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Oh, but didn't you know? Women aren't really part of society, more like an afterthought. The dependants of society. And of course the breeding stock. So it's not that bad. 😊 (Just in case: /s) That's what it feels like most of the time anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:33 AM
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Is it a classic horror movie with jump scares and the like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:23 AM
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...denigrating the actresses of it. You can bet your ass they would high five all those (99% male [made up number]) rape on tape (thank you, u/Platipus6) producers for exploiting all those women for huge amounts of money, and even the male actors for sexually assaulting and traumatizing all those women, even though they are on tape themselves. It's the biggest industrial shitshow there currently is out there, on par with war "financing".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:06 PM
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Yes! I always thought I was weird for hating 69'ing, because I love sex and all my exes were sooo into it. Now I see why, bc men already don't pay attention to their tongue, and then you have to be on top as well doing much harder work. Now 69'ing with a woman is a fantasy that actually kind of gets me. On top of that, this advice is def given for people who have sex after like meeting each other twice, so the thought of starting with oral sex is even more disgusting. You know literally nothing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:59 PM
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I know, the mods are really doing an incredible job! So grateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:22 PM
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Trueee 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:06 PM
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"Females" smh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:36 AM
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You're giving me real hope here girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:36 AM
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This is vile. I wish men would take it upon themselves to give such assholes a good beating every once in a while, if jail isn't an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:04 PM
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Attention, possible stereotype incoming I also hear quite a few gay men say that. And they tend to know all about those male abuse olympics as well or even better than women or straight men (because they fall prey to it and perpetuate it as well, probably :D).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:17 PM
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For real! Yes please then just go die if it's so hard to admit fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:29 PM
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Wow what a moron. Good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:13 PM
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German scrotes are on another level. Especially if they're in a relationship with a "feminist".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:31 PM
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I would really love to have my own (biological) children, but I am absolutely fine with the possibility of never having any children due to the low quality of men available. It's kind of sad, but then again, I'd be doing my non-existent children a huge favour by not having them fathered by a scrote. That's how much I love them. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:37 PM
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Exact same here :( I'm sure we'll get there someday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:12 PM
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Me too, which almost makes you wonder if it is really (good) sex those men are after, or if they're only in it for the zero value power play in front of their peers? Because to me it seems like they're really just half assing a minimum wage job because they think it makes them look good on paper to their male overlords.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:01 PM
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Exactly, and then they play the victim when you don't get off from them jackhammering you, or wonder why you're not dripping wet from 2mins of rushed 'foreplay' that consists of taking your clothes off and 2 dry kisses on the neck. Even in my pick me hell days at age 15/16 I was repulsed by the thought of allowing boys/men to see me naked who watch naked women being objectified on a screen all day long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:56 PM
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Yes, it's frustrating. I love sex, but men's behaviour and way of thinking are just one big turn off. It's a shame really. Imagine a world where you could just go about your business, enjoy some passionate safe sex with a trustworthy man who always makes you cum every once in a while without any attachments, and not have any disadvantages from it. Like, it's not hard to be a decent human being, why are men so bad at it? Why are they so fucking irrational?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:24 PM
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Monk definitely had the right idea bringing hand wipes everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:17 PM
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Why? I was just today thinking about reading The Alchemist. Bad choice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:31 PM
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Yes, thank you for bringing this up. My last ex used to constantly emphasize and exaggerate how he thought he hurt me, especially after we broke up. While in the beginning of the relationship I really did tell and show him a lot of how horrible his behaviour made me feel, I wisened up after a year or so and started emotionally checking out of the relationship. I still stayed with him too long after that, but more to observe his behaviour and learn about myself. He brought out the big guns, but I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:49 AM
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Thank you for your insight! This is why I love FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:32 AM
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Girl, you're stunning, and your skin is absolutely glowing!! But are you sure you want to have a picture of yourself up on Reddit like that? You know how many lurkers there are. Just lookin' out 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:25 AM
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Oh my god, I am so sorry for what he did to you. I hope you'll never have to fear seeing him again. I am sending all the healing energy your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:40 AM
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My NVM ex told me the dog story about his ex. Now of course he's an abusive liar, and I could come up with a 1000 reasons why he'd lie about something like that, but I do think that stuff like this happens. Girls who become hypersexualised via their environment act out on it in the saddest and weirdest ways, especially at this young age when you don't even know what half the stuff means that the TV or whatever throws around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:20 PM
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Same sis!! It was and is so liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:44 AM
