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| 26 | “Nobody hates women more than straight dudes”And they resent how much they want us. Their sex drive is higher than ours which makes them way more desperate for attention from the opposite sex. I'd hate to be a male tbh lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:33 AM |
| 6 | “Nobody hates women more than straight dudes”I'm guessing they lived in an area where they didn't have to fight for resources like food and land, and didn't have any rival neighbours. I've read somewhere that stress of any kind (food, land, other resources) create a male led society because they'd see reproduction as an other resource to control, and only women can bear children hence the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:31 AM |
| 5 | Nobody’s nicer than a guy that hasn’t fucked you yetImagine being ruled by your dick. I can't believe they managed to convince everyone that they're the rational sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 20 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭Lmao isn't this how international men's day was created? Men are funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 22 | Boyfriend doesn’t like when tables turn on him and he doesn’t get to finish after months of not caring if his girlfriend does! Also confused why it’s considered a high standard for her to expect him to want her to enjoy sex too?Exactly. You can only withhold something you owe to someone. No one owes anyone sex. Saying that a woman is "withholding sex" is just another way of saying that the man is owed sex and is deserving of it. This is actually the defense argument against making marital rape illegal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 51 | Boyfriend doesn’t like when tables turn on him and he doesn’t get to finish after months of not caring if his girlfriend does! Also confused why it’s considered a high standard for her to expect him to want her to enjoy sex too?He used her as a human fleshlight for four months and needs to be told that women are human and want to experience pleasure when having sex. She should've simply left in the beginning instead of "withholding sex" (hate the phrase) and let resentment build. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 10 | ......grossThey were all laughing at this in the comments and I just... This is so gross. Idk how any woman has any ounce of respect for her boyfriend knowing that he's like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:25 PM |
| 11 | Men trying to convince women we need "a man."Lol it's a projection. They know that if we realised it, we wouldn't be desperate for their approval and bend over backwards to cater for them. All cultures do this so that men can always have women to marry and make kids with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 69 | they don't even hide it (a collection)This is probably how they view abuse too. Sick fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:04 PM |
| 11 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyLol ikr. They love to project. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Male 'feminists'Of course, that's what my response meant too. I assumed swerf was "sex worker" exclusionary and not sex work exclusionary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 21 | Male 'feminists'It's interesting how female socialisation comes into play even when women are advocating for feminism and female liberation. They want to please everyone, including the people they are going against. It's true that they spend most of their time trying to convince men that feminism helps men and their lives too. Frankly, I don't care if it helps them or not. I want women to be liberated. Are libfems really surprised most men don't buy feminism? Lol why would they? It means giving up power and con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:49 AM |
| 29 | Boohoo male LARPers, your 8th alt account got banned. Go complain about it on r/exfds and leave us alone 😂😂😂Exactly. Women generally tend to stay away from male subs no matter how misogynistic they are because women don't want to interact with openly misogynistic men. Men have no issue infiltrating female only subs because they don't see us as a threat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:31 AM |
| 8 | Peak ProjectionThis would've been true if women and children were unaffected by war, but soldiers used to (and still) rape women (sometimes even children) in the enemy country they're fighting in. I wish war only affected men. They create it and don't mind destroying thousands of lives and nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:26 AM |
| 16 | Male 'feminists'I don't think we should exclude any class of women from (radical) feminism. I don't support sex work, but I dont exclude sex workers from my feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:03 AM |
| 29 | Male 'feminists'It's crazy cuz the most watered down form of feminism still receives hate from men lol. And women still keep trying to make it appealing to men🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:39 AM |
| 50 | I have no words for this lunacyEvery woman I know has faced sexual harassment at one point in their lives, and I live in a sexually conservative society. I can't imagine how brave men would feel in countries where sexuality is more acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 11:06 AM |
| 89 | I have no words for this lunacyThis is why feminists shouldn't give a shit about male mental health lmao. We should just focus on ourselves because pandering to males is useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 12 | “Women are toxic, jealous and fake friends”Women hold each other accountable for mistakes and negative traits, and actually have standards for friendships too. Men will be friends with rapists and abusers knowing that fact because moral standards barely exist for them in friendships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 21 | Candidate who admitted to revenge porn elected - wtf?Men are so oppressed in this gynocentric society that they can still have massive support even after committing a horrible crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:35 AM |
| 7 | DAE feels that having to explain why women's pleasure matters is just a big NO like, why? Shouldn't it be obvious?Omg yes😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:31 AM |
| 48 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.Truth is most men would say this if women weren't watching. Look at the replies to all the deleted comments - they all said they would rape women if they could. Laws exist to keep men in control. Funny how men cry about "misandry" when time and again they keep proving how depraved they are. It should've been male sexuality repressed by the society instead of the female sexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 07:59 AM |
