nevalutionary Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Raising Daughters		nevalutionary	/r/askTRP	18/11/19 03:37 AM
3	The case for marriage?		nevalutionary	/r/askTRP	22/04/20 06:40 PM

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14	Is it off-putting for a woman to express that she likes a man? It's not off-putting in the slightest for you to express interest. It's actually ideal because most guys find themselves shooting in the dark with women who are ambivalent at best. But there's a big caveat: he has to like you too. Judging by your story, this guy obviously likes you. Ironically he took his shot in the dark with you by taking you out and giving you special attention, and you played yourself by feigning disinterest (or acting too neutral,, which we read as disinterest). Now he thin…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/24 07:50 PM
6	Why do husbands have to beg their wife to have sex with them? Well I've seen just about every rationale here but this: Many women, if not most women, do not marry a man they are incredibly sexually attracted to. Most compromise on sexual attraction in favor of qualities that make for a safer, more stable relationship. So first, the husband figure often starts out at a disadvantage. Combine that with the fact that sexual desire tends to fall off for women in monogamous relationships (not to mention after children) and you have a lot of married men left want…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/24 03:37 PM
4	Is a man talking about men’s nature (polygamy, need for sex) a red flag? It depends. I used to talk to my ex pretty openly about the desire for multiple women and the feasibility of polygamy (in theory). These desires are human, and I saw myself as being honest with her as an observer of humanity and my human self. I think bringing it to light and deconstructing it with her actually made it less likely that I'd cheat. And I never did. I also think it made her trust and respect me more because I didn't hide myself from her. It's deception and cowardice that does the r…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/23 12:59 AM
4	It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship. There's the issue of sexual compatibility which others have brought up. Very important to know that sooner than later. There's also the reality of opportunity. If you're dealing with someone who has been and is sexually active, the longer you wait to seal the deal the greater the probability somebody else will and you'll miss your shot. I can say anecdotally just about every time I've delayed sleeping with a woman, despite my better intentions, the relationship sputtered and failed to launch. Wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 01:52 AM
1	What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not? I wish I could disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 03:27 PM
5	What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not? One thing the manosphere offers that other self improvement communities don't, very explicitly, is how to identify and avoid the manipulations of ruinous women. This is hugely valuable to any and all men because of the sheer gravity sex and relationships have in life. This knowledge is absolutely a key aspect of being a healthy, conscious, competent man, just as the communities you mentioned are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 02:08 AM
1	If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attracted There are comedians and there are clowns. Both make people laugh but they are not regarded the same. Women are very attracted to men with a good sense of humor. They don't want clowns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 06:51 PM
1	Hollywood entertainment is for girls; they actively hate you; unplug The Abyss, Time Cop, Total Recall, Predator, Star Gate -- some old favorites I hadn't thought about for a long time. Thanks for this flash of nostalgia.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/21 02:03 AM
2	The purpose of a blowjob This man said mouth friction. 😂 Please stop wasting your time.	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/21 03:39 AM
2	Does blue collar work lower your smv? Let's not confuse SMV with RMV. If you're asking about sex the answer is no. Guys telling you yes haven't seen behind the curtain. If a woman genuinely lusts for you it doesn't matter what you do. On the plus side many blue collar guys are more masculine, rugged, physically adept, etc. This is a big turn on to women. We're not talking high-minded stuff, we're talking primal drives. The primal state of man is to work with his body, no collar. The problem with being blue collar is the connotation …	/r/askTRP	31/12/20 05:26 PM
1	Q4all: Have you ever been in a committed relationship where some aspect of your partner's sexual history made you uncomfortable? What was it, and why? 😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/20 06:45 PM
4	LTR (soon-to-be fiancée) keeps in contact with exes. Should I hard next her? How does she have an n-count of two but she keeps in contact with former FWBs and fucks around when she travels? Lol you're either trolling or terrible at deduction. There's not enough meat here in terms of your lived experience with this girl. What I can tell you though is that her keeping up those dudes isn't trivial, especially if she's lying. They've got a foot in the door at the very least. There's no way you should be thinking about making this woman your wife right now. For what? Keep you…	/r/askTRP	06/09/20 06:27 PM
0	Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's society This is it. The problem underlying all of this is that men, and the things that nourish men, have become more and more obsolete.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/20 09:20 PM
