either. People might have gotten jealous or fought about fucking someone else, but no rule of law. Human nature was the same though, women liked strong men but also wanted commitment, men liked sex but also fell in love and cared. Then men with power started marrying as a way to "own" the women, so that no one else could fuck her. It was basically slavery. This was around the same time that the idea of owning an…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 10:04 PM
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Reactionary-right beliefs cluster with other reactionary-right beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 04:56 PM
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Feminism has two roots - anger at being forced into gender roles (many early feminists were dominant, butch lesbian tomboy cross-dressing types, not coincidence) and the anger of heterosexual women at the human male's dominating, violent, and coercive nature (very analogous to TRPs anger at women's hypergamous and opportunistic nature). Gender-non-conformity is part of feminism. Thats why tumblrinas have, what, 27 sexualities now. If you want to pretend that feminism and homosexuality are not in…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 04:45 PM
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The increasing legal acceptanec of homosexuality is a pretty recent positive onging thing that I'd fairly attribute to moderate, 3rd wave feminism changing the beliefs of large segments of the population.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 07:36 PM
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Are you seriously suggesting that men don't manipulate, force, or string along women for sex in "functional societies"?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:27 PM
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This should help the people who think the 1960s were the golden age shut up a bit. Traditional societies and traditional relationships aren't better, just terrible in different ways.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:57 PM
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Huh. That means everything is shit no matter what society you live in. Men and women in modern bp society care about excitement. Sexually prolific men are dark α-males, who provoke lust as a mockery of love. They pretend to be passionate but feel nothing. Men and women in traditional rp society prioritize commitment. Sexually prolific men are dark β-males, making false sweet promises in mockery of love. They pretend to be tender but feel nothing. We're all familiar with light β. Is there a light…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:45 PM
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That is a satire post which is mocking the anti-semites who claimed that Soros funded FEMEN to destabilize western society. There's no evidence that Soros has anything to do with Femen. But people will upvote anything that validates them, so ....
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:54 PM
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Why? "Alpha male" (A man with social status and power) and "evil" are unfortunately very closely related concepts. Power is amoral, the pursuit of power sometimes conflicts with morality, and it's called "dark triad" and "bad boy" for a reason. It's an unfortunate but true reality that goodness is easily mistaken for weakness and evil is mistaken for strength, and often willingness to do evil leads to strength whereas commitment to staying good leads to being left in the dust by those willing to…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:53 PM
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The guy isn't as studly as the ones she could have settled down with if she had married and committed young, and while he treats her well he's kind of boring and she doesn't ever get the thrills she remembers in her younger days. Their relationship is driven by him just happy to have a woman and her happy to finally "settle down" and get the "married" stamp, not anything approaching love. She starts losing interest in sex after the honeymoon phase ends. and she nags him constantly about things t…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:26 AM
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Defiling? I thought most gays were submissives? Haha I guess that might be a problem. Guys are not a problem, I don't mind guys at all but I've gotta play the dominant role or it's a no go. I thought service tops were a thing?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:05 PM
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My reputation / pretty busy / not often alone for several hours at a stretch / i don't really know how and I'm also skeptical that it actually works. It would have to pay fairly well to compete with other jobs I could do / fun i could be having and I'm sure there's tons of actually gay guys who do it free. If i got some hard info on what to do and exactly how much money i'd get on average for doing it it's def. something i'd consider. It would have to be decent money for the time spent though, I…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 09:40 PM
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I don't think the "feminine" part is that she wants to feel like a rockstar. I wouldn't mind making tons of money and feeling like a rockstar either. I think we all would like that. I think the "feminine" part is that she feels bad about it. That she feels "degraded". I've never heard about a cam guy complaining about being degraded, not even a straight one. When men sell their sexuality, they don't seem to feel like they've lost anything but time really, but for some reason many women do. Perso…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:51 AM
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Islam is exactly what medieval Christianity was before the enlightenment came and started fixing shit. There's nothing in the bible against polygamy.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:50 AM
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Maybe, but TRP also appeals to men who have had poor experiences with women, which means...?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:45 AM
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"Bond is attractive to every girl he already knows. Gangnam is intriguing to girls in his proximity he's never met." Does that mean you should switch to Bond on when you're not in a superficial group-type social interaction? And if you're Gangnam how do you fake Bond? "Talk less, don't actively seek stimuli" is easy, but that doesn't seem like the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:28 PM
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I'm getting downvoted by people who think trp is about "ra ra smart and strong men! boo weak and irrational women! Boo left wing opinions!" rather than "men and women, rational actors who tend to want slightly different things and are faced with different incentive structures in life".
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:34 AM
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Wasn't someone over at rpw saying they wrote this article a couple months ago?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 11:57 PM
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How so? Talking about issues you care about is a way to gauge values. Who cares if the other person doesn't like it? a lot of dates these days have no sense that you are judging them as they are, you. That's precisely the right attitude to have. Unless you want a ONS, you have nothing to gain from impressing a date by acting like someone you don't even want to be, and a ton of wasted time and regret from misjudgement. And even if you are looking for a ONS, if you have tons of options (as tinder …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 11:44 PM
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Except, we've already admitted men are fucked up and are easily swayed by youth and beauty, and that hasn't invalidated anything?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 11:41 PM
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AMALT, attractive men aren't fundamentally different. If you see yourself as expendable, he will too.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 11:29 PM
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You're really walking on eggshells here. Eggshells which might not even exist.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 11:26 PM
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You got what you asked for. What else do you expect from "the psychology of women"...? Political leftism runs deep in the humanities (including the humanities branch of psychology). If you wanted a class about physiological gender differences in behavior, you should have taken neuroendocrinology.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:52 PM
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...has no one heard about the demographic transition? Fertility goes down because our environment is more r selected (this happens with tribal people when they have a lush and stable environment too) and plus we have birth control to lower it even further than the natural replacement rate. All this political mumbo jumbo has nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:49 PM
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So... I'm still not sure I understand your objection. Pao believes she's getting the same market value out of both genders, but that women are selling their labour cheaper. The rational-self-interest response to this belief would be to hire more cheap female, at said lower price, which is essentially what the policy does, yes? We both agree on this I think. So why do you think Pao is being stupid? Granted, if she's wrong about male and female labor granting equal value, this hurts her company. B…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:45 PM
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Uh...okay? General feminist hiring policy outside of the negotiation-to-fixed-price hiring model is totally unrelated to the econ discussion. So you've basically accepted that the negotiation policy in and of itself does exactly what I said it did in the beginning, and I'm the one who needs to go back to high school?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:56 AM
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Increasing the mandated wage by 10% vs market for women means you're going to be swamped with female applicants/hires - sounds very 'equality driven'. ...No it won't, and you're really thrashing wildly in an effort to confirm your opinion at this point. If the wages are as high as men can earn anywhere else, then the same men will want those jobs too (and will be competing for those jobs). If the employer truly prefers men, this wage elevation will actually lead to fewer women hires. Incidentall…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 06:51 AM
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You're mostly correct yet you've missed the key point: 1) you can simply raise the starting price by 10% and the men come back. 2) You lose money from paying women more than you can get away with, but that's something Pao is okay with. It's true you take a loss because you fail to profit from paying women less, but that's essentially altruistic (And potentially offset by good PR anyway). because you saw at least 10% more value from your male applicants. No, the premise here is that Pao sees equa…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:51 AM
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negotiation and haggling are very different things. I recommend looking them up. https://hbr.org/2014/06/negotiating-is-not-the-same-as-haggling/ I followed your recommendation, and after reading the above I still don't really see the difference from an economic standpoint. It just seems like haggling with more delicate pretense at caring about fairness so you don't alienate the other party. What do you think the difference is? her interpretation of feminism is maliciously cynical Not cynical, r…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:34 AM
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Just because you eliminate haggling doesn't mean market rates don't still apply. It's just that now taking it or leaving it is what determines market rates. It's only the difference between haggling for vegetables at a stall vs. buying them from a cash register at set price. In both scenarios, the seller has a lower limit for price and the buyer has an upper limit. In one scenario you arrive at some arbitrary point between those two values via haggling, and in the other you arrive at it via mark…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 07:57 PM
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Older guys who date younger women are relying on their advanced age to gain status and fulfill hyper-gamy. As a general rule, higher-status young men date high-status young women their own age and pair off early, whereas the later-blooming low-status men and women remain single. Later on, the low status men gain status with age, which allows them to win the hearts of higher status young women than they could ever have hoped to get in earlier years. (But note, wealth causes later pairing, which c…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 07:22 PM
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what the fuck with the milk? Is that a thing?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 06:46 PM
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the kind where you both enjoy having sex with each other, doing things (meals, money,etc) for each other, and help each other when one gets old and helpless?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 05:01 AM
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If she sees you as controlling, it's practically trivial for another guy, a non-possessive guy who represents freedom and fun, to get her to cheat on you - just saying. And no one will even feel sorry for you.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:17 PM
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I want a girlfriend that I connect with emotionally and physically The shallower you are, the less you'll emotionally connect. Simple math - assuming emotional and physical connection are uncorrelated and vary at random in the population of choices you have, the more you prioritize one variable, the less you'll prioritize the others. This is especially true if you believe in SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 08:37 AM
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straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 08:33 AM
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That makes you nice. If you'd like to be pinned down, spanked, ordered around, or tied up in bed. If you prefer your partner to be bigger, taller, older, and stronger than you. If, hypothetically, you find it sexier to fuck someone who is your boss and earns more and is smarter than you and has power over you, than you would an employee or underling. If you think a man in an expensive suit is sexy. ...then you are submissive. The more of these apply to you the more you're submissive. As you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 08:25 AM
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Buy into the idea of enthusiastic consent (as a personal practice, not as a method of assigning culpability). When someone says no, or when you can tell they're going to regret this action immediately after they do it, juuust stop - regardless of if they change their mind to yes later. Nothing good can possibly come of proceeding.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:57 PM
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The ability to get what you want from relationships assuming that you are a girl and what you want is a certain set of things that many women typically want relating to their relationships with men, including admiration and commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 06:02 PM
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Aren't you guys buying into fairy tales by expecting these girls to love you!?! No. At what point did people transition from "fairy tails aren't real" to "love isn't real"?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:58 PM
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I think "jaded" is a better adjective that "disappointed". I fully expect this shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:57 PM
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http://anthro.palomar.edu/vary/images/DNA_tree.gif Your groupings make no phylogenetic sense whatsoever? If you're attached to the number "4" the 4 races would be [African], [SE-Asian/Pacific Islander], [Aboriginals] and [Indo-European-Northeast Asian-Americas]. "Mongo" makes zero sense as a clade, and "Caucasian" doesn't even begin to appear as a racial grouping till you've decided to go at least 5 clusters in (Conservative estimate. Liberal estimate before "caucasian" becomes sensible would be…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 11:10 PM
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We need to keep our language pure Well then. This is beginning to get uncomfortably Orwellian. I suppose this was only a matter of time before TRP turned into SRS with a different ideological orientation. Already got the "link mostly-made up stories from other subreddits" down, now we just need word-banning and hyper vigilance about "concern trolls" to finish the job. Four legs good, two legs better!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:29 PM
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The reason you're repulsed by it is because you internalized RP values. I've felt that way since i was 10
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:22 PM
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What's worse than death is finding out she doesn't love you and finds you revolting, within 24 hours of putting a ring on her finger. Meh. Disagree. I'd take that over death any day. To me, blissful ignorance isn't really blissful. And now that I think about it, the reason the former situation is worse than death is because you died anyway and you also failed at making any meaningful connection. If you could live forever and got second chances forever, it wouldn't be worse than death.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:24 AM
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I asked Chris why he would want to be with a woman who wasn’t in love with him. Wouldn’t he be settling, too, by marrying someone who would be using him to have a family? Chris didn’t see it that way at all. “She’ll be settling,” Chris said cheerfully. “But not me. I get to marry the woman of my dreams. That’s not settling. That’s the fantasy.” ... By 40, if you get a cold shiver down your spine at the thought of embracing a certain guy, but you enjoy his company more than anyone else’s, is that…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 12:41 AM
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If you're alone now the "uglier" girl has no one to talk to or dance with after you borrow her friend, and good friends don't ditch.
/r/seduction29/03/15 07:22 AM
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Laura Doyle has her opinion. In my view, if your husband expressly asks you to do the finances and you don't do them, you're just avoiding work. Who "wears the pants" and which particular activities symbolize "pants" is just a matter of psychology. The traditional practice of one of my cultures is for the man to hand his woman the paycheck and she takes care of it because the home and its workings are her responsibility as a wife and his work is done. Some cultures view finance as power and cont…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 06:23 AM
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a change in the encoding of messages between the right and left hemispheres through the narrow neural passageways that essentially allowed more information to be exchanged with the same number of neuron connections. Ie, as in through the use of more information dense metaphors. That's...extremely difficult to falsify, since the brain imaging studies would see no differences. The only evidence-supported point there is that richer language makes you smarter, but there's no evidential basis for bri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 04:44 PM
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Lol no they're overrepresented because there are more females among psych 101 undergrads, who are invariably the subjects for these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 07:40 AM
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You needn't go farther than the wikipedia page, criticisms are listed. I shouldn't say that they say it's bullshit - no one's actively gone out to refute it with brain imaging because that would be silly. I guess it would be more accurate to say that the evidence fails to support it, at least insofar as it makes claims about specifics of brain function. Obviously, it's compelling (in the same way frued and jung are) but ... not science based. Especially knowing what we know now. For example, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 04:33 AM
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You probably still can lol. It's a very... fun? ... thing to believe and most people don't check facts. But really, the evidence for it is zilch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 07:25 AM
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Brain imaging and most forms of evidence based research say bicameralism is total bullshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/15 06:58 AM
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have to strongly disagree with you here. I don't think you can logically say any relationship or emotional state is entirely unconditional but feel free to try to elaborate. Love is when your preference is for the other person's preferences to be fulfilled. Practically that means you are willing to sacrifice and push for a person in the same manner you would sacrifice and push for your own goals. Unconditional love is when the only thing your love is conditional on is a person being themselves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:21 PM
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I have never heard a convincing argument for monogamy from any source. not saying there is anything wrong it if that is what two people agree with but I don't think that is the default that works best with peoples natural biological desires. Right, I see that perspective, I even follow /r/polyamory on my main. But, the non-supremacy of monogamy is a feminist view, not the TRP view. You cannot wholeheartedly buy into both theredpill and hippie-dippie free love, as they have many contradicting poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 08:55 PM
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Do you even know? 1) Yes. I've been familiar with concepts like "hypergamy" and "dualistic mating strategy" before redpill became a thing because I read science. I've been watching from the beginning. I know more about redpill than most redpillers, because I have a birds eye view of ideological flow. Why do you disagree 2) I thing egalitarian values are good. I think the left is better than the right. I think feminism is a net good. Folks at Theredpill tend not to believe those things. Manipulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:56 PM
1

