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She slept with the guy before we know eachother. He then texted her while we were in relationship and she replied to him, nothing suspicious but she still did and I confronted her. She havent told me thats the guy she had sex with tho. She lied about who he is. I was honest since the beginning of relationship and i deserve honesty too. I will say that to her tonight. Even if i snooped. I want honesty and i deserve truth.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:32 PM
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Here’s another detail and reason why it bothers me: We were fwbs till september 2018. Then it became exclusive relationship. Back in january she got mad because she saw I snapchated a girl in august 2018, and it was the girl that was my ex-fuckbuddy and my gf knows that. We werent exclusive and there was no reason to get mad. Now here is when it gets interesting: That dude that was before me, texted her in december (when we were exclusive already), and they exchanged few messages, I confronted h…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:14 PM
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I know,thats why I worry. But few positive things to think about: • they have been together for 7 years, they probably really got bored of eachother especially because it was highschool love • she guaranteed its over, even said she can block him everywhere if I want • they ended it without fight which means they honestly really wanted it to end, she said he’s good person but they havent got along well and that they cant be together
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:22 AM
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To be honest, as a 15 years old skinny boy, having girls for motivation is pretty fucking usual and normal. Gotta work on new motivation now as I achieved this.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:35 PM
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That was well written. I definitely wont stop! Even my gf shows that she loves my fit physique. I cant let myself down. I’ll lose gains and her. Fucking christmas time fucked me over man. I have days off work (holidays) till next year. She also has free days so we spent more time together now because we are usually busy. I spent whole week at her place and gym was closed half of the week so thats probably why I feel like shit (physically). Also, workout is 1 hour. 60 fucking minutes. No way I’d …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:54 PM
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LTR’s arent mistake. Do what you want. Dont listen to everything here. Not everybody is living in vegas where every other woman is slut. Regarding your post. You really cant do anything about it. If the attraction is there and she really likes you, she’ll wait and keep interest. Either way, you have no control over that. How long are you two gonna be apart?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:19 PM
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I would rather be single than ever commit to a girl who does these things. Exactly! I would never be in relationship with girl that goes out with her girlfriends. And get drunk. And you’re home. I dont get it why are guys setting the bar so low...
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:34 AM
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Remember that she choosed you because you were badass muscular motherfucker. Dont lose that! Maintain good fit physique and perhaps learn something new, like marial art. Always improve. Always keep her attraction high.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:00 AM
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As others said, dont say “you should ....” but rather compliment her when she DOES something for it. Has she gained weight? Was she “normal” before ltr? Im in fresh ltr myself and wondering how your situation happened.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:50 AM
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They never have enough zinc in it. Or vitamin d. Its better to supplement it separately
/r/askTRP01/12/18 07:32 AM
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Lmao are we dating the same girl? Anyway, let her know you understand her even if you dont. Talk about positive stuff. And dick her down ofcourse!
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:41 AM
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I’m a very kinky bastard and in these 7 months of us fucking, she got to know me well and how kinky I am. She knows that whenever I cum, I can get hard again in 20-30min and have sex whenever I’m hard again. So she was just feeling my morning wood and tried to take care of it. She’s probably confused on why I couldnt cum. But whatever... thanks man
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:50 AM
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She does it good yeah. Sometimes she jerk me off too lightly so I grab my own dick and jerk it while the tip is in her mouth. Still couldnt cum. But that happened for the first time now. Last time I did cum, but it was still a struggle. But I did it. Not this morning however. It’s like these winter mornings are making me feel like shit and not even in the mood for orgasm. But my dick is hard every morning next to her. Edit: oh you meant if she orgasm? She just blew me this morning because of my …
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:43 AM
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Well GF wants to take care of my morning boner. So she goes at it and I cant cum. Like something is fucking blocking my mind. Its like im in my own head.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:39 AM
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True! Everyone should get oneitis and get hearbroken to grow. Then fuck bunch of girls and then “settle”.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:35 PM
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Yeah I agree thats why I said “once you realise its just sex”, I mean like - when you fuck bunch of different girls.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:34 PM
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Like you choosed her out of x girls, she choosed you out of x guys. Calm down. They can smell jealousity, for real. Whatever shit test she throws about that, simply A&A and tease her about it.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:53 AM
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Martial arts
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:07 AM
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Yeah this exactly. Random sex is fun and exciting and all, but once you realise that its just sex, it becomes boring. Once you have sex with someone you really like (outside of sex), you realise its way better. You two get to know what you both like, share fetishes and kinks. Also birth control (no condoms) is awesome.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:40 AM
