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Red Pill Examplenever_nic/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 11:41 AM
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Red Pill Theorynever_nic/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 01:29 PM
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Blue Pill Examplenever_nic/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 12:20 PM
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Red Pill Theorynever_nic/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 03:37 PM
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Red Pill Theorynever_nic/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 11:18 AM
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Congrats on going out alone, I personally know well that it takes balls and feels awkward as fuck (at least in the beginning). Feels like you didn't finish the post though? There's no ending. What happened with the 8? Did you order the shots and just go home? Lmao. Otherwise a solid, average night out. A good example of what it looks like. I like how you talk about "disarming" the girls, sounds like you've been in the game for a while.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/23 12:49 PM
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It doesn’t matter what city, women are always the same. You’d close the same way you’d close in New York or Shanghai. There are some cultural differences between women but there isn’t that much of a “night and day” contrast like people here like to point out. That being said, you seem to have stuff figured out already (hotel in the downtown area, logistics..). I’d maybe add the following: 1. Use Tinder during the day (you get foreigner bonus points to your SMV) 2. Don’t flaunt your money too muc…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 08:19 PM
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I’d wager this is why just approaching on its own is very powerful even if you’re not rich/muscular etc. You’ve already given her something she wants - your attention
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 07:37 PM
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Looks like the post went off topic mentioned in the title, so let me tell you this: It’s up to you if you want to cheat or not but consider the following: she will never truly appreciate the sacrifice that you’re making of not fucking other women (something all guys wanna do but supplement with porn) if you don’t have an abundance mindset and are only reliant on her, she’ll be able to sniff it out and might leave you because of it
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 03:59 PM
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The one thing I liked about TRP was that as opposed to many other right-leaning spaces, race never came up as an issue. I’d wager this sub is more diverse than most liberal journals.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 12:55 PM
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Don’t get jealous, let her go and you go have fun yourself, approach a different girl. You’d be surprised how many come back to you later in the night cause they see how easily you dropped her. And also cause she realises she’ll be Mr Rapper’s one night stand at best. But you shouldn’t approach other girls in hopes she’ll come back, but because you wanna know enjoy your night despite your girl being a shittesting ho.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 11:30 AM
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By enjoying the rest of their life? I got over my regret as soon as I realised I can still fuck hot chicks
/r/TheRedPill05/08/23 05:49 PM
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Thanks for responding. An interesting viewpoint. I’m the type that couldn’t imagine a purposeful life without breeding. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 08:14 PM
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Grass is always greener on the other side. To be honest, I’m curious what kind of delusions the male endless Bachelors of today will write when they’re 40 and without a legacy of children or a long-term partner. Because the great names of pick-up from 15 years ago have either taken the godpill, can’t see their kids or are sex addicts.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 07:40 PM
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The only alpha thing about Islam is the fact that Mohammed made up an entire religion to gain power, wife loads of women (including his cousin and a six-year-old) and wage literal war. He was also making that shit up as he went, depending on what he currently needed, Joseph Smith style. So starting a religion = absolutely based and alpha. Not drinking and not eating some sort of meat because some alpha chad made that up 100s of years ago = cringe and beta
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 08:07 AM
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Was Moldovan prison tough for a foreigner?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 08:46 PM
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I started my TRP journey at 18. I remember that one of the first thoughts after reading through The Rational Male was anger that I wasted my teens. Could've been fucking my high school crushes instead of simping for them. Grass is always greener. Becoming TRP aware at 30 is way better than in your late 40s post-divorce (and there was a lot of those threads in the history of this forum). It took me until 25 to fully embrace TRP and be able to truly become "alpha". It's probably not going to take …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 01:52 PM
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Again, I’ve been with my girl for 5 years now so I’m speaking from experience. Most men on this earth, including me, would like to get a girlfriend and be with her, give her everything, but not because it’s a virtue like some people in the comments make it up to be. It’s pure laziness. Men want to fuck a whole bunch of different girls. It just seems easier to commit to one in hopes that she’ll never leave. Women can pick up on the neediness though. And neediness is not alpha. And women need alph…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 04:45 AM
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This isn’t about feeling confident. I’ve been in an LTR for 5 years and believe me, there’s nothing I’d love more than to relax and be true to my one and only. But that’s when you subconsciously start acting beta and she feels it. The sex dries up, she gets complacent about trying to please you, at the worst point she starts toying with the idea of an open relationship. Flirting with other girls and genuinely having the ability to walk away makes you non-needy and she gets dead. She jumped back …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 04:19 AM
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No worries, nothing is lost, I’m just speaking out of experience. It’s these little cracks at your frame that compound over years and years and suddenly she’s asking you for an open relationship and you have no idea what you did wrong
