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26

Block and leave. Please. He’s not taking feedback from you and that’s dangerous. There is no long term relationship without you guys taking feedback from each other. This goes BOTH ways and this has to be in a respectful manner. He has disrespected you and the relationship is dead. Block and leave.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/26 11:52 PM
13

I didn’t leave it as much as a girl pulled me out of it. And she is now my wife.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/25 02:36 AM
3

How about this? If the red pill was right, I, who did everything wrong from a red pill perspective, shouldn’t be in a happy marriage with a really hot girl for many years. A lot of it is bunk.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 01:42 AM
1

Still going great
/r/ExRedPill05/02/24 04:19 AM
10

Okay first. Rid yourself of the idea of doom. It’s not a good idea to have if you want to be successful. Second, you should understand what a girl wants. Notice I said “A girl”. Girls will all be different and therefore expect different things. For example, I’m a Muslim. If I was single but I found an Atheist girl, then it would be trouble as we would inevitably start clashing. In my marriage, I’m obese but my wife is fit. It would be really bad if I wasn’t exercising or trying to change my diet…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 10:56 PM
7

I will SAY that the relationship I’m in: I did everything wrong from a red pill perspective. My actions, according to red pill, should have led to me being placed in the friend zone. Instead im married with a cute daughter
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 07:04 PM
1

For me: I was once an Incel. Now I’m married to a girl who is basically a model. There are honestly 3 steps that I took. Be yourself. Become the best version of yourself. Even the act of trying can just earn you respect Put yourself out there I got a ton of rejections but quite honestly the one that accepted me was the best one of the lot.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 10:57 AM
13

End things or get a lawyer. Honestly, if I was a woman, I would break up with him.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 02:47 AM
6

I expected my woman to have 0 body count when I married her. Because I had 0 body count when she married me.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:30 PM
1

Or maybe never had it to begin with. Lel
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 12:42 PM
1

Why? I don’t need any pill. All I’ve needed and used is common sense.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 05:30 AM
1

I don’t really need to anymore. Im married and about to have a daughter.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 11:24 PM
1

Not really. I never was able to pull off the red pill lol. Despite trying.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 11:03 PM
3

Not really a hard lesson. It was just me doing “everything wrong” from a red pill perspective. This caused my marriage to my wife.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 05:02 AM
1

If you get rejected then move on. I got rejected several times while continuing to work on myself. The girl I ended up with was the best out of all of them.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 10:34 PM
1

Just talk to her. She reject then move on
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:03 PM
1

Go away loser
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 04:27 PM
1

Dude. You really don’t know what you are talking about. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 06:51 PM
3

Never surrender. There is someone out there for everyone
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 04:10 PM
2

The question should be: how I was able to do it despite being autistic I’ll type up a full thing about it later.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 02:25 AM
1

Okcupid lol. You are asking the wrong question.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 02:06 AM
3

Online dating.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 03:18 AM
3

I’m overweight, socially awkward and autistic. And I’m married to the best woman ever. So No it isn’t over. Not by a long shot.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 02:24 AM
11

A lot of people lie for their own interest. That's nothing new. Just try to filter and find someone that doesn't lie to you. Man or woman.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 07:55 PM
2

It was just the way my relationship developed. I broke a lot of rules of red pill. I was neither fit nor rich. My wife and I just had a happy relationship and all I did was be myself.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:42 PM
3

And yet I have the things that 90% of red pills and incels are looking for. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 04:39 PM
4

In general, people want to be with attractive people. There is nothing wrong with that. And it’s okay to become the best version of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:00 PM
1

That some women do love bad boys whether you like it or not. Lol. Women are all different and therefore what they want is different. It’s not too much of a stretch that some do fall for the bad boy type. To assume otherwise is narrow minded. Even I sometimes assume bad boy traits at times to keep things interesting with my girl. And I’ve never said that everything the red pill says is wrong. The only thing I disagree with is the misogyny. Whatever. Truth can sometimes be unpopular. Even if I get…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 01:02 PM
2