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That was a lovely read. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:20 AM
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Damn, I read every sentence multiple times to fully cherish the story because I knew this would be a good one! This is absolute bad ass queen energy and I love it. Fuck guys who think they can play around without consequences. I've pulled smth similar before and the feeling, albeit being pissed, is just unmatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:35 AM
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It shows up as deleted to me, too. :( I was so excited to read more about your perspective (and judging by the comments it was a very good read lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:58 PM
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True queens, loves it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:28 PM
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Thank you!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:26 AM
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Please dissect! I'm mixed race european and have Canada on my list of countries for settling later in life. Also I love dogs and want to get one as soon as I am in a stable position. Please tell me (us) about your experiences! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:01 AM
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I wonder what the comments were like? The way I remember Jodel from many, many years ago it was full of scrotes and pickmes who would defend such a 'gift'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:55 AM
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Like a year and a half ago I was folding my laundry at the laundromat, minding my own business, and some old ass scrote felt the need to comment in a patronizing tone how well I was doing that. Mind you I was folding my underwear amongst other things, and some people still take me as 15/16 (I'm mid 20s). Disgusting pathetic little shits. I didn't smile nor say anything, luckily I was able to stop that conditioned response. Not looking back to the times where I would just go along with shit like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:34 AM
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Also works the other way around, when they try to neg you while making themselves look good. One NVM I fucked for a while (many years ago) told me about his best friend, who would never ever date a black girl, but he, the big man open to the less fortunate, had no problem with that. Wow, thanks man. I feel so honoured for not being a nuisance to your dick. His gym muscles and big dick never made up for being the worst kisser I've ever experienced, I don't know why I endured that. Of course he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:48 PM
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Sending all the love and strength your way. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:28 AM
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For real. I think in the end it comes down to the male role models. All the girls and women in the family can be good people, but if the father is an abusive misogynist everything these women do goes down the drain (and obviously there are much bigger hidden issues since the mother chose to have children with him in the first place). Women are the literal gatekeepers of the existence of new males in the world, so choose fkn wisely who to have children with!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:56 AM
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Girl why is he your husband? :/ everything alright?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:46 AM
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What a fantastic idea! I'm taking notes here in case I'll get to a place where I can organize something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:03 PM
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I'm sure it's a rhetorical question, but they've never been expected to. None of their ways to gain "respect" or "value" in society or personal relationships involve performing their (non-existing) intimacy or sexuality in a pleasurable and agreeable way for others. Why would they bother if they don't see an outcome that's to their liking? They don't want to seduce women into wanting to have sex with them so badly, they want to take it away from us and feel like ancient conquerers for doing so. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:55 AM
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Your comment made me gag. Literally the first time in my life I gagged from reading something. Probably because my ex was just like that. How can anyone be this naaaastyyy and how did I everrrr put up with that oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:01 PM
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Thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:49 PM
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Damn girl, this is exactly the kind of energy that I am going for! Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and inspiration, it means a lot to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:22 PM
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Thank you! You are so right, and I actually do that as well, at least when walking, but in this case I was waiting to order and receive my food with no place to go. And on top of that I always have to assume that the black men where I live speak all the same languages I do so that doesn't really work as well with them. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:17 PM
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Disgusting. Well, everytime a girl or a woman hears about another woman asserting herself, it's an inspiration in the right direction, no matter how natural it came to her because of age, experience, wisdom or w/e. :) I'm in my mid-twenties and rarely ever heard irl stories of women being cut-off-assertive, there's always at least that "cutesy" aspect to it. So to me that's still somewhat new and deepens my trust that it is possible to resist against these patriarchal ways instilled in us from l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:14 PM
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Right?! Those twisted dynamics are just laughable once you're no longer a passive victim to them. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:02 PM
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Absolutely! I noticed that in other aspects as well. As a child/teen I used to walk mostly with my head down, not necessarily out of shyness but because I just cared to much about where I was walking?? Idek. I was disrespected and harrassed left and right. One day I decided that avoiding dog turds isn't worth looking like a weak target to even weaker minded people and just started walking with a straight gaze. The number of people daring to talk to/at me has definitely decreased. And guess what,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:01 PM
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Thank you so much! I am proud of you too! Therapy is such an important process and to finally reap some real outside world rewards is amazing. Best wishes for your journey!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:54 PM
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Thank you, it means a lot to be able to share this here. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:52 PM
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Was he a stranger or did you have any prior connection him? Either way, that must have felt incredibly empowering. I'm actually looking forward to strengthening those boundary enforcing muscles now instead of silently keeping my mind occupied with 'please don't approach me, please don't approach me...'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:51 PM
