neiti Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	[update] Age gap and sex talk, red flags?	FIELD REPORT	neiti	/r/RedPillWives	04/07/16 04:50 PM
8	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen)	ADVICE	neiti	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 09:03 PM
7	BF's 30th birthday dinner idea problems	ADVICE	neiti	/r/RedPillWives	02/07/17 01:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	BF's 30th birthday dinner idea problems Haha aw, fewer ants. Very cute idea, if I put a lot of effort into making a perfect little picnic indoors I'm sure he'd find it very endearing. And he could still have his picnic. And I could still serve homemade food while it's still hot and present a pretty, whole cake. I'm alright in the kitchen, I'm just nervous because he deserves a top notch dinner. Thankfully I still have some time to test things out, yes! Thank you for helping! :)	/r/RedPillWives	02/07/17 03:36 PM
3	BF's 30th birthday dinner idea problems This sounds delicious! And anything slow cooked in the oven is surely great for rainy days. Thanks! :)	/r/RedPillWives	02/07/17 03:30 PM
3	[update] Age gap and sex talk, red flags? It's scary how blind you can get. Luckily we can learn and become better women. Thanks!	/r/RedPillWives	05/07/16 01:33 PM
5	[update] Age gap and sex talk, red flags? Men who are interested in you for some alternative lifestyle aren't looking for a wife and mother of their children This was so important to understand. No matter who I would've met in that community they all would've been interested in me for that lifestyle or interest rather than my true self. You're right, they're not in the scene to meet wives. Thank you too!	/r/RedPillWives	05/07/16 01:31 PM
3	[update] Age gap and sex talk, red flags? Thank you! I'm glad too.	/r/RedPillWives	05/07/16 01:23 PM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) I've always known what my sexuality is like, this is something that has been a part of me since I was really young. It's not something I've learned from porn. No casual sex for me.	/r/RedPillWives	12/06/16 10:21 PM
3	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) Alright. I do feel like things are going backwards and I told him that yesterday. Maybe I wouldn't feel like this if he went out of his way to make me feel safe and cared for and was really interested in me as a whole, but something clearly isn't right here and the sexual side is present way too much. There's no fixing that. I can't wipe his mind and start over. It sucks, but what can you do. I'm probably hung up on him so much because he's the first person ever I can share those secrets with an…	/r/RedPillWives	11/06/16 03:52 PM
2	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) There are certain things we would never advocate for and leading with a sexual preference to get a man is one of those things Thank you for typing it out as simply put as possible. I needed it for it to get through to my head. I am full of feefees and yes, they get in the way, but that's why I needed someone to tell me what is going on in my man situation. Of course I don't like what I'm hearing, why would I like being told I need to drop someone I like and go the harder route to find someone? I…	/r/RedPillWives	11/06/16 01:13 PM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) I came here because I know you will tell me what I don't want to hear. It's obviously not easy to hear it but some here have said unnecessary things. I want to find a good man and it's why I am trying to figure out if this relationship will work or no. Apparently it won't. I understand this and will next him if you think he's a predator of sorts and not because I shouldn't be dating men into kink. It's impossible to write out every single little detail on here. I know some things about him but n…	/r/RedPillWives	11/06/16 01:04 PM
0	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) I am thankful and I appreciate the lengthy advice posts. People have also repeatedly told me to stop being into kink and yes, it makes me defensive because it's important to me and people who don't understand these things simply don't understand what it's like. This subreddit seems to think that kinky men aren't ltr material. I don't agree with that and if it's going to ruin my life, so be it. Meeting men normally and introducing kink into a "normal" relationship is an option and yes, I will att…	/r/RedPillWives	11/06/16 10:26 AM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) He is aware of where I stand in terms of the sex and relationship stuff. I don't know what else I can say about that, but he's always known about it and he's still around. I made it clear that I have to end things if the situation we are in is all it's going to be and we won't go on dates or do "normal people" stuff and he expressed an interest in doing other things together because he's interested in me. He talked about how his life has been stressful lately with work (he's self-employed) and b…	/r/RedPillWives	11/06/16 10:00 AM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) It's unfortunate that people here are judging me for my preferences. We all are into different things sexually and you cannot tell someone else what is or isn't important to them. I might not need my kink when I'm 75 the way I do now, but I'm not going to never experience it and live for 52 years unfulfilled just because it might not matter when I'm old. Your assuptions are disrespectful. It is ignorant to say someone isn't ready for an long term relationship because of something as fairly simpl…	/r/RedPillWives	11/06/16 09:38 AM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) Thanks for all of your advice. I just talked to him on the phone for a couple hours and I told him about how I felt about things. I reminded him of the no sex without commitment thing and I talked to him about not feeling safe and the lack of dates. I struggle with the idea of just cutting contact right away. I did tell him that if this is how it's going to be I can't continue. Maybe it's okay to see where we go from here? I do understand that I have to next him if this behavior continues but I …	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/16 11:52 PM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) The 24/7 thing isn't about just sex, but about giving away power in general. It's a relationship dynamic that involves a variety of things.	