4	Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless? The key determinant in your post is that your friendships with those guys were created when you were adolescents. I have female friends too. All of the ones I'd genuinely call friends and nothing more started before we were sexually motivated adults. This isn't coincidence. My friendships with those women are rewarding. Rewarding because women tend to be more open and communicative. There's more, let's say, latitude to our conversation, and less competition. In fact in many ways I enjoy women mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/20 07:21 PM
1	Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality. Because casual sex is enabled by birth control which causes birth rates fall to below sustainable levels, which eventually yields the collapse of society as we know it. And I don't necessarily mean that in the apocalyptic sense. I mean that practically society will mutate as migration happens from places with higher birth rates. We're already seeing this in Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 12:00 AM
1	Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality. Context is everything. I laid out the context. I wouldn't call casual sex "bad" or "wrong" per se. I've had my fun. The issue is birth control promotes a casualness about sex and relationships which is suboptimal on the whole. This isn't an appeal to nature, it's simply nature (or the obstruction of nature). Hence, birth rates decline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 11:26 PM
2	Why does everyone think men are "naturally" thirstier than women? Women are lustier for a select few men. Men are lustier for women generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 06:05 AM
16	Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality. Birth control. We're not living naturally. 80% of women are suspended in an artificial state of being. Many do this into their 30s when pickings get slimmer, life is harder to integrate, and pregnancy is riskier. Two things happen: 1) They fail to have children with partners they pair with in their most fertile years. Many women, in their 20s, have had a relationship with a man who was more than suitable to be a father. Often these young multi-year relationships come to an end for one reason or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 03:08 AM
1	Marriage isn’t worth it to independent women either. The risk of losing assets isn't the only factor, although it's a big one. Men are more concerned because much more often than not it's women who want divorce (80%). Assets or no assets, men are afraid of women changing their minds and making a waste of their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 05:44 PM
1	In response to the "People who've had sex with celebrities, how was it?" thread on AskReddit, why are all of the responses about girls sleeping with male celebrities? Why are there so few (almost 0) responses about a guy sleeping with a girl celebrity? For the same reason there are a bunch of girls backstage at a Justin Beiber concert, but no guys backstage at a Celena Gomez concert. Groupie-ism is a female thing. Status is hardly a factor for men's sexuality. In addition to that, women's sexuality is guarded and treated carefully. Men who've had casual sex with recognizable women (or any women) are less likely to gloat about it publicly, unless they have malicious motives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 05:08 PM
3	Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models? They don't hate instamodels. They hate the instamodels' unearned power, and their inability to have them for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:29 AM
2	Chemistry vs compatibility which is better and why ? You can have crazy sexual and social chemistry with someone while not being compatible for an integrated life. This is common in my experience. There are a number of girls I've connected with intensely, but when it came down to sharing a life we had different customs, expectations, time frames, trajectories, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 01:23 AM
1	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? Can you expand on #2? How was he shit? Why see him if he was shit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 11:44 PM
61	Have you ever experienced Sudden Repulsion Syndrome? From the article: "Every time I started dating someone new and they stopped being unattainable and started being reciprocating and vulnerable, they immediately became disgusting for a period of anywhere between one week to thirty days." Hello. This is the real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 05:46 PM
1	How has seeing a man cry affected your opinion of him? 😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 02:22 AM
1	So much advice says show your interest, sexualize the conversation, flirt, etc. How do you do this without being creepy or coming on too strong? It's an art for sure. Empathy and observation are key. Women send invitations. The better you get at perceiving and acting on invitations, the less you'll be dealing with women who aren't interested, and the more receptive they'll be to whatever you're dishing. The problem is many guys try to force themselves on girls they hope will like them. Key word, hope. Hope isn't an effective strategy. Don't talk to women with hope in your head. Pay attention and move on women who like you, as indicated b…	/r/seduction	12/08/20 03:21 PM
1	The desire for simultaneous abundance of partners is not male exclusive - most women would have "harems" in an ideal reality/fantasy if they could, just like men Women have emotional harems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 05:44 AM