| 32 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.Exactly. Porn is simply a reflection of male sexuality, which is predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 07:37 AM |
| 27 | I don't even know what to say at this pointHonestly I hope they all stay the fuck away from women. It's a good thing that these scrotes and taking themselves out of the dating scene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:48 AM |
| 6 | On HingeLmao💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 10:35 AM |
| 20 | Warning from a woman in the military.Yes absolutely! Men are already less empathetic, now imagine being trained to see killing people as part of your job. Army men are horrible. They are stripped of their empathy the moment they enter their jobs. No wonder domestic violence rates are so high in couples where the man is either a cop or an army guy. Don't ever make the mistake of dating one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 41 | Women. Not even *people*.They're so disgusting. I wish women listened to men when they admit things about themselves like this instead of going "not all men". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 41 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️By that logic, if guys were truly afraid of the MeToo movement, the amount of rape cases would've reduced, yet it seems to be increasing. Males are walking contradictions lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 31 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellThey pretend like "bad" choices don't exist. That people never regret something they chose to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 73 | Woke Queen. The comments are gold.Exactly. Women organise events, shelters and movements for our cause cuz there are those that actually give a shit. Males could do the same amongst themselves. Who's stopping them? Open a male domestic violence shelter, open non profit organisations for male rape victims and domestic violence victims and for homeless men. They could do it, they just don't want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:05 PM |
| 15 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againSis, I am Indian and I can agree with the comments about Indian males being LVM and even nvm. Most of them are misogynistic. Most of them are cheap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Someone pick her please!I think it's just perspective. I've seen women say this about car dates or walk dates as a defense. But yes, you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:30 AM |
| 47 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Great post. The root of patriarchy is sex and reproduction. Males are and were jealous/hated the fact that women control sex and reproduction, which is why patriarchy and religions came into place. If you dig deeper into every stereotype and oppression of women, you'll find that it exists to mentally or physically limit women to sex and reproduction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 70 | Reminder: And it's usually a man you already know.The perpetuators of most rape and domestic violence against women are males that women know by name. Husbands, boyfriends, male friends, male roommates, fathers, uncles, male cousins and older brothers. This is one of the reasons the "clothes" argument is so dumb and misogynistic because most of the time, it's not like women are walking on the street in skimpy clothes and get assaulted. It's in our own homes these things happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 97 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEThis is literally emotional abuse. Males are so desperate for sex and relationships that they're ready to become abusers if it means getting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:28 AM |
| 88 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.That sub is filled with a bunch of cumbrains. No point in arguing about or bringing attention to issues with porn there. A guy literally posted about feeling guilty because he searched for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY comment was telling him that it's okay and it's normal. Don't even bother with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:56 AM |
| 179 | Pickmeshas be likePls tell me this is a joke... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:42 AM |
| 23 | For those of you using social media to document your lives and have it set for public view, please be aware of the dangers you are opening yourselves up to. Ask yourself if it’s worth the risk and question your motives for sharing your life so openly at the risk of your own safety.I've seen instances where women have continuously posted about their personal struggles on social media and some guy slides into their DMs in the name of "if you wanna talk I'm here" and then it escalates into them dating. This situation always turns out to be bad when the guy either manipulates or emotionally abuses the woman. If you present yourself as a wounded gazelle, you're going to attract predators. Not saying that you shouldn't use social media to talk about your issues, but have some s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:46 AM |
| 62 | She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.You're absolutely right. Look at the comment section. She has a hoard of incel and mgtow followers lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:43 AM |
| 126 | She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.Lol she sounds like she just wanted to have sex with them. Women actually have some standards. If that makes us hard to get, that's a good thing. It's an insult to be compared to men on how easy it is to date us and please us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:34 AM |
| 37 | "If she hits you, you better fucking hit her back"She's just an MRA in disguise. Pickme level 1000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:47 PM |
| 34 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheatThis is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:46 AM |
| 75 | Help to rescue my sweet friend from a predatory age gap long distance relationshipOne thing I do to make some women understand the reality of their situation is ask them if they'd give the same advice to their sister or their friend (you). Ask her if she would tell you to sacrifice your current life and dreams for an old scrote. The answer will usually be no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:48 AM |