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Meaningful sex with one is better than emotionless with hoes.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:04 AM
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Its hard not to, if the girl is good and has green flags. I’m in ltr now after being fwb for 6 months.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:46 AM
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I was in the same boat and I’m now in ltr with her. I had experiences with other girls and it was just meaningless sex, and a lot of “drama” (girls like to play games), especially because they were younger (18-20) and I’m 22. Then I met this one and sex was and is awesome, she gives me comfort, supports me, feeds me, she’s also older than me (24) and I realised I like that way more than chasing younger girls and meaningless sex and that I dont want to lose the diamond while collecting stones. So…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:33 AM
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You clearly have to read No More Mr.Nice Guy. “It’s my fault” “i understand” “She PROBABLY isnt trustworthy” Stop with that bitch attitude bro. Have some self respect. You should dump her after her first lie. Every next lie was really your fault. Fault that you’ve stayed with her. Have some self respect ffs.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 10:37 AM
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That happens when you ltr first random slut you bang and get oneitis yeah. Trp teaches that there are always options, and that you shouldnt worry about dropping girls. Thats the point. It doesnt teach that you shouldnt “love” or be in “relationship” because “they are all sloots”. Vet them and dont let yourself get heartbroken. Enjoy the time while it lasts. Even if trp says they are ALL sluts, there are still women worth having and women that you can grow with. Goodluck
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:01 AM
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Its fake as fuck lol. His channel is all about kissing. “Kissing moms” and then it is payed actor in bikini and high heels
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:42 AM
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That escalated quickly
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:31 AM
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Wtf. Whats the point of this?? Why not have her as another plate? Why involving emotions on either side? I dont get it. She better be Lisa Ann at sex for me to travel 4 hours damn.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:28 AM
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Some dont like it. But most will do whatever you like AFTER SOME TIME. When they get used to you and they get comfortable. I thought my girl doesnt like to swallow. She did it 2 weeks ago for the first time after 6 months.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:01 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Best comment I’ll read here. Thats the wisest TRP truth. Do whatever the fuck you want!
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:16 AM
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Her finding gear OR Her snooping your stuff What is worse? I’d just say that she shouldnt snoop my stuff and leave it at that
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:39 AM
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Test E 300mg/week, 12weeks. How does that sound?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 09:38 AM
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G’day fellow foot-fetisher. I hope you get to suck her toes man.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:05 AM
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I had a problem that when I masturbated, I lost willpower to game girls and get laid. I was in some fucked up porn and then went on hard mode nofap, 141 days. From one extreme to another. I was frustrated as fuck and you can tell I didnt get laid anyway. What I found out that works however, is doing nofap max 7-10 days. You’ll be horny and more outgoing. During that time you try to get laid. If not, fap it away and repeat. I was on 10 days nofap when I went to that girls house. Now she’s my fres…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:55 AM
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I believe he meant like that. Soft next after every point he wrote. Because like you’ve said, if she even think about it its wrong and not acceptable.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:47 AM
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It means she is normal woman. Its her profile not theirs. Why the fuck is social media such a big deal these days anyway.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:44 AM
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Exactly. Sex two times in 5 months. What a joke.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:21 AM
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No. When you bulk you gain some fat aswell, then you cut that fat and do another bulk, gain fat again so you cut again. Point is you’re heavier every bulk/cut.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:32 PM
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Dont be stupid. 150 for 5’9 is damn low. Aim 175-180 with low bf. That will take few years for sure, if you’re natural. Bulk to 175, cut do 165, bulk to 180, cut to 170, so on.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:28 AM
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She is fresh ltr, yes. I wouldnt bother if it was random plate.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:43 AM
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How is this entering her frame? I just asked fresh ltr why she’s in the bad mood. She later said she’s grumpy because of pre-menstrual cycle. It just bothers me when they (or anybody) says something is wrong but then proceed to avoid reasoning and change topic. Like, why did you mention it in the first place? However, all good now. Going to her house tonight to give her some medicine.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:41 AM
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Going there tonight to dick her down. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:05 AM
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Thanks. We are banging 3 days per week, since april
/r/askTRP16/10/18 02:08 AM
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Thank you for that. Can I read more about this? So how should I react in this situation? Ignore that she said “she’s in the bad mood” and just continue conversation?
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:59 PM
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Going at her place tomorrow. All good :D