2	Is it better to act closed off or be open in relationships? This is the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 01:16 PM
1	How many of you have a truly close platonic friend of the opposite sex? I have several. All of these friendships started as kids, before any of us had sex. That's key in my observation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/20 08:42 PM
3	Is letting women chase you instead of chasing them only work if your SMV is high? The only way to chase something is if it's running away. That goes for either sex and any SMV. Take initiative for what you want but don't chase. The difference is in what they're doing and where you're coming from internally. By initiating you should be light-heartedly inviting them into your already interesting life. You don't need them, your ego isn't over-invested. You're not attached to any particular outcome. Treat them like friends but don't carry yourself like their friend, if that makes…	/r/askTRP	29/06/20 01:58 PM
1	Post taken from relationship_advice I agree with the other guy who said the guy probably wants out for a number of reasons. After 20 years with someone your ego shouldn't be destroyed over some tea. He's using this to ditch her with moral superiority and crowdsourcing justification on reddit. If his wife overheard him talking about the desires he hides from her she'd be hurt too, and probably disgusted. I'm calling hypocrisy.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/20 07:15 PM
8	The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outright Well that doesn't make sense, but your logic is telling. Even if most women did get beat up for sneaking around (they don't), a better solution would be to make an earnest choice without trying to have your cake and eat too. Then you wouldn't have to lie. But I know, I know. Of course I mean "better solution" in a purely hypothetical sense. I know you wouldn't dare risk your precious lifelines by being that decisive. If it wasn't so it wouldn't be so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 11:00 PM
14	The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outright I assume you're saying Mackenzie wasn't willing to share Jeff Bezos? A few things: 1) Mackenzie Bezos was highly incentivized to divorce, seeing as she would walk away the richest single woman in the world. She played her position and cashed out. 2) There's no question women are currently and have been sharing Jeff Bezos, who has no reason to compromise. Mackenzie shared too. 3) That said, being worth billions alone doesn't make a man high value to women. We're talking genuine sexual desire. All…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 09:00 PM
33	The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outright I'm not sure what your point is but it's easy to show that's false. All men's attention and provisioning aren't equal. Not even close to equal. The higher value a man is, the more willing they are to share. Period. This is more pronounced when women's choices are unconstrained. Let's use money as a simple analogy. What's worth more? 25% of a billion dollar business, or 100% of a 100k business? Of course there are many more dimensions to sexual selection but women choose the smaller percentage of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 06:42 PM
46	The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outright Simple answer: women aren't honest about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 05:18 PM
34	The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outright I had this conversation with a woman and her husband recently. She rejected the premise as well. What it seemed is that her idea of "sharing" was sharing a conventional relationship, which for her would probably be better interpreted as sharing emotionally. She and her husband also insisted women don't know they're sharing, which is often false in my experience, and again speaks to the relationship/emotional paradigm. I insisted many women are sharing sexually and are fully aware of it, whether …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/20 05:07 PM
3	I met this girl who's interested in sleeping together. The only problem is i live with my mom and there's not really anywhere for us to do it. I literally just smashed in the car on an unlit vacant road. Literally as in minutes ago. If a chick wants to bone, 90% of time circumstance won't matter. What does matter however is how you feel about your situation. You're giving off shame and embarrassment which she'll pick up. You've gotta kick that. You live with your mom for now, fuck it. You have your reasons. She can take it or leave it. Make an adventure out of the constraints.	/r/askTRP	21/06/20 07:47 AM
1	"Actions Speak Louder Than Words". How to live this truth?? "Ain't nothing to it but to do it." Momentum is key. Taking action spurs more action. Adopting some kind of accountability system is good. There is little competition for the bold. Most people are complacent and doing the bare minimum. So aim for maximum impact in all that you do, and things can change quickly.	/r/askTRP	20/06/20 01:35 PM
2	Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case? What I get from her hypothetical is that she's thinking emotional AND sexual infidelity. I don't think she disconnects the two. But I'm with you. In my experience and observation women are much more concerned with the emotional component. I had an ex find flirtatious texts I had with another woman once. I actually wasn't sleeping with the woman but she could've easily drawn that conclusion — and she might've. She never asked. All she asked, repeatedly, was if I loved her (my girlfriend). And I a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/20 04:57 AM
