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5

Neither do dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:03 PM
1

then you’re a girl who isn’t able to be interacted with?? i didn’t specify gender. Cringe is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:00 PM
26

Most women already replace men with devices and receive higher satisfaction from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:22 PM
1

you’re always on reddit, they’d also consider you not able to be interacted with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:05 PM
-2

This is such a specific hypothetical to be worried about. People have always gossiped since long before the internet and yet, people still manage to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:18 PM
1

I’ve met many rich men and they’ve all been boring and self-absorbed. If I met one that wasn’t, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:36 PM
1

I don’t use the terms “beta” or “alpha”, I’m an adult. I’m not sure what a “life-easierer” is, but my suggestion is to be fucking for real. We exist in reality here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:03 AM
1

Being married is great. How is being alone and commenting on 49 day old reddit posts working out for ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:08 AM
1

I’m married. So probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:26 AM
3

Rich men, extroverted men, overly muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:14 AM
3

So the point of your post is that “communication can’t solve everything” by pointing out how bad communication ruins relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:47 PM
1

This is so funny because I love how “everyman” my husband looks and he loves how I don’t wear makeup much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:03 PM
1

No, I said I find average men hot. It’s subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:00 PM
1

I don’t care for gym rats, try hards, men who put a lot of effort into looking manicured or “perfect”, men who try to stand out in a crowd. I find men who look like your average guy hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:18 PM
1

I have a bad habit of being too straightforward and blunt. My husband tells me I will quickly cut through bullshit to say the truth of the matter. But it can come off a little mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:04 AM
8

This is very subjective. But yes. I find majority (let’s say 80%) of men unattractive. The men I find the most attractive are the ones who look and embrace being fairly average. I find majority of women attractive. This is not objective truth, it’s just what appeals to me more. For context, I’m attracted to both men and women. 90% attracted to women, 10% attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:58 PM
1

It’s typically an immature fantasy. Most adult women prefer safety in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:31 PM
6

But no one really cares, so why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:10 AM
1

Because most men are generally under average in appearance and also overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:08 AM
3

I’m also a woman who willfully adheres to traditional gender roles in my marriage. Anything is better and natural if you make it that way in your head. It feels particularly cowardly to only want to debate in DM’s when you’re posting this publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:09 AM
1

“It’s everyone else’s fault but my own.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:22 PM
1

I can agree that if someone suffers in all categories, it’s way harder to be seen as a dream partner. But I still think that universally, there’s much more diversity in what’s considered a dream partner. For example, I’ve dated rich men before and I think they’re annoying and insufferable so I started to avoid them. This goes against what most would consider is the main thing women look out for. I don’t think it’s cut and dry the same for everyone, overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:14 PM
1

Yeah, I do think my dream partner could be another woman’s worst nightmare. For example, I prefer men who are assertive and will lead. That may be perfect for me but for a woman who prefers to lead or prefers being the more assertive one, that probably is their worst nightmare. Again, there’s too many different things to look at. Perhaps if you rephrase the question to specifically be about appearance or money, you could get more of an accurate answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:19 PM
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This is too subjective to get an actual answer. What is a 10/10 to me could be a 1/10 to someone else. There is a series of different sliding scales and spectrums that go into attraction, it’ll never be as simple as 1-10 across the board for everyone. This question would be more easily answered if you narrowed it down to objective attraction, finances, job security, kindness, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:40 AM
7

Depends on the individual, for me being “playfully roasted” is actually a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:30 AM
14

There’s several derogatory terms for these women that have been around for decades. This already happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:27 AM
2

It sure seems like you care deeply about what a lot of people think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:05 PM
2

I’m bottom so I prefer when the top has more experience. It’s not set in stone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:01 AM
1

I’ve dated a virgin. I had no issue with it, but it really depends on the relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:56 AM
2