Emotional commitment as strong or stronger than the average family tie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 07:18 PM
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edited previous comment, see again. Meet someone through your parents. Alternatively look for a man from a conservative culture. Lots of countries in Asia or Africa still have people with traditional values who are not religious, and immigrants from those countries sometimes retain those values (Immigrants form China, India, Nigeria, etc). Or if religion isn't actively a negative, just loosely associate with religious folk. Or, marry a young man. Young men who have not yet have had sex are going…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:52 PM
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Unless you want to play a steep numbers game, your best bet is a religious man. You ideally want a man who is himself a virgin out of personal conviction, and actively wants (rather than merely accepts) a virgin bride. Most such men are religious in the West, although you could find someone nonreligious in a more traditional culture. Either way, traditional people meet via traditional avenues like parents or church. A man who has no feelings this way or that concerning whether or not he has sex …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:38 PM
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I don't buy the party line on that, I'm pretty sure even in the 1960s nagging wife looked at the other women's husbands and compared and wished her man was better. Moreso, probably, since marriages were semi arranged and she often didn't truly choose him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:30 PM
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Probably is trolling, tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:22 PM
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You're not in love with your husband yet. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it happens. Don't panic. You rushed into the marriage, like they did in the olden days. In the olden days they didn't care about being in love so much and if sparks started flying the couple was lucky. In the wilderness as in modern life, humans went after who they were passionate about and then grew to love them, but under the olden traditional methods they skipped the animal attraction part and people were assigned husbands and wives who they…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:06 PM
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Realistically if you want to be a virgin till marriage, then you need to choose a guy who wants the same thing. You should probably find him at the same religious institution that convinced you that this is what you want. Speaking as a man, few men who have experienced sex is going to commit without having sex. Because we know, if the sex isn't good, the relationship will suck, and who wants to gamble on that?
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 05:54 PM
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Red pill posters are banned from /r/relationships because people from keep making up ridiculous and obviously fake redpill-affirming stories and posting them there from throwaway accounts, then the story gets cross-posted on TRP, and the cycle repeats, while the troll gets off on the sensationalism. The mods can see the account is the same through This has happened so many times now, how do you guys not realize these stories are fake? I guess it's just impossible to overestimate the sheer extent…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:36 PM
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We get this shit from you ladies all the time. Tomorrow, go and ask your girlfriends if they want a stubborn tough guy who bosses them around, and what do you think they will say? Or, ask them if they want someone ripped, they all say no. Or, ask them if they'd like someone devoted to them or someone surrounded by other women. They'll say no. They say they want someone nice, kind, nurturing, and devoted only to them. (And they do, don't they? Wouldn't you break up with a guy who wasn't any of th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 06:44 AM
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it could also just be that he moved in and now the electric distance is gone and you're getting sick of each other.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 02:54 AM
1