| 40 | (Repost to blur handles) "No LTRs for me" from a guy who never had one. Deeply insecure men are not diamonds in the rough, they will accuse you of shit left and right and expect you to put up with it or you "don't love them."Tbh I'm glad these men avoid relationships. One less LVM in the dating pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:41 AM |
| 155 | Every single time one of these baby videos is posted, this happens. Please protect your babies and respect their privacy.Men are so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:41 AM |
| 11 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.r /sex is always like "it's okay if you want to rape! It's okay if you are a pedo! It's okay if you're into raping animals too! As long as it's just fantasy you are a normal human being✨" as if normal people are walking around wanting to rape women, children and animals. Or maybe when they say normal they mean it's normal male sexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:24 AM |
| 13 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!Right. Women are visual creatures. It's in our biology to only want tall dudes. It's natural and it's not discrimination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:01 AM |
| 41 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.And they wonder why we hate them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:04 PM |
| 52 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.He posted there cuz he knows his sick fantasies will get validated by other degenerates too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 144 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.Everyone is like "you feel guilty about it! So that's okay!" like yeah? He SHOULD be feeling guilty about wanting to watch a woman's suffering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 241 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.The amount of anger I'm feeling right now is unreal. Everyone is like "yeah wanting to rape women is a normal fantasy and rapists are usually anti social so you're good". Like wtf??? That sub is full of depraved degenerate males and pickmes. I saw only ONE comment acknowledging how fucked up it is, and then that person took back their words and said "if you felt bad about searching for actual rape videos then that's okay". I'm seriously done. Men literally walk around fantasising about raping wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandWomen are raised since birth to be marriage material. We're taught to cook, clean since we were young teens while our brothers got to play outside. Women keep trying to prove to men that they're wife material, when technically it's men that should be proving that they're husband material since most men lack that quality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:15 AM |
| 20 | If it wasn't for arranged marriage, most desi men would never be getting married.I'm happy to see a desi male who can acknowledge this. My only hope for desi women is to keep their standards high and not settle for anything less. But even then, the chances of them finding anyone worth it is very low. Misogyny and entitlement to women and their bodies and their labour is seeped into our culture too much for 90% of us to find a man who is a hvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 9 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSIt's r/ thegirlsurvivalguide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:20 AM |
| 15 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSI agree. Well , I just hope she doesn't have any bad experiences with it. So many women get addicted to the attention and male validation of casual sex despite it ruining them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:45 AM |
| 55 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSI saw that post and I had to unsubscribe from that sub (after a bunch of libfem bs preached there). I'm all for women doing what they want, but most hookups and casual sex encounters are unsatisfactory for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:19 AM |
| 35 | If it wasn't for arranged marriage, most desi men would never be getting married.Women who don't want to get married or have children face so much harassment from both their families and the society. Literally no one here knows the concept of "mind your own business" because they always want to know or get involved in other people's lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsThank you :) good luck to you too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsI was thinking of a West European country, like Netherlands, Denmark or Switzerland. I'm studying business, so I have quite a few opportunities there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 58 | If it wasn't for arranged marriage, most desi men would never be getting married.Most women here are pickmes. It's depressing tbh. And yes, being a wlw is harder in this desi cultures too. Honestly I'd say move out as soon as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsI'm so glad finding so many like minded indian women here omg. Tbh I think I'm gonna try to move abroad to a better country. Even if I don't date, I'll atleast be around better people than the ones here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 92 | If it wasn't for arranged marriage, most desi men would never be getting married.I agree! Western desi males are no better. I want desi women to want better for themselves, and most of the time the "better" is a life without desi men. They are like leeches. I've seen so many South Asian guys being #mgtow and honest to god I hope the others follow and stay tf away from women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 19 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsThis was a great post! As a Indian woman I completely agree. Indian males are a bunch of gross, perverted, low value males. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than marry one. Mothers of sons are the worst pickmes I have ever met. One of them I know irl literally defended r*pe. Don't even bother entertaining an Indian male, here or abroad. 99% of them are lvms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 19 | As a woman who has a strained relationship with her father... this disgusts me. LVM are thanking men who cause permanent psychological damage to women so they can abuse these women to fulfill their porn fantasies.This is why I say and one man's abuse towards a woman is helpful to other men in taking advantage of her. This is why you rarely see them taking a stand against abusers and rapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:53 AM |