You can try to justify it however you want, love. I respect it more when people are just honest with themselves. I was finishing up high school at 18 and barely even knew how to take care of myself as a person yet because I was a teenager. I wouldn’t have dated my husband at that point, I would’ve been too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:57 AM
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No, because he didn’t meet me when I was 18. He met me in my mid-twenties when my brain was fully developed. Also, I would never resort to that sort of arguing with him. It’s rude and I would never go out of my way to insult him, even if I was mad at him. We don’t disrespect each other like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:01 PM
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I could have phrased it better, but I mean men who are very angry about the fact that they can’t get a girl. And there’s nothing wrong with not being able to, but these angry men have built it up in their mind that it has to be someone else’s fault. And body count is an easy out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:08 PM
4

As a woman, I seem to be more desirable as I age. I’m more confident, smarter, and take better care of myself vs. when I was 18 or 19. Also weirdly enough, while I’ve been pregnant. I’ll never personally get that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:01 PM
4

The men who post on ppd about it constantly usually don’t have girlfriends or wives or have difficulty getting laid and they need a scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:59 PM
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/09/22/incels-rape-murder-study/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:46 PM
5

That’s not made up. It’s one of the most popular incel ideologies. If you want a more common example, look at the comments of women posting L’s. I’ll never understand the men here who continue to be defensive after I agree with them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:43 PM
5

Yes, I can sympathize with it because I see it. Although misandry typically amounts to “a girl was mean on twitter”, vs misogyny typically amounts to “women should be tied up and murdered in a public square”. It hits a little different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:31 PM
2

I think a lot of this can depend on what social media you expose yourself too. For example, just following this subreddit means I have to see majority misogynistic comments and posts all over my reddit feed on the daily. But I also use other platforms that are much healthier, usually ones about parenting and wonderful husbands. I think the overtly white feminist lingo is harmful, but it’s because it ignores most women. On the social media I consume, I’ve at least seen it tone down a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:21 PM
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Why is saying women are wonderful or positive messages for women bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:05 PM
5

This is true, but most of these men that are going to respond are basically a lost cause when it comes to reason. Most of them are basically “I want a much younger woman, whose hairless and small and a virgin.” Essentially looking for a glorified child. They also don’t think about the consequences of dating someone who is too young to have a fully developed brain. Dating someone young is “pleasant to be around” until she shows up at your important job because you didn’t have time to text her bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:32 PM
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Yeah, I can agree with this. Drugs and alcohol is a really big gateway for people to meet others to sleep with. Im not a teetotaler entirely, but I drink maybe once or twice a year. I’ve never been drunk. I never do substances. I have in the past and hated it. I always felt pretty othered by my peers that are partiers. In terms of a relationship, I never wanted to be with someone who was really into drugs and drinking just because it’s too different than my lifestyle. I was lucky enough to meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:19 AM
2

As a 26 year old woman married to a 36 year old man, I find my husband attractive but he looks fairly young for his age. Everyone assumes we’re the same age. I agree with you though, men on ppd have unbalanced expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:58 AM
2

So don’t date women. Leave women for the men who don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:49 AM
1

No, I never insinuates that. Everyone is entitled to their personal opinion and beliefs. If it’s important to someone, they can hold that belief without dragging anyone else into it. Just as other people can judge it or hold their own separate beliefs. An example being that I find it immature and embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:17 AM
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Not everyone views n count as valuable. My opinion that I find it embarrassing and immature still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:36 AM
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Yes. Anyone who cares that deeply about the specific number and not the actual person is really embarrassing. This is a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:20 AM
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It’s totally okay to not want help and I support virgins being virgins and peoples preferences. But when they post inflammatory things all day on reddit, you will get a response. The OP definitely knew they would get a mob of angry men crying out “but women!” with pitchforks, it’s expected. I feel like if we look at reality, it won’t go in that direction. Go into any public place and you will find all sorts of couples that have families. If men want to go live in the woods in their no girls allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:22 PM
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Is it that hard for you to stay on your own line of reasoning? What the fuck does being politically correct have to do with me both finding it embarrassing to care about body count as well as salary/height/ etc.? Explain how this is virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:01 PM
1