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/16 07:07 AM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) Thank you for being honest, truly. You really opened my eyes. The thing is, I am more scared of being locked down and used than being just a plate. I obviously don't want to be a plate and I have successfully avoided it so far in my life, but the thought of what you described is terrifying. I don't want to end up as someone's plaything for possibly years only to be thrown away when he loses attraction. He likes my inexperience, but I know I can be naive at times and I just didn't think he could …	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/16 07:01 AM
4	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) He knows I'm not acting on the sexual dynamic without a relationship. We've discussed this on a few occasions. It is upsetting that I have to quit this thing but I guess there's no other option. I guess it's terrible that I have so many worries and I don't really feel safe and like he really cares about me. After getting you ladies' opinions I also worry about him knowing exactly how to play me because he has 15 years of experience on me. He's made me terribly confused for sure. And I guess for …	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/16 06:44 AM
5	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) Would you tell a gay man to stop being into men? We can't choose what we like. I can't just stop being into kink.	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/16 06:35 AM
-2	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) I haven't been actively looking for someone I'm compatible with in this way. He messaged me and we started talking and we clicked. But yeah, it's not good to start bonding over the sexual things first. I don't think you guys are really understanding what it's like to have a kink you crave so deeply that being in a relationship without it sounds really unsatisfying. I know I want to live with it because it's a part of me. There's no doubt.	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/16 06:33 AM
2	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) If it's how it started does it mean it's all that it's ever going to be? Sigh. I wish it didn't have to be that way.	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 11:27 PM
3	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) He explained that he's had trouble finding someone really special because of this interest we have in common. He wants to be able to incorporate it in his relationship. He's almost married someone before, but that relationship failed. I think he took some time off relationships after that, but he wants to find someone. He told me that he lies about the kids thing because people keep asking him and he's not sure if he'll get to have any, so it's just more simple to say he doesn't want kids. We've…	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 11:26 PM
3	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) We started talking on a forum dedicated to something we like. Turned out we live in the same city so we met up.	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 11:19 PM
5	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) What if the mutual sexual interest is something you really want in a relationship? :( I need it and it's highly unlikely I'll meet anyone great like how people normally meet their SO's. So frustrating.	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 11:17 PM
3	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) I'd rather not explain everything, but it's a D/s style of thing that would be a big part of our everyday lives. Sort of like a 24/7 thing where the man is in control of the woman. Our interests also include kinks I don't see the purpose of mentioning, but we've really bonded over them. You're right. I have no idea what I'm doing. I didn't mean to get interested in a 38 year old man, but this is the situation I've put myself in. Sex seems to factor in a little too much, but I find ways to justif…	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 11:14 PM
1	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) If we talk about how our day has been like and things like that and eventually the topic turns to naughtier stuff, is sex still all he wants to talk about? I'm confused also maybe because I'm not sure how men see these things. Is he bringing it up so much because we are into the same things and he's excited to meet someone truly sexually compatible for the first time, or is it because it's all he's interested in? He has said he wants a relationship but I'm unsure if it's with me. He has said he …	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 11:01 PM
4	Age gap and sex talk, red flags? (x-post from redpillwomen) Could you please tell me what's on your mind anyway? Why do you feel uneasy? Why are these things such red flags? I'm obviously concerned myself as well, but I just want to understand. Thanks for your response.	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/16 09:58 PM