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Same here with the women and kids! And leery was exactly the word I was looking for. I am glad to hear that you don't feel that pressure anymore as well. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:48 PM
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Sorry you had to endure a dense idiot. That's not colourist though, it's just plain racist. I hope in the future you don't feel like you owe anyone who makes 'jokes' based on discrimination an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:12 AM
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Wow. I've been wanting to go into the polar sciences and specifically on missions after my physics degree. But I never even thought about that, even though it is so obvious, because it was always this 'wholesome' raw mind vs. nature experience in my head. I don't want to put myself in that position anymore. Men are vile. That kinda throws off part of my life's blueprint. Hopefully there will be more women only spaces in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:10 AM
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I'm 25 and I really needed this to pop up on my feed. Thank you. I'm off to study now and improve my life :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:10 AM
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I 100% agree with you, but it still makes me feel so sad/hopeless that even with decades of training, most men will still be stronger. So we really need to get our techniques down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:01 PM
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My ex NVM boyfriend was a useless sadist narcicisst, but he would even go down on me during my period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:35 AM
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In our Uni, the running 'gag' about physics being the superior science gets thrown around by the profs from day one, making most students very comfortable with yelling it in public. I can understand the need to tbh, but have some fkin decency. Also it leads to many being overly confident without actually having learned/passed anything. Though I have to say that we have very few decent people (men) who prove their actual intelligence by just acting like friendly, open, humble human beings. I feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:02 AM
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I am not denying the insecurity behind this behaviour, but there is still a difference between many women's natural and healthy inclination to help the people they love, and the women who do this excessively because their partners subconsciously threaten to take away their love if the women don't 'prove' themselves enough, or otherwise manipulate them. And that difference is mostly not maliciousness on the women's part, but rather trauma and all around bad experiences/missing experiences of stab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:32 PM
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Because we still assume that others (men) have the same pure intentions that we have - because if our partner were to build us up, we would certainly act on our thankfulness by letting him participate in our success. And even if we were to 'test' a partner for some months/years by hiding our wealth as to make sure he doesn't use us, we would probably make a grand gesture of apologizing, explaining, and going forward making sure that he is well cared for as well. In conclusion, we have to stop as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:11 AM
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Wow this looks incredibly unnatural. I never thought it would be this offputting bit that is reaally not how it's supposed to be. Poor woman. Though she's probably proud of herself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:31 PM
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Very glad to hear he's an ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:50 PM
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Unfortunately the reality is quite the opposite. I think another good example for those twisted dynamics is tax evasion. The small nobodys get punished, big companies run free (because of money, lawyers, lobbyism and simple vitamin B). The system is completely fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:15 PM
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I am so sorry he did this to you!! And so sorry you don't get to enjoy time with your nephew. My heart goes out to you. <3 Fuck porn, and fuck pornsick people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:46 PM
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Thank you so much! And thank you for making sure that your children get to grow up in a safe environment with a loving mother! :) And yes, a man worthy of your valuable time and attention will definitely understand and appreciate you taking those precautions and be willing to wait for however long you deem necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:54 PM
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This is exactly what I was trying to say. As English is not my mother tongue I have difficulty laying out complex concepts in writing, especially when they are very delicate like long held personal beliefs. I would never want to take away anyone's right to not date who they want, be it character or looks related. Tf? Why would I even be in this community then? But as you put it much better than I could, I think it is worth a second look as to why you exclude a whole group of people based on skin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:32 PM
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Wow, this is terrifying. I know exactly the feeling of disorientation she's talking about, and imagining that while being held down and fucked (and in the ass even) is pure horror. Those couple of seconds can break a whole world for you, let alone the trust in a beloved person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:32 PM
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This article is weird. Right after the part you quoted he's like "so yeah that's feminine and masculine dynamics for you, a magical sex dance blabla.". Right after reasoning that it is based on abuse, which is based mainly on gender roles? And then he goes on like "so choke your lady if she wants it, it's fine". Without even mentioning that this might be shady? I mean, I have heard this argument quite often and I don't want to say it's not valid at all for the women who feel that way. You'll hea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:24 PM
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While I can see where you're coming from, I think it is also important to acknowledge that more often than not, the desire to participate in such behviours on the receiving end comes from unresolved trauma and/or other psychological and emotional issues that many women are not aware of. Obviously I don't want to take away anyone's agency by saying "oh they don't really want it, they just don't know it yet". And I don't want to victimize anyone. Ultimately every adult is responsible for their own…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:40 PM
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Yes!! It doesn't get much clearer than this that FDS is meant to keep us safe and healthy instead of acting out dangerous and hateful behaviours like in the subs they like to compare us to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:24 PM
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Yeah, I regret I didn't include a trigger warning in the title. This is male depravity, entitlement and evilness at one of their many peaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:55 AM