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 07:40 AM
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I wasn’t there with you but from what you’ve said, her story sounds pretty believable. I genuinely think she’s not interested in fucking him. What I’d be more worried about is that now she knows that this other guy makes you feel jealous. That’s cracking at your frame and that’s not good. If you had backup pussy prepared, you wouldn’t have these feelings and women pick up on this.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 07:12 AM
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Just because it took me 7 years doesn't mean it won't take you less. I fucked around a lot, I avoided things I was afraid of, I got into an LTR as soon as I started having luck with women.. there were a lot of buffers I took part in.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 07:20 PM
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Wow someone who their entire life didn’t know what the fuck they wanted says women only want looks, guess the blackpill is proven! Pack it up guys. Whenever someone posts something like this, I feel like they don’t go outside, they don’t talk or pursue real women and all interaction with the outside world is through the Internet
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 03:38 PM
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The best way to redpill parent is to just be an Alpha dad. They won’t need to read the rational male, they’ll naturally copy your behaviour as they grow up. Also 20 is super early to learn the redpill. There’s guys who started post-divorce in their 40s and they still managed to crush it and even get plenty of young pussy. The thing with being young is that you’re too dumb to realise the value of what you stumbled upon. I started TRP at 18, took me until 25 to actually be able to fearlessly appro…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 06:49 PM
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Frame exists in all kinds of relationships between people.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 01:47 PM
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I agree that this is not what you’d act like if you were talking to a girl, but it shows the essence of frame pretty well. He didn’t think he was annoying, he thought he was hilarious and pulled her into her frame at the end. That wasn’t a polite laugh, she was being mean the entire time and suddenly she switches to a polite laugh? Nah, that’s her frame breaking and entering his where she for a split second believed he really was funny.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 12:43 PM
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I've seen you post on here a few times, and I've noticed your posts are unique in how they split up interactions into all these different categories of tests. I don't mean to be disrespectful here, but what you described in this post is just a basic textbook shit test. She "gives you shit" and you need to hold your ground. What's "congruent" about this congruence test exactly?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 11:47 AM
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What you’re describing is “mental masturbation”, and it’s a problem that’s been known around these circles for since forever. I’d wager most people who stumble upon this forum go that route and never actually try to succeed in the real world. Aside from maybe a few approaches, half assing the gym for three months, and realising that there’s a lot of pain involved in both. They end up endlessly consuming content, because their subconscious mind is looking for an easier way to get pussy, that does…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/23 05:12 AM
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What are are the girls you hook up with these days? Just wondering
/r/TheRedPill17/07/23 05:08 AM
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They test for honesty, consistency, morality, manners Is that why serial killers have a cult following of women? It literally doesn’t matter if you’re the good guy or the bad guy, you just can’t be a pussy and that’s all women really test for.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/23 03:41 PM
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Lesson learned: Escalate. You’ll go on some more dates, you’ll gradually become more comfortable with escalating and touching the woman. You’re on a good path, just keep getting more dates so you can gain real world experience. Theory is good, but that’s there to point you into the right direction while you’re out actually gaming women. That’s where you’re actually getting skill. You’re almost 30 so I’ll wager you understand the value in “failing fast” as opposed to these youngsters. Try to go o…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/23 11:11 AM
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This right here Can I ask what do you look fitness-wise? Do you put effort into how you dress?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/23 10:13 AM
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I don’t have any links sorry, it’s just kind of an open secret
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 06:21 PM
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Yeah kinda like when you’re playing chess.com Which is why I have such a low Elo on there, it’s the scoring system that’s wrong, not my chess skills
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 06:19 PM
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Tinder keeps a secret score tied to your profile similar to elo) in chess. It basically gauges how attractive you are and it controls how much your profile is shown to super attractive people of the opposite gender. The more you get swiped left on, the lower your elo gets. When it gets low, you can update your pictures to better ones, write a better bio, but you're not being shown to attractive women anymore and your reach is crushed. Deleting your account and creating a new one essentially rese…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 01:11 PM
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Cold approach is split into daygame and nightgame. Daygame is approaching women on the street, doing everyday stuff and nightgame is clubs, bars etc. Yeah I don't like clubs either, I prefer bars cause you can't even talk to people in clubs. The most socialization at clubs happens when you're smoking in front of the club lol. Other than that, there's "social" game which is also a pretty large source of lays. And that's just meeting people through social circles, having girls as your friends and …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 01:07 PM
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Let me start off by congratulating you, most men and I'd even wager most men that frequent this subreddit don't have the balls to go out and cold approach women like that. So you can shamelessly pat yourself on the back there. Second of all - from what I've seen in my own experience and looking at data from pickup artists who've shared this information with the world, cold approaches yield the least amount of sex. And while cold approaching is important, you could've leveraged Tinder a bit more …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 12:48 PM
