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Having a high aggregate attractiveness of your group can be helpful - but like any one other thing it won't make or break you.
/r/seduction14/06/15 02:37 AM
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Yes, I absolutely challenge the fundamental premise that men are greedier for sex. As long as they're not worried about being shamed, and have somebody they think is worth sleeping with, most women are just as horny as most men. Of course there are low libido outliers for both genders, their job is to find each other and leave the rest of us alone. Any man who isn't having ANY sex doing something to stymie himself. Period. The "Friendzone" is self-imposed, announce your intentions early and if s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 03:25 AM
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How the hell does my shit get downvoted when there's not even a downvote button here? Truth too hard to swallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 12:45 PM
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I think this post has some generalizations about levels of libido that just don't match up with the real world. While there are some women who have low libido, most of them are up to fuck like maniacs if they don't think they're going to be shamed for it. I also wonder, is Joe actually average? Or is he a lazy piece of shit who plays Xbox and eats doritos all day who has only boot licking supplication to offer women? If Jack is taller or more handsome than Joe, then Joe needs to learn how to pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/15 10:04 PM
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Yeah, if you get enough people who agree with each other onto an internet forum odds get high that it'll turn into a circlejerk if not properly moderated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/15 09:18 PM
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I was also a late bloomer who used to get really nervous and this is what worked for me: try being delightful in conversation with absolutely everyone. I started with just smiling and striking up conversations with elderly people, lunch ladies on campus, janitors... everybody. Just try to make everybody's day by noticing their haircuts, new shoes, or whatever. Get good at pressing people's happy buttons with just your words, and by the time you get to women that you might want to be romantic wit…
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:12 PM
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I generally don't read ED Because it's dumb right? Did they get get smart just because they agree with you? Plenty of "smart" people have shit social skills... are we shocked that there are romantically unhappy legbeards just like there are unhappy neckbeards? I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 12:23 PM
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lol, I guess I didn't change your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 10:25 PM
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Can we unpack what it sounds like you're saying? 1) Stop fucking guys who spend their free time playing sports or taking care of their bodies. 2) Stop fucking guys who like music and art and spend their free time making music and art a part of their lives. 3) Stop fucking guys with the same interests and hobbies as you. (Only girls on drugs fuck dealers for drugs) 4) Stop fucking hard-working, successful guys. That's a huge range of fairly regular types of guy! who does that even leave? Guys who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 01:51 PM
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Yes, for sure. Achievement implies competence and competence is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 01:47 PM
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Because narcissist fathers just go out for a pack of cigarettes and never come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 05:03 AM
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Height is like boob size. Some people are crazy about it, some just kinda like it, some don't care. Everybody hates if you're weird and insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 04:53 AM
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Honestly, I don't think you're supposed to get all of your answers from one place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 06:51 AM
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There are a lot of young men who are hurting and looking for answers. These guys have been poorly prepared for finding the intimacy they need to be emotionally healthy and they're highly receptive to a one-stop philosophy that claims to have the answers that they're looking for. Consider also, that if a guy's main problem is that he's a total pussy and a follower to the degree that he scares ALL women away, simply growing a spine is going to increase his romantic success by leaps and bounds desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 06:46 AM
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Date in religious circles where virginity is fetishized. Somebody wants that. Also, if you get married just to get laid you're going to be really fucking miserable before long.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 08:26 PM
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Exactly. Feminism is used as a catch-all term for everything RP doesn't like to the degree that it loses all meaning. Disney, anime, rom-coms and beer commercials are clearly far from "feminist" but they "taught" me garbage lessons about love that had me out of the loop romantically for YEARS and feeling cheated for it. There are dozens and dozens of sources of bad info that deserve to be cut out but calling them all "feminism" and blaming them on AWALT is a shortcut and a cop out. edit: words
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 08:17 PM
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So... you answered your question in bold at the bottom there. Get on it.