Maybe this large scale rejection of "alpha" has to do with the way alphas are being represented on the red pill. Here's my diagnosis: There's alpha-beta: a bro-science codification of previous, valid scientific findings about long term provider vs. short term fling mating strategies in women. The underlying science, most of which predates TRP, is good. Then there's alpha-beta the bro-science codification of the wolf pack, through the lens of weak loser idiots and sexy dominant winners. (Which is…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 11:26 PM
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You'll never find yourself in a situation where a girl is giving you gifts and cooking you meals, but NOT having sex with you. Nitpick - this isn't true, and if it's true for you, you're suffering from some degree of social isolation: every one of my inner circle (male and female) has either cooked me a meal or bought me a present at least once, and I for them as well. Which brings up an interesting point - There's an acquaintance -> friend -> InnerCircle scale which works very much the same way…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:32 AM
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If they were uncomfortable with it, the book wouldn't be popular.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 01:29 AM
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Questions, since you're the sigma expert: 1) I thought Alpha was hunky bad boy and Beta was adorable good boy. That made sense to me. Edward and Jacob, Gale and Peeta, we see it all the time in female psychology. What makes "Sigma" different from "introverted Alpha"? 2) Is this is a coherent typology? As in, do people really cluster into these categories? For example, I'm attractive, tall, extroverted, thrive when surrounded by other people, and generally the loud center of attention in parties …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 12:25 AM
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not really. psychology, biology, medicine and chemistry are now at gender parity (or even female skewed for psych). It's only the math-heavy subjects that remain stubbornly male.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 07:00 PM
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Isn't this (and this entire post in general) just a repackaged "scumbag pretends to be sweet in front of girl" conventional trope that you see in movies? This is kind of bending over backwards to put TRP into everything...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:18 AM
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I think you're just making a pretty rationalization to make your gender look better. "Plates" is almost entirely fueled by the same ego-driven motives as "orbiters". Otherwise people would just buy prostitution services. Men like sex not just because it's sex but also because it means the selective gender has chosen them. Women like sex physically too, but it means nothing special if a guy is willing to have sex with you because there is no shortage of guys who are not only willing to screw anyt…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:00 AM
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If you are the girl he is spending Valentine's day with it's very unlikely you are just being plated. Not really. Most men don't have women in rotation that they simply pick one for v day.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 10:03 PM
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I am not a greedy woman but coming from a "high bourgeoisie" family, the man I'll marry has to equate my net worth or at least showing promise Eeewww that is disgusting. ^ That is how I and almost all men viscerally feel about that sentiment of yours, so if you can't change that about yourself keep it well hidden and plausibly deniable. It doesn't matter if you're a virgin, in a man's eyes you are a prostitution if your love has anything to do with money. People on TRP understands hypergamy, but…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 09:57 PM
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I have the opposite problem. I'm the guy who doesn't care, and rides high on life, and I'm charismatic. I either suck at life, or am at the top of the world. See, when I'm having fun, I'm at that top 1%, doing better than everyone. But when it comes to boring, practical shit I become a total loser. I don't think this is the same dimension as alpha/beta. not care about what others think of you and yet be able to connect with people emotionally This one is easy. You have to truly care about the ot…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 07:32 PM
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1 guy fucked 8 different girls in a year and a half... all within the same high school. The highest number I could find for women was 5 There's a 6 right there in the top right corner... can we get someone who likes counting and statistics up in here? Personally I'm not sure I'm visually seeing a difference in blue/pink behavior...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:31 PM
1