5	RPW in relationship with past violence? You sound like you resent him. First you say you're grateful for how hard he works, then you say he sits on Facebook all day at his job. You say you didn't have time to suck him off in two months. That's a lie. You just didn't want to. I can't say much else about your relationship, because I am not you or him. Domestic violence sounds bad, though. I don't know if your man is a good captain. I know that you have problems you need to sort out.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/15 07:01 PM
1	Really like this guy but feel obligated to do things I don't want to Why pretend you're drinking alcohol?	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/15 06:29 PM
11	Single RPW, how do you deal with sex/engaging in physical intimacy? Do you not kiss anyone until you're with someone you're interested in? Why would you kiss someone you're not interested in?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/15 03:08 PM
2	Be the chick friend Alphas want around their women Good on you. It's nice that you're looking after your friend, but I'm confused as to who you're trying to please. Are you helping your friend or trying to please her boyfriend? Sometimes it can be good to keep your friend in check but you don't have to be rude about it. Are you sure she understood why you wanted her to "shut up"? If she didn't and doesn't think about it she won't fix her behavior. She's surrounded by people who encourage bad behavior, maybe she needs to be guided to the right di…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/15 11:34 AM
1	Feeling discouraged and restricted about hookup culture, I need advice... No it doesn't, I was just saying that getting sexual attention from men doesn't mean you're necessarily very attractive. I have no idea what you look like or how you dress yourself and therefore cannot comment on your looks, but it's good to be aware of these things.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/15 08:56 AM
3	Feeling discouraged and restricted about hookup culture, I need advice... You're blaming everything on "hookup culture". It could be just that you don't meet enough men who are interested in LTRs or you should just keep on working on yourself to become someone men want to keep. If a man doesn't see you as a potential girlfriend (=isn't attracted to you) you can work your butt off trying to be the perfect RPW around him and he still won't want to keep you around. I'd also like to say that getting sexual attention from men doesn't mean you're particularly attractive, es…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/06/15 11:25 PM
3	Share Your Cleaning Tips, Tricks, Schedules, & Techniques! Speaking of gentle products, I swear by savon de Marseille! I feel like you can use it for anything and everything, but it's fantastic for stains on fabrics. And it's natural.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/15 02:01 PM
1	RPW opinion on breast implants? I strongly dislike my breasts and would like to get some work done on them, but I don't think I will until I am in a very serious committed long term relationship. I'm pretty sure my breasts are awful, but I guess there's a chance they're not and I don't want to do anything to them before I am with someone who I hopefully spend the rest of my life with. If he supports my breast surgery ideas I'll do it, but I don't want to "ruin" my breasts for someone who hates implants/cosmetic surgery if that…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/15 10:35 AM
14	Question to the women here. What made you choose the red pill I don't think anyone "chooses" the red pill. It's built in in all of us, but some choose to hide it or fight it for a variety of reasons. Some of us find our way to places like RPW and stay to discuss life and relationships with others, learning terms and such. Embracing what is natural instead of living a life of pretense.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/06/15 11:52 AM
16	Caught my man bragging about me today :) Yeah duh, posting thirsty messages repeatedly on a subreddit for women doesn't seem to be working.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/06/15 08:45 PM
1	Red Pill Boyfriend obsessed with my fitness It's hard for me to imagine someone who doesn't exercise being so fit that gym wouldn't do them any good. Maybe because that kind of person doesn't exist. Plus working out is healthy, saying I don't need to exercise because I'm skinny is silly. OP is a) overestimating her looks b) being stubborn.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/15 12:55 PM
5	I need some help understanding something The thing with TRP is that they're correct about a lot of things. Many (!) women don't have very many redeeming qualities. Many women can't hold a proper conversation or talk about non-superficial things. Many women don't have deep thoughts or real opinions. You might, but for every you there's many of those who don't. There's a lot of generalizing in TRP, one reason possibly being they're not focused on talking about LTR worthy women and non-LTR worthy women are what was previously described to…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/15 11:15 AM
5	Stop Swearing, Complaining or Gossiping I think "stop swearing" is a good guideline. Swearing isn't a feminine, good or attractive habit which is why we should discourage it, but we are not making super strict rules here. Each RPW should know what works in their life and should act accordingly. We discourage dying your hair a crazy color and cutting it short, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it if it's what your man is into just because RPW says you shouldn't.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/15 11:39 AM
1	Submissive Wives' Guide To Marriage On TLC The preview looked like a typical American style TV show to me, acting and drama. I'd still like to watch it if it'll be available online for non-US viewers too?	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/15 09:06 PM