/r/seduction01/02/15 04:18 PM
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I disagree, a nice guy isn't nice because he thinks he'll get sex. Sometimes he knows in his heart of hearts that he won't get laid, but he's still extra "nice" because he thinks he's achieving some sort of moral victory. It's about lionizing one's fear of stepping out of line.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 08:50 AM
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A good guy gives plenty, but it's always exactly what he wants to give and never more. The end result is that he's generous, but never taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 08:47 AM
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It sounds like you're really down on who you are physically. Have you tried really doing something about that part of yourself? Find a good workout plan and work out until you like what you see in the mirror. Put on clothes that you'd like to see yourself in. I bet you'll project a good bit more confidence if you like your look a little bit more. That tiny bit of extra confidence will make more people want to talk to you and you'll get practice at social skills.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:11 AM
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I feel like instead of "bluepill advice" you could have just typed "advice from an overly optimistic strawman. I mean, just because someone thinks TRP is an unwise life choice for young men trying to have maximum happiness in their lives doesn't mean that they're a naive country-mouse. There is completely functional advice for all of these situations that isn't stuck in the binary choice of Red Pill or Stupid. Examples incoming. • Hitting on girls when they have a guy next to them that might be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 07:02 AM
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I clearly use the word desperate to describe myself in the above post. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 02:35 AM
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In my experience, attitudes about sex and openness to new experience are the greatest indicators of a woman's prowess. I was with a girl who'd had only one partner prior but watched lots of porn and ate all kinds of weird foods and she rocked my socks. When I was younger, in the military, a little less savvy, and a lot more desperate I slept with a few women who'd been all over the barracks because they were kind of sad human beings desperate for someone to like them and they were uniformly bori…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 01:50 AM
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Why wouldn't you want to be fun, fit, interesting and ambitious for yourself is the question? Being miserable, paunchy, boring and broke doesn't really present any inherent rewards I'm aware of. Also, affordable prostitution didn't go anywhere. If you live in a big enough city, somebody is selling sex somewhere. Being a fuckable dude is even cheaper though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 06:58 AM
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Thanks, I really appreciate you sharing. As I read your comment I'm not totally sure we disagree on this point. When I said "go see a therapist" here's what I was getting at: Loads of people feel unlucky in love because loads of people are in a bad place mentally, just kind of limping along not knowing they're fucked up because they've never been healthy. Then they want to find someone to love or hump or whatever but the rotting garbage between their ears makes it difficult to make the connectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 05:25 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, what did you identify as holding you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:03 PM
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They probably have deep seated personal issues that they're projecting onto others. Seeing a therapist might be a good idea. How does that saying go? If everyone you meet is an asshole it's probably not everybody else who's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:17 PM
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This is a thing I see often on TRP, sniffing out a piece of actual truth about society at large and then shortcutting to a comfortable answer before rounding home base. This is bigger than gender, dude. Our society creates lots of shitty human beings who see themselves as the protagonist of the story and everyone else as supporting characters, at best. People like this have a very hard time being decent to anyone who they don't want something from or who they perceive as having nothing for them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 02:55 PM
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I think anything above "difficult to look at" would work here. Well groomed would probably be the most important thing.
/r/seduction05/01/15 02:06 PM
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Bonus points if you jump out of a trap door.