If it means chad doesn’t complain all day on reddit, how could you blame women for wanting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:57 PM
1

It’s fine to feel that way for yourself. It only is a problem when men on this subreddit post about body count daily like it’s a rule everyone must live by. There’s nothing wrong with having your own, individual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:51 PM
1

Why does body count matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:48 PM
1

If you think what I said there was a personal attack, you really need to grow some thicker skin. Your original question doesn’t matter and is inconsequential to what I said. You’re looking for petty validation on reddit, why would I want to entertain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:47 PM
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OP is talking about what he has witnessed in this subreddit as the general attitude of men. Men on here do view it as a game and talk about min maxing. I know the men in this subreddit are not unique. But they have to realize they aren’t special either. Crying about n count online will never help them actually lose their virginity or score a low n count wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:20 PM
5

Yes, I cannot understand why I would care about it. It’s not something I ask about and I think it has little value. I genuinely cannot fathom why that would matter to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:10 PM
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We actually are here to talk about men. OP is talking about men. My point is, not everyone cares about n count. Is this false to you? Can you effectively say you have met every human on Earth and personally asked them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:55 PM
5

Sure? I literally don’t care at all about body count. My husband has a way higher body count than I do. Although some of this can be attributed to him being 10 years older, I don’t give a fuck about how many women he’s been with. I give a fuck about how he treats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:52 PM
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If you think this subreddit represents most men in society, you don’t get out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:50 PM
3

Men are statistically sluttier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:50 PM
1

What personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:49 PM
-4

To you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:02 PM
0

It’s because men have the freedom to care about things that are non-consequential, and women usually have more important things to care about in a relationship- such as the probability of getting murdered or all their life savings spent on OF. They don’t want to look at the facts. Even red-pulled men can at least admit that their views are unbalanced or misogynistic. It’s the incels that are too cowardly to apply themselves to further thought. Women are shockingly not the boogey-man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:37 PM
2

I also think those things are cringey to do? When did I state this was a one-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:07 PM
2

I think it’s cringey and embarrassing to put emphasis on a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:12 PM
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But we need to look at reality, not just what people fear-monger as the big bad monster that is a young woman. Most women typically have around 5 sexual partners, and men have 6 or more. These numbers are not 100, and I have never met or even heard of a woman with 100. That being said, there’s nothing wrong with wanting someone without a certain past. I just think it’s cringey to put this much of an emphasis on it that these men do, where they post on here daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:24 AM
1

Does any of this mean it’s not embarrassing and childish to care about an exact number? Nope. The fact that you are attempting to leave a citation to back up this asinine claim, proves my point. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:20 AM
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It’s amazing how well you were able to say something that doesn’t matter at all in regards to what I said. When did I say that men are encouraged to marry a “very promiscuous woman”? Or instead did I say it’s embarrassing and cringey for a man to care about n count? Especially when men are more promiscuous than women in nearly every country.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:17 AM
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Did you miss the whole “in some regards” part? And yes, from a woman’s point of view we obviously will have a greater understanding of other women, since we have lived as a woman. I do think if men listened to women more, they would have an easier time. Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to, and try applying yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:12 AM
2

Men want sex, women want relationships. It’s not that hard to figure out what women appreciate and like if you actually listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:14 AM
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Yes, I think it would be easier in some regards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:08 AM
3

Projection isn’t necessary 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:46 AM
7

And that person probably thinks you’re gross too?? Who. Cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:30 AM
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Yeah like as a young woman, men who care about this are really embarrassing. I remember once I saw a person asked if they care about n count and he responded with “No, I’m an adult.” and it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:27 AM
0