Definitely! Motivation is 95% of the battle. You get a ton of benefit from any exercise relative no exercise. A lot of people get stuck in the mode of optimizing everything and researching everything but never actually getting to it. But once you've established the habit of going to the gym, a little knowledge can go a long way.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 04:29 PM
2

The director and producer and writers all thought Harry would end up with Hermione and so they made all of the movies under that assumption. I bet Rowling herself was thinking along those lines at first.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:19 PM
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I don't want to pull you into an argument, and if you think in your gut what you did was right it probably was, since there are all sorts of non-verbal signals only you can pick up on. But I think you're being hopelessly naive if you think that the treatment a woman gets from a man isn't in proportion to how he perceives her value. He was gonna commit regardless. If he perceives her as lower value he will take her for granted and not invest as much effort into keeping her around. Econ 101. Men a…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:39 PM
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the media is feeding you sensationalist bullshit because it knows you are too lazy to check the sources on the article and you folks are really eating it up right now.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:36 PM
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You framed her as someone who won't leave him because his value is higher than hers. You don't see how...?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:09 PM
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If your loyalty is to your sister not to her fiance, that was a foolish conversation.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:15 PM
1

Wow, this is cynical even by TRP standards. I'm not sure whether or not this would make me feel worse than just straight up buying sex. If your estimate of humanity has gone this low, why even bother to pretend? What you've outlined here is the equivalent of putting on an apron and cooking up a shitty McDonalds burger from scratch rather than just ordering one. (As a result, I'm actually pretty skeptical that this isn't just creative writing, that you've ever actually done this.) I'm not saying …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:22 AM
1

I do believe that conscious control plays a role here.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:18 AM
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Ignore her beauty. That means ignore the norepinephrine/serotonin rush of fear. The testosterone rush of desire is perfectly acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 07:28 PM
1

Sure, you can talk people into doing anything but in the long run I think D/s orientations tend to run fairly deep in people's psyches. It's certainly possible to dominate every other part of the relationship, but it may come at the cost of attraction. Everything is possible, of course. And two subs often can work it out by switching, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:50 PM
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if you want someone dominant, yo have to be someone someone submissive. The usual heuristics relating to gender don't apply.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 07:06 AM
1