/r/seduction05/01/15 01:58 PM
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There have always been men who aren't having sex, them giving it a name and discussing it online doesn't make things different. Hopefully they spend the time working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 10:38 PM
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Choosing to expose infidelity is a personal decision that includes a number of factors, not the least of which are your role in these parties lives and what your motivation for wanting to tell is. Giving it a name and calling it a bannable offense just makes the sub seem more like a backyard treehouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 06:24 PM
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Probably, with a modifier. You should ideally do it for yourself, but doing it to meet girls still means you did it. Competence is sexy, humans can always do with more skills and a guy might find himself accidentally enjoying his new hobby given time. Example: When I was 15 I joined a Hispanic Folkloric Dance club at school to try to be nearer to a girl I never really had the stones to approach. I was shy, so I kinda hated the classes and still never approached the girl, but the skills never lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 02:22 PM
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I don't like that there's a dichotomy of RP/BP because on this thread it just means Red Pill/Everyone Else and there are obviously more than two points of view. (I think) most of the people who identify as BP see the gigantic package of horse poo and don't understand why you're trying to dig in it for something useful. Maybe it's because most people's sense of basic self respect is so ingrained that it's hard to imagine that being the problem for another. Consider also that one of the ways this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 01:31 PM
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For sure man, that sounds reasonable; excessive rationalization and (willful?) blindness can get a body into some shitty situations. Not only that, if you have the doors blown off of your ineffective schema you might find yourself feeling really betrayed and misinformed. There are oodles of guys who mistakenly think that every woman is an angel and wonder why their endless supplication doesn't end in the rewarding romance they want. The thing is that there is no group of humans, by gender, race,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 01:50 AM
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Poppa?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:06 PM
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Cool, I'm into that type of thing. This blurb is actually part of a big write up about why RP appeals to certain personality types and how it mixes decent advices with horrible justifications. Lots of guys never hear the "have some self respect" and "watch for sociopaths" messages until it comes they run into RP and those tidbits come attached to tons of miserable crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 04:52 PM
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This isn't stuff that women do so much as people who are successful at dating and don't really give a shit about others. If you frame it with a male perspective it all sounds just as familiar, give it a try. Trading up and trying to get a hotter chick all the time. Banging the hottest chick possible even if you'd never want to stay with (for whatever reason) Acting like you're the shit even if you're just some random bro. Surrounding yourself with people who think you're awesome and kiss your as…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 02:31 PM
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It's kind of you to say I have all of the building blocks of an attractive male. When I was super insecure about being 5'6" in shoes I certainly didn't feel that way. My newer perspective is that we've all descended from people attractive enough to get laid, and anyone with roughly symmetrical features can be "hot" to somebody. It's a matter of presentation really. I dress well and I'm not afraid of wearing a few bright colors or a bowtie every once in a while. Looking like Ryan Gosling would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 09:33 PM
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For sure I've got social skills and game, that's what I was alluding to when I mentioned making people "feel good when they're around you." I'm also 5'6" (which I've affectionately labled as 'schmedium') and I'm certainly not living RP style. I never said that anyone could get laid whenever they wanted, it takes effort to make yourself desirable, I just mean to caution against counterproductive effort and jumping to the wrong conclusions about what's effective. Sure I have privilege, we all have…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 05:30 PM
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Right, but you can do all that without being RP. That's why nobody needs it. If you want to sleep with a bunch of women you can do it without being controlling or depriving yourself of intimacy and opportunities to feel a little bit emotionally vulnerable. I'm a shmedium sized man who listens to feelings, writes poetry, holds open doors, and kinda has his own personal sex cult. If you make people feel good when they're around you, things work themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 04:23 PM
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Nah man, nobody NEEDS trp. If you want to be salty and controlling, you're doing it for personal reasons, but not out of NEED. I'm 5'6" and do well enough for myself that I'm occasionally ashamed of it. Being short is one feature of mine that's unattractive to some women but in a country with 160 million women it's OK if some of them don't want me, I honestly don't have time to get romantic with each and every last one of them. TBH When I was younger I was insecure about my height, and insecurit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 04:00 PM
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Your hobbies sound fun activities that mostly involve dudes, go do things that women might be into as well. But yeah, tell me more about you. When's the last time you tried to get with a woman and failed? How'd that go?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 09:24 PM
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Yeah, my response was dumb. =o) sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 08:32 PM