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I never said it's not an advantage, I never said you won't get as many options as tall dudes. I even admitted that I as a tall guy have had plenty of handouts. I started this argument because you said their height was the biggest factor in their lack of success with women. As you said: No. It’s their height. And that simply is not true. If you have tight and I mean tight fucking game, you're able to get laid enough to build a rotation and keep yourself satisfied. Your n-count will be higher than…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:14 PM
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"Dread game" and "spinning plates" were borrowed straight out of the female dating strategy playbook lol. We copied over what they do naturally.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:09 AM
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At a certain point in your life, if you’re going out regularly and meeting new people, you’re gonna meet a short guy that’s killing it with women. He’s going to be super chatty, appear very confident, even to the point of being annoying. They’re always the same. And you’re going to see him make out with women and if you’re lucky, you’ll see proof of him dating/fucking girls too. Ofc the girls will say shit like “ew no he’s short” before. There’s your biological facts. My personal experience that…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 06:32 PM
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5’7 is not even short what the fuck are y’all on about. It’s just another shit test. Repeat - it’s just a shit test like any other. Push through it. Act like she didn’t say anything. Agree and amplify. Escalate despite that. Look at what she does not what she says
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 04:54 PM
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Golden post, pure truth in powdered form, split into lines and snorted off a cracked iPhone screen while mom is calling.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 03:36 PM
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I didn't know, I apologize. OP you can go ahead and pull out the " key from your keyboard now.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 12:54 PM
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Comments like this really solidify my theory that short guys' worst enemy is not their height but their own insecurities
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 12:48 PM
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Really good insight from the "other" side most men won't peer into. The thing is, if you do it by looks like this and you don’t have the money you’re the only person that’s getting real desire sex. Money guys are just getting transactional sex Very true. Good post. But please learn to format text properly and use quotation marks. I can't tell who's saying what in your post.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 12:14 PM
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All that is just standard escalation. Look up "escalation" in regards to pickup and you'll be golden. Just keep in mind what your goals are (to fuck her) and what your goals aren't (to be her emotional tampon) at all times and have enough self respect to actually steer the conversation that way. This might result in her leaving sometimes (maybe she was only looking for a guy to cry to at that point), and that's fine. It's better to lose her than it is to end up in a situation where you're not ge…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 07:49 AM
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30 is more than the average man will have in a lifetime
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 06:36 AM
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Bros gonna go crazy when he finds out about meth
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 05:03 PM
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Having an existential crisis because you’re having too much sex is a problem you want to have
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:39 PM
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You're right, bad example and I worded it poorly. What I was trying to say is that men tend to rather grind away and search for ways to increase their value massively (millionaire status, getting ripped) before even attempting to talk to a woman because they're so afraid of rejection that they feel like they need all that to be sure she won't reject you. However actually getting there, like you said, requires massive discipline and hard work. That's why most men are stuck just mentally masturbat…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 02:06 PM
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You don't have to lift. You don't even have to make money. I've seen skinny short guys who work a minimum wage job and live with their mom at 30 consistently get pussy. It's about how you make them feel. You fake being confident in yourself, you act like an asshole, a few are bound to bite. Hell, that's all I did at 19. The gym, money and all that stuff is secondary. Just to increase the number of girls that say yes, and the quality of women too, while doing the same thing you should be doing wh…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 11:23 AM
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You need to get burned a few times to completely kill the inner simp inside yourself. No amount of theory reading can equal finding out that the girl that from every angle seemed like a complete angel fucked some guy who's a loser in comparison to you. But yes, a lot of people don't realize that a lot of practical TRP concepts (like spinning plates being the most obvious example) were directly taken from women. It's something women do naturally.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 11:18 AM
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I’m expecting people on here to react negatively to this post, but I don’t see it being any different than advice given out here normally (establish rapport, assume things about her, comfort building, letting her talk..). OP is just calling a spade a spade. Be careful not to get friendzoned this way. The point is to have her open up, not to solve her problems. She doesn’t really want them solved anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 08:40 AM
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All game is manipulation in a way
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 08:21 AM
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Jesus isn’t mentioned in the book of Job is he? It’s the Old Testament
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 08:29 PM
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In my experience, you need to fuck them good first in order to turn them into the loyal supportive partner.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 02:28 PM
