| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 496 | Poor woman. | MALE DEPRAVITY | neonred1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 295 | Anyone else? | MOOD FOR LIFE | neonred1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:18 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | Found one in the wild!Or he has mental health issues himself I learned that with one of them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 09:32 AM |
| 15 | His good qualities firstI hate reading through those intros. We all know he sucks 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:52 AM |
| 8 | Return of the city scrotesA guy at work did this and I made it a game for him to slam into me instead of walking around me like a normal person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Instincts/gut feeling - we have them for a reason!I almost threw up when we signed a lease together, and we didn’t make it the whole year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:14 AM |
| 10 | The only man I will consider having sex withI hate when I know most men act a certain way at first because it’s just about sex to them, it really turns me off. It’s hard to find someone who genuinely cares about you without wanting to get in your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:02 AM |
| 6 | A refreshing positive experience with the STD talk I wanted to share. Also curious about how others approaches to this/experiences with itmake sure they always show you the results! Don’t trust when they say they’re tested and clean but don’t show any physical documentation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:55 AM |
| 63 | Say It Louder For All The LVMs/NVMs & Scotes In The Back 🗣I don’t understand why pick me’s find this kind of behaviour attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneAs someone who was in a relationship with a serial cheater, this makes so much sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | And we‘re the toxic people...😒That’s why we turn off our DMs😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 08:30 AM |
| 8 | It’s 11:50pm, I’m trying to sleep but can hear my neighbor sobbing and her lvm partner probably gaslighting herIt’s so hard when you’ve been in that situation in the past, I hope she can get out of it soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 08:25 AM |
| 6 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."I love these! Nothing has changed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:47 AM |
| 7 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!Nice hands bud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you do vetting for attachment style and conflict style??As an anxious where my longest relationship was an avoidant, it could be literal hell. I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:44 AM |
| 9 | Beware The "Momma's Boy."My first boyfriend who I was on and off with in high school let his mom choose everything for him. His prom and homecoming dates (surprise, not me), his college, housing, degree, and eventually his wife (their families were friends in a tight knit religious community). Him not being able to stand up for me and let his family know that we were serious was the straw that eventually broke the camels back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:36 AM |
| 9 | High Schoolers: Careful with the mentors you trustYears ago when I was at a very low point in my life, a friends dad tried to “mentor” me. Looking back on the messages, he was preying on my vulnerability. Asking about my sexual preferences at one point. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:32 AM |
| 22 | Loving a LVM was my personal drug of choicecodependency can be a hard vice to get over | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Hobosexuals.If he’s thinking about dating in that situation he wants something from her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | ⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️“Now it’s time for you to show me yours” After you told me you had nothing to offer... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 37 | 🙄What to do when he texts you but the texts have turned boring and/or too low effort?🥱If they only text when they feel like it, and the texts get dry, don’t ever expect a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:32 AM |
| 4 | 👀where was this when I was younger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:12 AM |
| 12 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡I hate the way he talks in this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 18 | In a society that profits off of women’s insecurity, loving yourself is true power! 🔥✨It’s true, a woman who loves herself will separate herself from toxic relationships without a thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Some things I've learned in trying to find HV people (friendships and romantic relationships)Thank you, saving for later! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:26 AM |
| 13 | Men Pushing Pregnancy During Dating^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:25 AM |
| 7 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labourI love the therapist bit because it seems like way too often the guy is just complaining about himself the whole time, and I would love to bill for that😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:24 AM |
| 5 | Saw this on Witches vs Patriarchy. It was also discussed on a recent FDS podcast and is very important to remember. Being empathetic to the point of destruction is self harm.The very first thing my first therapist drilled into me was establishing boundaries, because I had this exact problem and it destroys you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:26 AM |
| 40 | Ofcourse she cleans this..why is she cleaning his mess? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:18 AM |
| 5 | LVM thrive in stagnation. Save your tears.This story made my night, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Facts.That’s why I’m so picky with men, because so many are draining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 2 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.At least the comments are shutting her down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Why are you ring to date a homeless man though?Yeah, I’ve decided that if I become that gf again then I need to establish some billable hours 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:40 AM |
| 89 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅Good job! You did one household chore! Would you like a cookie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Comments under the original post filled with "It'S JuST a SiLLy JoKe!" but is it really?For real, it’s not cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:34 AM |
| 27 | Red Flags From My ExI have a mental illness and absolutely do not approve of a partner using it as a scapegoat for their actions. If you are hurting your partner, you need to help yourself first through extensive therapies and medications before being in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Some of y’all are still pick-me’s, you just hide it betterMy whole childhood and adulthood I was surrounded by pickme’s and I only dated LVM . So I understand I still have tendencies, because that’s all I’ve known. I signed up for therapy and have no plans of dating until I can build myself up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Thank you! I learned to say "no" to free emotional laborCongrats on not falling for the “closure” trap! Now you can move on and be the best version of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:40 AM |
| 71 | He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn.How this has 240 upvotes is beyond me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else?yes mam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:58 AM |
| 22 | Chasing MenLol right, make sure they don’t chase 15 other girls while they have you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Serious ? - Is there a drug that could be injected to stop the chemical effects of a trauma bond?Just add it to my collection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 132 | He cheated on her and she's still with him. She now finds out he spends money on porn.The whole invading his privacy trope makes me want to scream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 05:15 AM |
| 201 | Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts lol“Everything else in our relationship is perfect.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 8 | I have no words...why are women so concerned about losing absolute pieces of trash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:24 AM |
| 28 | Never let a scrote derail your life!👑✨It’s so embarrassing to say that many of my big life choices starting at age 19 was due to being “in love” with some LVM. I legit have a BSW because I couldn’t “fix” some drug addict with multiple felonies and at least 3 baby mommas. Now that there aren’t any LVM (or any males, thank god) in my life I’m going to finish school for something that will be a lot better for my mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:14 AM |
| 48 | He doesn’t own a vacuum and he doesn’t own a drain snake! Don’t clean up for him, your not his mom, just RUN! 😦she chose to be a bangmaid? Girl.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:38 PM |
| 11 | Found on an Instagram meme page... women are waking up!I had an ex get charged with sexual battery because police found him with a 17 y/o... so he married her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 31 | Poor woman.Her onlyfans is 6.99 a month, I feel like she would need a lot of subscribers to reach 7k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:54 AM |
| 8 | Poor woman.Honestly, I hope it’s fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:47 AM |
| 18 | Poor woman.Right!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:50 AM |
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