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Yeah, they're "exciting", but please let's not pretend that being a sociopath is the only way to get there. You could play in a band, base jump, or learn to be an amazing uni-cyclist and check off the excitement box. Edit: I thought this was a reply to a different comment... so it doesn't make a ton of sense, lol. sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 01:15 PM
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One of my most... exciting relationships was with a female DT. It's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 01:17 AM
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Depending on the woman in question, the DT can get you pretty far. On a surface level each of those components can look attractive. Narcissists and psychopaths rarely seem nervous or insecure and Machiavellian scheming can be a plus. Who doesn't like a guy who's good at planning, right? To a woman with more questions than answers, this personality type can be very appealing because the DT man seems like he has it all figured out. Taking into account that there are no shortage of women who are so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 01:13 AM
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Those types of things even apply to sex. I've met couples who don't remember why they aren't fucking and once they get started back up again everything is all groovy. Therapy doesn't work every time, but it's effective often enough to be worth it if you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 08:14 AM
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A lot of the time the therapist is just there to give them an excuse to say to each other's faces things that they might just keep to themselves otherwise. If you're generally a good communicator it may be hard to imagine someone who needs it, but it's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 07:40 AM
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When the prankster asked the couple if they were together the guy said "something like that" he conceded the woman's company at that very moment. I'm not so ready to blame anyone . If a bus with the Swedish bikini team pulled up next to a dude and the woman said they were "sorta" together he'd probably hop in too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:29 PM
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What came first here, the chicken or the egg? Are women more depressed because they've had lots of partners, or do women choose to have more partners because they're depressed? Or are women in depressing situations more likely to have had lots of partners? FWIW I hang out in circles where lots of fucking goes down and meet women who just REALLY love sex and they seem pretty happy, generally. I also meet women in the same circle who feel like sleeping with Z-list local celebrities will bring them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:03 PM
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When I was younger, maybe 15-22 or so I cared more about a woman's number of partners. At the time I was super into monogamy and thought a "virtuous" woman could complete me somehow. There were concerns that I wouldn't be getting "all" of a woman if she'd done things with guys before me that I couldn't get her to do. It's dumb to call that intimidation - it was a preference for a certain type of validation though sexual dominance. That's not so much what I'm into now, but intimidation is just a …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:26 AM
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Good storytelling is about rhythm and pacing - realize what the "good parts" are and leave them like bread crumbs. I'm about to head to work, but I'll probably come back and fill this in.
/r/seduction19/07/14 01:37 PM
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Yeah, my quest to spend quality time with the women I liked in HS mainly happened when FB was much more popular. The current experience would most likely be a little bit difference. I suppose you COULD just message out of the blue and just be really charming. That never stops being an option.
/r/seduction30/05/14 10:01 PM
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I did this myself a few years back. For me, the icebreaker was posting FB pictues of me with my band at shows with lots of people cheering and whatnot. Eventually they left comments on pics and I had an excuse to start conversations. I think messaging out of the blue would have been less effective.
/r/seduction30/05/14 09:26 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being an introvert, but there IS a problem with being a shut-in. Introversion, properly expressed can come off as mysterious and deep. Plenty of musicians, actors and artsy types are generally introverted and are great with women, one just has to have sufficient social skills either way to navigate life despite preferring alone time.
/r/seduction25/05/14 01:04 AM
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If you're a genuinely rad person and someone doesn't like you, that's a them problem, not a you problem. Gently pity them because they're missing out on the pleasure of your company. If you find large swaths of people are disliking you everywhere you go, then it might be time to do some introspection and make sure you're not violating social taboos or something, but if there's a dude somewhere just being salty? Press the fuck on. There's nothing WRONG with saying "what's up beautiful" while you …
/r/seduction07/05/14 03:30 AM
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It's not wanting other people to like you that makes being "nice" unattractive, it's the bending over backwards and doing things you obviously don't want to do to please them that's unattractive. There's an important difference between kindness and compliance. Being warm and caring is wonderful, cloying for her attention isn't. An example of a needy behavior is following, say you're at a museum with a woman and you find yourself looking at different exhibits in the same room, are you the guy who…
/r/seduction06/05/14 09:59 PM
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No need to commit to any sort of "silent treatment", besides, that sort of thing seems inauthentic. If you really find yourself too invested in her, try investing in other things. Busy yourself with the most awesome things you possibly can, and message her when you have time to do so. You'll seem (and be) more interesting and your time will be more scarce and valuable without having to resort to a gimmick.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:32 AM
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I'd probably say something like... "That's funny, I was just about to say the same thing." and smile profusely.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:04 AM
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