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Instead of being cold, obviously Machiavellian and an asshole, keep being good to your friends. In fact, be absolutely charismatic! Just keep in mind that anyone can turn on you at any point and accept it as something that just people do. If they don’t, great! If they do, don’t get too emotional over it. You wouldn’t get mad and emotional at a lion for eating you if you ran into one in a rainforest, that’s just what lions do. In order to keep this mindset you need to get rid of the “I only need …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 02:27 PM
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Obviously down the line he messed up because he’s clearly pissed off. Either he gave too much, he didn’t have a backup plan, he didn’t build a social life outside his relationship and keep potential plates around.. I believe the book helps with this even when you’re not an outright nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 12:58 PM
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This sub is plagued by a certain kind of bitterness from being backstabbed by women (and sometimes friends). And this is to be expected since it’s that exact kind of pain that drives people here in the first place. Yes everyone only cares about what they can get out of the other person, not caring what they had received already. But first of all check yourself and realise you’re not any different. The reason why you invested so much into a relationship is because you thought you’d get something …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 11:32 AM
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While this is true, it often turns newbies that just wanna get laid into wannabe-psychopaths that are unbearable to be around cause they follow the law so obviously and without nuance
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 11:03 AM
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If you say some shit like that, it’s gonna come off as bitter lol. And the lesson she’s gonna take from that is not that she needs to “earn your trust”, but that you’ve got some issues. All women care about is good vibes.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 07:32 AM
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Are you able to achieve visible muscle gains? I'd rather stick to traditional routines that have been studied more thoroughly..
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 07:33 PM
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The words alpha and beta carry a lot of connotation these days, thanks to podcasters lol. The terms are so vaguely defined everyone can project what they think an alpha should look like and what a beta is (hint: it's always someone who disagrees with me politically). I wish the old pickup guys would've named these things differently. They already made a bunch of three letter acronyms, they could've just named these things LTA (long-term attractive) traits and STA (short-term attractive) traits. …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 07:27 PM
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First of all, let's define the terms: - Alpha: Dopamine inducing and attractive in the short term - confident, exciting, adventurous, unapologetic, dangerous.. - Beta: Oxytocin inducing and attractive in the long term - providing, comforting, supportive, apologetic.. That's all these terms really mean. Don't confuse the definitions with stereotypes. For example, beta doesn't necessarily mean physically weak and alpha doesn't necessarily mean rich. Believe me, I work in IT with people making 200k…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 03:17 PM
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I know this post is about pick-up, but I have a personal allegory about how you don’t really have to love the process. When I was young, I was a nerd and because I preferred sitting at the computer as opposed to anything else, I was frail and super skinny. One day I was like “no more” and started taking exercise seriously. I’m going at 3.5 years of consistent work, for the first time in my life I actually look jacked. But I never fell in love with it. Every morning when when that alarm rings, I’…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 04:29 AM
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Thank you for the compliment but I’d like to know - what makes other posts on here less “realistic”?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/23 05:31 AM
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No worries, the reason I’m mentioning it is so men realise just how fucking rate that shit is, so they’re more motivated to do it
/r/TheRedPill05/07/23 04:54 AM
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Top 10% would mean every tenth man cold approaches. Can you imagine every tenth of the men you know confidently cold approaching women? I can’t. The number is probably way lower.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 09:24 PM
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That’s absolutely what I meant, I wouldn’t have said it better, thank you
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 05:30 AM
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My personal workflow for getting shit done has been the following (for a few years now): Offload as much work as you possibly can using preparation, clever systems and outsourcing (if it makes financial sense). When making a business, put some time into having systems so as much stuff as possible is automated (The E-Myth says basically the only reason why companies get stuck in growth is because their systems are lacking). Also avoid re-inventing the wheel and use off-the-shelf solutions instead…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 09:35 PM
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Funny, brown/asian guys will tell you that it's the white men that get all the social sympathy and most importantly - pussy. The key is to not give a shit. She says you're abusive - yeah so what? That's how assholes get away doing horrible shit to women. They don't give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 09:22 AM
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treat it like talking to the cops is the best advice ever lmao
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 09:19 AM
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I think emojis break up boring long walls of text well, I've been using them in software documentation for work for a while now. Read this article.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 11:02 AM
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Don’t chase body counts and women just to feel like a man. Sounds like you’ve still got some insecurities that need to be worked on. Read the sidebar on here, that’s a good start.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 07:58 PM