1	Marrying rich Involved with a woman who pulls down 7 figures a year, easy. She's also gorgeous. Neither of us are into marriage but may get serious. I'm weighing that. As you'd expect your SMV, RMV and frame have to be rock solid. This is not for insecure men, so if you're not at the point where nothing external rocks you you're probably not cut for it. She'll put you through the shit test ringer because she NEEDS somebody to make her feel submissive for once. That said, most guys won't meet such a woman or h…	/r/askTRP	10/06/20 05:01 AM
24	Example of how abundance and outcome independence puts you above the rest Two things stood out to me. 1) She passed on the guy who said he's bad at planning. Pro tip: his problem wasn't being bad at planning, his problem was that he framed it negatively. He should've said he was spontaneous. 2) She chose the guys who were vulnerable but confident. They talked about what really mattered to them without supplicating, which gave them depth and pulled her into them. They made her feel.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/20 04:48 PM
2	The hottest 1% of Men tend to be able to sex with a lot of Women, what advantages do the hottest 1% of Women get? Go to the wealthiest neighborhood in your area. There you'll see women of all ages are, on average, more attractive than the general public. That's what the 1% of women get: greater access to the richest most pedigreed men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 06:59 PM
0	It seems "Cock Carousel" describes normal dating in 2020; why do you have a problem with normal dating? "Giving you the rest of her life" = more costs than benefits. Hence the need for commitment. "Making you the father of her children." Sex makes children. If you've given everybody sex the only thing you're giving me, in a practical sense, is the burden you didn't give them. Hence the price analogy. You've missed the point, because you're unhinging the values of sex and commitment, seemingly because you don't understand how men appraise commitment. It's not about just wanting sex. It's about want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 06:10 PM
7	It seems "Cock Carousel" describes normal dating in 2020; why do you have a problem with normal dating? Let's say you own a cookie shop. One person comes in and you give them three cookies for free. In passing he tells someone on the street about his free cookies. That person then comes to your cookie shop, and to their surprise you ring them up for $117 per cookie. 117??? That's outrageous. Nobody wants to be overcharged for cookies, damn sure not cookies others got for free. This is the problem that underscores the CC concept. This only seems like a crude analogy because we've gotten far away fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 04:45 PM
7	The Lonely Fans of OnlyFans - Documentary I'd agree with this. I think the average girl will find her OnlyFans experience humbling. I know a girl who started one recently. I pulled her years ago. We've flirted here and there over the years and keep in touch on social media but never sealed the deal. I've seen her progress from reveling in some simple photos of herself, to full blown Instagram "modeling", to now being an OnlyFans thot. I was surprised to see her do it because I know her as a regular girl with a regular job. I thought the…	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/20 02:58 AM
1	The case for marriage? Thanks. In my observation extra security is certainly motivation for women, at least for a time. And I don't mean motivation to give to their kids directly; I mean motivation to pour their best into a home, which in turn nourishes kids. The custom bilateral contract makes sense to me too. I'll be seeking counsel on the validity of prenups soon. Maybe states should mandate prenups for marriage, in a sense like articles of incorporation, and then just enforce those agreements.	/r/askTRP	05/05/20 05:02 PM
1	CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent. Lol so you acknowledge: Dumb people with confidence get laid for this or that reason. Smart people with confidence get laid for this or that reason. Given the context of this thread and the OP, what the hell are you arguing with me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 02:06 AM
2	CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent. I'm not missing his point. What you've provided is a singular, incomplete anecdote. I could also provide anecdotes that run across the whole spectrum of variables, thus proving nothing. Your friend isn't getting women because he's dumb. He's getting women because he's confident, and probably charismatic, and probably distinct. Dumbness and these qualities aren't correlated. Your opinion of him is also clearly negative. Maybe you're conflating all of these things as a cop-out. I happen to be an i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 08:23 PM
4	CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent. Your rationale here is pathetic. And yet here you are labeling yourself too smart for women. Women absolutely love intelligence in men. Particularly social and creative intelligence. Men firing on all cylinders are cream of the crop. Always will be. There's a wider distribution curve for intelligence in men than women, which means there are both more basic and more gifted men. Men who are smart, savvy, and sexy are scarce and in high demand. Maybe you're just missing something. Better to address…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 04:46 PM
14	Does online dating inflate the egos of women with low SMV? Lol I'm very very far from an incel. Women always have options. The issue is that they're unsatisfied with the overwhelming majority of them. This tends to worsen with age. They don't want to be dating. Dating is seeking. After 30-something they want to be settled with partners, and they won't be. Many also won't have children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 12:51 AM