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:42 PM
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Alright. Thats interesting. Why do they bother telling this if they dont want help. Stupid games they play. Why confusing us. I know I didnt fuck anything up. Thats why I wondered what happened, like maybe some fight with family or anything so I could give her some advice, but she doesnt tell and avoid questions and changes subject. One update however: she said she’s okay, just a bit grumpy because period is coming.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:38 PM
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Its difference if you say it just randomly, or if you say it when she trully deserves it. For example, say it when she swallows you, allows you to fuck her in the ass, prepares you food,... You should know if its worth saying this. Even a single doubt indicates that you’re not sure whether you trully love her. Being alpha is all about doing what YOU want and feel like it. Saying “I love you” isnt meant to gain anything from it. You say it because you mean it and she deserves it, not because you …
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:16 AM
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Search “dread game”, also, thats sidebar material. You should read it bro. Regarding your gf; You started ltr too early to even vet her properly Respect yourself and walk away. She should be begging for your attention. Not you for hers. Its over. She has better target on eyes or is already fucking other guy. Dont feel sad. Lift. Goodluck!
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:43 PM
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Oh so you’re the guy thats fucking my gf? I’m such a cuck :(
/r/askTRP09/10/18 09:13 AM
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Lmaooo lmaaooo lmaoo what are you like 12? Where did I said that it got me a GF? You’re not desperate if you have own mission and wank your cock only once per week without porn. Did I mention nofap anywhere? You are desperate. Desperate for porn. l-M-a-O
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:51 AM
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I thought I had a porn addiction, so I stopped watching porn. Then I realised nothing changed, I still didnt get girls. I realised porn doesnt matter. Your actions do. Now I have gf and I only find myself watching porn maybe twice per month. Stopping porn can be good kickstarter to get real girls. But other than that....
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:56 AM
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I was the same. And I’m currently at the beginning of my first “redpilled” LTR. Been fwb with this girl for 6 months. Found out she’s good girl overall and we really get along good. We are not all designed to enjoy ONS’s and casual sex. I mean, it’s cool and enjoyable but after some time it gets boring. Once you have sex with someone you really like, and you know they like you back, its different. Emotionally stronger orgasms and the feeling after sex isnt empty and dull like with ONS. So here’s…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:33 AM
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“If you’re a shredded sick kunt you can get away with anything bro”
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:59 AM
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So there is no difference? They’ll fuck eitherway
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:43 AM
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Good fucking job op
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:42 AM
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Yeah OP let us know what happened. What was the reaction?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:37 AM
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Holy shit, she is your LTR and you’re afraid to say that you love her, and even all that DURING SEX. Why is she even your gf if you are afraid to say it because of some ‘trp rules’, or do you genuinely do not love her? You probably took trp too serious. Its ok to love your ltr. Its ok to tell her that, IF she deserves it and you really mean it. Its not like you’re saying it like a little puppy trying to get sex.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:35 AM
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Best advice right there. Plain regular (or V-neck to display chest) t-shirts. Black/white/gray. I threw all my graphic tshirts away. Best thing I did for my style.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:59 AM
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Keep spinning and using condoms (finish without it on body/mouth) and when you find girl worth ltr-ing enjoy condomless sex
/r/askTRP03/10/18 09:32 AM
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I agree. I do that with my gf
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:31 AM
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Its always like that. You can say all the weird shit, and if you’re good looking & high smv, it’ll be a compliment for her. If fat ugly beta weirdo says exactly the same to her, he’d be called psycho/weirdo/predator. Its not about WORDS. Its about WHO SAYS IT. You are so right!
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:02 AM
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Holy shit wouldn’t that be awesome? Never thought of that damn
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:12 PM
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Thats understandable yeah but I wouldn't put any label on it before having sex. Fuck her for some time and then decide if its worthy.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:27 PM
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I can't understand how can you even think about LTR without even having sex with a girl. Maybe its just me, but sex is a BIG deal in a successful relationship. Not its frequency but also quality. I can't think about LTR-ing a girl that I haven't fucked.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:58 PM
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Almost same here regarding sleep. Just that she isnt annoying little shit, but horny as fuck and we have sex 2-3 times during night. Then its time for cuddling and to cool down and BAM, its 5 AM. But its fine. Its not like its time bad spent.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:41 AM
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Chainsaw lmao this thread is fucking hilarious
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:34 AM
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Exactly my thoughts. Its obvious if shes ltr material
/r/askTRP24/09/18 03:55 AM
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What if she is afraid to fuck things up if I “wouldnt agree”? Another user also mentioned: “The real keepers will keep their mouth shut and just work their way up.” (From fwb to ltr)
