| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Holy Sh*t! I actually made my first approach!Great job just start with something that has nothing to do with their looks. Compliments based on looks are superficial and low value to females | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThere are millions of reasons you would approach someone when you’re not attracted to them… you probably do it all the time, whether it’s asking for directions, an opinion on something, to give a genuine compliment, to inform about something, etc.. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:28 PM |
| 10 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesHow you are starting is also unappealing. Just walk up to them as people. Male attention due to looks/beauty/cuteness is common and low value to women. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Why do you have the need to tell them what you can do in the bedroom or that you have options? That’s like showing all your cards. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I....cannot do it....feel like cryingTry therapy. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?Because average has no reason to do better. You were below average so you have to put in work. Now that you’re putting in work your skills should theoretically go above average after a while. Imagine the fat or skinny kids that become body builders due to bullying. Same thing | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 10:10 PM |
| 178 | "My neighbors hate me"She’s not yours, it’s just your turn | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I can't do it, I'm giving up, and accepting this as my reality forever.Just try it to get laid | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | I can't do it, I'm giving up, and accepting this as my reality forever.Go on Grindr | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Is it bad to talk about sexual partners with a girl?Well stop talking about past experiences?? That’s generally a bad practice. You can say you don’t want to talk about it but if youre the one who brought it up in the first place that’s on you. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]What makes you unique? You have bad game (common), Think you’re a nice guy (common), Believe that you’re actually a good choice for this woman even though she rejected you (common) | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Accidentally invited two girls to the same date.Well at least let us know what happens lol… this will be interesting to say the least | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 01:19 AM |
| 16 | why women look down when i look at them but gays staring meMaybe you stare at gays a lot… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Polite way?So what! She’s a bum. Drop her | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 05:18 AM |
| 8 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?Being needy stems from insecurity which is not attractive. Bad traits can be authentic, but we have to work on minimizing them and maximizing the power of our good traits. But it’s hard to not be needy when that is how you feel inside | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 4 | I’m a reformed fuck boy who’s had sex with way too many women over the last 10 years and I fell in love after 5 minutes of meeting my new girlIt’s probably infatuation. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Girl stopped talking to me the moment I revealed that I was dating other girlsMaybe she can handle that and just dips when the situation is no longer for her? Maybe you looked like a player by saying that. If you’re not dating her why did you have to reveal who you’re dating? Seems like trying to tell her you have other options, when that information doesn’t need to be stated but rather shown by being a high value man. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 16 | I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through textingAwesome mindset | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 03:40 PM |
| 9 | I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through textingIt sounds like you need to take a break from the apps, especially if it’s making you get mad at women. That energy is going to stick with you and you’ll give off “incel” vibes due to your lack of patience and frustration. Maybe try the old fashioned in person approach? Learn about cold approaches and talking to people in person. It’s not easy, but the more you do it and get rejected, the easier it gets. Also so many people are open to dates but are just waiting for someone to approach them. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | How would you handle this comment from the woman which seems to be subtly referring to sex?You should only tease if you know how to. It doesn’t sound like you know how to, and she basically told you that you did something she doesn’t like, she’s just being nice about it. You say you don’t mind waiting but don’t want to be friend zoned? You sound like a “nice guy,” a guy who pretends to be nice just to get what he wants. Unfortunately for you, a lot of women can sniff those kinds of guys out, and if they don’t, your careless words and lack of self awareness will betray you. That doesn’… | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Signs that I am attractive?Oh I thought I you posted the question lol! | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Signs that I am attractive?Maybe you need a new approach? Or work on personal appearance? Or both… | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 36 | Signs that I am attractive?Well no risk no reward. So many hot people are single because the average people are too intimidated to approach them. Also it could be how you’re doing it. If you’re being cringe or actually interesting. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 4 | I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible.Ehh, sounds like you two are just convenient for each other, not that either of you are really into each other. You’ll find more, just keep working out and working on your communication skills | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low?Never ask someone’s body count. You don’t need to know how the sausage is made to enjoy it lol. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Spilling your emotions to someone who goes cold won’t win them over, it will push them away even moreTrue I made this mistake… won’t make the same mistake again though | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 04:29 AM |
| -5 | [deleted by user]It’s not safe, I wouldn’t | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 09:11 AM |
| 7 | Do you like anyone in the group?Just say you’d be open to getting to know some people in the group a bit better… or that you like everyone in the group… just give a positive rather than negative answer | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 07:56 AM |
| 4 | How do you improve smooth talking?Can you send me an example of you game log please? | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Be careful approaching women especially with the mask mandate going onWhy would you creep up behind someone??? That was stupid. Nevertheless move on, your supervisor will forget about it. But people don’t go to work to be hit on. Save that for when you’re off. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 01:01 AM |
| 9 | Today I put on a sexy dress got dolled up BC I wanted to feel good about myself. Men noticed and all I wanted to do was approach one that caught my eye..Smile and make eye contact | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 08:15 AM |
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