33	Does online dating inflate the egos of women with low SMV? Absolutely yes. I have a fat female friend who uses dating apps religiously. She constantly rejects men who are as attractive, and even more attractive than her, in favor of hotter men. She loathes fat guys despite being fat herself. It's truly bizarre to witness. She's deluded herself into thinking she can bag a certain level of man because a few of these men will pop in under the cover of night for an easy nut. And she's addicted to the validation because on the street she can never get their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 06:46 PM
8	CMV: An adherence to a lack of not-sex-related value for women is much less about reality, or even really dating strategy, and more about protecting yourself from hurt. Women and men have different objectives and different standards for friendship. This is also reflected in the differing ways we communicate. It's not just about content, it's about expectations and results. In my observation women have no grasp of what truly underscores male camaraderie (and many traditional male activities). It's something I don't see talked about at any length. What underscores male camaraderie is hunting and warfare. Men are deeply aware of the need to trust each other with e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/20 11:17 PM
81	Can’t you ever trust any women? There's this girl I used to smash. She's engaged now. We text here and there and I tease her a bit. She never tells me no but she says she'd never cheat on the guy. I shrug it off. 30 minutes later she's telling me she misses me and wants to meet up. I shrug that off too. If I ever decide to see her I'm 100% sure I'd have her ass in the air within 15 minutes. Moral of the story: don't listen to women. They're slaves to their feels in the moment. Your girl is certain she'll never cheat. And she m…	/r/askTRP	30/04/20 02:16 AM
1	I don't feel like a man This is why we play sports. I'm extremely grateful to have played sports coming up, and to have been considered exceptional at it. Sports give us a chance to compete with men viscerally without being disfigured (generally speaking). Maybe you should pick up a sport or take up martial arts to get your fix.	/r/askTRP	30/04/20 12:46 AM
2	Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down? Some of those men do want forever, or think they do, if given the chance. The problem is they're completely overlooked. And that anyone's prerogative, we date who we want, but the problem is many of these same women want those guys later when they're spent. In a man's mind it's like refusing $30k for a new car in 2010, and then coming back in 2020 with 250k miles on it and demanding $300k. The problem isn't the car being used, the problem is the audacity of the seller. (This is a crude analogy, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 11:45 PM
16	Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down? Very few women would label their experience as "riding the cock carousel". That has a very negative connotation. I doubt they have their sexual courses all charted out either. What's being described is the tendency for women to compromise and change their dating/mating priorities as they age to find true commitment. Usually what's compromised is lust and excitement in favor of stability and provision. Men who know this feel slighted because it seems they're just consolations for women out of tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 08:40 PM
4	Do you think most women are fully aware of men’s nature? Upvote for the brilliant Freudian slip, "service level".	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 03:55 AM
2	I feel evil for living the TRP philosophy Gotta second everyone here. It's pointless to bring distinctly male issues to a female therapist. In fact it's absurd that this is widely encouraged. Find a man who can relate to you.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 08:01 PM
1	Anyone Just Enjoy the Hunt? She was attracted to you all along. Infatuation and disdain are two sides of the same coin — emotional investment. What you don't want is indifference.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 07:15 PM
1	Why Did She Smell So Good? She was probably ovulating. I've been in a situation where I was living with two young women. One was on birth control and didn't ovulate, the other was all natural and ovulated every month. When the natural would ovulate she smelled sweet and her behavior become much more inviting. I've never wanted to fuck a woman more. It was insane. The situation was an unintended experiment, and confirmation of the effect and purpose of ovulation. I'm not sure it's something I'd ever recognized in the wild,…	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 04:00 PM
2	Controversial Q: Do friends and family encourage marriage bc misery loves company? Or they’re in denial themselves? Man... I've always wondered the same.. I've had friends push marriage on me (light-heartedly) and then get divorced within a year or two. The whole time I saw the writing on the wall. As I'm thinking about it, the common denominator between these guys seems to be their belief that marriage was a righteous sacrifice. Which leads me to... I think many married men feel the need to justify their self-sacrifice by getting peers to buy in. It's almost like the appeal of being a soldier. The shared str…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 05:20 AM
1	Study: People report conforming more strongly to traditional gender roles and believing more strongly in traditional gender stereotypes since the coronavirus pandemic Hilarious	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 05:49 PM