Anyone can have any opinion on anything. Just don’t be shocked when people respond. Hypocrisy has always annoyed people, which is rampant in men who care about age and n count. You don’t want people to judge your opinion, don’t openly judge others in the first place. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:26 AM
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I have a decent relationship with my dad, we don’t hang out a lot because we don’t have a lot in common though. He was not a good husband to my mother, and I blatantly saw and could recognize that my entire life. This has affected my dating life by making me have higher standards. I wouldn’t even consider marrying anyone displaying the traits or warning signs my mother wasn’t able to spot. I became more hyper vigilant of these things. At the same time, my Grandfather was a really positive influe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:58 PM
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Neither. This is a silly question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:00 PM
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I think it varies a lot depending on the communities you look at. If you look at trad women, they aren’t always religious but they look down on men who sleep around. If you look at subreddits for red pill women you’ll see this a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:13 PM
14

Bro, you have probably never interacted with a woman who is virgin by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:03 PM
10

Gonna take a wild guess and say you aren’t paying for anyones lifestyle but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:12 PM
7

me and my husband make fun of the men in these posts together every day !! Sometimes when I read these I have to think about my husband to remind myself that some men are sane
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:08 PM
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Yeah usually virgin women don’t want men who are sluts. I think if people want to do that who cares, but typically virgin women prefer virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:00 PM
1

Just ask her if she wants go go or date someone else. Not all couples are meant to share all the same hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:44 PM
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Not a lot. They’re super pretty but I have no desire to look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:42 PM
1

It’s typical for men to expect women to do all the housework while also working.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:52 PM
1

Super common in hetero marriages for men to not be able to take care of themselves or the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:49 PM
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Yeah like I am very lucky to have the husband I do, and he would never do that- but if he did that, or similarly needed babysitting, I would immediately become unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:39 PM
1

My father never made more money than my mother. My mother covered all my expenses. Yet my father still made my mother do all the housework and child-rearing. This is super common for hetero marriages. Typically when women expect men to make more money, it’s because the man most likely can’t take care of the house. In a lot of marriages women have seen, it’s just men trying to get out of hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:20 PM
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It’s a privilege, not a right. How are women going to want to sleep with men who they need to take care of like a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:16 PM
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I once saw a video where a man made a comment to his wife about how she didn’t want to have sex anymore. She bluntly asked him, “You can’t even wipe your pee off the toilet seat, and you expect me to be attracted to you?”. Not many women are going to be attracted to men who just make their lives harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:13 PM
8

This is the fastest way to get left by your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:08 PM
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I don’t have this issue personally. Being the younger one in the marriage by 10 yrs, I have the way higher sex drive. Although, I think mine is higher than average to begin with. When there’s a lull at all, it’s usually due to stress or us being very busy. For example, if we’re dealing with a family issue or traveling a lot out of necessity and not leisure. I think for a lot of women in heteronormative marriages, it’s the marker of them now doing a lot of extra work. Many women take on a second …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:00 PM
2

I can’t tell you, honestly. I can only tell you what I get out of liking men, but I don’t like men as much as the next person. That’s why I state that it’s from my mind’s eye, it’s subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:03 PM
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They are generally jobless or make minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:02 PM
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Getting your information through this subreddit is the first problem. I would recommend looking to real life couples, where they start at different life stages and ages all the time. Some people meet at 23 and are happy forever, some people meet at 60 and are happy forever. Typically, younger people (25 and under) are not as developed or know themselves well enough to sustain healthy relationships. When I was 21 years old, I truly never thought I would get married and looked for all the wrong th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:10 AM
2

