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| 1 | I recently discovered the seduction community and plan on making it my priority. Help me get startedA tip about relationships (since I've been in one for a very long time now). To keep good quality partners around, you need to have a good quality life. It does not mean you have to be rich or have a good job, it means that you have to be interesting, and be actively working to your goals.. but you are not in that stage right now, your life can be boring and still sleep with beautiful women, In the road to build your interesting life, please don't make these mistakes I made: don't spend too much… | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 05:00 PM |
| 2 | I recently discovered the seduction community and plan on making it my priority. Help me get startedThese are two things I wish I knew when I started: - Friends are better that hook ups for over all quality of life. If I was 28, I would spent equal amount of energy making friends (of both sexes) than looking for hook ups. Don't loose friends in the name of hook ups. -Understand when you really want to hook up with someone, or you just want validation. If you are sad, depress and looking validation everywhere, the seduction community will drive you insane. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | 80% of my approaches don't last over a minute. How do I open better?Just to back on the original point, when I used to go out to just "open" girls, it was hard and even if I met girls and have good conversation, after a short time I will realize we didn't have much in common. There was the casual fling that made me feel good (validated) but it didn't seem right, it seemed a lot of work just to have an ego boost. At some point, I change my lifestyle, instead of spending my energies and time in hooking up, or meet girls for the sake of body pleasure, I change my e… | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 10:09 PM |
| 2 | 80% of my approaches don't last over a minute. How do I open better?Well, in your example, I will open a film society on my town, and I would be the leader. I would organize screening and so on. 1) for leadership skills 2) helps me meet people 3) I will do what I love, watch, and critique movies, with people. | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | 80% of my approaches don't last over a minute. How do I open better?Next steps: 1) Find an event you are really passionate about. Attend. 2) Open girls there. 3) If you dont find girls make new friends (guy and girls). More important that "opening" girls (in my opinion) is making friends. Friends will invite you to events, will introduce you to girls and its overall awesome feeling to have people around that are like you. Also the entire social experience of befriending people helps a lot on social skills. | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 01:28 AM |
| 7 | 80% of my approaches don't last over a minute. How do I open better?Look, I don't usually comment on these things, but it reminds me alot of where I was a little less than 10 years ago. Same EXACT feeling.. I can't tell you how to solve your problem, but what changed for me was that early, I was just going out with the intention of "opening" girls. No direction, no fun. Everything changed when my focus switched to go out and do things that I enjoyed. Random example.. if you go see your favorite band, you will have deep conversations on lyrics, sounds, albums wit… | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 07:30 PM |
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