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You’re describing this whole thing as if you were roommates. Married couples have a joint account and it’s generally healthy for both incomes to land in that account. Big decisions like buying a home should be made together (but you can lead) and it’s definitely a risky path to suggest buying a home for your mom if you haven’t bought a home for yourselves and it’s paid for. There is something weird about this as if you want to keep things separate and be able to jump ship at any point.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 04:15 PM
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Another quick question for a friend: how do you enforce a boundary with kids (9yo + 2yo) present in the room, and leaving makes you look like an asshole? The whole wife shaming you for being a bad dad and walking away on your kids just so you can go to a bar and drink by yourself for 2 hours. Same question when you’re in a social situation with friends & family and wife wants to start a fight but you don’t want to make a scene in front of everyone or walk away and abandon your friends/family.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 12:40 AM
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Agreed. Thank you for the actionable advice.
/r/askMRP15/11/24 05:05 PM
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What do you think of my current exit strategy when were long distance (for a total of 2 weeks): for example, she starts complaining / being jealous. I give her a first verbal warning, which she ignores, then I simply hang up on her and ignore my phone for 30+ minutes, by which she’s given up on the topic and we move on like nothing happened. Anything I should do different? Is hanging up on her too harsh or fair after a warning? If this keeps coming back should I “exit” for longer periods of time…
/r/askMRP15/11/24 04:49 PM
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Thank you- I will start doing more of that. It’s about “this” girl but really it’s about any girl that poses a threat. I’ll be more blunt in my exits because I’ve been engaging a bit recently and probably encouraging it.
/r/askMRP15/11/24 12:45 AM
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The girl’s about to get engaged and is in a committed relationship so you’d think my fiancée would see that but no - I think she understand the animal kingdom a little too well for her own good.
/r/askMRP14/11/24 09:31 PM
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Probably a comfort test stemming from insecurities. I’ve been very diligent about applying red pill principles but I can’t help but think there’s a deep rooted insecurity behind this and no amount of RP will fix it.
/r/askMRP14/11/24 09:30 PM
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I don’t see her but our lives are so intertwined that it keeps coming up and being a problem.
/r/askMRP14/11/24 09:29 PM
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Well isn’t that the whole thing explained in the Married Man Sex Life book? How women unconsciously empty your balls so you don’t fuck around. I agree. But it’s low key ruining my otherwise good life because it’s such a recurring problem and it seems like no matter the amount of exits, she comes back to pull this shit again.
/r/askMRP14/11/24 09:28 PM
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Man I have the same issue. I guess that’s when red pill works a little too well. I’d like to keep it every 2-3 days but she wants it every single day and sometimes I’m just not in the mood but if we don’t have sex, then she’s really pissed lol. She’s very hot so that’s not the issue. Also see her a lot from WFH.
/r/askMRP08/11/24 07:35 PM
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Yeah I’m 30 and mine came at 499 a couple of months ago. I noticed my libido was not where it should be and I was also putting on way too much fat when bulking. Not saying you can’t get results from 500 but I’ve seen other guys say how 700-800 is where you should really be. I started taking Tongkat Ali, Fadogia Agrestis & Boron about a month ago. It took about 2 weeks to notice a difference: - Libido is stronger (morning wood is back on most days) - My facial hair is growing faster I can’t vouch…
/r/askMRP28/09/24 09:32 AM
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It’s probably not an issue since you’re building muscle but since you seem to be building a lot of fat too: did you get your testosterone tested? The higher your T the more lean mass you’ll put on.
/r/askMRP28/09/24 09:25 AM
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I’m in the same situation but something I can’t see in your post is whether your girl also works from home with you or is at home with you? That makes a big difference. Anyways, I was in the exact same situation and rented a coworking space to “go to work”. It made absolutely no sense as I liked to work from home but boy did it make a difference Red Pill wise. It’s important. Now that my LTR has a job and is not at home most of the day, it doesn’t matter as much as before. So my recommendation i…
/r/askMRP10/06/24 09:58 AM
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You said it yourself: even before the baby you had sex maybe once every two months. I bet it’s been years like this. You can’t undo years of lack of attraction with 2 months of lifting, unfortunately. You need to STOP giving a fuck about sex. Don’t even try honestly. I think it’s URGENT you take back some control. How can you expect sex when you can’t even control which restaurant to order sushi from? It’s pathetic. It doesn’t have to be. Work on the sidebar and be a man!