The requirements you listed in the post are primarily physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:54 PM
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If they’re ugly now, they were probably ugly to begin with. And I see women talk all the time about how they have crushes on men who are already treating them like shit. I see very attractive women I know irl crying over really unimpressive men all the time. Also, typically what men think is attractive to women is vastly different than what’s ACTUALLY attractive to women. Just in terms of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:35 PM
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I think it actually varies a lot. It’s been hard to get women to raise certain standards. I still see reddit posts every day, multiple times a day that basically say “do you think i can make it work with my boyfriend even though he ran me over with my car?” or “My coworker spit in my food and punched me in the face, so you think he likes me? 🥺” To me (this is just in my mind’s eye obviously), most women are with not-very-attractive men. And a portion of these not-very-attractive men are either c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:27 PM
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I’m white but from one of those households that had a father but was basically fatherless due to him being absent all the time. My mom made more money and did all cooking, cleaning, and child rearing. I only occasionally saw him. Once my dad left the house, everything was far more peaceful and successful. We didn’t have the added stress of a family member who was unwilling to do anything except add stress. Also, I developed a far better relationship with him once there was some distance. Edit- f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:16 AM
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actually yeah!! i can’t imagine hating something that arbitrary with passion. For me it shows someone spending way too much brain power on something that doesn’t matter and hating for the sake of hating. Whereas my husband and I watched Twilight once for a good laugh ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:12 AM
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Dealbreakers: Hates children Right wing (both authoritarian and libertarian) Dishonest Passive or passive aggressive Hates arbitrary things for no reason, (astrology, movies they’ve never seen, etc.) or is a contrarian Gives unwarranted and useless advice Pessimist or a downer Partier (Drinks often or does drugs/substances often) Must Haves: Intelligent (preferably socially or emotionally) Straight forward/ assertive Respectful and polite to others Family oriented/ wants children Nerdy in some c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:16 AM
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Im a woman in her mid-twenties. Needs to be intelligent, preferably emotionally or socially Must have the same political leanings as me Want children/ be family oriented Assertive and willing to take action Be able to communicate thoroughly Isn’t into partying (no smoking, only social drinking, little to no drugs) Respectful of others and polite Honest Puts me before others, as I will with them. Sex as often as possible, preferably once per day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:23 AM
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The amount of men on that subreddit means nothing in this argument unless it’s 100%. Also, when someone says “half” in that context it does not have to literally mean 50%. Source: I am woman with high sex drive and want my husband to fuck me as many times a day as he can
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:42 AM
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If you seriously think that being surface level decent to women means you don’t hold any misogynistic views, I would try to reevaluate. You are making a piss (or squirt) poor attempt at proving women don’t feel love or pleasure. Also, you should try to understand that just because something is an article, doesn’t make it true and even research by doctors aren’t taken from large pools of people or can be deemed inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:39 AM
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It’s called crowd sourcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:34 AM
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You are truly gods bravest soldier 🫡 I’d actually respect you more if you were just honest about being misogynistic or an incel. Going to such great lengths to formulate a poorly backed lie is embarrassing. All your research amounts to basically nothing, half of it adds up to “this is inconclusive” or “this is unprovable”. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:26 AM
1

Girl go pee pee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:56 PM
6

The men who think “i’ll just get someone young and hot” aren’t capable of seeing it in the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:55 PM
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As someone a woman in her 20s that is married to a man nearing 40, I think there is a side to this that men don’t look at. My husband doesn’t prefer younger women, because they are typically lacking in life experience and maturity. If a man is serious about having a family, being able to trust a partner to take care of children or themselves is incredibly important. You’ll sometimes find an anomaly of a young women that can handle a lot, but a lot of them can’t. And it’s not to say that’s on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:34 PM
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imagine going into this much detail about how you can’t get anyone to kiss you. Like sucks that someone hurt him but this sure isn’t going to help his plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:48 AM
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The fact that you put this much research and time into writing this is so funny because it’s genuinely the most unhinged shit I’ve ever read. Please, for the sake of your own health and well-being- go outside. There’s a whole world beyond your computer and your articles about pee pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:48 AM
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Being funny is probably the biggest one across all women. A man can be medium-ugly but if he can make anyone laugh or if he’s witty, he can pull a lot of different people. For me, it would have to be intelligence!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:55 PM
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No, I don’t think I was the only person he ever liked lol. He dated people prior to me, but didn’t feel ready to have sex with them. He just didn’t date that many different people. He moved around a lot due to work and family life, so when you do that it’s hard to really build connections. He had a few girls that I personally knew that had crushes on him as well, he just didn’t find them attractive or compatible. Even if the answer was he just didn’t go out with people ever, why would that be an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:39 PM
1