| 5 | Hates porn because…muh penis!Males lack empathy. Nothing new here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 10 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.Every single one of those males in the comments were basically saying "perverted degeneracy is normal in teenage boys!¡! Don't call him out and protect him by keeping mum about the sexual harassment." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 16 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.Some of them are literally advising her to buy him panties to jerk off to🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 27 | If the sex is bad the first time, move on.Tbh, before y'all have sex, make sure to not directly just jump into that. Give each other oral. Make sure he goes down on you and is generous with his time and effort in pleasing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Ladies teaching each other why we should let men use our bodies to masturbate with when we don’t want to have sex. iT’s LoVe 🤡This reminds me so much about how religious people talk about sex between couples as a duty. Libfems are 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:19 AM |
| 6 | If liberal feminism was a comment. They are so close to realising it but they just don't want toMy god... Which sub reddit is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 91 | Ladies, is this just me or does this just sound like a load of BS? I think the whole men are "visual creatures" is LV crap they make up to justify them perving on women all the time. And the pick-me's that accept it and enable them.If they are sooo visual most of them wouldn't live in filth and look like they haven't showered in a month. It's all a plot to lower women's standards and make us accept someone who doesn't care about presenting decent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:51 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?And it's not like they do anything other than contribute jizz in the process of reproduction and they think they achieved something lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 56 | Male posts on r/sex about why people (women) should do sexual acts for their partner even if they don't like it. Multiple awards and 3k up votes.A lot of them enjoy hurting women. That's the only explanation there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 58 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?This is how I feel about it too omg. I feel disgusted at the thought of being pregnant and giving birth because of this (and also for other reasons). But most males are not worth being pregnant for if you are doing it for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on BF breaking the "porn" boundary?Porn use during work... Yeah that's gross. He's a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 6 | Pleasing yourself sexually after a break-upPersonally, when I fantasize, the person in that I'm imagining doesn't have a distinct face. It's more about specific details like the voice or the eyes and other things I focus on that helps me. Maybe try doing that. Also reading erotica works too. But there are a lot of shitty ones and you'll have to dig a bit deep to find a good one. But when you do find a good one it's totally worth it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 17 | When you feel rushed into a date and there's minimal effort, a sexual vibe/undertone/hints, he wants to be matched with younger women, chill date, etc. The guy is looking for a hookup only.The way males keep proving that FDS is right about them yet drag it every chance they get... It's definitely the fact that they don't want women to know how LV most of them are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Money is power. Why financial independence and security is important.This is what I was trying to say. Even if you did get with a HVM, there's still many women who married to who they thought was a HVM and they turned out to be LVM, and worst case scenario, an abuser. But let's say he is genuinely a HVM, people die unexpectedly. My uncle (a HVM) died tragically due to brain tumor at 50 years of age. You never know what life will throw at you until it happens. So no matter now much you trust and love a man, you still need to have money or atleast some asset that c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 11 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.It's true. Having higher testosterone means being more prone to making irrational decisions. There are many studies on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 23 | Should I cut this man off?Lol he wants to take things slow but wants to have sex? Yeah he's using you. Leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 13 | He just learned how to hide it betterYou did the right thing by breaking up with him. Him jerking off to IG models right beside you was fucked up. You deserve way better than that. Keep your head up queen💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 221 | Men can't provide for families, can't pick up after themselves, can't pay for a whole date, and now they're demanding that they don't ask women out on dates at all but they still want access to us. Don't ask men out, leave these losers to die alone.Literally WHAT do men bring to the table at this point lmao. A bunch of losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meWtf?? Your ex beat you and she doesn't see anything wrong with that? Drop her. You deserve a better friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:24 AM |
| 11 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.In a way I understand those kind of posts, because dating men is exhausting, not upholding standards which apply to every aspect of life. But I agree that you should be so sure of your standards that you can leave at a point when the relationship isn't of any benefit to you or is negatively affecting you. You should always have a life outside of your relationship so that your life is not obliterated when relationships end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Charming but manipulativePlease leave this guy. Tell your close friends and family what's going on so they'll be of support to you and solidify your decision to leave him. If this continues any longer, the abuse will only get worse. If you break it off now, you'll look back in a few years and you'll thank yourself. You're your own advocate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 22 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.It's exhausting only if you put up a facade of confidence and self respect. Women who truly have those two wouldn't feel exhausted by upholding their own standards. Women as a class really do have a lot to unlearn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 63 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.I was thinking this the other day. Many women think having standards and boundaries means enforcing them only until they get into a committed relationship. They start slacking off with their standards after that and fall into their old pickme behaviours once they get commitment. It's so stupid. Men can put up a facade or can become LVM in the future. That's why it's important to be aware and have a bit of skepticism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:22 AM |
