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| 28 | Am I doing this right? | netwiz101 | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 05:10 PM |
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| 46 | Avoid Any “Awkward Silence” With This 1 Bizarre Tricktl;dr: Play "Fuck, Marry, Kill" from the howard stern show. Listen to her answer. | /r/seduction | 17/11/12 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Familiarity breeds contempt. Just make sure you genuinely have other interesting and important things in your life. If she's always the most important thing, something is wrong with your life, and it will end. Beyond that, don't let her go too long without a good shagging. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 02:33 PM |
| 11 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?I feel like nobody is stating the obvious. Have sex with her from time to time. Don't do anything incredibly stupid. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 09:43 PM |
| 6 | [FR]- F-closed x2 with divorcee who previously friendzoned mePros: intense emotional connection/fucking. Cons: dinner was boring .. Escaped through window in bathroom. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else get nervous/anxious when interacting with high-value males?I read the topic, and thought you were a girl trying to get laid by a high-value male.Seeking validation is shitty. Just be yourself, and if someone can't deal with it, they're the one with a problem. I remember somebody trying to invalidate me recently.. and I just sort laughed and said "ohoho... you're a dick.. haha. Alright dude, later." | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 03:34 PM |
| 17 | “I wasn’t attracted to you because you didn’t pay for our second date.”The people who think this has anything to do with paying don't know what they're talking about. a) Should have kissed her on the first date b) since you didn't, I would have laughed and offered to escort her home as a courtesy. No value left in those hills. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 09:16 PM |
| 7 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..I use the same technique to blow randos I am, I believe, understandably confused by the meaning of your post. edit: Wait, boxmanboxman, your username may have cleared up which meaning was intended. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..If you're experiencing a "WTF is happening" moment, what could bring you closer than sharing it with her. I've done that.. you can ask "do you know this fucking weirdo?" with your eyes... then ask "so, wanna get the fuck away from here" with your mouth. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 04:51 PM |
| 4 | I've found something awesome and I have to share it.It might help loosen/warm you up on a temporary basis. I doubt it has any serious long term effect, good or bad -- but I am not a doctor.. or even a vocal coach.. just a singer. I think this is just about relaxation... | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 03:48 PM |
| 23 | I've found something awesome and I have to share it.As a professional singer who practiced breathing with a brick on my diaphragm for 3 years, this doesn't even seem slightly weird. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you just can't think of anything to talk about? (Or anything interesting at all)Why not? If that's your story, tell it -- or better yet, make her tell hers. That was really my point. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you just can't think of anything to talk about? (Or anything interesting at all)Once time I just said "tell me a story".. now, this doesn't always work, but if with a little coaching a woman can't tell me an interesting story about herself, I'm going to be bored to death with her -- or she's still way too guarded to have an intimate interaction with. On the corollary, what would you say if she said "tell me a story.. something funny or interesting that happened to you?" Did anything ever happen in your life where you were interesting? Idiotic? The life of the party? Dangero… | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 08:24 AM |
| 1 | At bars/clubs, is it better to start approaching ASAP or wait until it's late?At bars/clubs, is it better to start approaching ASAP or wait until it's too late? FTFY. There are probably better chances when there's 1-2 hours left, but chances are better still if you pick-up the whole night. | /r/seduction | 19/12/11 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing this right?It would probably get her attention.. Right after I asked her out, some porn "stars" started following me on twitter. Striking out with the hottest girl in the room might not be so bad after all. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing this right?That's how I roll. | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 09:41 AM |
| 3 | Am I doing this right?MAYBE, but y'know, I really love her and I think maybe I'll give her another chance/stalk her for a while. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 10:52 PM |
| 12 | Am I doing this right?I gave her hours to respond. NEXT. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For Seddit.. unless it's Mellanie. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 06:02 PM |
| 11 | OKC first date: f-closed, now how to keep momentum?Here's how I'd go about it... ringring... "Hello?" "Hey. Come over." "ok." | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 06:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear.There's your problem; why are your eyes set on this one girl? Yup.. you gave her a chance, she didn't take it. Don't waste time convincing her. She's approach you when she realizes that all the other girls you go out with have nothing but fantastic things to say about you -- which is what will happen when you move your focus on to the girls you're about to approach, some of whom will be in an adventurous mood, and say: yes! | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - Asked the same girl out and got rejected again. But this time, it was more clear.Coffee is ok. Movie.. not so good -- usually.. there's ways to work a movie but.. meh. Hopping in a ferry and going to the island (if there is one near you).. better. I take girls to do children's activities with me.. Science center.. flying kites.. RC car driving/helicopter flying. All my rock star friends think it's lame as shit and laugh at me, but once you illicit a child-like state from a girl with daddy issues, you're golden (p.s., most of them have daddy issues -- as do most men). Looking… | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 07:48 PM |