I’m damn sure. And also I’m not on the red pill. Like I said, truth is unpopular. And what is true is that my relationship is damn successful. So I know a thing or two about relationships.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 09:03 PM
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Lol. I’m married and have a successful relationship. I know all about having good relationships. So please don’t lecture me about this. Whatever. I stand by what I said. Truth can sometimes be unpopular. And Red pill doesn’t always involve treating women like shit. I said it before women don’t like rude people.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 05:42 PM
-12

I don’t really have the time. Some women are attracted to masculinity and assertive men. Some will even like the bad boys. Every woman is different and therefore what they want is different.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 05:16 PM
-11

Sometimes truth is unpopular.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 04:33 PM
-26

Women are all different and therefore what they want are different. RP May work for some women but not all women. And it is definitely certain being rude to women doesn’t work.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:18 PM
3

You gotta talk to Aliyne and let her know you are interested in her. Go up to her and ask her out. Gymmaxing is good in general but gymmaxing and then asking her out isn’t the way to go.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 02:09 PM
4

Just me.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 01:35 PM
4

There is competition. Big time there is. That's why EFFICIENCY is important. You cannot procrastinate towards your goals. You will always lose to someone who doesn't. That being said, if you are looking for relationships, then misogyny isn't efficient. The red pill philosophy makes up myths like hypergamy and female nature in order to basically seduce women into a misogynistic relationship. The best relationships don't start with contempt but empathy.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 10:16 PM
3

When did I say cancel them? I’m saying to be efficient, act appropriately and have some empathy. That’s what I did to have relationship success
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 09:48 PM
5

Given I actually married an Asian woman, I think I can talk a bit about this. If you have money, you might have some advantage especially in the poor areas. However, that can only be part of it. Women are women just as people are people. Each Asian woman will be different and you will have to try and understand what the Asian woman wants. In my case, I could get away with being fat and socially awkward. This was mainly because I showed her my effort to change myself and to be there for her when …
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:39 PM
6

Dude. The guys that are preaching red pill are usually some guys with muscles OR some guys trying to talk about "masculinity". At the end of the day, it's about power. I'm not actually a feminist. I know what works and what doesn't work from experience. I don't think you can start having a relationship with anyone from being "morally superior" to them.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:16 PM
10

Generally, I think misogyny is marketed as powerful. If you think about it, you have all these "strong", "confident" men that are lecturing others about how to treat women with their "female nature". Underlying that, it seems men have a drive to feel power and have some sense of control over their lives. However, this is merely an illusion of power. If you see misogyny played out IRL, you see men getting their power revoked left and right. Remember MeToo? What will make a man actually powerful a…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 02:42 AM
4

If that’s the case, I should have died alone too. I have autism and I’m ugly. Here I am with 6 figure job and loving wife instead. You still have my permission to fight for your dreams.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 09:49 PM
46

He’s a stupid person. His secret is that he says insane shit for people to go and give him views His message comes to an end when you stop giving him attention.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 03:25 AM
1

So what? People like stupid people all the time. It’s not your problem.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 02:21 PM
5

Seriously, just go workout or do some job. This Tate guy being in your head isn’t making you any stronger or any richer. It’s just giving you anxiety.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 01:30 PM
9

Then you can judge those people who say only men are shallow for being both idiotic and sexist.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 12:39 AM
15

Women are shallow. Men are shallow. Everyone is shallow. Can’t judge women for being shallow if men are shallow as well.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 12:04 AM
6

Ask. Her. Out. If she says no, move on.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 09:34 PM
74

The problem with red pill is that the position starts with Contempt for women and moral superiority for the man. I’m currently in a happy marriage with my wife and I broke all the rules of red pill. I’m not fit nor do I have a lot of money. The thing I do know is that we treat each other with respect.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 12:07 PM
3

So I suppose he answered your question :P
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 10:19 PM
3

If you can bring it up to him and say you don't like it, then his response will show you the answer.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:48 PM
2

What will help you is to realize men are all different. Women are all different. It makes sense because the brain is the most diverse organ in the human body. Thus what you need to do to get the man or woman of your dreams will be different. It is true that being yourself may not be enough. I actually am in a happy marriage and even now, being myself isn't enough. I keep trying to become the best version of myself and she does too. That's what keeps us happy.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:47 PM
26

