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Probably a few different cognitive biases at play here. We quickly become disinterested in the things we have but when something threatens to take it away, loss aversion kicks in. We spend our time dreaming how the grass is greener in the next field instead of engaging in the here and now. Our biology seems completely indifferent to our happiness. I don't know what the solution is but I empathize with you OP. Your point about staying active and meeting people is definitely helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:47 PM
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I wouldn't argue against that. We can be ethical under a delusion or unfounded confidence. There's not much of a connection between those states of mind and an ethical life. I believe in the fundamental goodness of people and hence the advice to 'be a good person' naturally devolves to 'be confident' or just be. If there's one thing introspection and contemplation has taught me it's that we spend a lot of time in a make-believe world of thoughts and concepts rather than what actually is, with re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:04 PM
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This advice could be applied to many areas of life. Believing in things that aren't true seems like a terrible strategy when written on paper. The reality is that beliefs, such as religion or overconfidence in ability, have all sorts of advantages in life as social animals. The only area I can think of where it's not an advantage is in subjects such as mathematics and science, where your current knowledge must be based on a solid foundation and your critics will properly examine your claims. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:20 AM
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I think it's made it more difficult for men and better for women. Women are much more likely to expect normal and decent treatment now than they ever did in the past. That's largely due to empowerment movements such as feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:30 PM
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There's some evidence to suggest this is true but it definitely is not a slam dunk formula for happiness. We always want something else, no matter what we've got. Addressing that issue is the key to happiness IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:38 AM
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OP lays out the incel pathology in two paragraphs. This is exactly the problem with virtually every post here. Even if they had girlfriends, their neuroses would find a way to fuck it up. They aren't happy in themselves and they focus on external factors that they cannot control and throw their hands up in despair when their impossible requirements aren't met. In actual fact, almost everyone is in this situation with respect to some part of their lives. We are programmed to constantly be seeking…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:57 PM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:07 AM
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I'm happy for you brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:20 PM
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Holy projection Batman, these insights are whack. Where to begin with this tottering bridge over a gigantic pile of piffle? Most attractive women are narcissistic. It seems like the opposite is true. It has long been understood that the starting and default position of the human condition is insecurity, as ably demonstrated and exploited by Philadelphia scholars who developed the D.E.N.N.I.S system, with application to the female sex. Perhaps you could study the method and perform a replication …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:36 AM
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r/askgaybros
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:52 PM
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Excellent analysis, thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:25 AM
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Ah yes, hot incel take #647. It's women's fault I can't get any sex, now watch this doom spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:08 PM
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Because the rating system you just made up is solid science.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah, like men who find women unattractive will describe them the same way. That's how sexual attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:59 PM
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I know, I wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:54 AM
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I suppose it's a case of 'if it quacks like a duck'. Men tend to be more violent, that's an unsavoury but undeniable fact. If the situation is reversed in this case, that's noteworthy but it's hardly a platform for a fundamental review of our assumptions about who is more likely to be violent and who is likely to be a victim of violence in a relationship. This case is food for bitter young young men who can't get their dick wet and need to expend that latent energy on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:33 PM
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Presumably, given the amount of poontang Depp is hustling, he is not an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:22 PM
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The Depp-Amber saga really brings the incels out of the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:02 AM
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Getting some major incel vibes from this one. My prescription is a trip to some dirt poor destination where your privilege will really shine. Thailand springs to mind, East Africa, deepest Peru, the world is your oyster because you hold a position few people have ever held in all of human history. You have more power and opportunity at your fingertips than a medieval king, all you need to do is flex it on some yokels in an impoverished agricultural community and you will walk away with the best …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:56 PM
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The terms in which these offended men describe their plight might lead one to believe that they would whimsically send their mother/sister/grandma alone into the night on some errand without a second thought for their safety. It seems to me that their sensibilities do not extend much further than their own gene pool and selfish interests. Good luck maintaining that pool, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:22 PM
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I think it's unfair that tigers and lions have a reputation for being predatory. Whenever I see them in the zoo, they pretty chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:29 PM
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I don't understand how these women are simultaneously 'having their needs met' and their male peers are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:03 PM
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My inceldar is twitching with this one. If makeup is affording such an advantage, why aren't you getting some of that action?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:07 PM
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Women are conditioned to be attracted to strong and confident men and disclosing weakness and vulnerability runs counter to that. However, I think it's essential part of building a relationship. You don't really know someone until you've argued with them and you can't get close to someone who doesn't reveal how they feel. It's insecurity that prevents us from making this step.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:40 PM
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There are plenty of things a young man can do to improve himself. He must educate himself and have experiences. He must come to understand who he is through this process, then he can be at ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:40 PM
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0/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:42 AM
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Western society creates emasculation in young men. No wonder so few are successful. Women wanted better jobs, you got it. Men are not needed. Great. Do women think this attracts the men they desire? Women want superiority over men, not equality. Women wanted a break from childcare. The reality is that no one wants to do that job. Financially independent women scare the piss out of the many insecure men, now they have to demonstrate their unique selling point and discover they don't actually have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:43 AM
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Where is a good place to study the redpill canon?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:19 PM
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*It's an assumption based on some wobbly data.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:33 AM
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Did you sprain your ankle when you leapt to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:02 PM
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That's why I need help from you to explain this bit of incel-logic. Are you sure that actions performed by robots will be distinguishable from humans?