Being seen as vapid or lacking the ability to think for myself because I look traditionally feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:19 AM
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I’ve never seen it as a red flag or a dealbreaker alone. Past 30, it would prompt me to ask about their dating history or if there was a reason. I once dated a 25 year old man who was a virgin and it was just because he didn’t find anyone he liked enough/felt comfortable with enough yet. I didn’t see it as a red flag and was fine with that explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:15 AM
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Being a good father does not mean you’re a good husband. I’ve met couples that coparent extremely well, but not the majority. Typically the father of the child willingly leaves and stops trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:10 AM
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Before I met my husband, I was okay with the idea of being a single mother (adoption, sperm bank, etc.). I’ve always been invested in being a mother, not as much being married. Most women I’ve met are far happier as single mothers than not. Their partners typically weren’t very helpful or made parenting a lot more annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:03 AM
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Most women prefer men who have fat on them. Just look at the guy who plays Hopper from Stranger Things. For a lot of women, he is the beauty standard for men now. Obviously, people have different tastes but I can safely say that women just want someone who is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:55 PM
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This is not based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:24 PM
2

I don’t personally care about that, but I think hypocrisy makes most people upset. Edit to add: Don’t be a slut if you don’t want a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:11 PM
1

Most people don’t feel safe enough to randomly get people off the street now though. And it’s not exclusively through apps. Sometimes people meet through work, school, etc. When you date, are you generally meeting strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:53 AM
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You say this like you just are dating strangers. A lot of people know someone/ talks to someone for a long time before they begin dating. Such as meeting people online or through friends and discovering their interests and who they are before dating. Do you go out with people you meet off the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:24 AM
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Im fine with waiting for sex if it’s until we know each other better, like a few months or something. But I personally would never marry a person I didn’t have sex with prior to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:16 AM
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Being nice to people who don’t deserve it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:57 PM
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B. I don’t care enough about the traits listed, but I would get so uncomfortable by being worshipped. I don’t care about experience, or lack-there-of. I’ve dated virgins and they’re the same as non-virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:13 PM
5

To an extent. I think the n-count of what’s acceptable varies for everyone. Age and context matters, also how recently they slept around a lot. I personally do care. My mom always told me to be wary of men who are exceedingly popular with women. I don’t think they’re all bad, but the context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:03 PM
1

I agree, I think even in male-led relationships (hopefully this is by choice), the woman usually has her own things she has to do on her own. Wanting a woman that does absolutely nothing but sleep and eat is just having a newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:46 PM
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I think this depends a lot on the couple and their ability to communicate. Even in the most traditional hetero marriages, there should be a decision in who is in charge of what. I have a very traditional marriage, but my husband views me as intelligent and we make financial decisions together. But then some decisions are not made together. I’m a better cook so I control dinner and grocery shopping as well as cleaning, but he’s better in emergencies, heavy lifting, and electronics so he controls …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:43 PM
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It’s easier to not be weird or a creep than to do whatever this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:48 AM
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I mean, she does fit the narrative the OP wants to create. She is a very caring wife and is pregnant by the end 🥺💗✨💘
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:01 AM
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My Aunt-In-Law. She is one of the most kind-hearted and intelligent people I’ve ever met. Edit: Also, Amy Dunne
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:57 AM
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I think we all have judged people based on minimal interactions. Sometimes you can tell you don’t click with someone very quickly, or see red flags in them. For me, a “bad” or incompatible personality is usually one that doesn’t listen well, makes broad assumptions (When they’re wrong they seem unintelligent, and therefore unattractive.), thoughtless, unfriendly, unable to adhere to normal boundaries, argumentative, and loud. I do think a lot of these traits aren’t that bad to other women, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:56 PM
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In my experience, I met my husband on a random forum talking about a video game. Most of my women friends met their romantic interests in college, at work, or through friends. Like myself, most women i’ve known have had really negative experiences on dating apps so they just altogether gave up on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:26 PM
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