/r/askTRP23/09/18 05:59 PM
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By fooling around I mean fucking other girls. We have ltr like relationship but no one said or initated “the talk” yet.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 05:44 PM
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Honestly, we are having ltr-like relationship for the past 6 months and there wasnt any bullshit. Like, zero. She isnt bitching, gossiping, nothing. Thats exactly why I wouldnt mind ltr with her. I’ve been testing her for 6 months, on and off period, and she has always been good sport
/r/askTRP23/09/18 05:33 PM
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How exactly is this oneitis? Not everyone of us is born to fuck multiple bitches all the time. Some of us actually like the idea of relationship. You obviously havent read last sentences. I’m not afraid of losing her, because I’ll get another one. I dont WANT another one at the moment. I’m ready for relationship with her because I dont need more. And if it fails, I’m not going to kill myself. So how is it oneitis?
/r/askTRP23/09/18 05:11 PM
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4 porn for me works
/r/askTRP21/09/18 09:34 AM
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Absolutely gold advices. Its all about push/pull. If you can control being romantic and being dominant/fuck her good, you win at life. I’m currently doing so good. Slept at her place last night and fucked her so good her legs shaked. Afterwards cuddled her like a good princess she is. Its all about balance. In all aspects of life. If you can find middleground you’re golden. Wish more guys knew how to properly play this game. It’s not hard. I absolutely agree about improving while in str/ltr. I m…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:31 AM
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Well...🤷🏻‍♂️ Just gotta promise myself to not let myself down once it ends. Because nothing lasts forever.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:04 PM
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Good idea. I’ll try to get her to drop some hints. We’ll see. Going at her place in an hour, gonna bring her some drinks and chocolate (she loves chocolate). Thank you for your advices. This community is really helpful!
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:02 PM
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Its hard because now I dont fuck with other girls because she shows so many signs of exclusivity. I wouldnt be able to look her in the eyes again if I fucked other girl while having a thing with her. I know you will shit me for this, but I’m 100% sure I’m the only one she is fucking. I can guarantee that. She just gives me too much to dissapoint her. She is 24 and I’m 21. She was in ltr of 5 years, which ended 1.5 years ago.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:00 AM
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Good advice. Thank you man!
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:59 AM
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Alright! I’m 21, if that changes anything. I’ll keep fucking her and doing whatever the fuck I feel like doing. Sea is big and there are always options.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:40 AM
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I agree. Thanks buddy. Will do
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:38 AM
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So she’s on the right way. Good to know, thanks man!
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:32 AM
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You’re right. But its preached that guys dont do “the talk” or ask for relationship. So I’m not sure what to do about it.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:07 AM
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Thanks for your response. So this sounds exactly like my situation. No talk whatsoever. So did you just gradually start saying “i love you” to eachother and met eachothers parents or what? How did you ‘know’ you were in relationship?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:05 AM
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Tbh its almost like relationship. Just without label.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 07:47 AM
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Thank you. But that destroys the idea that men NEVER ask for relationship? Maybe she just likes us as kind of “exclusive” (lol) fwb and thats it. I honestly will wait until she really does or says something about relationship.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:55 AM
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Well, your situation explains mine. Excluding open relationship etc. What did your bf do or said? I will never literally ask a girl to be my girlfriend. Sounds way too clingy and not really ‘alpha’ to ASK for something.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:52 AM
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What kind of hints? She drops hints, just not by words. But you’re right, I guess she’d say something if she wanted more...
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:47 AM
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How so?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:59 AM
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Lmfao. You’re right tho
/r/askTRP19/09/18 09:22 AM
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Stop watching porn and jerking off UNTIL you get some plates spinning or atleast fwb. Thats how I got over it. Dont go over 15 days nofap or anything stupid. That will make you either crazy or asexual. Thats how I did it: Was talking to potential fwb - I understood that that would be my first real sexual encounter after long time so I better stop porn for some time to enjoy it. So I went on 14 days nofap/noporn streak. We scheduled meeting at her place. It was exactly on my 14th day of nofap/nop…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:47 AM
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Oh man.. this makes my blood boil.. I understand you and I hope everything goes well for you. Even adding other guys on social media is enough of a red flag for me. I’d keep fucking her etc. but do not spend any money on her. Slowly start adding/talking to other girls, and start making substitutes. Sooner or later you’ll need them. Once you break up, stay strong and forget about her.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:13 AM
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(Disgusting) username checks out
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:16 AM
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Dammm. Were you charged? Must felt like shit :O
/r/askTRP18/09/18 09:39 AM
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But she’s the person of my dreams!!!1 /s
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 09:56 AM