2	Dating world summed up: Most men can't get most women, most women don't find most men worthy This is like a presenting a thesis on the very first thing the professor said at the beginning of the semester. Women want — no, demand — exceptional men. The end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 03:47 PM
1	If you view yourself as a prize, you're a narcissist. Men framing themselves as "the prize" is less about personal aggrandizement and more about recognizing the natural value of men and men's commitment. This inherent value has been lost on many men and women in a culture of feminist doctrine and female entitlement. In essence it's saying don't let anyone trick you out of your position as the ultimate decider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/20 07:37 AM
1	The case for marriage? Thanks for the detailed response. There is some pressure but I don't think all of the pressure is invalid. For instance, talking to her I've come to sympathize with the fact that an aging woman is vulnerable without some guarantee of something. I could just put her on her ass in 10 years and get a younger hottie. What protection or contingencies would she have? It's not illogical for her to want a contract that covers this. Our current system may administrate this badly, but it's not illogical. …	/r/askTRP	23/04/20 01:53 AM
1	The True Purpose of Marriage Hard to know what you mean by recent within the context of human history, but no, I don't think it was recent in that I don't think marriage is a product of civilization. I think civilization is a product of marriage. Which is to say I think one of the reasons we evolved so quickly was our propensity towards stable(ish) unions that were socially governed. I'd even argue, theoretically, that hierarchical unions are the basis of all governance. And this was selected for over time.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/20 11:24 PM
5	The True Purpose of Marriage Well, marriage is very common among hunter-gatherer societies whose history predates the agrarian revolution, so it doesn't seem it was instituted by farmers. It's a universal feature of cultures throughout the world, albeit with varying expectations and frequency. This suggests there's something to this drive towards lasting pair bonds that transcends economy. I do agree however that marriage benefits women and less desirable men the most and has a stabilizing effect on a society. Single women …	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/20 08:09 PM
2	Hugh Hefner and Male psychiatrist debate feminists (1970) 1) I'd never heard Hef speak at length. The guy is sharp and articulate. No fluke. 2) Hef could definitely bone the butch-headed lady. She's confused and hates her own arousal. 3) The doc was bumbling embarrassingly and is clearly under the thumb of a woman in his life, and she was watching.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/20 04:21 AM
0	How To Measure Your Penis Like An Empirical Rational Alpha Male The best way to measure your penis is with this dipstick kind of device I saw on the internet. I think it's called... a vagina? Something like that. There's no point in taking empirical measurements of your dick. This does nothing for the actual use of said dick. One of the best things men can do for their confidence is to stop worrying about size. You got what you got. Get good with it. Most of you are average. That's what average is. Some of you are bigger than average, and over time you'll co…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/20 05:45 PM
195	Utilise body language and reticence to bypass shit tests. We can harp on all these spergie methods but the principle is simple. Passing shit tests is simply a matter of being confident in who you are, and therefore, outcome independent. You don't have to follow an algorithm when you're authentic. All tests come down to the ability to stand in your truth.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/20 09:09 PM
2	Dear TRP: You were right This. Vulnerability is something that needs to be discussed more. It is too often confused with sentimentality which is unattractive. The act of living vulnerably however is very attractive to women, and people in general. To be vulnerable is to take risks and be bold; to say what you mean and say what you want; to stand alone if you must; to live truthfully and with integrity despite adversaries; to expose yourself in the hunt. All of this exposure takes strength. Most men these days DO NOT liv…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/20 12:35 AM
38	Lesson in frame control by Barack Obama. Dealing with insecure betas Scrolls the comments: "Should've said don't touch my earned income." HILARIOUS.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/20 08:17 PM
4	Why Large Cities With High Incomes and High Earnings are a Bad Place For You to Live I get it. It can be good to go smaller. It can be good to take up more responsibility in a less established environment. In fact this is what I do exactly, repeatedly, though I wouldn't ordinarily think of it that way. All I'm emphasizing is that guys should make these choices based on how they want to apply themselves in the world, not for pussy. I just don't want guys to cower and run away from competition in the arenas they need to be in. That's it.	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/20 06:39 AM
8	Why Large Cities With High Incomes and High Earnings are a Bad Place For You to Live I agree with most of that. That's a more comprehensive analogy than mine because the contestants have lateral options. Moving into a less competitive environment can be the right thing to do. It can certainly pay off. Not denying that. But the critical part is that those QBs were making moves to be the best at their craft, and to showcase it. They weren't moving for better dating prospects. It's a matter of motivations. So to take it to the real world, and my interpretation of this post: If a sm…	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/20 05:03 AM
