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| 3 | Why Complimenting Girls Gets Me Laid, A Lot...It's cachet, smart guy. I agree with you completely. I'm pretty confident, somewhat good looking, and not stupid. My favorite thing is a girl who will make fun of me, because I know she is confident herself. I also appreciate a sincere compliment on something I'm proud of - if I wear a nice suit to a date, if I give a particularly thoughtful gift, or if I make a smart observation. But calling me handsome for just being myself? I don't care, and if it's the first thing you say to me I might write… | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 07:11 AM |
| 6 | I want to sleep with beautiful women because I was bullied in high schoolGo see a therapist. | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Are the women on OkCupid just more stuck up and snobby than other dating sites and apps?Bumble, Tinder, etc are 95% aesthetic. OKC is aesthetic first, but you're not going to get anywhere unless you fill out your profile well, have a high-ish match %, AND write a decent message. Even more than in the past, OKC is where people go to find personalities they can match with. You need an entirely different kind of game to be successful there vs the rest, IMO. | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 06:03 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Here are two thoughts on this : If this is a Tinder first date, then don't waste an actually fun activity on someone you barely know, just invite them for drinks on X day to get together (best practice seems to be 1-2 days later) If this is someone you've met in person and gelled with, then you should have a more interesting date lined up than just "drinks" | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 02:49 AM |
| 13 | Did what you said: 6 Months, +10 Approaches/Day. No sex, no Makeouts, no Hooks. I don't know what to do anymoreI understand why you say that, but I actually disagree. In OPs situation I think he has a long way to go, and needs to be able to have non-sexual relationships with women first. Honestly, being friendzoned a few times would probably improve his game overall long-term, vs where he is now. OP, don't get stuck on seduction tactics and and "women don't know how to hit on women" yet. There will be time for that. You need to learn how to make a woman feel safe, and how to make a connection before you … | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 08:25 AM |
| 29 | Did what you said: 6 Months, +10 Approaches/Day. No sex, no Makeouts, no Hooks. I don't know what to do anymoreYou need to make some female friends. I understand this can be hard too, but if you're not comfortable with and women outside your family, this should be the first step. | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls seem to come when you don't try. But then I read about all the things you have to try to get them. How do you achieve the balance of trying but not tryingDo, or do not. There is no try. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Need tips to handle 3 fuck buddies/girlfriendsIf you lie to women like this you are exposing them to STDs, violating their consent, and generally acting like a piece of shit. OP, I don't know you well enough to know whether you're a piece of shit or not. But at least don't act like one. Treat women like people, for fuck's sake. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 04:03 AM |
| 3 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?Man... you have this all wrong. I would love to laugh my ass off at you trying Jazz dance in a club, but here's some real advice: For the most part, any "style" you work to prefect will come off as try-hard. It really is about learning how to move with the music. Sure maybe there is a difference between dancing with a partner to hip hop vs reggaeton vs dancehall. But if you're looking for salsa and bachata-level precision, you're misunderstanding the point. Look on YouTube for how to dance in cl… | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 04:29 AM |
| 12 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?Ugh. Grandpa, we say "on fleek"!! | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Day Game as a Barista? Tips or Ideas for gaming from the other side of the counter? Have a night shift tonight, let's brainstorm.This type of game applies to bartenders, not baristas. Your co-worker comes off as creepy. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Yet another reason to not put women on a pedestalDon't introduce this guy to your friends. :| | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 04:05 PM |
| 9 | Yet another reason to not put women on a pedestalRe: list of qualities. In my experience, no woman cares about her "list" any more than you'd care about your "list". My list goes something like (in rough order): Aggressive/clever (making fun of me is the quickest way to my heart) Intelligent Beautiful face Sexually adventurous Nice body Successful and I regularly hook up with girls that hit two of three of these. I've even long-term dated girls that only hit two or three. Why is that? Because happiness is what's important, not some list. The l… | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Crazy amount of flaking in a big city? Anyone else deal with this problem?IMO the actual problem is that most women have had so many bad experiences, because of so many low quality guys on the apps. So, many are just using them as a ego boost without much intention of actually meeting up. You're right that the ones that do intend to meet up have an endless line of