neptunenerd Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Keep getting flaked/ghosted, suggestions? How'd it go	/r/seduction	15/06/17 03:10 AM
1	Keep getting flaked/ghosted, suggestions? Just chance tbh.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 10:48 PM
1	Keep getting flaked/ghosted, suggestions? Tbh whatever feels the most organic. I wouldn't keep a tally (even in your head) but check in and see how someone's doing and be genuine in your response. Like if today's Friday and we have plans for Monday keep the conversation going a little or at least on Sunday afternoon ask how their weekends going (or their week. Whatever) Just show genuine interest in someone beyond "r u ready for tomorrow"	/r/seduction	14/06/17 05:26 PM
1	Keep getting flaked/ghosted, suggestions? Thanks for listening	/r/seduction	14/06/17 05:24 PM
1	Keep getting flaked/ghosted, suggestions? I mean you're not going to come across as needy unless you're constantly talking about plans but yeh don't consider "locked down" on an excursion just bc someone says yes. At least appear to remain consistently interested.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 05:24 PM
1	How can we get a girlfriend? Fetlife.com. Pretty intuitive and more geared toward your needs	/r/seduction	14/06/17 05:06 PM
1	Wingman in Toronto? Hey I'd do it! I'm cute too	/r/seduction	14/06/17 07:15 AM
1	How can we get a girlfriend? Please don't use dating sites incorrectly. Let's use tinder for example. Make sure it's on your profile. Make sure you list "in a relationship" on your profile and make sure the bio includes that you're interested in having fun, finding someone outside of your primary for whatever your needs are. Don't surprise people. It happens a LOT. When women are on there looking for other women, they don't want to swipe right on a cute girl to have them get messaged "my boyfriend and I want to bang you and…	/r/seduction	14/06/17 07:12 AM
1	Painful night. Girl seemed to like me in the beginning but then hooked up with another guy in the end. Agh you seemed awkward and annoying. I feel like if I were the other person I'd just put up with you because my sister was doing well with your friend. Those weird forced movements and then the ass grabbing. Ugh. Pushy, needy, and violating. It's like if you watched a movie about how to flirt and then it went whisper down the alley through 20 people. That's what you did. I don't mean to be mean but you should probably focus on talking to people as people before anything else.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 07:07 AM
1	Keep getting flaked/ghosted, suggestions? That's boring and often means other people are contacting me and connecting wth me even after I make plans with them. Making plans is cool and all but showing me that you're still putting in the effort to hecking talk to me is important too. "Townofonett asked me to meet up today but I haven't heard from him in almost a week" text the night before uhhhh It's just lazy. I'm not saying text everyday but if the last thing I send you is my number and then you don't confirm mine with me or even talk …	/r/seduction	14/06/17 07:01 AM
1	How do you just "talk about what you want to talk about"? Idk I'd be into someone who started a discussion about Freud. Id be interested to see what someone has to say and whether or not it transcends "psych 101".	/r/seduction	14/06/17 06:57 AM
4	How do you just "talk about what you want to talk about"? You: nice to meet you Shannon. Are you interested in [freud]? I'm saying this because he's what I've been reading about lately Shannon: [i have a background in psychology] [i don't read] [ive been exploring his work] [i prefer Jung actually and his exploration of eastern cultures over how sex based Freud is] Regardless of what she says, pay attention to it because if it isn't congruent with what you're thinking of, you can get clues on where to lead the conversation. If Shannon expresses and int…	/r/seduction	14/06/17 06:56 AM
1	How to make the next step from texting? "Hey do you wanna meet up at [location] for [activity]?" Make sure it's something she expresses interest in or can enjoy easily. Nothing's more boring than someone not listening to what I say and asking me to do stuff I'm not remotely into or is inaccessible to me. (This isn't the same as not sharing interests. But taking someone to a concert of a band you like that they haven't heard of is more interesting than hoping they like to spend hours doing astrophotography with you. A mistake I made. )…	/r/seduction	14/06/17 06:40 AM
3	I don't know how to close on girls So I don't really do the whole PUA thing because it doesn't feel genuine but I do have lots of sex, for someone who doesn't always actively seek it. I seek connections with people and sometimes they're physical. For me, when there's a person I've been talking to and I'm into them, I honestly just say "wanna make out?" And follow at their comfort. But when I'm feeling shy I force myself to say "sorry I'm feeling awkward I want to concentrate on what we're saying but also I want to kiss you" Or wh…	/r/seduction	14/06/17 06:31 AM