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nejld/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 02:33 PM
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This isn't good. The person you're with shouldn't be with you on the condition that you become more submissive and that you lose weight. There is not necessarily anything with wanting a thiner partner but he should cherish you and love you not make you feel not good enough. It's just weird. These things should come out of love, it doesn't feel like that. The fact that he wants to make you feel like he's above you is strange. Also it's not necessarily bad if he's "better" in a lot of ways, I feel…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 01:34 PM
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I'll be making a pork roast + oven baked potatoes/oignons and roses des sables for desert
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/22 10:47 PM
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Your comment was legitimate! I would be worried too, even if you invest, a responsible person would keep more than 70$ on their bank account, it can be concerning. I would want to be sure I marry someone I can't count on and trust. If he acts disproportionately offended by your comment I would want to take note of that, as if he's confident in his work he wouldnt be as sensitive.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 02:43 AM
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Your story really gives me hope. I'm still unsure about whether to be orthodox or catholic but if I can manage to make him more devout in his orthodox faith it would be amazing I will convert in a second, otherwise we will have to break up I cant be with someone who doesn't want Christ at the center of their lives. I'll look into Fr. Spyridon!
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 07:57 PM
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You're right. God willing. I'll pray, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 05:32 PM
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Thank you so much. You're right, maybe it's time to relax a little bit ahah.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 05:17 PM
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I'm actually not baptized yet. I've done my catholic catechism but still feel unsure about whether to become orthodox or catholic, I want to be orthodox but come from a catholic country so I'm more comfortable staying faithful to my roots. If my bf were to deepen his faith in orthodoxy I would honestly love that opportunity to become an orthodox. But in any case this shouldn't be an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 04:56 PM
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True, I think I'll inquire more about his views, I'll try to see if they're completely incompatible and what's the probability of him becoming more devout. I do want children, I do want to raise them Christians, what I'm unsure about is how much I want the faith to be present, like I want it to be gentle but at the same time I'm a pretty devout christian so I do think I want to pray with them, go to church with them, read the Bible together. I think my bf would participate in that, would be fine…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 04:25 PM
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You're right, I think I do have somewhat unrealistic expectations. I don't necessarily have a fear of lack of control but maybe things not going my way, like I wish people around me could see things the way I do and I know it's not possible. I do think it comes from a fear of not being understood and since I believe my views are mostly correct I have a hard time understanding why won't someone not see things the way I do and it frustrates me. I guess I have a hard time with uncertainty and ambiv…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 04:13 PM
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Since it's pretty important to me I asked
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 04:06 PM
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My problem is I don't know how willing he is to actually be more interested in orthodoxy, I don't want to push too much. I love your recommendations, I made him watch some Pageau but never videos that were truly about the importance of being a christian. I do think he has views on christianity that are not good representations of the church and he doesn't know enough theology. So I think you're right, him listening to these podcasts could make him click thank you I'll try that, it gives me a lit…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 04:04 PM
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I think it's okay. You're right to state where your head is at on the subject he cannot guess that and he's still a guy it's normal that he tries to get intimate with you and to be physically closer imo.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/21 02:02 AM
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That's so great! I hope I'll someday find a good man like yours seem to be!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 09:31 PM
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You seem so happy!! Good for you and happy for you and your husband! Wish you the best.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 09:28 PM
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I looked at your profile and saw a picture, if it was you and even if it was the best picture of you possible and you don't look like that in real life you would still be cute. I'm not here to compliment you only you can find confidence and you'll fins it over time. I'm here to tell you to be very careful, you're very young, I'm a little worried about you. I don't know you or your situation but just take a step back from everything and surrender a little, work on your mental health. Sending you …
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 10:24 PM
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I would say get a pair of shorter heels. Heels are painful and impractical it's not to be underestimated, if you're looking for a pair you can wear on a daily basis heels you can actually walk in is probably better and shorter ones still looks rly good with less pain. Also, it's better to try heels on before buying because you never know if it's gonna fit your arch, size, foot width, if it's comfy etc... If it's for the summer I would recommend sandals it's way more comfortable than pumps even w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 12:19 PM
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It's a way to start conversation, then you actually have a reason to see each other bc you started talking and he started being interested, if he likes you he will make efforts to set smth up with you (in my very limited experience lol)
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 05:07 PM
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It's a way to start conversation, then you actually have a reason to see each other bc you started talking and he started being interested, if he likes you he will make efforts to set smth up with you (in my very limited experience lol)
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 05:06 PM
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I would say comment on something yes. I wouldn't ask him out directly/ask if he has a gf. I know that a lot of people in the "trad" community don't recommend women do the first move, I don't know what to think of it they might be right but I've made the first move a lot of times because I'm impatient and it worked out fine. I actually dmed a guy a few weeks ago and pretty soon after I planted the idea of seeing each other in person (he had no way of knowing that I had in mind to see him so thats…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 12:23 PM
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That's a good perspective, I've been trying to figure out what kind of man would be the right fit for me and I guess I have to be open and not too stuck on classic alpha traits
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 01:41 AM
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Very good to know thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 08:29 PM
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Very interesting thank you
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 07:09 PM
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As a young single woman, platonic relationships with men are helping me a great deal figuring out how to behave as a woman, what are my flaws, how to navigate female/male relationships, what am I looking for in a man etc. I don't know if anyone relates but it's for me kind of like practicing a romantic relationship and it's helping me a great deal bettering myself as a woman and as a future wife.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 05:47 PM
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It's okay ahah I needed to get out of this bad mood and self pity and it helped lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 02:19 PM
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Ahah I don't know how it was perceived, nice to see you understood what I meant. You're giving me hope ahah thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 02:15 PM
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Maybe I'm in that kind of phase ahah I try to be aware of that but sometimes I get lost I admit. You're right I have to take it easy. Have a nice day too.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 02:13 PM
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Oh Im sorry if it comes off that way it wasnt the point and not how I see myself but I guess Im not in a good mindset and Im realizing now I should delete this it's not bringing anything except negativity.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 02:05 PM
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