/r/askMRP08/06/24 03:41 PM
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STFU!! “Why were you late?” “I was playing soccer but one thing led to another and we went to a nightclub afterwards and this group of 5 blonde chicks started dancing around me and I don’t know what happened but now I got 2 kids in Russia” You say you’ve been working RP for 6 months but you are still REPLYING to her shitty attitude. You were playing soccer, end of story.
/r/askMRP08/05/24 03:21 PM
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I’m sorry to say but you’re past the point of no return. Like someone said, she basically said “I Love You, But I’m not in love with you anymore” and when that happens 1) it’s too late 99% of the time 2) there is a high probability she’s already cheated on you, at least by text/call/pics etc. Not saying this to make you feel bad but to make you realize it’s time to jump ship.
/r/askMRP01/05/24 07:12 AM
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Be cocky-funny. Unapologetically cocky, and make her laugh a lot. Like someone said, see it as a personality trait rather than “tricks” or “lines to say” Keep in mind that as with everything else MRP, this will work better if she’s actually attracted to you. Women tend to laugh easily if they’re attracted to a dude. However, the whole reason why cocky-funny is a game staple is because it naturally increases your value, without changing anything else about you (finances, status, etc.) So even if …
/r/askMRP29/04/24 10:29 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: 30yo, 5'9, 154 lbs, 12%bf. In 3-year LTR with 27yo F, no kids. Lifts: SQ 215 lbs OP 95 lbs DL 200lbs BP 135lbs BR 140lbs, all 5x5 Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, TMMSLP (+MAP) Health & Fitness: down to 12% bf from 16/18%, in 3 months. My goal is to get to 10%, my ego wants to see my abs. I can't really eat less at this point, so I want to walk more. Started StrongLifts 5x5 in February and been improving all across the board, but have now hit some plateaus - nutrition is probably not …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/24 09:01 AM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP26/04/24 08:13 AM
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How did you make those friends? I agree about my shitty social skills, I'm the literal definition of a social retard (come a long way though). If you have any tips or books for that, let me know. Regarding the jealous bout, it was her getting jealous & mad. I don't ever get jealous anymore, I actually have a lot of fun with it. If she tries to trigger me, I usually answer with "I'll give you a ride there and give you money so you can have the night of your life", to which she replies "no no I wo…
/r/askMRP26/04/24 08:09 AM
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I don't want to become complacent and slowly fall back in a beta mindset. I want to be the best version of myself. I want to be a living embodiment of MRP. I feel like I'm living a lie because MRP prones having a social life with mostly male friends. I don't want to have that feeling. I want advice.
/r/askMRP26/04/24 07:53 AM
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I don’t think it will bite you in the ass as long as you frame it correctly. A lot of the time it’s about waiting for the right moment - if you’re next to her and you see “hidden folder” or whatever, ask her to show you. You can defuse the moment by saying that you will charge 30% of all of her OnlyFans income - customize to what type of humor usually works for you of course. Or you can frame it as “you know I trust you, and I do. Every once in a while, I have to do a random check. I hate doing …
/r/askMRP10/04/24 03:25 PM
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Regarding your view on marriage - I used to think like that, but MRP restored my faith.
/r/askMRP10/04/24 03:18 PM
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You have to decide if you want to verify and move in together + get married (Red Pill rule) or just verify and continue as is. 8 years is a long time. It sounds like you’re grasping at straws to find reasons not to commit even though everything seems fine. I’m not trying to make you commit but 8 years is a long time not to. If she’s not the one, move on.
/r/askMRP10/04/24 02:19 PM
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Trust but verify. Sometimes doubts come from a place of insecurity in which case you should work on it. However, sometimes doubts come from little things you pick up on like notifications silenced and hidden folders. I would kill those doubts as soon as you can, because removing them can help you get to the next step which is moving in together. Now remember that “verifying” doesn’t mean checking once a week. You do it once, when it feels right or when you have the perfect excuse to do it, but i…
/r/askMRP10/04/24 02:01 PM
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She needs to feel you’re capable and willing to next her. Completely. Walk out the door and never return. Based on what you’re writing, she knows you would never do it which is why she’s so comfortable. Make her uncomfortable.