4	[Happy Update] Not my boyfriend's type This whole situation sounds a little tricky but good for you if everything worked out. You know him better than any of us here. Just please don't be naive if something similar happens again.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/15 10:23 PM
9	[Happy Update] Not my boyfriend's type Yeah something about this relationship isn't right. Wifeintraining said he was desperate for this girl who is in bad shape, curses constantly and is into horse porn and even posts it on her Facebook? Uhhh.... He defended her and had huge oneitis? Well, all I'm going to say is I hope you keep your eyes open, OP.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/15 09:28 PM
8	[Happy Update] Not my boyfriend's type wat Maybe she thought the other girl had her girl game on point and wanted to see what it was like so she could watch and learn?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/15 09:07 PM
6	I am another former feminist, here to learn your ways. My advice to you would be make sure you read the sidebar carefully and spend time lurking here to really understand what RPW is. I understand that you're new, but it feels like you have a very simplified idea of RP/RPW although your aspirations are definitely "red pill womanly". Welcome and congratulations on finding a lifestyle that will significantly improve your life and relationship. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/15 09:25 PM
10	Regarding "Man here...." I am glad this "male here" issue is being addressed, since it has been bothering me too. Sometimes guys will post something that contributes nothing to the conversation and it feels like they're doing it just because saying their opinion makes them feel important and maybe they want attention for being men in a girl sub. Sometimes it'll be something that compliments the women here and I don't want this sub to be filled with men stroking our egos. That's toxic. This thread is definitely not hosti…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/15 12:38 PM
9	Too tall to be feminine? Carry yourself well and you'll be a gorgeous feminine young lady :) It's absolutely possible to be tall and feminine. Some men will think you're too tall and some won't, spend your energy working on what you can work on instead of worrying about your height.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/15 05:10 PM
2	Dresscodes from a SO I would oblige. I don't have a problem with giving the man control and I feel like him having a say in how I look or dress is a given. Those examples you gave sound reasonable and I would happily do what pleases him.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/15 09:51 PM
2	Dresscodes from a SO I'm a little surprised of the tone of some of the messages here. Both oppression and abuse have been mentioned plus there is some women implying they don't need anyone to tell them how to dress. I would be perfectly fine with having a talk with a man about how he wants me to present myself and I wouldn't feel one bit oppressed. Wearing what he likes isn't taking away my individuality and a little talk is a long way from "I'll beat you until you can't walk if you wear lip gloss to go to the groce…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/15 08:43 AM
2	What are habits I should develop before I find my captain so I'm "prepared" for the relationship? I've come a long way - I know he would've been a good father if his life hadn't been taken over by alcoholism. I can't imagine the pain he feels for what he's done. I still need to work on something to get rid of the shame that has always been there, but I think I am reaching a point where I can say I have unconditional love for him. I don't mean to overshare, but he was actually diagnosed with cancer some time ago and I contacted him to say I love him. It was just a message, but it was a big st…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/15 10:14 PM
2	What are habits I should develop before I find my captain so I'm "prepared" for the relationship? What would you consider daddy issues? My father is an alcoholic (which is isn't all that uncommon in my culture, unfortunately) and he is barely a part of my life. I don't really remember the time when he was a father to his daughters. Obviously this has scarred me and left a hole into my heart, but I think I have forgiven him. I don't hate him or blame him for anything. No one wants to be an alcoholic and to abandon his children. I am really ashamed, though. I don't like to tell people about my…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/15 03:00 PM
10	Hey Ladies, Any Advice For A Teenage Girl? I think the best life advice anyone can give to you at this point is just stay true to your beliefs. You probably feel like you know yourself well and that you've got everything figured out, but you're going to change a lot in the next few years. You have good values, stick to them, but also remember that things aren't black and white. Don't worry about your partners past because of something you read on the internet. Worry about it if you feel in your heart that it's wrong and you can't tolerat…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/15 11:58 PM
1	Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Maybe. I feel so sorry for them if they're this dedicated of a troll.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/15 11:41 PM
23	Ghosts of Boyfriends Past If you hadn't been a redditor on RPW for 2 months, I'd be 100% convinced you're trolling. I almost wish you were trolling. Your messages are painful to read. The sweet ladies here tried, but I don't believe you can be helped.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/15 04:54 PM