18	Why Large Cities With High Incomes and High Earnings are a Bad Place For You to Live An analogy: There was 3-on-3 tournament I played in recently. The tournament was divided into three fields: high level, mid level, and low level. Each team could choose what level to play on based on their self-reported skill. The level that drew the most competitors was the mid level. The second was the low level. The one with the least, by a considerable margin, was the high level. Very few people dared to compete at the top, but most were also not inclined to play at the bottom (and admit the…	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/20 03:46 AM
3	A collection of amazing quotes I’ve gleaned from TRP posts and comments, in no particular order, and without exposition Schrodinger's pussy is absolutely hilarious.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/19 12:37 AM
96	The Rise of Feminine Values I have nothing to add except "anadoctual" might be the most horrendous butchering of a word I've ever seen.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/19 09:17 PM
9	Girls who can’t fuck for long I've done a lot of fucking, and I'm pretty well endowed, and this has never happened to me. Not once. If this is happening to you repeatedly you might be bad at sex. You asked if they're just cumming fast, and the answer is no, they're not. Someone else suggested you switch the mindless jackhammering, which I also suspect is what you're doing. Slow down, find the balance between gentle and firm, dominate with your body and hands, not your dick. Don't impale, grind, steady pressure. Pay attention…	/r/askTRP	24/11/19 08:30 PM
2	Once you lose frame, that's it? You're done? Is this salvageable? I understand the guilty feeling. Most of this sub deals in self- righteousness but feeling wrong is harder to swallow. The problem is the guilt tricks you into thinking "if only". If only this or that you'd have an alternate reality that supports what you want to happen. But this is an illusion. Your relationship with her had already changed and was bound to change. You just don't like disappointing yourself. I also understand the desire to give it your best shot and avoid regret, but I think yo…	/r/askTRP	24/11/19 12:20 AM
1	Once you lose frame, that's it? You're done? Is this salvageable? You've been lurking for three years but I'm not sure you understand what you've read. What you've expressed is idealistic and sentimental. You even told another guy you and the girl shared a love like the ones in romantic movies. I threw up in my mouth a little. I'm not here to tell you she wasn't good to you, or that she isn't good, but what I can tell you is what you miss about her has nothing to do with now or the future. The past is gone, never to be relived, and she's gone with it. You're f…	/r/askTRP	23/11/19 09:25 PM
1	What does it mean when your relationship with a person doesn’t seem to build up or it builds up slow? Man what are you saying? Lol	/r/askTRP	22/11/19 10:29 PM
3	Why does this girl keeps hitting me up after saying no to sex? Gonna disagree with the crowd here. Don't listen to what she says, pay attention to what she does. If she's hitting you up after you've made your intentions clear she wants action. At the very least she wants hits of your validation since you expressed your desire and then let her be. Women want to be wanted. She wants you to tell her again and again. Obviously don't do that, but if you want, hang out with her on your terms and escalate. If something happens, cool. If nothing happens, cool. The …	/r/askTRP	21/11/19 11:24 PM
2	Do women often do a 180 on you for seemingly no reason at all? First date — went well, she wanted you to take her to pound town. Second date — you took her to the movies and touched her hands. The experience you gave her was anticlimactic. You gotta take these women man. She doesn't know what the hell she wants in a logical sense. She knows what she wants to feel. And she wants to feel enraptured, swept up, overcome. What that means in practice is as soon as you're getting the greenlight you need to go all the way. The intense make-out was a glaring greenli…	/r/askTRP	19/11/19 12:51 AM
3	Favourite Responses to “Your not my type” "Yeah, I'm not my type either." (With a smirk)Then redirect the conversation.	/r/askTRP	17/11/19 11:38 PM
0	why are women so melodramatic Sounds like you might be happier dating dudes.	/r/askTRP	14/11/19 03:48 AM
3	Did I get ghosted and how to proceed? 1) If you haven't smashed or at least fooled around you aren't casually dating. She's vetting you. She might've bounced. This is partly why it's advised to get physical asap, to get her invested. 2) Give it some time, long enough for you to be relaxed, and shoot her something light-hearted. Gauge her response and go for a meetup. If she doesn't comply or propose an alternative, charge it to the game.	/r/askTRP	14/11/19 02:51 AM
15	Just had a reminder of why you can not teach everyone about The Red Pill The irony: He's shagging women he likes to shag, getting money and gifts, and you're on the internet hung up because he didn't validate your... religion? Sounds like you need to pull your head out of your ass and take some pointers from your friend. Don't let self righteouss labels get in the way of understanding. His or yours. Your friend's not into the label, but it seems he understands. You're oversubscribed to the label, but it seems you lack understanding. Very telling parallel between your…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/19 09:43 PM
