nephs Archive

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3	Swallow this. Well, it's not invasive to accept their cues. If they share their personal bubble of space with you, accept it. And on the other hand, offer your personal space to be shared with. Then... I don't know, things happen naturally.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 02:02 AM
1	Holy f*ck I kind of did it Hey, sorry for the delay. Not sure if you got my inbox. So... don't feel obliged to do anything. If you feel like sending anything else after that you are free to do so, if you don't it is not rude. Not where I live, at least. Someone has to give the last word eventually or else you are battling for the last emoji. The one who lost the battle is rude? Not really. Reply when you can, don't rush, don't push yourself. By the way, "so am i + emoji" is a great response for her. Take it easy, be true …	/r/seduction	01/02/17 09:36 PM
3	Holy f*ck I kind of did it Hit me inbox if you need further opinions. :D	/r/seduction	31/01/17 06:56 PM
3	Holy f*ck I kind of did it My friend, you have nothing to overthink about. As you could notice at your first contact, it is actually as simple as saying the most simple thing that comes to your mind. Honesty is a key, here and everywhere. You have nothing to hide. You are a nerd, like to study, have a busy day, are not sure on how to socialize. Do not pretend to be anything you are not. Just be playful and inviting, that is enough. If she comes close to you, just... let it be. Life is easy as that. ;) Good luck!	/r/seduction	31/01/17 06:26 PM
6	The loneliness is crushing Baby steps, GrillPenetrationUnit. I would advise you to look inside first, pick one of these topics and work it out. I read once that exercise and books are good ways to start. here, exactly That link is a beautiful wall of text that may help you. Not feeling like reading that much, yet? My short advice: go for a short walk and choose a book to read. When you get back get a notebook and write something like "today, 27/01/17 I took a walk and chose to read the book [complete]. it felt [complete].…	/r/seduction	27/01/17 09:03 PM
1	Is Milf teasing me? Getting mixed messages. You pursue an older woman the same way you pursue a younger woman. You step closer and wait for feedback. If she concedes space, you step closer and wait for feedback. Repeat until you are closer enough. In my opinion she is giving you space to occupy. Get closer and closer. Experiment jokes, casual touching. If she demonstrates comfort it means you can keep pushing.	/r/seduction	26/10/16 03:48 PM
1	Today I dumped the girl of my dreams... because my emotional core said she was bad news. I now feel like a real man. It honestly feels like you are trying to convince yourself that you are feeling great. You actually don't need that shit in your life, but it is not really elegant to brag about it. You are even expecting her to come back to you. I mean, great, move on! Your life is the one thing that is important and you should protect your own interests and avoid the drama. Just be careful to not create more drama yourself. Keep it cool, don't be a dick, respect everybody, be happy.	/r/seduction	24/06/16 10:09 PM
0	Have you guys had these mixed signals? Nice. Now stop looking to the signals, look to the girl and you may yet have a shot. :)	/r/seduction	06/05/16 01:50 AM
1	Have you guys had these mixed signals? May have? You know she is extremely introverted, shy, was gome schooled and sheltered, had one friend on high school and you ask her out in front of her full class? In what world did you expect her to feel comfortable/safe/having fun around you when you expose her to that? I don't think this was about attraction, I believe it was most about you missing empathy completely? Yea, you may have read somewhere that being brave and authentic and "you go boy" may work on girls, but hey. Guidelines, not …	/r/seduction	06/05/16 01:23 AM
1	Have you guys had these mixed signals? So not really stalling: we ask, she declines, we move on. Then we come back to see if we got another shot trying another approach. hahaha In your place I would go for casual jokes, cause that is my style. I'm playful with my words. I tease, point things I know they are not hundred percent comfortable with. But that is me. I would bring the subject of going out and see how she reacts. Just play with the idea, not a direct invite. Then I'd go for the invite. You never really know where you are. Se…	/r/seduction	05/05/16 10:20 PM
1	Have you guys had these mixed signals? Don't take everything by the letter. Signals are guidelines, not rules. I thing it is creepy to notice the shaving of a woman's legs, but hey. Sometimes it is too late to unsee, but do not try to see a signal where the isn't any. They are guidelines, not rules. Not everything she does or thinks is about you even if she is into you. For how long have you been stalling? Did you ask her out, yet? I mean... there is step after step and you have to discover where she lets you step on. What have you t…	/r/seduction	05/05/16 09:49 PM
1	Do you think any woman is replaceable? Relevant music. If I didn't have you, Tim Minchin. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zn6gV2sdl38	/r/seduction	05/05/16 08:30 PM
1	Those who have a bit of experience, do most girls have a high count? Good luck in your journey. Make it meaningful and fun. :)	/r/seduction	04/05/16 05:55 PM
1	Growing my hair has made women be more open to talking to me I had a metal headbanger hair for a few years. The same happened when I cut it and started to play a little bit with barbers and haircuts.	/r/seduction	03/05/16 08:13 PM
1	Those who have a bit of experience, do most girls have a high count? I do agree that this question probably stems from the insecurity. Also, I think, your beliefs comes from your insecurity. You are not even secure that you are being insecure. hahahaha That being said, I would not worry about finding a partner for life in the short term. Try to meet people, have fun and connect. Not looking for a relationship, or commitment. Just friendship, knowledge. Knowing people's stories and personalities. Everyone is different. Everyone made decisions, everyone made mistak…	/r/seduction	03/05/16 07:58 PM