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Stopped reading after “Person of my dreams...” Sidebar is that way —> Hit the search bar and type “oneitis”
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:56 AM
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Depends who asks. Like someone said, let your friend pretend he’s gay and ask her.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:47 AM
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Nice technique when she mentioned leaving and you said go ahead, doors are right there. I do EXACTLY the same tricks and it drives them crazy and builds attraction. Most (blue-pilled) guys in this situation would quickly back off and comfort her with “oh noo please dont leave” without realising what a mistake they are doing. Good shit OP. Keep doing that. Also, game her like she’s single. Dont feel guilty, its not your problem. You are priority (to yourself).
/r/askTRP10/09/18 09:12 AM
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Perfect response 👍🏻
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:41 AM
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Hard next. There are like billions of mothers around the world. No need for oneitis
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:50 AM
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I’m typing this as I just came home from getting tattoo on my back done. I also have one arm full sleeve and other arm half sleeve and a little text on my chest. I have good physique and people admire me. But do people admire me because of tattoos? Fuck no. They admire me because of tattoos ON MY PHYSIQUE. That being said, its not tattoos girls like, its TATTOOS on ‘hot’ guys they like, as someone already said.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:20 PM
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No. Just eat with hands instead of fork. 3 sets 12 reps
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:06 AM
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Low testosterone. Check your levels.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:31 AM
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Its up to you. How you dress and behave. It has nothing to do with label.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:50 AM
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Same bro. I prefer them over bone-skinny girls.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:47 AM
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Exactly. Best response!
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:55 AM
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Marry her. Multiculture is shit!
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:48 AM
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Im opposite of that. I wake up and realise it wasnt worth it and I feel so motivated to continue with my gym goals etc
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:47 AM
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So fucking true. You reminded me how awesome my fwb is. Trully upgradable material.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 07:11 AM
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Its “STD between girls”. Since guy cant get that. But can transfer it to other girl.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:53 AM
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Tuna box holy shit thats hilarious
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:52 AM
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Game other girls and prepare to leave. This is totally not acceptable. Even if she’d told you, it wouldn’t be acceptable. Now that she kept it as secret thats even worse. Respect yourself and get rid of her.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:46 AM
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Nofap past 2 weeks is bullshit. It does nothing but frustrates you. I tried it (max 140 days) and ended fapping even more and to even worse porn categories. Now I have sex 1-2x/week and sometimes even feel like watching porn and I do, like 1-2x/week max because I feel like my sex drive is awesome that way. I do recommend nofap but never past 2 weeks. Dont fap for 10-14 days and go out and try to get laid. Its easier then.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:14 AM
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Dyel?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:05 AM
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Bro believe me, no matter how hard it is, there are so many other girls you can fuck. DO NOT get back with her. Its your hamster doing its work. Go waste that anger in the gym and flirt with other girls. Fuck new girls, you’ll forget her quickly. How old are you?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:14 AM
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Saw you’re 42. At what age did you do your first cycle? Any sides?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:00 AM
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Calories first. Enough protein second. Fat/carbs whatever you like them but its good to schedule carbs around workout.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:51 AM
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3 weeks of what? Meeting her or official relationship? Have you even fucked her? Posting memes..god.. Doesnt she have anything better to do lol. Actually, why do you settle with such girl? She sounds low smv Limiting talking to other guys? You HAVE to limit this? Thats sad. If she’d find you high-SMV she wouldn’t even thought about talking to other guys. I believe you should lift more and read sidebar, spin plates for some months/years before settling in a relationship. Goodluck!
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:43 AM
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Exactly my situation. You’re 100% right. But it seems like she is waiting for me to make “the talk” lol. But until she doesnt say anything I guess she likes the situation as it is.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:02 AM
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Thanks man. :)
/r/askTRP16/08/18 10:55 AM
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No no no. You said I should act on something? I thought you mean upgrading her to ltr. And I just said its girls bussiness to ask for it. Yeah I’m good at it (no bragging), hence why she craves me when I leave her place and wants me again as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:13 AM
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Thank you. +nice name 😂
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:41 AM
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Dont quite get what you said. If I want situation to change I should act? Girls should ask for ltr not me. Thats what I have to work on. She’s the best I had yet.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:36 AM
2