A psuedointellectual ideology that demonizes women for having a preference
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 04:59 PM
2

If you want advice, my first advice is probably to find a therapist. When there are a lot of personal issues like this, you need someone to sit with you and break items down one by one. This isn't an attack on you; I personally went to therapy and the situation changed to the point where I'm now married and have a 6 figure job. Reddit, where it's just random people replying and you don't know who they are or what credentials they have, is probably not the place for this.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 01:02 PM
4

Think about it this way. In any relationship, people should want to “give you an invitation”. People are different and therefore the things they want from you are different. Women are all different and the things they want from you are all different. You can put yourself out there and it’s not bad. However, simultaneously, you should be going to gym and training to get a job/start a business. Also start to invest in a S&P500 index like VTI or VOO. The point being it’s important to not just be yo…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 11:13 PM
10

Lol. My wife was the same way. She rejected toxic red pill guy and found me
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 03:42 AM
5

This is why I say to focus on yourself. Then the right person will come
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 10:51 AM
65

The answers to "do women do xyz" are generally gonna be "yes, some do. some don't. It depends on the woman."
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 02:28 AM
1

What do you think?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 12:20 PM
1

No. RP is about blaming “female nature”. 90% of red pill content is demonizing women for their choices in relationships. Not about self improvement
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 06:14 PM
1

It’s not red pill. I just think, instead of trying to “save” people, it’s more worth it for people to focus on themselves.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 06:01 PM
1

So OP is another version of me in a different universe then? I didn't know.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 01:00 PM
8

You are welcome. Now go do push-ups. 😁
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 01:17 AM
18

You don’t. You focus on yourself and make money.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 12:38 AM
6

Red pill says that it’s not enough to be nice or do what Disney tells you in order to have relationship success. Like it or not, people (including myself) also care about things like appearance and how someone makes someone else feel (game). You can’t take what someone tells you at face value. It’s not completely wrong. What it gets wrong is the misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 08:22 PM
13

5 and 6 would fall under 2
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 04:52 AM
9

I don’t. Because talking to people who think like this is wasting time. They aren’t giving me any money to talk to them nor am I getting any stronger or fitter or richer. I have better things to do.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 11:00 AM
2

Me
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:57 AM
24

No. It’s bullshit. Some girls dislike vulnerability and some girls don’t.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 03:47 AM
1

People in general are not reliable. If you put 10 dollars in a random business, a lot of time you will never see the 10 dollars ever again. Same is true with people. With a lot of people, you can put all the time you want in. You may get nothing back much like a black hole. That's why the safest way to use your time is to use it building yourself. The people that are worth it will come to you.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 02:50 AM
3

That is also a valid path.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:29 AM
5

You can do what I did and keep looking until you find someone.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:18 AM
14

This is coming from people wanting simple explanations to complex issues. Problem is that simple explanations can often be wrong.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 08:05 PM
7

Lol. I’m married to a girl I found on okcupid. But my case is a rare exception to the rule.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 08:04 PM
28

They should do a study on how many long term relationships result from dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:04 PM
4

Sorry. You will just have to imagine.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:15 AM
14

No. I just was literally myself. An obese socially awkward guy. And I got married to a girl who is at least 9/10.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 06:17 AM
3

Low income people Will not be able to sort themselves so easily. . Also people tend to be loyal to the place they grew up in. I don’t think alienating half the country will be without its costs. Frankly If you wanted America to be weak, this is how you’d do it. It’s already obvious. The Supreme Court has literally poured gasoline on a fire of division in this country.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 06:15 AM
5

This is pushed as a popular answer to a complex problem. It does nothing to actually solve the problem and worsens it. Why does it worsen it? Because you see women as "hypergamous" as though they will automatically be "unfaithful" no matter what. That, mentally, makes men think they are morally better than women, which means they are showing "contempt" for them. If you start a relationship with contempt, there is no way a relationship like that will end well.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 05:43 PM
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On the positive side, one can argue that it really makes people think about using sex for long term partners and not just short term. On the overall negative side........you've completely lost the trust of half the population. Half the population now sees their freedoms being taken away. Trust is gone. And this is a disaster for relationships. Trust is essential for relationships to build and now that's been obiliterated. So dating now will be MUCH harder due to the lack of trust. Frankly the wa…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 05:37 PM
7