And if she reacts positively, she's not a plate? Is that the game here?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:49 AM
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preeetttty sure it's all trolls submitting the asian posts anyway. I bet most are the same person from multiple names.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:35 PM
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how did she make that tea-cup thing in her text bubble??
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:45 AM
1

It is happening because you're jogging. Jogging is designed for weight loss, but you're already at optimal weight. Replace jogging with multiple short sprints at maximum intensity to maintain cardiovascular fitness without wasting valuable calories. With all the extra time this frees up, start pumping iron and acquire some muscle, and work on flexibility. If the body-fat doesn't return to aesthetically optimal levels, sprint a little less and eat a little more. (I'm male, but this is gender neut…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 09:56 PM
2

There's a lot of green flags I care about in theory, like working out or having shit together or being ambitious and intelligent...but in practice if I look at my actual behavior the only green flag I use is "does nice things for people even when there's nothing in it for her".
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 11:53 PM
2

Well fuck. So I have high self esteem, high sensation seeking, super-low impulse control and I'm pretty sure the latter two are just a fact of my biology. I don't really "sensation seek" in the sense of bars or drinking - that was fun maybe the first 10 times and then it got boring. But I do more novelty seeking - weird things that most people would be scared to do, like throwing flaming objects or running around in the 3rd world or talking to random people. Monogamy does feels constraining but …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 11:33 PM
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There was no real way to start a conversation and I viewed them as children. It's not because they're younger. If you were socially outgoing when you were younger you'd see: they are children, and they'll be children forever. That feeling never goes away. (Not even women - just the majority of people. But it's more noticeable with women because you don't look for love from men.) When I was a little less cynical I used to feel guilty about sexual relationships with people my own age because, well…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:06 AM
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That's pretty true here too though. You can say something sensible and get upvotes and be called insightful, but if you frame the same things as pro-feminism everyone will criticize it. General theory of human behavior - if you want to say something controversial, don't trigger the "politics" lobe.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:57 AM
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I'm not entirely sure. I was in it once, but then we all grew up and moved out and I've been searching for it again ever since. My friends feel the same way, they all say it hasn't really been the same with their new friends 1) The empty apartment makes weeds, that's the biggest one. Everyone coming home to that silence, creates an environment where everyone is insecure of loneliness but no one wants to admit it, so everyone tries really hard to be the cool one. In my trees environment, everyone…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 06:32 PM
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I can count on my female friends in a pinch. I often hear "help you move out of a house" as an acid test. Mine have put in hours lugging big heavy carts all across campus for me. TRP is just flat out wrong about this one. The main difference between male and female friendships is that female ones have more social emotions and gossiping and fewer video games and intellectual conversations - and if you can't navigate emotions you can't really be friends with women. On the other hand, our friendshi…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 02:45 AM
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Fights are either 1) near-random dice rolls, if they are serious fights where you're actually trying to harm each other or 2) a matter of aggression, posturing, and shoving in which both parties are doing a dominance display but it's implicitly understood that no one really wants to hurt each other 3) a cringe-inducing situation where the weaker person realizes they can't win and just kind of folds and cowers. If you're a reasonably good person, the only "confidence boosting" type of fight is a …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 08:48 AM
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What do you mean men are shamed for wearing make-up? Jack sparrow? Khal drogo? Hell, even mystery? Men's make-up is classic peacocking...so long as it doesn't take on a feminine quality it's not shamed.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:07 AM
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No, I'm saying that she almost certainly told him directly and in no uncertain terms off-camera and he almost certainly still didn't listen.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 03:44 PM
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I bet she did tell him. He just didn't listen. It's pretty clear this best friend of his has already turned him down multiple times before. She's totally un-surprised and says "you know what my answer is" in a we've been over this before tone, and at the end he's still like "I will love you forever <3". If he doesn't listen to the girl he likes telling him she does not like him, why would he listen to his mom? If the kid doesn't listen to wisdom, then she's gotta let him make the mistake and fin…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 06:19 AM
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Lifting is no longer helpful once you cross 35. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-myths-of-profile-pictures/ Keep lifting if you want to stay healthy and happy, though.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:44 AM
0

They all assume I'm under 24. And then I tell them I'm 28/29. You know what their response is? "REALLY?!???" with a look of surprise on their face... and that's it. Everything else moves forward like it used to before they knew my age. That's because at 28-29 you're at peak smv. When I was 17 in college, I had a lot of friends and often senior or junior girls would start flirting with me. The second they found out I was a freshman I could see the interest leaving their eyes, as if a switch was f…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:33 AM
1

No, that would imply lesbians are inherently lazier, which there is no reason to believe. (the lesbian-obesity association is an empirical finding)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:45 PM
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So... how is this different from AFBB?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:27 PM
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This is actually hilariously easy to accomplish, if you happen to be the leader of a (not coincidentally, polygamist) cult like Tavon White is -after you get arrested, just tell your female cult members who already worship you to apply for positions as prison guards. It's not that he was super-seductive from a cell towards random prison guards or anything, which is what people seem to be thinking.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:14 PM
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This is India. All traditional cultures operate this way. In the old days, you could divorce a man for impotence - he could prove his innocence by demonstrating an erection in court - or a woman for infertility. I don't see what's wrong with it, although I think it would be easier just to have a no-fault divorce law to cover everything. (Just to be clear, it was the woman who was denying sex in this case, so don't go crying double standards.)
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:47 PM
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Also, Rogan says that she can fight in the men's division... but the thing is, she's probably taking sex hormones (Or maybe not...if she's not taking any hormones, after chopping off the balls she'd actually have lower T than a normal females, which would offset her frame advantage somewhat). That opens up the door to another whole world of gray areas, since we currently don't allow athletes to take hormones. (Granted, she's probably taking female hormones, so it doesn't matter in this case)
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:57 PM
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I mean, you can draw the line at penis if you want (that y chromosome still likely confers athletic advantages even if it didn't confer a penis) but there are gray areas their too. For example, some people grow pseudo-penises (basically, when the clitoris is gigantic and penis-shaped. All you need is androgen). And there is an entire population of men in the Dominican Republic born with penises so tiny that doctors mistook them for clitorises and pronounced them to be girls. The penises grow out…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:43 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_verification_in_sports it's a sports issue first and foremost. any lgbt political overtones come second.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:56 AM
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vag, boobs, anatomically normal uterus, the works. They just had a y chromosome which was missing a couple essential genes.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:53 AM
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Women's sports has always been confusing - even subtracting identity issues, biology is confusing all by itself. Several athletes assigned female at birth, who grew up socialized as women and believed themselves to be women, discovered later in life that they actually had Y chromosomes which simply never activated properly because of weird SRY genes. They spent all their lives training and competing - should they be rendered ineligible because of genetic anomaly which they were totally unaware o…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:15 PM
2