Thank you man and good luck to you too!
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:58 AM
1

I feel kind of commited yeah. Neither of us said a word about that tho. She even congratulated my birthday with some “fwb memes”. I think she’d want more but she doesnt say it loud. Idk if she ever will?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:57 AM
1

We meet only once per week. It’s like I’m stuck between wanting her and wanting to experience other girls. Which in other words mean I’m afraid to lose her. Why does it have to be so complicated..fuck
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:47 PM
1

She’s like buying pizza/drinks for me, she bought me birthday gift recently: parfume, hair gel, shaving cream, peanut butter, deodorant and some sweets, all worth around 30€.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:14 PM
12

Thanks for explanation! I get it now.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:19 PM
1

Holy shit. I thought you’re retard for replying like that and that you completely lost her. How’s that possible? What goes through their mind? And why did she change her mind? Still swallowing the pill, so I dont quite get all the things just yet. Good fucking shit OP, ending left me drop a jaw.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:56 PM
0

Good point you got there. Thank you very much buddy
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:50 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:50 PM
2

Nice! Funny story. Thats also why I have to fuck others girls. To not feel bad once she drops me.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:51 PM
1

No man, I HAVE to spin multiple plates. Just for the sake of experience and to build abundance mentality. Otherwise I'll be brokenhearted after one single girl rejects me or leaves me. I'm 21. I NEED to experience more girls. I know I should. I get a lot of advices from older guys or guys that just came out of relationship. They all have same advice: Dont lock down too soon. Thanks for the heads up tho!
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:50 PM
1

175cm (5’9), 73kg Just started lean bulking to hit 80kg.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:37 AM
5

Same thing with my fwb. Fucking her for half a year now. She has all the green flags except; ex still likes her photos (no problem here) she likes his photos back (problem) She didnt bring “the talk” yet tho. But she said when we got to knew eachother that the breakup wasnt “in a hard way”. She and her ex broke up “without fight”, and she even told me she “was” still in touch with him. I didnt care back then since she was still a “plate” but now she’s fwb and showing signs that she wants to go e…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:03 AM
1

It’s not like I’m suggesting you to USE social media. I know it’s shitty. Thats why I only keep/follow people (friends) that actually compliment my life. I see bullshit post/picture/text? Instant unfollow/unlike/block. But since you’re asking, I’m using it mostly for events and to see what my friends are up to. And also texting on messenger.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 06:07 AM
1

You: “Hey lets fuck” She: flakes You: ghost her and game other girls, there are like billions of them But for real, what kind of shit post is this, it’s impossible to read. Are you 8 or what?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:34 AM
1

You’re disciplined when you have social media and you dont let it distract you. You’re just hiding from it.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 05:29 AM
2

Reality of counting calories is that you just do it for few weeks until you realise how much you consume and how much calories certain food has. After that you just estimate and a) increase calories if you’re not gaining weight b) decrease calories if you notice too much weight gain in a short time
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:22 AM
1

Stop masturbating, sleep well, take zink, but most importantly - drink water! Lots of it.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:50 AM
2

So fucking true.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:33 AM
30

Get some sleep and stop watching beastiality porn. Fucking hilarious.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 08:47 PM
1

It usually works for me because I get their snap or whatever, so it never looks like I directly “shot them a text” but rather looks like sharing what I’m doing at the moment (through the picture) and then conversation goes on from there. I never really plain text her “hey” or whatever. But you could always go with “hows your day going” and when the conversation goes on you finish it with “well, see you on __”
/r/askTRP12/08/18 08:29 PM
1

Though trp says otherwise, I always text for a bit before date, but I’m also 21, and dating in 18-23 age range so it depends what audience are you talking to. I have great success. However I never appear needy or desperate through the texts, and I also keep most of the topics for the conversations on 4 eyes. Keep it simple, throw some push pull in there and you’re golden.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 08:15 PM
1

Same with my Fwb. Give it time OP, she’ll get used to it. Also, do everything in a heat of a moment.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:35 AM
2

She’s LTR material Havent had sex How in the world can you consider ltr with a girl that you havent had sex with yet? Whats ltr-worthy? Her smile? 2 dates Thats like 20 meetings too little to consider LTR.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:48 AM
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