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 10:00 PM
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I don't understand the logic here, if a woman does it, it doesn't count? Would a robot be more acceptable to you?
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 12:18 AM
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On the other hand, a man 20-70 years old earning 45k, 5' tall accounts for a paltry 8.5% of the population If you include obese, you get almost double, at 15% How many fat bastards have you got tucked away there, America? Holy fuck. Diabeetus 🇺🇸
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 10:24 PM
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I like independent people who don't need anybody else because that's how I try to be. However, the simple fact is that we always need other people for social interaction, else mental health suffers (as can be seen ITT). Living single is perfectly sustainable but living isolated is damaging.
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 10:11 PM
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The situation sounds completely implausible to me, an edge case that very rarely happens in reality. If one doubts the heritage of a child before it's even born, the relationship is finished but you have to ask why are you hanging around in a doomed relationship in the first place? Again, you insert the man as the victim in your simplistic and monochrome interpretation of relationships. The reality is likely the reverse and most of these paternity tests confirm that the indicated male is indeed …
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 03:18 PM
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There are many ways to view what I've said. Any particular interpretation may indicate the readers own state of mind, opinions and preferences. I don't think everyone who takes a DNA test has fully formed ideas on the subject, including myself. I'm at the stage in the relationship with my daughter where it would be inconceivable that I could ever disown her, no matter who the father is. Equally, when my wife was pregnant, the thought never entered my mind for a microsecond. For me personally thi…
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 06:48 AM
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I can't think of a better way to start the relationship with your new baby than a paternity test. Will you disclose this information to them, later when they can understand the meaning and your intent, depending on the outcome? How do you imagine they will feel about this?
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 06:15 AM
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Luckily I wouldn't care for it because it's not mine I suppose that you switch off your emotions when you hear the news, like an ascetic. Doesn't matter how long you have been raising this child, devoting your love and attention to her, as soon as you find out your DNA isn't in there, that's the end of any feelings you have. Does this principle extend to your friends also? Do you hold the ones that are genetically closer to you in greater esteem? I think DNA is amazing but I have to take my hat …
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 09:43 PM
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If we follow that logic, people who adopt children are free to abandon them when they become tired of caring for 'someone elses' child. Looking after children is not about what you want. It's about doing the best thing for the child and if your best idea is to abandon them, you've failed in your duty of care. You will have set a terrible example for this child to follow and perpetuate. Nobody will think of you as principled and ethical, you're talking like you live in the medieval era.
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 05:53 PM
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Because that would be the humane thing to do. Children don't understand fidelity, all they feel is abandoned and that is very toxic. Feeling rejected and unwanted accounts for many of our problems in life, why would you deliberately inflict that?
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 10:48 AM
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Who cares if you're not the father? It's all so fucking arbitrary anyway. Just make yourself happy incels.
/r/MGTOW226/06/21 06:12 AM
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Definitely feeling an incel vibe in here.
/r/MGTOW214/06/21 09:50 PM
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I'm a real incel
/r/MGTOW206/06/21 11:27 AM
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I was on my own for a few months over lockdown and I didn't obtain serenity, more like cabin fever.
