nemofourteen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Why is "Sigma male" so rarely discussed? TRP isn't one-dimensional in and of itself, but it encourages one-dimensional thinking by focusing only on the parts of attraction that it can teach. SMV is a one-dimensional measure. The components of SMV as they are discussed tend to be one-dimensional measures themselves. TRP doesn't teach comedy or emotional intelligence. It encourages you to immerse yourself in popular comedy and standard social interactions until you teach them to yourself. The difference is not trivial. It's effective but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 10:04 PM
9	Why is "Sigma male" so rarely discussed? People don't want to be the best, or even successful. They just want their world to make sense. It feels better to explicably suck than to inexplicably succeed, because the first reinforces your identity (even if your identity is negative) and the second does not. The red pill makes sense of what is for many men a confusing part of life. This is why it is successful. This is why it would still be a successful message even if it never helped anyone at all. See humorism, phrenology, homeopathy, et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 01:00 PM
3	In your opinion, why do you think the vast majority of Science/engineering students are women in Iran, but not the west? i'm a dude, you condescending moron	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/17 01:09 AM
2	In your opinion, why do you think the vast majority of Science/engineering students are women in Iran, but not the west? I'm helping you actually make an argument here instead of doing what you did, which was jumping two steps ahead of yourself and starting to make fun of someone who said "wait a second, what does that have to do with my post?" 1) Iranian women choose STEM 2) Iranian women aren't as free as western women 3) Western women tend to choose the SAHM path when they can 4) Therefore, Iranian women are choosing STEM because they aren't free to do otherwise Is that your argument? Because you did a bad job …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/17 10:54 PM
1	In your opinion, why do you think the vast majority of Science/engineering students are women in Iran, but not the west? And this pertains to Iran because, we presume, the women there are not as free?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/17 06:18 PM
8	(Meta) There's a massive misunderstanding going on between BP and RP debaters here. they're not even here to convince, they're just here to talk at an audience	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/17 09:00 AM
3	In your opinion, why do you think the vast majority of Science/engineering students are women in Iran, but not the west? If your argument here is that Iranian women become engineers because they don't feel like they can find decent Iranian men to support them, then perhaps you ought to make that argument instead of just being an ass on a debate subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/17 08:19 AM
4	[Q4BP] What has Feminism done to help men? It's not about proving a point. It's about taking action versus posturing. The BLM example is bullshit. The feminine men case, though? I don't know if it's true or not that women don't like to sleep with feminine men. I'm not sure what constitutes a feminine man, for one, and I'm not sure that women actually refuse to sleep with feminine men, for two. Still, if we follow the argument: Suppose the general population of women states that they accept but does not sleep with a subset of men. Men, ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/17 10:20 PM
9	[Q4BP] What has Feminism done to help men? Isn't that kind of like a woman saying that we should have more women in STEM while she is getting a degree in sociology, though? The "lip service" argument has a point there. She might be trying to help, but she also might just be virtue signaling while her actions reinforce the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/17 06:54 PM
15	Are blue pillers scared of getting red pilled? Why do their sub have a disclaimer saying to get off TBP from time to time? Be honest. Or maybe they're filled with hate because the more extreme incels, redpillers, etc. aren't joking and are genuinely loathsome individuals. I've seen serious proponents of ideas like sex slavery and eugenics on those subs. The fact that people like that exist can get to someone who isn't expecting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/17 12:10 PM
20	Are blue pillers scared of getting red pilled? Why do their sub have a disclaimer saying to get off TBP from time to time? Be honest. The post isn't saying that the users on there are becoming red pilled, it's saying that they're becoming filled with hate like the worst of the manosphere is, and that that should not be the purpose of TBP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/17 09:38 AM
1	Q4RP: what is the difference between AFBB and wanting to have no commitment sex with sluts and then wanting to settle down with a submissive virgin homemaker? That is a very narrow view of a broad philosophy. The red pill is about giving men the sensation of power in determining their relationships and sexual activity. The subreddit itself naturally targets the "male redditor" demographic, i.e. nerds in their early/mid twenties, and this leads to a preponderance of discussion about a certain type of woman who tends to be highly visible in said target demographic's social circles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/17 09:27 AM
1	For men who want regulations in society to prevent women from sleeping around- this would create a monogamous society where people married their attractiveness equals. Would you actually want to be monogamous to your physical equal forever? Fewer men per woman means that women need to compete harder for male attention. Sex is a way to draw male attention, so women make themselves more sexually available in a man shortage. Marriage tends to lead to children, and children tend to lead to parents (generally the parent with breastmilk) dropping out of the workforce. The market wants a return on its investment in training female employees, so it encourages them to get married and have kids later by offering competitive careers to women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/17 06:15 PM