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Someone in the comments linked an important study concerning the dangers of this practice (in case you weren't yet convinced it's dangerous and unhealthy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:47 AM
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I feel you. I used to keep telling myself that it has to be fine if there's something missing from your list. Like, you can learn to be good in bed right? Or not be broke, or a bad communicator? Wrong. These are traits that come in a package because they are based on self-respect and the ability to recognize that in order to live a full life you have to grow constantly, otherwise you degenerate in every possible dimension. At some point I told myself, if I can and want to bring all those things …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:45 AM
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Of course it's the right thing to do, especially when you can do it anonymously without having to fear him taking revenge or his anger out on you. What kind of advice are you looking for? A confident woman is all about honesty and knowing what and who she's dealing with, and wants the same for other women as well. Especially since they are engaged. She could be very attached to the idea of not losing out on her 'investment' or some other foolish idea about human relationships and forgive him, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:24 AM
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Funny how in the end he tries to boil it down to 'wasting your time with someone who doesn't have any interest in you'. Like, obviously no one should to that, right? But they don't realize/admit that they equate having interest with 'she wants to fulfill my SeXuAl nEeDs and do everything as I like it'. Instead of, maybe, just showing interest and getting to know each other? And it's not like they 'show interest' by proposing on the third date and opening a collegefund for your future children, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:56 PM
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I'm torn between disappointment that you didn't remind him of that underwhelming sexual experience as part of the reason you'd remember him, and admiration for you keeping it so classy and above-the-belt despite there being so much you could tear him down with. But what a disgusting dickhead. (And you can bet lurkers will make this story all about how you mentioned his genitals negatively and paint you as shallow lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:08 PM
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The point is - IMO - that anyone could play sports if they were willing to actually exercise their bodies and minds, instead of watching. Of course the majority will not be on a level that makes it worth having a camera nearby. But what person with a healthy mindset cares about that? I've never understood the obsession with massively watching other people do something that you could quickly make progress in yourself, and that greatly benefits your body and mind, no matter how 'good' you are, as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:20 AM
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Absolutely, they're the worst. They make themselves sound like original thinkers and engaging conversationalists by quoting some not-so-popular words from semipopular old age intellectuals, and meanwhile can't even admit that you finished your equations quicker than them while they were still contemplating their 'lost potential' instead of regaining it. Lol, I'm still kinda bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:38 PM
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I've been there with my last ex. Because I wanted to improve the relationship and my part in it, as well as help him understand himself (lolololol) I went into extensively studying psychology. I quickly recognized some of my own traumas and shortcomings and started working on myself, while trying to get him in on the momentum (he would always proclaim how important it is to understand and grow yourself). Obviously it didn't work and I began not only validating my prior views of him being lazy, m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:31 PM
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Nice job! Inspiring energy :) and sorry for your "loss", I hope you weren't in too deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:15 PM
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Let's hope so, but even then, she should not go on to have children. I don't trust that her connection to her most basic instincts is strong enough to overpower her need for male "companionship" in case she became pregnant. You see enough mothers willing to sell out their children sadly, so I don't feel its too unrealistic. But I agree that her wording makes it seem like a hypothetical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:02 PM
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Wow, this woman should not have brought a child onto this world. Imagine being so pickmeish that you even erase your most basic motherly instincts of fucking survival for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:00 AM
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I don't think it would make anything better. Humans are not supposed to learn how sex works via porn, but via communication. Also every human has a mind that is capable of performing complex fantasies and feelings specific to her-/himself (and we as a species would greatly benefit from training this creative capability again anyway). So apart from not adding any new/important value (imo) - except for countering malecentered porn, which is just trying to make it a zerosum, so not inherently valua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:16 PM
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Lol, typical male behaviour. The same dynamic as "she already caught me on my bullshit, so I might as well admit what I did and expect to be forgiven and be treated like a respectable man for it" while she's sitting there like are you for real?? It's frustrating to no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:37 PM
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One of the many reasons I removed all my social media and refuse to send anyone pictures of myself. You never know what goes on in some men's disgusting little heads... Well, sometimes you do, and it just goes to show that you're better off staying "analogue" in this regard. Blergh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:25 PM
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I was in that same boat for many years. Add to that the "undesirability" of dark skin in teenage years, and I overcompensated for not appearing feminine and desirable (which were very strongly connected in my mind unfortunately) massively. So I was acting even more assertive, being dominant, playing soccer, having male friends, being proud of "fitting in" with the males because I so loved to eat meat (yuck, I know) and many more things. Then when I turned 15/16 I went the opposite way with weari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:15 PM
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Definitely Anna Bey. I also really like Alice Cookie, though her content isn't inherently FDS-related, it's more of a fashion channel. But she's all about that good life, unapologetically being a woman, and also what you can see with her BF he seems quite lovely. (Made my first reddit account after 1yr of lurking just because I've never seen her name pop up anywhere and was wondering what you guys think.. lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:41 AM
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