And people now have to adapt to your thoughts on when life begins? I mean if you are telling people that they are banned from accessing a medical service especially when the embryo is a cluster of cells and not a baby much like a seed is not a plant when it is first made, then you will not get away with it. A house divided cannot stand. It would have been different if the prolife proponents pushed for better childcare services, foster child surveillance and giving resources to moms to raise unwa…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 03:05 AM
6

The problem is how it was resolved. When you have one side that unilaterally comes up with a solution which is then forced on everyone else, then only disaster can follow.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 02:23 AM
9

Don’t give up. I was in your shoes and I didn’t meet my true love until 30. I’m still with her at 34
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 02:21 AM
26

I’d probably get a therapist. Reddit probably isn’t a place to go to with this sort of problem.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 07:22 PM
1

Are they screwed if they workout like crazy and study/invest and train?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 04:17 PM
4

Focus on yourself. Do gym, investing and school/work/business. Relationship will come to you. It did for me.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 03:24 AM
6

Western women are all different. So therefore what you need to do to win their heart is different. You certainly don’t start with Misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 08:46 PM
4

Go to a Pokémon convention and talk to girls there.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 12:50 AM
9

Dude if you are ugly, I'm a beast. LOL And here I am married happily with my 10+/10 wife. What will help you is this. People are different. Women are different from each other. Therefore what you need to do to "get the girl" will differ from woman to woman. I think in your case, maybe volunteering at your local church will put you in contact with girls that you can relate to.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 10:56 PM
8

Like I always say. Not everything the red pill says is wrong. Where it’s wrong is the misogyny
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:35 PM
2

It’s one of the factors. Not the only one.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 10:14 PM
1

Oh big time.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:10 PM
7

Nothing everything that the red pill says is wrong. Where it becomes wrong is the racist/misogyny part of it. People want beauty. People also want to be understood. Thusly, its natural people will seek out both of these things. Not only that, people should themselves work on becoming more attractive and more understanding, no matter what sex you are.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:19 PM
16

I mean. They can talk whatever but they aren’t likely to go anywhere or be with anyone for a LONG time
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 03:18 AM
2

Get a therapist
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:06 PM
4

Obvious troll account is obvious.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 05:46 PM
4

My wife and me only have 1 lol.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:47 AM
6

Why does this sound like a weird sci-fi dystopian horror film?
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 11:30 PM
2

LOL. Woah you are autistic. So am I. I guess it's funny how life goes. Especially since I'm also an overweight autistic with a cute wife. Anyway, I still hold it's less useful for males to vent on the internet than for them to go to the gym, intermittently fast and learn social skills. I think the internet has done a lot of damage to relationship dynamics and people need to spend less time on here.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 12:50 AM
2

90% of what population? Bro just go out and talk to girls and get someone. You aren’t gonna get anywhere by typing things like this on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 12:44 AM
2

You mean your imagination lol
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 12:39 AM
1

Based on what study?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 12:32 AM
1

Well said.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 09:15 PM
2

I had no opinion
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 08:49 PM
2

It doesn’t make red pill an absolute law either.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 06:45 PM
5

Lol no. Just plain truth. She reject someone who is 6 pack in favor of me: an obese, socially awkward guy. Rofl.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 06:43 PM
18

My wife rejected an”alpha male” and went for me the “beta” male. She said it was because “I was a good person and She loved that”. So that example disproves red pill lol.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:01 AM
38

The whole case is a lesson. Don’t be a terrible person and don’t make a terrible person your life partner. Work on yourself and stay out of drama
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 01:40 AM
3

I think the dating market for men is pretty cutthroat and thusly men are looking for answers. Red pill gives an easy way out. They aren’t wrong completely. You do have to be attractive and have good social smarts to have a better outcome. Where they are wrong is when they say you have to be arrogant and treat your partner like a child/your property. Any relationship would collapse after that.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 09:49 AM
1