69	The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flag All of this is subjective horse shit. Pick women for what they bring to your life. There may be some correlation between tats and certain attitudes/behaviors but one should be able discern these for himself without prejudice over some ink. I've seen tattoos that look unsightly on women, and I've seen tattoos that are sublime and look incredibly sexy on women. It comes down to the essence of the work, the essence of the woman, and my own subjective tastes. Loosen up.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/19 09:41 PM
1	Can we not fuck this time? 😂😂😂	/r/askTRP	15/05/19 04:33 AM
7	Introverted men are losers. Change my mind. Pointing to a correlation between introversion and shyness is not the same as saying introverts are inherently shy, and damn sure not the same as saying they're losers. You can say our culture values the impression of extroversion in many cases, superficially, but I'm not sure extroversion is actually valued more. Again many of the biggest contributors to society are and have been introverts, but you might not recognize this by the definition you're stuck on. But anyway, think whatever you want.…	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/19 05:04 AM
17	Introverted men are losers. Change my mind. What you're propagating is a common misconception. Introversion isn't shyness or awkwardness. In fact it has very little to do with one's social skills. There are many very socially savvy people -- leaders of business, government, and culture -- who you may be surprised to learn are introverted. What the introversion/extroversion spectrum pertains to is the way people gather their energy ("charge"). Those who tend to do this alone are introverted. Those who tend to do this with people are extrov…	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/19 04:40 AM
2	Opinions of girls who say they haven’t cum before? Hilarious	/r/askTRP	10/04/19 01:30 AM
3	There is No Pattern to a Woman's Attraction Yeesh... This is pretty awful... and circular.	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/19 05:01 PM
8	MAWAD First of all let's talk about your opener. I don't want anyone filling my body up with acumen. I mean wtf kind of metaphor is this? Lol I'm forming a theory about some of you.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/19 02:32 PM
1	Where to go to find women who have a low body count? Or is that impossible in today’s day and age? Alright well there are plenty women who aren't massive sluts. In fact most women aren't massive sluts. This is the kind of thing people say when they take their idealism and turn it over. Heads is "all women are wonderful". Tails is "all women are massive sluts." Ultimately it's still the same coin. Maybe you're being too fragile for the game. Women are sexual and want the best men they can hook. That's the boogyman. Be your best, connect with women, accept the ephemeral quality of life, and don…	/r/askTRP	01/04/19 03:02 PM
7	Where to go to find women who have a low body count? Or is that impossible in today’s day and age? Every religious girl I've been with was a freak of the highest order. Volcanic sexuality that's been bubbling violently under shame and guilt. They're also often surrounded by guys who've been thoroughly pussified by religious doctrine and so they find themselves between a rock and a hard spot... in my pants. Go with these flimsy nice guys, or go with this delicious forbidden fruit? Most won't go without the fruit, given the opportunity. Many try to have both, getting married young while sexuall…	/r/askTRP	01/04/19 02:21 AM
2	Why do most girls nowadays claim to have 'anxiety'? What's up with that? It's because women aren't designed to take on the workload or the nature of work expected of them in the 21 century. They're also not designed to be completely separated from the protection of their tribe/loved ones in urban jungles teaming with threats, working and raising families in isolation. They're also not designed to be overstimulated by a constant barrage of info and emotional triggers via smartphones, TV, and the broader advertising industry. They're also not designed to be subjected t…	/r/askTRP	26/03/19 06:56 AM
3	How do you guys deal with people still plugged into the matrix who act like your the strange one for avoiding monogamous relationship in order to foucus and improve on ones self? (21 years old) I went with my dad to meet some old friends of his. A man, his wife, their adult children, and children's children. I haven't seen them since I was a little kid. They're doing the usual, commenting on how much I've grown (sub-communication: damn you're a stud now) Towards the end the wife says, "When are you bringing us a wife?" I turned to her with a smirk and said, "I'll bring you several." She laughed and that was that. We said a lot with a little. Moral the story: 1) You're young and you're …	/r/askTRP	24/03/19 08:16 PM
87	AWALT kicks in after 2 years of plating You dirty dog, preying on illiterate women.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/19 08:44 PM
11	AWALT Example: Successful businessman that made hundreds of millions willingly tied down to a woman that admitted to riding the CC and having superficial standards ("I was looking for a guy that is 6'2"), etc Posts like this expose the rigid, fallacious thinking many red pill subscribers fall into. If you don't think Grant Cardone is an alpha you don't understand the nuances in the instruction here. This guy makes shit happen at a world class level. He saw a woman who fit his vision and he made her his, and created a family. An interesting tidbit is that she was doing quite well for herself without him, which I'm sure factored into her appeal. Another interesting fact is that he fucked his way into h…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/19 05:04 AM