Before pontificating about the "decline", keep in mind - school by nature has always favored the conscientious, well before girls began attending.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:50 AM
2

Well, I mean, whatever you're doing worked for you, right? This wasn't intended as a condemnation. Before you came on TRP and they said mean things about you, you were genuinely happy with how things turned out, and from the sound of it she's still pretty attracted to you. She genuinely wants casual sex from me. The question is, why? Me, personally - I don't really agree with most TRP answers, but I am interested in the questions they're trying to answer - one of which being, how do people choos…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 03:39 AM
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It's pretty interesting. TRP's narrative of the normal gender dynamics are totally reversed here. He's basically acting like the stereotypical crazy entitled narcissistic bitch, and she's acting like a rational and empathetic person who puts up with his bitching for the sex - basically, playing the role TRP assigns to "beta male", up until 9:28 when she finally grows some balls and starts maintaining frame ("allowed at my house", etc). Meanwhile he rationalized at every turn and threw a tantrum …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:10 PM
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My personal suspicion is that this is actually less because of the "feminist" part and more because of the "activist" part. Activism is something socially dominant individuals like doing.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:55 AM
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theyre having multiple convos at once
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 07:51 AM
3

The body-builder's physique is closer to the "extremely prosperous hunter-gatherer" archetype than the power lifter. Even the body-builder is actually too muscular for the average woman's preferences. You'd ideally want the build seen among hollywood actors, models, etc. All these images display the ideal male form as judged by women. They are all weaker than those body builders, and they would be less attractive to women if they lifted more. (But obviously, they've all been lifting) The hunter …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:39 AM
1

Wait, what? I do not follow how your conclusion stems from that data. How does white men being more popular on dating sites or in general than black men explain less herpes? If all the women are having sex with the most popular (white) men, why are the less popular (black) men getting more herpes? How does white women being more popular on dating sites or in general than black women explain less herpes?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 05:14 PM
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Sloppy conclusion. Easier explanation: HIV infection tends to flow from the penetrating to the receptive partner. The strains are different because the boys with HIV are being receptive partners for anal sex. I doubt they're having anal sex with girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 05:09 PM
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You will never see a post about white girls dating black guys http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2010/06/20/fetishizing-black-men/ http://www.ign.com/boards/threads/dont-be-a-fetish-black-man.452479154/ ?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:15 PM
1

Is this part of a ceremony or something? It doesn't seem very practical ... even without technology it's much easier to hunt down a meal than it is to follow lions around until they finally, after who-knows how much waiting, kill something. You can push a lion pretty far before it attacks.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:48 PM
1

You know how there's this stereotype for a certain brand of "radical" "feminist" to be frigid? It's natural ... if a person thinks there's something inherently wrong with men, if a person thinks "men are pigs" or something, they won't be in the mood for sex with men. That's pretty much what's happening here, in reverse.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 10:06 PM
2

Also with gay men there's usually an underlying power struggle going on during "flirting" to determine who is more dominant and who is more submissive. I was under the impression that most gay men are subs (and that this tends to be really annoying, unless you're a dom, in which case it's awesome). Is that impression correct?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:50 PM
1

When the value of male income is reduced - you need more of it. Yes, you need more income because each individual man's dollar is worth less. As you say, "Alpha fucks, beta bucks". In the past, a moderately earning man was a very eligible bachelor regardless of his appearance. Now, you have to be comparatively more high earning to have the same effect. Why? Because a small income isn't worth anything. the value of money is worth less when you have your own money. So the comparative value of mone…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:38 PM
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It's a feminist value because women working and going to school has raised the stakes so much that all a man brings to the table is income. How? woman working reduces the value of male income. Women in days past needed to get a male provider or they were in deep shit, and divorce was a complete disaster. Now, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:45 PM
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A 'real' man is defined by his income. That's a redpill hypothesis - that male value is defined by action. It's not a feminist value...a feminist might either believe that this fact is an unfortunate reality, deny that it is true altogether, or treat it as a neutral fact which is neither good or bad... but no feminist thinks it's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:58 PM
1

No, he's touching his neck because he feels awkward about the situation. It's just body language.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:41 AM
2

I don't know about that. The loud music pumps the base so that you can feel it through your chest. The darkness allows you to dance without feeling self conscious. The small, packed space keeps bodies touching. Would you really feel less awkward dancing in a well lit space, to soft music, in a spaced out crowd with a good deal of open space all to yourself?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:03 AM
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Want to know a secret? (it's not really a secret...more like an unspoken truth) No single person can really reverse public opinion, except perhaps in a small group of 3-5 people. A society can shift through a hundred cumulative developments, but no one is actually that influential. When 5 "clueless" all believe X but signal Y in order to keep their status, the "loser" who honestly signals X (or the smart "sociopath" who knows that public opinion is actually X despite all the signals of Y) can ca…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 12:44 AM
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The first person is contrarian and speaks out when they see something they don't like. The entire social group turns against them. They're outcasts, rebels, and in the darker past, soon-to-be-dead. The second person is a spokesperson for the popular opinion. They have a large number of followers and are seen as leaders. The third person is conformist and quietly goes along with the popular opinion, but doesn't really speak up. They're seen as followers. One of these people is manipulative, self …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:35 PM
2