| 7 | This is not ok, cupid.I bet these guys score on the regular. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 05:09 PM |
| 2 | (FR)15 rejections in a rowThere's usually hot girls at a dubstep party. I'd better go find one. | /r/seduction | 12/06/11 03:44 PM |
| 15 | (FR)15 rejections in a rowShared love of drugs is not a good opener. To be honest with you, I didn't understand what it meant until I read the comments. | /r/seduction | 12/06/11 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Girl flaked because she's too poor.I'm a hustler baby, and I approve this message. | /r/seduction | 08/06/11 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Being the prize makes life dull.Simply not true. You can have nice things whether you're neurotic about it or not. Some girls are desirable and don't push your buttons. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Article: Even sons of dictators with billions of dollars end up in the friendzone if they don't have gameWinning? | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to ask if the girl has stds before we do it without ruining my game? We should have some general STD information on seddit."do you have aids? Or is that just a herpes sore?" Ahaha.. no seriously, don't ask that unless you really have game. | /r/seduction | 07/02/11 03:11 AM |
| 18 | [FR] Met girl at an event, got a good cocky/funny drunk on, f-close + I'm a scumbag.I read the TL;DR. Sounds like she's the scumbag. | /r/seduction | 06/02/11 07:46 AM |
| 1 | I finally grew a pair to talk to this girl on the bus (yes, it was embarrassing), now I need your help...I'd have the exact same conversation with her next time I see her, just for fun. Maybe one of you will figure out where to go from there next time. If not, it's good for a laugh. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 07:05 AM |
| 3 | How to disarm a bitch come on?She could be being play-bitchy to try to evoke a conversation as a response. Have a mock argument. She wants to know that she can't get to you before she gives up the tang. Look at it like little boys being mean to get the attention of the little girls that make them tingle in their winkies. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Today I walked up to random attractive girls and said "Hi, you're hot. Let's go out."100% agree. He won't figure out what he's doing wrong if he does nothing. "Hi, you're hot! Let's go out!" is a perfectly good way of getting over anxiety. Bit fat props to the OP. Next time you do this approach, pay close attention to the non-verbal response. Closed or open body language... shyness or excitement.. It's a bold open and some girls might even be frightened. Figure out what is creating their response, and then guide them from there to a different state where they are comfortable and… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 11:41 PM |
| 2 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Haha. Me Rikey. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 11:24 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.Leave. Call a friend. Go party. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 07:47 PM |
| 8 | How to receive a compliment?"THANKS! Have you met ted?" | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 05:00 AM |
| 2 | What to do when the question "So how many partners have you been with?" comes up.Tell them you're saving yourself for marriage, with a coy smile. Then be confused and offended when they don't believe you. This works best when you're OBVIOUSLY experienced(edit: obviously comfortable making sexual advances). It turns into a whole game. Me and my buddy used to play "fake shy" with strippers. They ate it up. I mean, who the fuck gets free dances! | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 05:06 AM |
| 1 | "I'm too old for you" vs "You're too young for me."Saying "I'm too old" is not a neg. She's not qualifying herself. She's qualifying you. | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 12:34 AM |
| 5 | [FR] - House Party! (complete with F-Close, omg)make everyone feel important Just wanted to stress that. | /r/seduction | 09/12/10 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I am a girl.. is there a way to redeem myself this?ASD!! | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Crosspost from /r/depression: Finding a girlfriend is like a job application.Probably not a coincidence that you think you're "nice" and some "jerk" thinks you're "boring". Of course, if you keep hiding yourself from everybody, there is nothing for them to get to know, so that could be part of the boringness too. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Just stumbled upon seddit, and...Why is being an alpha male so important? It's a metaphor for being desirable. Being desirable is not important for you, because you're in a relationship. How acceptable is it to judge women based on their sex appeal? Are PUAs out purely for meaningless sex, or do they actually take a girl's personality into account? Looks are subjective. Everybody has a different opinion about what is attractive, and everybody should attempt to date someone they find attractive. Same goes for personalities. Do P… | /r/seduction | 06/11/10 01:44 PM |
| 3 | How do I win back the former LTR girlfriend I lost and still am in love with?You're misunderstanding these responses. Nobody is presuming she's not worth having. In fact, she could be a pile of crap, or the best girl in the world. But regardless, IF YOU WANT HER, you have to go bang 10 other chicks and completely stop reaching out to her until you're done. It's your best bet at getting her. I'll tell you this for sure.. putting yourself in a situation where you can't leave and she gets all the companionship she wants without any commitment... not the best bet. | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 05:10 AM |
| 2 | FR - Live music killed the internet starsit beside. always. move your chair. request another table. do it at any time. if the scene sucks, gtfo. | /r/seduction | 23/10/10 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, did I miss my chance?I'm not trying to be a dick. My posts come off as short when I post from my phone. | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, did I miss my chance?Sounds like you're focused on your needs and not hers. Of course you don't want to miss opportunities, but you win the girl by being sympathetic to the opportunity she has missed. | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 01:51 PM |
| 1 | FR: girl says she doesn't like PDA, so I tackled her.Well fucking done. Bang her next time if you're into her. | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 04:14 AM |