It’s a free country and truth is truth whether red pill or no.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 01:07 AM
2

I think we really shouldn’t be extreme. Not everything from the red pill perspective is wrong. It is an advantage to you if you are attractive and have good social skills. It’s a BIG advantage. The world is partially superficial. And damn right people judge appearances. What is the wrong part is to “blame female nature” for that. I have nothing against someone working on themselves and making themselves look better but I do have a problem with demonizing an entire sex for what many of them gener…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 02:13 AM
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Anyone who is arguing unattractive men don’t have it harder than attractive men in relationship success is delusional. Everyone can agree that it is important to look good. Just don’t blame women for wanting men who look good. Men want women who look good as well.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 10:22 AM
1

I agree that looking good is an asset. If you are overweight, lose the weight. If you are not hygenic, you have to take care of yourself. What he is saying isn't new. I just think where it gets dicey is that he thinks there is sometimes there is "nothing you can do". I found his channel after getting married to a high quality woman and I'm apparently SUBFIVE according to his scale lol.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 12:30 PM
0

Yes. They are. You are going to have to decide for yourself what others value and what you value. I know that I'm not the perfect person for my wife, nor is she for me. However, what makes us perfect for each other, is that we are working to give each other value. If one of us fails, then we learn more about the other until we can do so. I have a long way to go in terms of being the best husband I can be. I will continue to work on myself until I get there.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 12:05 AM
2

The return from watching TV is only for yourself no one else. When I’m traveling, I’m building value as my body is becoming more healthy and I’m being exposed to the outside world that TV cannot do.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 11:39 PM
3

Let me say it like this. Time is the most valuable thing a man or woman has. Thusly, when someone wants to spend time with someone, a smart person will do so in order to get a "return". It doesn't have to be money, but it could very well be love, affection, children, family, etc.... It's not to say someone "owes" you all this if you invest time into them. However, if there is no return, the relationship will die out, one way or another. After all, no one wants to throw their time into a black ho…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 10:54 PM
13

I think...that's it takes less effort to complain than to go out there and learn how to have a happy marriage. We have resources like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q-isa2lp4Bg Also, you can't expect a girl to be xyz while you aren't xyz. You watching TV all day isn't adding any value to anyone. I'm married and my girl wants to go out everywhere and travel a lot. I go along with it because otherwise I'm at home watching TV. Her hobby is much healthier than mine.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 02:28 PM
3

That's a shame. India might be losing a doctor, lawyer, celebrity, writer, painter... and wouldn't even know it.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 01:35 PM
1

Whoever this is needs therapy. I've been to therapy myself years ago when I was in similar situation and I improved a lot. It will be hard for him to get help on something like reddit.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 12:44 PM
0

What’s it like? Great. You have a companion and she is always supportive of you and making you better.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 03:24 AM
14

Not at all lol
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 11:48 AM
4

Treat people like people. Not like mannequins. That’s what’s worked for me.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 01:58 PM
4

Be honest. If she is still not okay with your boundaries then drop her and move on. Your time is the most valuable thing you have and the worst thing you can do is be with someone who doesn’t value your time.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 04:33 AM
2

Which women are you talking about? I’ve seen none. I also have autism btw.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 11:56 PM
16

People are different. Women are different. So the way to win each woman’s heart will be different.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 06:39 PM
5

I think people who are attractive and are socially better have it easier than people who aren't. This is part of the game. You should either learn it and what to do to make yourself better or fail at the scene.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 03:23 AM
3

Have to lose weight. Not just women but people don’t like to be with someone romantically. who is unhealthy due to controllable factors.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 06:32 PM
1

I consumed it and tried it. Then I met my girlfriend on okcupid and I basically did EVERYTHING wrong from a red pill perspective. Hell, when she met me, she said I was really awkward and she questioned staying with me. I was obese at the time with Aspergers (which I still am now). From a red pill perspective, I should have been alone cuz "all women are superficial and go only for CHADS". Now we married and having blissful relationship. Redpill didnt work for me. Being myself did.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 04:22 AM
6

You sent one standard for woman and another for yourself. Yes. This is a good way for anyone to have a relationship. *slow clap*
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 04:20 AM
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