Okay, but what's the alternative explanation to the data, then?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:28 PM
1

That's not the point. -Look! A chart that illustrates hypergamy, the phenomenon in which women want people at the top of the pyramid.. RP knowledge! -actually, it doesn't illustrate hypergamy. Men are messaging the top of the pyramid way more than women. -Indeed. Instead it shows that women don't care about looks! RP knowledge! ...but that has nothing to do with what I was saying I AGREE that women don't care so much about mere looks, but my point that the evidence which was supposedly illustrat…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 06:06 PM
1

Yeah, with appraisals. But the actual messaging patterns (which are arguably more important) show a pattern where the men send a lot more messages to the top few women and very few to the middle and bottom; whereas women message distribution is only mildly biased towards the better options. Why did you leave out the important chart dealing with male messaging? The male messaging pattern makes the female one look positively reasonable. Charts show that women's ratings are skewed, while men's mess…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:51 AM
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Doesn't this chart actually show that men the "hypergamous" ones, in terms of attention? (As in, women's attention is mostly even spread, but the top 20% of the women get 50% of male attention?)
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:22 PM
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That's because most women won't feel affection for a man she does not respect, whereas many but not all men will feel affection for a woman even if he doesn't actually respect her as an honorable and competent person. It's called "Paternalism". Unlike most men, once the penis is "off the pedestal", so to speak, most women won't really desire it any more. They'll hold out for the "unicorn" who isn't like all the rest...or as TRP prefers to term it, "hypergamy".
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 05:33 PM
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I guess my style just fits female friendships better. I'm extroverted and prefer to be constantly surrounded by people, but I rarely make the effort to contact people. So my male friends slowly fall off the map - like you said, we have a nice time when we do see each other, but that's maybe once a month if I'm lucky and it's me making all the effort to see them. My female friends consistently visit, know what's going on in my life, and are helpful to me on a day to day basis. I don't have to go …
/r/askTRP24/05/14 08:11 PM
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I've got more female friends than male friends. My female friends put way more effort into maintaining the friendships - but by coincidence my female friends are also mostly foreign whereas my male friends are mostly American, so this is probably a case of Americans being distant people. So I can't comment on women as friends in general, but I can say that there's considerable variation here.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:50 AM
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I think guilt is used as a means for control on a vast portion of the population. Oh? For whose benefit? Who's pulling the strings? Which culture has escaped their grip? (If no one's pulling the strings, then the guilt norm exists simply because most humans are less sociopathic compared to you.)
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:56 PM
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Ah, the good old "I'm not X, but..." followed by a textbook description of X. Sociopathy is lack of responsibility for others and lack of guilt when another is hurt via your actions. Ok, just forget moral claims for a second, its derailing the point. The point is that beta men are downright exploited for their financial resources. is isomorphic to exploiting insecure women for sex If you label one "disgusting" and the other one "tuff shit", you're being hypocritical. If you label them both "tuff…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 12:28 AM
1

Honesty only helps it for the other party, not yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 12:23 AM
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It was an illustration of the point "I'm not doing this for you* == "contemptuous tone" in terms of the effects on the listener.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 12:17 AM
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... 1) How much effort you're willing to invest in a person is generally a function of how much they would invest back into you (unless you love them, in which case you don't care how much they invest back into you). So, ask yourself how hard it is, and if he would do the same for you if the situation was reversed. You say he's a prick, so I'm assuming that this is a "no". 2) You would be doing it for him. Why did you say you weren't? You would be doing a favor FOR him which creates good feeling…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 06:17 PM
2

oh? Then why all the correlations between promiscuity and low self esteem? It's the man's choice to pay for dates and do nice things for women who have "friend-zoned" him. Red-pillers say this is "exploiting them for their financial resources" but they are ignoring that it was the man's choice. /s It's a symmetrical situation. One party wants intimacy and is trying to get it through sex. The other party wants intimacy and is trying to get it by providing resources and being "nice". Both parties …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 05:50 PM
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could HAVE not could of how hard is it + can you expect reciprocity? Also what is that "not doing it for you" shit. Who else are you doing it for?
/r/askTRP14/05/14 10:04 AM
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somehow they also end up getting a lot of D from the alpha guys . men exploiting insecure women for sex
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 10:01 AM
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bad parallel. better parallel is men exploiting insecure women for sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 08:56 AM
1

I know multiple girls (including my girlfriend) who say that the only physical requirement which is absolutely, uncompromisingly important to them in a man is being taller than they are.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 07:14 AM
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Yes. A comparable dose of caffeine will give you more of ... all of the above that you mentioned... compared to the same dose of amphetamine. Either your body is unusual or, more likely, you've probably never eaten a comparable dose of caffeine. It's all about the jitters-to-focus ratio. (Also, if you're getting all those symptoms you need to either lower the dose or get off the drug)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 05:26 AM
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Ialong with lower proclivity for novelty (fewer distractions, less boredom from doing the same monotonous stuff), higher risk averseness (procrastination is a huge risk, doing stuff on time is the safe path) and possibly a few other factors are what enable women to do better in academia than men. If you know anything about ADHD symptoms, then you know that this is just a long-winded way of saying that women are less predisposed to ADHD... (and you'd be right - women do tend to have more dopamine…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:29 AM
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I assure you, the stimulant drugs prescribed for ADHD do not make you docile. They make you awake, focused, and disciplined. Think like coffee, but with less jitters. You're probably thinking of antipsychotics. That's what they give to schizophrenics. Not the same thing - in fact, antipsychotics do precisely the opposite of what stimulants do. (As for the high numbers, it is symptomatic of a society which requires more discipline and focus to survive tha in the past. I agree this is bad and need…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:25 AM
1