10	Wish my boyfriend was more understanding about the differences between men and women (sometimes I feel like he treats me like a dude) You know what you should do, why aren't you doing it? "I'm being lazy" and "I wasn't raised to be feminine" are terrible excuses. You are more feminine than you think. The way you act and think (for now) is just probably not very feminine. You came here and vented, that's great, now it's time to change.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/15 10:33 PM
1	I'm tall and self-conscious because it makes me feel unfeminine. Can RPW weigh in on this? Do you think broad shoulders are always bad? I'm a bit insecure about mine, but sometimes I even love them because I have hips to match. Those combined with a small waist give me a very obvious hourglass figure, but I can't help feeling unfeminine at times. Especially around smaller framed guys or girls with super cute tiny shoulders.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/14 11:03 PM
6	Collected Thoughts on the Street Harassment Video. It is! And it's so terribly unfair to men that women think of them as creeps or potential abusers all the time. I've always known that, and somehow I still found a way to justify being creeped out by men who talk to me on the street. I thought it's ok to be creeped out because the men were actually creepy. No they weren't. Making judgements like that is exactly what those women obsessed with stuff like feminism do. It's great to find flaws in your behavior and thinking so you can fix them. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/14 11:44 PM
5	Collected Thoughts on the Street Harassment Video. Thank you (and homo_homini_lupus) so much for this comment. I'm a "sheltered white girl" for sure. Talking to strangers is not a part of my culture, so when men from other cultures started shouting things at me or approaching me I felt really uncomfortable. I still do. I've never been rude to them or said that it's sexism or whatever, but deep down the "cat calling" always made me a bit terrified. No one has ever hurt me after approaching me. Yet I still automatically assume men want to do me ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/14 04:58 PM
1	Winter is coming Do any of you ladies have tried and true ways to make shoes less slippery? I'm a little bit tired of fearing for my life when walking down the icy streets whenever I want to wear a prettier (impractical) pair of shoes.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/14 01:49 PM
3	"F Bombs for Feminism", or little girls dressed up as princesses encouraged to cuss. What an absolute failure of a video. “What’s more offensive? A little girl saying fck or the sexist way society treats girls and women?" I'm not sure what to think of this. You're showing me kids who have been told how to act and what to say and you expect me to be offended because they said "fck" (nice, thanks for censoring, man how offended I would've been had you not). It's not offensive, sad is what it is. These people told girls how to dress and how to act to protest against things like g…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/10/14 01:12 AM
0	Cleaning his house? Is there a reason you seem annoyed that she does this? Why exactly do you care so much about it in the first place?	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/14 04:12 PM
2	Facebook and Apple Now Pay For Women to Freeze Eggs I was watching the news with my mother yesterday when I heard about this. We were both shocked and disgusted.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/14 03:54 PM
2	Anti-feminist motivation That was terrifying to read, but at the same time I feel happy knowing it'll never happen. These people are out of their minds.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/14 01:47 PM
2	It's my birthday...I need to share! Luckily there is this nice community where you can share your excitement! You've convinced me to go buy some! I saw that you said you can't buy vinegar and baking soda in big containers. I definitely feel your pain, I can't either! (Med vänliga hälsningar, din granne :-) )	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/14 12:59 AM
2	It's my birthday...I need to share! That's so sweet of your man! Happy birthday! I'm also curious, which one of their products is your favorite?	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/14 10:41 PM
1	Getting along with other females What she has written here gives me the impression that she generally has trouble getting along with other women, which is why I said what I said. If getting along is a constant problem (and doesn't occur only in the workplace), then you should take a look in the mirror and wonder if there is anything you could do differently. I could have perhaps worded my message better. I am not saying there aren't mean-spirited people in this world, and that the woman herself is always the problem.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/14 01:24 AM
13	Getting along with other females Why don't you get along with most females? What happens when you try? Sorry for being blunt, but most of the time women who don't get along with other women need to take a look in the mirror. You can't change others, but you can change yourself and your behavior. You can't like everyone. No one likes every human ever. Sometimes you just have to deal with it and get along with people you don't like regardless. Carminegardenia gave good tips.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/14 12:13 PM
2	Thoughts on being a housewife in today's society and economical standpoint But instead of pinning wedding dresses and party plans, I've started collecting images about the marriage I want to have, not the wedding This is adorable, thanks for sharing. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/14 07:46 PM
