ner1n Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	New to this whole thing, I have some quick questions.		ner1n	/r/seduction	08/12/15 08:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Why would someone act interested and then stand me up? Alright, the first flake was a test I believe, to see if you'd perservere. I don't understand what you mean by "I text her if she's in the right spot", but the thing is you kept texting her for dates and therefore showed needyness and the girl was simply turned off. If she flakes the first time, chat her up for a couple of days (brief chats, as if you were busy but still takes time to say something cool or funny to her) and try again, if she flakes again, then it's up to you to keep trying or gi…	/r/seduction	13/12/15 09:10 PM
2	What to say when rejected? Once she rejects you there's no need to get all awkard and be silent, just smile, nod and say "Well it's been nice talking to you, see ya!" and walk away like nothing ever happened and carry on with your day. It shouldn't be that big of a deal, because it actually isn't.	/r/seduction	12/12/15 02:57 PM
1	I just missed an opportunity, should I go back? I recommend going some other time, go get a book or something (don't just go to pick up the girl and leave), and when you go to the counter say something funny like "Hey it's the receipt dropper!" or something like that and try to stir up some small flirty talk, and then number close her. It should be pretty quick though, she is working after all.	/r/seduction	11/12/15 09:54 PM
1	Are there any good youtube channels about talking to women and social skills that aren't silly like SimplePickup or any joking pick-up channels? I feel you get the most out of reading, though. There are some amazing books out there and all you need is to read like 2 or 3 to get you going. You can choose from a selection of books on the FAQ I believe. But to answer your question, all of the guys from RSD are really good, but they focus a lot on inner game, so perhaps watching some seminars from people like Style or Mystery can help you out also, altough their techniques are outdated, they still work.	/r/seduction	11/12/15 09:49 PM
9	Why are girls are so much better at hiding their feelings than guys are? Your friends knew you liked her because they know you and they are fellow males, but I assure you the girl probably didn't have a clue or maybe she had a very faint assumption. A girl works the same way, you have no idea when she likes you, but her friends can tell in a second because they know her AND are fellow females.	/r/seduction	09/12/15 08:11 AM
3	[FR] Oh boy! Oh boy! Two numbers in one day! Congratulations man, even if your first number was a flake, it serves as learning experience and I recommend you analyze what you could've done better or if maybe the girl was really just not interested in anyone. You learn the most from this experiences.	/r/seduction	09/12/15 08:03 AM
2	How to approach women at parties for those that don't drink Just do it? Actually getting a drink with a girl or even worse, buying her a drink, isn't something you want to do. You want to bang her, not be her butler. I know party girls too, they LOVE it when chumps approach them and offer them drinks, only to reject them a few moments later. Sometimes girls will even ask you to buy them a drink, DON'T, it's a shit test. As a matter of fact some of the most famous PUAs out there don't drink either, and they do just fine (Mystery for example)	/r/seduction	09/12/15 04:46 AM
7	Is it okay to ask a girl what she's looking for when she meets a new guy? Relationship wise, fuck buddy wise, etc.? I say let it happen man, why should you ask or why do you even care what your title is, it's been 2 weeks, start to worry when it's been 2 months and you still have no idea what is going on, then you should probably sit down and have a serious talk about where you guys are going. For now, enjoy the sex, her company, and make sure that when the serious talk arrives, YOU know what YOU want.	/r/seduction	09/12/15 04:39 AM
2	[ROUTINE] The 10 steps to a K-close! Sounds fun, how many times have you tried it?	/r/seduction	09/12/15 04:29 AM
1	Advice on how to continue with my ex? Don't continue, you already know you are capable of love, so you'll love again in the future. If you or her can't spend time off each other without starting to see/fuck other people, then I don't think the love between you guys was that strong.	/r/seduction	08/12/15 09:06 PM
1	New to this whole thing, I have some quick questions. Huh, I get it now. I'll make sure I read Models next, but since I'm not looking for a girlfriend or anything, I think I'll stick to the old method when it comes to clubs and bars, maybe try and mix in both of them once I get the hang of the new one. I'm always working on inner game and I've definitely changed over the past two weeks, my mentallity has improved and my insecurities are slowly losing value. Thanks for answering.	/r/seduction	08/12/15 09:00 PM
1	Help me convince myself I can get the girls I want Convincing ourselves is something that only us can achieve, and the way we do it is through proof: we need to see other guys like us pull it off. Thankfully, there are hundreds of books and testimonies that will give you the proof you want, but ultimately, unless you go out there and try to get better at picking up the hot women you want, it won't be enough. So read a couple of books, go out there, practice and even if you are not getting the super beautiful women at first, don't stop aiming and…	/r/seduction	07/12/15 06:06 AM
3	I am in my mid twenties, and boring as fuck. How do I fix this? Just try new things man. Join a gym, go jogging, start playing a sport or get a hobbie that involves being around people, learn a new language, there are a 1000 things you can do to get you out of the house and interacting with people while making your life more exciting. With time, your conversation skills will definetely improve and you can start playing game with much more confidence and freedom. Like you said, the key to being able to bring people to your life is liking your life in the firs…	/r/seduction	07/12/15 02:05 AM