My girlfriend fits traits 10,954321, while I fit traits 7621. The contrast in our respective number of traits is interesting. I wonder if these traits are (allegedly) unattractive to women because they're feminine traits? Would these same traits be attractive to men?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:05 PM
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Hitler thinks the sky is blue. I think the sky is blue. Therefore I agree with Hitler. No, but wait, Hitler said a lot of other things that were totally ridiculous and immoral. So it is with TRP - lots of people on here saying things like "women have no honor", "sluts are inherently bad", "it's not immoral if it works". The basic ideas - that dominance is attractive in men, women like "bad boys", women have biological clocks, ... that's just common sense stuff that everyone knows, it's cliche.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:34 PM
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do women realize that we men don't posses psychic powers? Well, yes, on an intellectual level I'm sure they do realize that. On an emotional level I think we all forget that other people aren't mind readers sometimes. how was i supposed to know those 2 chicks wanted me to fuck them? You weren't. You were supposed to "ask", and get either accepted or rejected. The smile, dancing, and phone number are all hints that the answer would be "yes", but there is no way to know for sure. are women too shy…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 11:16 AM
1

Where do you get "fear" from in the article?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:06 AM
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So...what does this mean for RP theory? As per the ideas circulated on this sub, isn't he doing everything that's supposed to make him "alpha" and attractive? (Focusing on himself, de-prioritizing her, lots of contact with hot women, a touch of narcissism which is supposedly "dark triad"...) He's effectively a hot commodity, so as per RP theory she might be all over him, or maybe insecure and afraid of losing him...but it seems like instead she's mostly just feeling contempt and resentment. Mayb…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:56 AM
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I tried to generalize my "test" but maybe I need to be more specific. -Using high density and precision in my language, can she respond with equal precision and semantic density? Does she get it the first time, or do I need to phrase it again in simpler terms? -Talk about a nontechnical theoretical idea - Does she immediately grasp the concept? Does she already have her own self-made theories about the topic? Can she consider an idea without wholly accepting or wholly rejecting it? -Talk about a…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:33 AM
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No, it's not just "interesting". A person who does a lot of cool art or has traveled the world is often "interesting" to talk to but not necessarily intelligent. "Interesting" in general is always pleasant, but you need, specifically, to be intellectually high-functioning to be interesting in the particular way that I would find really attractive for a long term relationship. It's not possible to be interesting in that way, if you don't have the raw brainpower. [masculine stuff that ruins her va…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 04:45 AM
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Uh... "Wow she's hot!" No! You're just using "hot" as a blanket statement for facial symmetry, a low waist to hip ratio, and ample breasts and buttocks. Someone else might think something else is "hot". "Okay, sure, but most people would agree she's hot". "Wow, she's smart". No! You're just using "smart" as a blanket statement for an interest in theoretical topics, precise command of language, and an understanding of logic! Someone else might find something else interesting. "Okay, sure, but mos…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:56 AM
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How are you going to measure that abstract concept? Easily. When you say something, if the other person responds with... ...a blank stare and complete disinterest = less intelligent ...comprehension, but no interesting reply = intermediate ...an interesting reply and enthusiasm = more intelligent Scale it by the complexity of whatever it is you said. Your ability to measure is, of course, limited by your own intelligence. You generally can't tell if someone is smarter than you, but you can easil…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:34 AM
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shrug if you say so. employment stats don't support your claim, but maybe it's true for people you know. my mom works 7-5 and does housework. my girlfriend admittedly hates housework as much as i do, but she works 5-2 and even helps me in school. i sometimes have the misfortune to meet lazy people like you describe, but i try not to run in those sorts of circles. if you find people around you are all like that you should try to change your circle, lest you get dragged into their attitude.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:17 AM
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The women who do not want to make their own money and the women who do not want to be stay at home housewives are presumably not the same women, although I am sure there are at least some exceptionally lazy people who really don't want to do any labor at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:54 PM
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ah yes they are like that, but you're different and not like that, of course... Seriously. I don't want to cook or clean for anyone. I want to have sex. Women aren't so different i am sure.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:09 AM
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Seems terribly straightforward to me ... Cooking and cleaning is unpleasant labor that everyone tells you to do. Sex is fun and everyone tells you not to do it. Doing what others tell you = oppression. Doing what you want to do = liberation.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:13 AM
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Idk about that. Have you ever been in a situation where you could have had sex with a woman, just by throwing out little hints of being interested in commitment even though you weren't? Do you know guys that do that sort of thing?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:52 AM
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kind of makes him look like an asshole. So? S'far as I can tell, only 30% of the population is actually "turned off" by this to the extent that they'll actually change their demeanor or actions because of it. Usually, as long as you aren't being an asshole to them, humans don't care. And on the other end of the spectrum, 20% of humans will actually see it as a sign of dominance when you're an asshole and start kissing up to you. Remember middle school? It was totally possible for a person to inc…
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:22 AM
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You are trying to have it both ways. More traditional values -> women make less money -> women need men to provide from them ---> women make an overall greater effort to please men, but wealthy men in particular -> women are "gold diggers". More modern values -> women make equal pay -> women do not need men to provide from them -> women don't try as hard to please men -> women are "entitled" and "bitchy" See the issue here?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:20 AM
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Intuitively, it seems being cast out of the tribe is much worse for a man, because of the difficulty in finding a new one. A strange woman can easily be accepted into a neighboring tribe, albeit her social status within that tribe might not be particularly high. Social status isn't so important for reproduction anyway. A strange man approaching an unfamiliar tribe would a source of competition by the other men and would be viewed as a potential physical threat by everyone. And for him, social st…
/r/AlreadyRed08/03/14 09:11 AM
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