| 15 | I just realized that men are disgusted by women who have a lot of sex because deep down they know that they are(men) gross and repuslive so having a sex with a male is an insult lmaoThis is IT lmao. I haven't heard any woman talk about having sex with a man in a way that made it seem like it she was humiliating him simply by the act of having sex with him. I have heard the opposite quite a lot though. In fact it seems like most of the enjoyment from sex that men get is from the feeling of dominating and humiliating women, but then again, it's all in their heads. They think women giving them a blowjob is humiliating to the woman doing it, which means they think their penises… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:44 PM |
| 15 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?I'm so sorry for you loss❤️ I hope you find peace and happiness <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Am I being unreasonable?Stop leeching off of him and get your shit together. What will happen when he kicks you out? Will you have back up funds and a place to stay? Finish school by whatever means, get a stable job and a place to stay. That age gap is a bit worrying too. This relationship isn't good for either of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 28 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategiesGod, this subreddit makes me never want to touch a man ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:25 AM |
| 9 | Any HVMs in India?Anecdotal experience + observing the way female celebrities behave. To most women, life is all about getting married and having kids. This one is particularly for the older generation of women, but they'd rather have to married to a loser/abusive pos than you stay single. The newer generation of women who work in IT are only modern when it comes to fashion, TV shows and financial independence, but they'll still thirst over and create drama all over some LVM who thinks saying the n word is cool. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to mend things with a man who’s already starting to pull away, or should I just suck it up and move on?You shouldn't want someone that doesn't want you. Cut your losses and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 13 | Any HVMs in India?Nope. Never met a single one lmao. They are all coddled by their mothers since birth and will expect you to do all the household chores. Women here have a lot of internalized misogyny too. 90% of them are pickmes. Tbh dating here is a bore. I'm planning on getting out of this country the first chance I get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | I- have men always been this dirty or is it an uprise of unhygienic guysI have no idea how women put up with this shit. Are they still attracted to their men when they're this unhygienic? Do they get wet thinking about them? Because this is so gross and would absolutely kill any attraction I have towards a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:42 AM |
| 16 | Do you ever feel like no one understands your standards?Omg same😭 99% of men here are LV. They don't have the emotional intelligence, or the looks, or know how to pursue a girl. They tend to be so cringey too. I blame the film industry here for making it seem like girls love corny shit. I have no hope for finding love here lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:22 AM |
| 30 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!What the fuck is wrong with men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:41 AM |
| 35 | Pay attention to your body.This is true. Women are often told to ignore their intuition and gut feeling. Body and mind don't exist separately. If you are being mistreated or abused, your body will mirror the state of your mind. That is why it's so important to be in tune with both your body and mind. Having self awareness is the key to avoid abusive and toxic relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 50 | “Should I wait around for crumbs? He says he likes me, tho”Asking men dating advice is so stupid. They're gonna tell her to accept his breadcrumbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Okay. Let’s not talk about how men constantly make fun of things girls like such as princesses, twilight, romance films and books, pink, girl stuffy, etc.They're so fucking stupid. They're literally on a dating app and post pictures of them holding fish. Literally anything you do on a dating app is to impress and find people to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 15 | Don't forget to ask men to get tested for STDs before sleeping with them.This is why you should ask them to actually show the test result to you, not just send a picture of it since that is easily manipulable. Don't ever accept just a picture of the test result. That's just stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:52 AM |
| 16 | Queens, how can I continue to level up after a fairly tough breakup?Keep reminding yourself of all the negative things about him and all the bad and hurtful things he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Liberal feminists think too highly of men and men's nature.True. But the reason they wouldn't disrespect or harm a guy as easily as they do a girl or a woman is because with a guy, there is a potential threat of violence. Men understand violence. That's why they don't take women seriously, because they know they can defend themselves against a woman easily. When there are quick consequences to their actions, that's when men will stop harming women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 136 | Shower thought: men tell us we’re stupid for not vetting chumps hard enough & blame our pOoR cHoIcEs & not men’s behaviour....but once we start getting wiser to men’s lies & vetting them harder they call us stuck up, superficial & paranoid.True. And they complain about women being picky and go on and on about how hard being a man on dating apps is because they don't get matches. They want women to be picky, but they want picky women to pick them. But these women know better and that's why they're mad lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:56 AM |
| 3 | NVM writes an essay on what he wants in his partner. It is not a satire. Comedy Gold.If there's one thing Indian guys have, it's the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:51 PM |
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