/r/MGTOW229/05/21 01:33 AM
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When I think of someone going their own way, the very last thing I think of is that person fretting about what happened in the past or what might happen in the future. This shit is food for incels and depression. The universe was not designed for us, we get it, now tell us about the guy that got hit by lightning.
/r/MGTOW225/05/21 06:03 AM
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How is this mgtow? We men mostly go our own way, apart from the times when we fret about women we've never met and never will.
/r/MGTOW224/05/21 07:58 PM
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Did they ask you to clean the splurge off those shirts?
/r/MGTOW221/05/21 10:51 AM
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Run for the hills, brother
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 05:57 AM
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With a stick, until the swelling subsides.
/r/MGTOW219/05/21 10:09 PM
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I have spent most of my time so far arranging my life (I'm 46) such that I don't depend on other people. Until recently, I thought that was possible to do and I very rarely asked people for help. I maintained that I didn't need people or care what they thought. Lately, for various reasons, it has become impossible to maintain this artificial independence and I have been compelled to examine my reasons. I have been reading about the psychology of Adler and it's been helpful. His ideas are simple …
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 09:02 PM
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If you exchange 'caring' for 'reading people's motives', I would agree with that statement and yes that is a completely different proposition. When I'm depressed, I tend to make negative readings of people's motives and actions. I become cynical and interpret events in a base and calculating way. When I'm happy, I see the goodness in people and the glass is half full. Meanwhile, reality trundles on, blissfully unaware and unaffected by my interpretation.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 08:02 PM
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There is no consequence of not caring what other people think. That's good news because we have no control over what people think, either. Imagine a life where one is compelled to continually strive for the appreciation and respect of a disinterested audience. That sounds like hell to me.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 04:08 PM
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I can relate. I've never been angry with women in general but I've had my fair share of irrational obsessions and beliefs, which I only realised in retrospect, many years later. I don't know what the antidote is for that. I thought about it a great deal and eventually persuaded myself that some things I was told as a child were factually incorrect or that my suspicions were a result of some cognitive bias or other.
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 09:47 PM
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When you think of someone acting independently, do you imagine that they care what other people think about them? The name of this subreddit is confusing because the content seems to be almost exclusively centred on well defined topics, the opposite of the stated aim. Men with self esteem problems, would be more appropriate.
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 09:21 PM
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Men obsessing their own way.
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 06:03 PM
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Oh, I thought you were joking! Dayum, son. I don't know the answer to that question, is it the same reason that we don't have any female bricklayers or male kindergarten teachers? Something, something, DNA, evolution, natural selection, 911 Bin Laden.
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 07:17 PM
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Holy p-p-p-projection, Batman. Your mental gymnastics is off the scale.
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 09:23 AM
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They should rename this sub 'Men falling victim to confirmation bias'. For men 'going your own way' you sure do spend a lot of time looking backwards.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 09:02 AM
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Peak incel. Strap in boys, we going maximum autistic.
/r/MGTOW220/03/21 12:25 AM
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Which mgtow is sending their mother, sister or daughter into the night alone? We know that women are more vulnerable and more likely to get preyed upon. It's not even up for debate.
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 08:49 PM
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Don't waste your time hating people and trying to take the high ground, it's not worth it. You cannot control what other people do, better to limit your efforts to improving your own game and moving on.
/r/MGTOW227/01/21 12:26 PM
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Living his best autistic life.
/r/MGTOW227/01/21 10:19 AM
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Don't go to Discord, they're not genuine mysoginists!
/r/MGTOW209/03/20 08:58 AM
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Yeah, I was in a debate about women's rights under the alias 100%Bundy and they got really mad with me, I just can't understand it.
/r/MGTOW209/03/20 07:42 AM
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Because when people get emotional their reasoning becomes heavily degraded. Making a decision when you're in a highly emotional state is probably not the best time. It's the same with any situation where your cognition is altered, such as with drugs. You wouldn't deliberately choose that time to make a decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 06:48 PM
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Now block Facebook and you're all set.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:16 PM
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So I was on the date the other night in Santa Monica. Yes, you'll say that was my first mistake. First mistake was starting a sentence with 'so'. ​
/r/MGTOW12/03/19 09:28 PM
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