thirsty dudes. The first problem, BTW, has become true for me as well. Too many flakes, and meeting too many women I had nothing in common with (how could I have known from a two-line profile anyway?). I'm b… | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Crazy amount of flaking in a big city? Anyone else deal with this problem?NYC here. Yes, it's true that flake rates are much higher in the city, and yes the reason is the vastness of choice. What would a woman's situation have to be for her to have no downside to flaking? She would have to have an endless supply of men looking to meet her, and enough anonymity that she wouldn't risk getting a reputation as a flake. This is the reality for an attractive woman on Tinder in NYC. You need to understand that even if you're more attractive and eligible than 90% of single me… | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 11:30 AM |
| 23 | The 15 Golden Rules For SeductionStep 1: Reach deep into your pants, and locate your testicles. If you cannot locate organic or prosthetic testicles, then search deep within your heart, your brain, your gut. Locate them. Step 2: Open your mouth and coordinate the movement of your diaphragm, vocal cords, lips, and tongue to form the word Hi. If you're having trouble with the physical coordination, consider seeing a speech therapist. Step 3: Repeat until this becomes easy and natural. | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 05:59 PM |
| 9 | Techniques I've picked up for using Kino and Body Language to build intimacyYeah. If you don't kiss her on the first date, IMO it's a pretty clear sign that you don't want a second. She'll be surprised if you ask, and not in a good way. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 12:19 PM |
| 12 | I conducted an experiment with how attracted girls are to accentsI randomly began speaking in an Irish accent as a joke one night while out with a friend in Malmö, Sweden. Pretty fake, but maybe believable if you'd never really heard one. Random gorgeous Swedish girl approached me, opened a conversation. I told her it was a fake accent (in the accent of course), and she refused to believe. Left soon after, but... Yes, even terrible fake accents can be very attractive. | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 08:30 PM |
| 14 | A great quoteHmm, I don't agree with this, I think Freybeard is on the right track. You should prioritize yourself over everyone else. You decide who you hang out with, you decide who you respect. You don't exclude people for no reason, but you should surround yourself with high quality people that meet your standards. Have high standards for yourself, and the people who you allow in your life. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 02:24 AM |
| 8 | Cuffing Season is in Full Effect.I think by personal study he means anecdotal broscience | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 07:51 AM |
| 6 | Cold ApproachesNo, this is a surefire solution, as long as she's wearing a North Face jacket, you're in | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 04:38 PM |
| 12 | How would an alpha confront the guy your girl cheated on you with? Advice from Seddit?You're kind of way too late to the party with this response, since everyone is answering as if he'd never heard of you. If you still work with him, ignore him. Maintain minimum civility - he doesn't piss you off, but you have no interest in him as a person. If you see him outside of work, or with mutual friends, give him a wide berth. Move your group to another location. If anybody asks, you've known him for a while, he's untrustworthy, you don't get close to people who are untrustworthy. Simple… | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 01:33 AM |
| 4 | Avoid Any “Awkward Silence” With This 1 Bizarre TrickThe point is to create a scenario where she has to make a decision. In the example, she kills the guy in the suit - she doesn't actually want this person to die, she just prioritized the nerd and rocker. | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 05:42 AM |
| 1 | 5 Ways to Instantly Appear More ConfidentAwesome point about grinding it out daily vs setting long term goals. So true - if your end goal is to enchant women, you make smaller goals along the way, but not daily. Who cares if you get blown out today? It literally has no negative effect in the grand scheme of your goals, which don't revolve around that girl and that day. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 09:46 AM |
| 7 | I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My KneesI think OP was interested, until he identified the woman as a flake and not mutually interested. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My KneesFlake for flake seems like a losing game. Does it work for you? | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 04:27 AM |
| 7 | I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My KneesSince when is fucking anything that comes along alpha? Particularly if you're not interested in the person, why would you want to fuck them? | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 04:25 AM |
| 1 | "Men should be offended" (x-post from r/feminisms) I whole-heartedly agree.I don't know why you're being downvoted (OK, I know why you're being downvoted). But still, this is a bad analogy. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/12 11:24 AM |
| 25 | Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number.This is it. Every time I've accidentally complimented a genuinely attractive woman (before it's time of course), she will simply say "Thanks". Now that I'm more confident, this is generally the answer I give. Oh, you think I'm awesome? Thanks. Anyway... | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 03:41 PM |