1	Should I take a makeup class? Contouring - just like anything else - won't alter your appearance radically unless you want it to. Going full Kardashian isn't the only way.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/14 09:08 AM
1	Very confused. Otherwise TRP male (28) with RPW (26), losing my footing due to constant travel on his part. Need some Red Pill Women advice. You mentioned that you've talked about this issue with him a few times. What were your conversations like? Have you actually told him that you would rather hear everything at once? (Does he have a reason to believe there will be a reaction if he tells you something unpleasant?) You can tell him that you miss him a lot when he is away, and that you would like to know what his schedule is like during the upcoming months so you can be prepared. That's not complaining if you do it right. And about R…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/14 11:49 PM
4	Very confused. Otherwise TRP male (28) with RPW (26), losing my footing due to constant travel on his part. Need some Red Pill Women advice. Take a moment to think about what you're feeling. His obligations keep him away from you more than you'd like. It makes you upset. Is there really anything that you can do about that? Not really, you try to deal with it or you leave him. Weddings and bachelor parties are special events. He won't have to travel for those reasons all the time forever. Maybe he just had a busy summer. Or will there be many similar trips coming up? You were also invited to many of those events. You could have joined…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/14 11:13 PM
9	Be his whore. That's one of the reasons we're looking for sex early on. We want to check if you're generous, enthusiastic and non-prohibitive about it in a ladylike way. Too many restrictions - in the beginning - and we know it's going to wane afterwards. Red flag. I would love to hear what that means in practice. How early on are we talking about? What are these "red flag" kind of restrictions?	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/14 03:28 PM
2	Holding your tongue I promise you, you have it in you to learn to hold your tongue. You're not different than the other ladies here. All it takes is learning new ways of thinking and handling your emotions. There are some wonderful tips and advice in this thread. They work wonders. And like Lecithinsis said, "holding yourself back from speaking in anger is different than never mentioning an issue you have". However, everything doesn't have to be brought up. You just have to learn to let go. Understanding what that …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/14 01:16 PM
2	I fucked up... She can't go around saying "I do not want to give myself up to a random guy like that" when she gets naked and "fools around" with strangers on the first date because they were handsome. We shouldn't be patting each other on the back for that sort of behavior. Avoiding penetration doesn't make it okay. With that being said, I hope she learns from her mistake and doesn't repeat it.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/14 11:29 AM
2	How to be more graceful? Something that hasn't been mentioned yet but what at least I had a little bit of trouble with is your facial expressions! Body language and being confident is extremely important, but if you look grumpy while doing that, your gracefulness will fly out the window. Everyone doesn't struggle with this, but I thought it could be worthy of a mention. Practice a relaxed, pleasant facial expression. Start doing it all the time and it'll become second nature. A graceful lady looks kind and easily approa…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/14 11:39 AM
3	Don't be this woman, So many excuses.. three years, oh goodness. Does she really tell everyone (and herself) that during those three years there never was time for some sexy times with the husband? That's so utterly ridiculous. I feel sad that there are people who would even post this sort of things for others to read and justify similar behavior.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/14 11:22 AM
1	"You make me feel like I don't have to be ashamed to be a man" Oh I didn't mean you were bad mouthing anyone! What he's told you sounds like he was bad mouthing a little, but that is normal. It could be his reaction to finding a good woman from another country. He didn't meet your kind of women in his old country, so now he's been left with a bit of an warped idea of reality. I don't think any men start off feminist. It's very possible that his first girlfriends "beat it into him". His parents could have something to do with it, also. Men are raised to resp…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/14 10:19 AM
2	"You make me feel like I don't have to be ashamed to be a man" He used to defend feminism - of course he attracted feminist women. Plenty of Nordic women have a RP mentality. So he didn't attract them, that doesn't mean they don't exist. That might be a good thing to keep in mind when generalizing (if not even badmouthing) the entire female population of a certain country. ;) But fantastic to hear that you make him feel like a man, sounds like you two are happy together. Good job!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/14 02:46 PM
3	Looking and feeling feminine in bad weather? My advice would be invest in cute rain boots or other shoes that won't get wet and destroyed in the rain. If an umbrella isn't working out well enough for you, there are also all kinds of rain coats out there. I'm sure you could find one that you like. I know some people wear whatever they want/normally wear but I know if I'm not wearing some water proof things I will feel gross. Something as simple as a proper coat can make a huge difference. Try tricking your mind into thinking a rainy day is …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/14 11:24 AM