| 10 | Seddit, did I miss my chance?You didn't miss your chance. She missed hers. Think different. | /r/seduction | 14/10/10 05:43 AM |
| 1 | I'm trying to start hanging out with a facebook friend, but I'm hung up on one of her shit tests.Just to clarify.. I'm suggesting you assume the best, not because it is correct, but because if it isn't, nothing is... thusly.. fuck that noise. | /r/seduction | 14/10/10 05:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm trying to start hanging out with a facebook friend, but I'm hung up on one of her shit tests.She's asking for a spanking. She wants to be a bad girl. I'm sure you can work with this. Assume the best. If she really wasn't being nice, and you're interpretation was correct, well... fuck that noise. | /r/seduction | 14/10/10 05:30 AM |
| 1 | How NOT to text a girlDo you notice the terror and apprehension in her response? That's because this conversation pattern subtly suggests "serial rapist". You gave advance clues of how much you were willing to LITERALLY buy her time. You would have been better off with "If you play your cards right, I'll let you buy me dinner -- but it better be steak!" | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 08:47 PM |
| 2 | I work with disabled kids, and I'm an MMA fighter. How do I keep from looking like a wanker when I tell girls about what I do for a living?Underplay it. You're a contractor for a sports entertainment company. Also, there's nothing arrogant about saying you work with disabled kids. I would leave it at that unless she asks more. Mystery creates interest. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Will girls consider not having a Facebook page a red flag?My buddy doesn't have facebook.. can't leave the house without getting pussy. If the chick has a fetish for website geeks, you might have a problem. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Reddit v 4 Asian girlsGood job at finding any rationalization whatsoever to not talk to chicks. Next time, embrace your fear, and get laid. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 06:33 PM |
| -2 | "Nope" instead of a kissWeird. I'm perplexed. I might call her out on it, and just ask, but seeing as the moment has passed, "Next!" | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 07:04 PM |
| 27 | Top PUA Gurus embarrass themselves on live TV | Are you paying money or learning stuff from these guys?They did surprisingly well considering that they were all trying to pick up one woman who was predisposed to rejecting them. Normally, women do want to be picked up. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:51 PM |
| 2 | AMOGing: The biggest issue.I should probably also note that I left with her number 10 minutes later. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:37 PM |
| 3 | AMOGing: The biggest issue.I've succeeded by laughing at him. Usually the AMOG isn't so "AM" after all. I had a guy actually politely interrupt me, and compliment me, before giving the girl I was chatting up his business card. I cracked a bit of a smile and a laugh cause I knew how stupid this move was. I gave the girl a touch on the arm (as if to excuse myself without interrupting the douche), and then laughed at him with her friends who promptly ran over to defend her.. aggressively.. by physically placing themselves be… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 03:18 PM |
| 3 | every one of these damn 'get a girl' help pages states 'build up you self confidence' but not one tells you how.Upvote for general self-confidence building. Always do something that's slightly out of reach. You will usually succeed in some little way, and it will make you feel invincible. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 03:04 PM |
| 2 | "Nope" instead of a kissOut of curiosity, did you pay? | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing Flaws & My Sweaty HandsAntiperspirant. Put it on your hands. Wipe it off with a towel. It can be put in all kinds of places that are not recommended by the manufacturer. Your doctor can probably help you out too. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Don't be this guyI've brought home more girls than you'd believe with this line. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 04:10 AM |
| 7 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?I like the advice "Touch Everyone". Where did it come from? Any good reading? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 09:25 PM |
| 8 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?Ok.. I think you probably see it now.. She was only going to be seen by you and yet she wore heels. She was probably 95% of the way there when she showed up at your door. You probably didn't need to be too subtle. You probably didn't need to think too much or say anything complicated. This is probably more about your comfort than hers. You need to find a way of touching her in a way that makes you feel comfortable. Just find a reason to touch her. Then, find more reasons to touch her in differen… | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 08:43 PM |
| 18 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?Just out of curiousity, was she wearing heels? | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 05:24 PM |
| 38 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?She's pissed cause you didn't fuck her after her OBVIOUS invitation to do so. It can be less obvious when you're in the situation. The magic words were "Why don't I come over.".. Should have nailed her against your front door before she managed to get her heels off. ... er.. I mean.. more kino. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 05:05 PM |
| 2 | My theory on "sluts" and evolutionI'm actually going to drop the 5th paragraph, and try this as a pickup line. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way I should respond to a LBJF text?I know a girl that I call "hot-cold" girl. I doubt I'll ever bang her, but it's fun to play the game. The difference is, it's only fun if you're playing a game. If you're not, then forget about this girl, and go out and play! Win or lose, it's always fun to talk to someone new. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way I should respond to a LBJF text?Bleh. Date someone else. This one's already got you blaming yourself for her mixed signals. I'm really not sure how this advice goes down in this group but I wouldn't waste my mental energy on a hot/cold girl. The best part about saying "Next" is that you don't have time for "Assuming the worst". | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 07:46 PM |
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