| 4 | It Is Never OK to Trick a Man Into Fatherhood"Are you from the moon?" I love this as a catch phrase | /r/MensRights | 08/06/12 02:48 PM |
| -1 | When a woman is intoxicated, we can’t know for certain whether she consented -- or not.Your analogy is terrible. Just because you are unconscious doesn't mean it's okay for someone to steal your wallet. This is dangerously close to "she was asking for it". | /r/MensRights | 27/05/12 11:53 PM |
| 12 | If circumcision is alright because the child won't remember it, then is date rape alright as well?This is dangerously close to "she was asking for it", please refrain. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/12 08:01 AM |
| 6 | According to feminists - more men entering female dominated professions is new sexism against womenI think it more properly means an invisible ceiling - you can't see it, ie everybody denies it, but it's there regardless. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/12 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Alicia Gaston, 20, confesses to having sex with boyfriend's 7-year-old son. Judge Lisa Allen set her bond at $75,000.While I agree with your skepticism, the conversation topic isn't whether she did it or not, it's the amount of bail assigned. It's my understanding that the judge's subjective assessment of whether the defendant may be guilty should not weigh into bail assignment. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/12 01:26 AM |
| 9 | The best advice I've ever read on how to stay, "alpha."Seriously. The Tao is decidedly un-Alpha (although not Beta either) and any translation that can be construed as Alpha I would question. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Saw this today and I suppose that's where we're headed...What in the flaming, flying, fabulous fuck? | /r/MensRights | 11/05/12 11:36 AM |
| 94 | Frida Ghitis blurts it out...Female's rights activists. Seriously? It's so sad to see reactionary and bitter little girls come together to hate on men. FTFY | /r/MensRights | 25/04/12 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I'm a man, so I can't call the cops.Good point - you are speaking realistically about resolving the situation, I'm speaking theoretically about his rights. It's important to keep in mind that if you DO want to press battery charges, you will need the cops to be involved relatively close to the actual event. So, they have to be involved beyond just "solving the problem". | /r/MensRights | 22/04/12 10:12 AM |
| 6 | I'm a man, so I can't call the cops.He is a victim of battery. He should not fear for his safety or freedom if he chooses to pursue charges against his batterer. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/12 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Female lawmaker criticizes California Lottery ad in which a woman slaps a man. Saying it promotes violence. California Lottery then pulls ad.NY lotto uses a small man and calls the character "A Little Luck" | /r/MensRights | 20/04/12 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Some consequences of the greater field of vision of womenI think the DLV would be looking and not approaching. OP says you're opening her by letting her know that you see her, if you don't make a move to approach then you are backing away from your set. I'm inclined to agree. This is particularly true if you look more than once. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Male Rape is FunnyI don't know of audiences will see an antagonist woman getting raped as her "just desserts". | /r/MensRights | 13/04/12 06:34 AM |
| 10 | Seddit...Has anyone tried the Apocalypse opener? If so what were the results?This is 75% of my homepage. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 05:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Five approaches EVERY SINGLE DAY for the entire month of March.The summer's coming, which means tons of awesome free music all over the city. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 01:17 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with lack of response to my text messages?Consider your vagina trusted. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 03:51 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)This is why I don't criticize people. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 01:18 PM |
| 79 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)Having read a few of your FRs before, I saw this sentence HB: LOL. grabs my phone and puts it in herself And I went D: And then I read the sentence five times over before understanding that she put her number in your phone. Nice work. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 05:03 AM |
| 4 | 7 unique TL;DRs.This guy DEFINITELY knows what he's talking about... Or memorized The Game cover to cover | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 11:22 AM |
| 8 | Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the FriendzoneThis guy knows how to do it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Noobie help: Condescending to Asian Waitress edition.This guy knows what's he's talking about. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Mark Byron FREE! "Judge Seive decided that violating my civil rights for 26 days was enough to purge the order!"I think some people are confusing you with the top level comment poster. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/12 01:07 AM |
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