2	How detrimental are under-eye circles to a woman's looks? Trying a primer could be worth a try! Or using another kind of concealer or applying a little less.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/14 02:23 AM
1	How detrimental are under-eye circles to a woman's looks? Aw, I'm glad! I know how it feels to have undereye circles when there's not much you can do to them. We just have to learn to live with the fact that they're a part of our face and waste less energy on worrying about something we can't really change. :) I use Make Up Store brand, but I don't know if that is available where you live. Do you use primer?	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/14 02:16 AM
3	How detrimental are under-eye circles to a woman's looks? Hey lady, please don't worry! My wild guess is you pay way more attention to your dark circles than others do. I'm in the same situation as you. I've always had dark circles under my eyes because of my thin, pale skin. Others tell me I'm beautiful, but I feel like the circles ruin my face. In reality they probably don't. I've had people tell me that they're not really that bad and if I try to be realistic I can see why worrying about such a little thing is completely stupid. But of course it's n…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/14 01:58 AM
5	21 Differences Between A Southern Belle And A Modern Woman While I absolutely support a "Southern Belle" way of living, I don't necessarily agree with this writers attitude completely. "They are happy to live the life they have, and be who they are, without pleasing some feminist or businesswoman who wants them to be more “modern.” They know how much better life is when you live it in style." "without pleasing SOME feminist" "who wants them to be more modern" "how much better life is when you live it in style" Maybe it's just me, but I sense an unpleasa…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/14 01:26 AM
1	Sexy Winter Fashion! That works out nicely for you then, makes your boyfriend happy too and that is important! I usually stick to jeans in the winter. It gets quite cold where I live, so I accompany those with cardigans, sweaters and feminine tops. I have a cute, fitted wool coat (with a belt around the waist) and I wear it with heeled ankle boots, thick scarves and leather gloves. Unless I really need to wear mittens to avoid losing my fingers. When it gets really cold I just wear more layers. The wool coat keeps m…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/14 07:46 PM
1	Sexy Winter Fashion! :P I meant no offense with my comment and I'm sorry if it came out rude sounding. If leggings make you feel attractive and they give you the kind of attention you want, then more power to you!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/14 06:55 PM
1	Sexy Winter Fashion! Well, that's your thing and you're free to rock your own style. I'm just surprised to read someone saying that no one thinks leggings look slutty. IMO they kinda do, if you don't cover your butt. I know I'm not the only one.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/14 06:15 PM
1	Sexy Winter Fashion! I don't feel like this is very great advice. "They make every woman's legs and ass look 10 - 20 % better than normal, and because they are so popular and reveal no skin, no one thinks they look slutty." Really? I think wearing leggings to show off your butt is kind of slutty and at least definitely not classy. That's what a lot of people seem to think. He has some good points, like that your clothes should fit well. I think having well-fitting clothes that are tidy and incorporating at least som…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/14 05:40 PM
2	A Few Words On Boundaries and Appearance Wonderful advice! "You need to look for men that have good reputations and that won't necessarily agree with other guys when they are talking about certain things. A good man will not nod his head in agreement unless he actually agrees. " Genius, I've never thought about that! I will definitely be paying attention to how guys talk about things and if they dare to disagree. My country doesn't have any big/popular online dating sites but you inspired me to look up the one we do have. I think I'll …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/14 11:54 PM
9	Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism! How can I be begging for attention from men if most people irl don't know that I am a red pill woman? I don't go around telling everyone about how "cool" I am because "I'm not like the other girls". I don't think many of us do. As a single girl I mostly keep my values to myself, and I only talk about them if they're relevant. And I still don't talk about them in a "look at me!" kind of way. Values usually only come up when I give advice to my girlfriends. I don't push my views in random men's fa…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/14 11:31 AM
8	AskMen: Unfeminine women are unattractive. Big surprise. Seeing feminine women (and noticing that some men find them a lot more desirable) seem to upset some unfeminine women a lot. It seems like some of them hate feminine ladies and consider them their rivals or something. Instead of trying to improve themselves they get mad, bad-mouth feminine women and demand that men must like them (unfeminine women) too. They tend to be the kind of people that want everything handed to them. At least that's what I've noticed. I've never seen men act in a similar …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/01/14 08:44 PM