2	What motivates men who participate in the act of "white-knighting"? Identity signaling combined with thirst. The knight hates Chad but he also doesn't want to stop pursuing women, so he establishes a polar opposite identity for himself as chivalrous in the extreme. "I'm OBVIOUSLY not a douchebag, so now I can devote myself to chasing girls without having to worry that people think I'm a douchebag who only wants to chase girls."	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/17 08:42 AM
1	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. Bad!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 07:51 AM
1	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. You're referencing an ill-defined fashion trend from the ill-defined setting that is "pre-French Revolution Western society" and you're criticizing my evidence, which is a photograph of a dude who is probably still walking around Jersey today. Most men in "history book Europe" weren't foppish dandies in the same way that most men in "modern day America" aren't guidos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 06:24 AM
1	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. pretty fucking flamboyant	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 05:51 AM
1	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. They didn't stop. Muscles, jobs, suits, shoes, watches, tattoos, etc. etc. etc. All of them can be status indicators that men try to flaunt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 05:33 AM
1	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. I'm not saying that men don't strut for women. I'm saying that women also compete for male attention and always have, and that OP is therefore subject to a selection bias because men aren't generally making efforts to compete for his attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 05:20 AM
2	Is it immoral to relentlessly cut oneself in order to escape one's parental rights and parental responsibilities? yeah, but we're talking about a justifiable situation here	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 05:06 AM
1	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, and many other cultures of antiquity had their own fashions regarding female beauty. Makeup, presence/absence of body hair, clothing, etc. Trust me, there were sluts in Carthage. Women have been primping and preening to distinguish themselves and indicate their intentions since the dawn of time. "Supposed?" Supposed by whom? Darwin? Disney? You?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 05:05 AM
3	Is it immoral to relentlessly cut oneself in order to escape one's parental rights and parental responsibilities? no, desperation is the fault of the individual. stop externalizing problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 04:07 AM
2	Scarcity of hot males and other questions. It's about the bell curve. Attractiveness is relative, people today are hotter and taller and healthier than they were a hundred years ago, etc. More important, though, are your biases: If you're a straight dude looking for "hot" (read: "attractive enough that I immediately picture women calling him 'hot'") guys, you're only going to notice the 10's. If you're a straight dude looking for "hot" (read: "attractive") women, you're going to notice the entire 7-10 segment. Also, female presentation i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/17 12:33 AM
1	Discussion: Be Yourself The fear hurts less but will do much more damage to your life because it prevents you from growing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/17 10:03 PM
2	Discussion: Be Yourself Psychological defense against change. In the back of a loser's mind there is always subconscious thought saying "I'd rather keep losing than try to succeed, fail, and become certain that I can't win."	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/17 04:38 PM
2	Discussion: Be Yourself Yes. People love to teach you about their passions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/17 04:35 PM
3	For men who want regulations in society to prevent women from sleeping around- this would create a monogamous society where people married their attractiveness equals. Would you actually want to be monogamous to your physical equal forever? You have it backwards. We don't have a hookup culture because we changed our cultural norms. We changed our cultural norms because market forces (in both the financial and sexual senses of "market") made us want a hookup culture. 1) White-collar jobs requiring little physical exertion proliferate during the fifties. 2) The labor market encourages women to become educated and have kids later because their lack of physical strength is no longer as much of an issue. 3) Women flock to higher educati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/17 10:45 PM
5	Question: Where do you even find single girls? If you're at a majority-male university then the dating culture there most likely trends toward courtship and monogamy. Your anecdotes sound like this is the case, but I have no idea where you go to school. It's possible that you're experiencing some manner of bias, either in terms of selection or recollection. Are you assuming that every pair of opposite-sex people hanging around each other are dating? Are you waiting longer than a few weeks to make a move on someone who is single? Is your perc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/17 07:34 AM
2	Q4ALL: opinions about sex on the first date? It's a huge LTR turn-off if it seems like she's putting out on the first night because she's desperate to hook you. Lack of confidence in her value apart from sex makes it seem like she doesn't have much value apart from sex. Sitting quietly afterwards, scared you're about to get dressed and never call her back just like all the other guys. Instant fuck buddy status, or just NEXT. "She doesn't trust me to stick around, so she's going all-in in an effort to keep my attention." If she's confidentl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/17 04:39 PM
2	Is it useful or pointless for unattractive people to take advice from attractive people when it comes to dating and relationships? YES. The biggest problem for most people, men and women, is that they are narcissists and therefore do not understand what they actually want. There is a huge difference between wanting something and wanting the validation that is associated with that thing. It's not enough to have a desired trait like "attractive" or "charismatic." Other people have to recognize you as having it too, and therein lies the madness. Men don't usually want sex for the physical gratification. We have hands and porn …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/17 07:20 AM