/r/askMRP03/04/24 07:48 AM
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Really relevant because I was reading this chapter yesterday - I’ve been doing this without knowing and it works really well with my LTR. She will literally switch from mad to loving in a matter of seconds. How? Not with words… never works. I will pick her up, touch her hair, give her neck kisses, tickle her, start escalating… doesn’t really matter. It works. Over the phone is all about giving attention. Listen and agree and empathize, that’s really enough. As long as she’s being nice to you of …
/r/askMRP19/03/24 02:42 PM
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Pretty clear that she’s at the very least emotionally cheating, and that’s a slippery slope to actual cheating. Snapchat + chat notification silenced is all I needed to read. Advice will vary based on yourself. What’s your body fat? Do you pass shit tests? How often do you have sex and do you get rejected? If you were hot & doing all the MRP right she would have close to no reason to cheating on you. This is probably something you let happen and regardless of what you choose to do now, it’s stil…
/r/askMRP14/03/24 04:56 PM
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Not really but it’s as simple as it sounds - women crave attention and when you reply, you’re rewarding them. You look at them, it’s a reward. You enter the fight she’s trying to pick, it’s a reward. The solution to punish a woman is to withdraw your attention (not replying or exiting the room/house). If the texts became too negative I would stop replying altogether and then as soon as she changed things up and sent you even ONE text that is different, I would reply almost instantly. Sometimes t…
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:54 PM
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Yeah honestly it’s rare but it seems like this is one of those posts where you’re actually doing well. Just keep in mind that every time you’re rewarding her for “complaining.” She knows that if she sends “I’m tired” she will get attention. It’s not necessarily bad but I’m just pointing out the reward mechanism.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:48 PM
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I’m starting to see some RP wins in my LTR (we’ll get married next year) and after a few days of me NGAF and getting awesome sex she said “I wish you didn’t NGAF” and I replied “but it makes you wet” to which she agreed and we went on to another awesome sex session. This is where the magic of RP really happens… it’s mind-blowing. To answer your question, I would say keep reading the books and working the steps, and don’t even start to wonder if you should mention it until you start getting most …
/r/askMRP27/02/24 07:11 AM
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I would value her discipline and efforts more than her looks. If she’s put in all the work to actually become more attractive, I see this as a great sign. Sure, she can relapse, and she won’t improve after pregnancy and aging. But it’s still a great attitude. Unrelated: I’m about 100 days into no fap / no porn, I was curious to know if long streakers like you returned to (healthy) masturbation over time. Looks like you didn’t, do you care to explain your thinking and why you didn’t? Do you ever …
/r/askMRP12/02/24 04:53 PM
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Great post - I'm currently at 18% BF and would like to get down to 10-12%. Is it realistic to follow PGLP or should I just maintain my current workout regimen and focus on diet? I'm still a beginner overall.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/24 09:21 PM
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Thank you. Incredibly helpful
/r/askMRP23/01/24 03:41 PM
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Thank you. A lot. “It will get worse before it gets better” - 100%
/r/askMRP22/01/24 05:30 PM
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No more mr nice guy helped a lot but I feel like I’m only a third of the way there. I’ll get my hands on When I say no I feel guilty. I feel like I need the “stop caring” training. Any other resource that can help?
/r/askMRP22/01/24 05:16 PM
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I tend to steer away from stuff that trigger her jealousy. It’s just a lot of drama. However, I wanted to learn how to handle it better so I can live my life AND not have to deal with the drama. Is there a hack?
/r/askMRP22/01/24 04:45 PM
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Sounds so simple but hadn’t thought of it this way.
/r/askMRP22/01/24 04:45 PM
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Can you expand a bit? I feel like I need to learn how to handle her jealousy then. Let’s say I want to go to a lounge bar with a buddy, and she complains - how do you handle it before / during / after? The reason why I know I’m not handling it well is because I’ll try to steer away from stuff that trigger her jealousy.
/r/askMRP22/01/24 04:44 PM
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