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I’m from Eastern Europe. And I grew up in bad conditions even for Eastern European standards. I lived with my parents in an apartment that was a single room + a tiny kitchen. I slept on a mattress on the floor and they slept on the pull out couch. The whole apartment was filled to the brim with random things because my mom was a hoarder + drug addict. She was very manipulative and abusive, I often had fantasies about beating her to death. Finally moved out at 19, no college, straight to work. Di…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 07:23 PM
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I came to this conclusion when I realised that I had WAY more girls interested in me as a nerdy high schooler that wore librarian glasses but was always joking around and wasn’t scared to talky talk to them (because of a lack of social awareness) than a more muscular, better dressed version of myself that stayed silent and mysterious (in fear of saying something wrong). Funny how trying to improve your dating life sometimes pushes it back because of overthinking.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 07:09 PM
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If you can't go every day, go at least once a week. At least you'll be motivated to make the most out of your trip, kind of a "fuck it" mentality. After getting some city friends you can invite them over to the country to shoot guns and tip over cows.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 06:52 PM
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Regarding Monk mode: MM is not a problem in itself, it's just that most people play it off as a virtuous act where they're selflessly giving up social interaction to pursue self improvement. And in reality, they're actually glad to be locked up inside all day and not having to deal with people. This is not the way to go, you should attack your insecurities head on. The "solution" to this would be to take a few nights of your week and go outside and do what I told you to do in the post. You're mo…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 06:40 PM
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I don’t think not marrying will lead to you being alone. You can have a long term partner outside of marriage. You can even raise children outside of marriage. You can grow old with someone outside of marriage. For some women, not marrying will be a dealbreaker, but many would be down as long as you’re a viable long term partner that combines both alpha (feelz) and beta (provider) traits. But I’m young and haven’t dealt with many women post 35 lol so you better take advice from someone who’s old…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/23 04:29 PM
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Slavoj Žižek is the sex symbol of our time
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 07:02 AM
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woujo posts some good stuff, check his history. I'll admit though, this one feels off
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 12:24 PM
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I’d agree there’s more modern sources for learning game than Mystery and Strauss.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 06:57 AM
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That sounds awesome. I think you’re taking the correct steps. Taking a second job where you work with people is like a cheat code to boosting social skills. It was bartending for me personally. You mentioned you created a social circle. Did you create it from scratch? Or were these people in your life before you started hanging out? I’d like to hear more about this. You’re doing great man. I miss field reports of guys improving their situation like this. Keep it up, you’re on a good path.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 06:54 AM
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I agree with you that it should come from a genuine self-amusement point of view and you shouldn’t try to qualify yourself to women. I haven’t watched enough James Bond films to know what his character is like. But be careful in looking at fictional characters for inspiration, because they’re just fictional. And they might just be what men think women find attractive, not what really is attractive. Emotional stability and stoicism definitely are attractive though.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 05:44 PM
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I'll be the circus elephant (my cock is humongous)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 04:57 PM
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Of course it's just a metaphor and you don't really need to juggle balls in front of a woman. However the lines become blurred when you remind yourself what pickup once looked like, with Mystery's peacocking outfits and magic tricks.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 04:36 PM
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I've had bitches laughing their way into the back of my barely working Volkswagen Golf since high school. Becoming the entertainer works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 04:29 PM
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Not true, i have a friend that’s hot but incredibly boring to talk to. Girls give up after a few messages
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 06:38 PM
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You can’t wait around looking for IOIs all night. If you get IOIs, definitely approach. If you see a girl you like but you aren’t getting IOIs, still approach. You’d be surprised.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 08:40 AM
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The optimal sweet spot is somewhere in the middle. You have to go out there and boldly approach, but telling her straight to her face that you wanna fuck forces her to make a decision right away. I’m more funny and charming than I am good looking so I do small talk a little so she realises I’m worth fucking and then slowly escalate.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 08:39 AM
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Talking online in general is something I like to avoid. Irl conversations hit way different. Especially if you’ve just met and it’s your first ever convo. Not only with girls you’re trying to fuck, but with friends as well. Also a good rule of thumb is, if you’ve got time to have long conversations online, you probably have too much free time on your hands and you’re not spending it productively
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 08:33 AM
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People label people because putting things into boxes is how our brain works.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 06:43 AM
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Awesome post. This is a lifelong problem for people who are naturally more analytically oriented. Endless overpreparing, endless reading / watching YouTube videos on women, business, lifting.. instead of just going out and doing it. No, you're just scared of taking action and you subconsciously think that in one of these videos, there's gonna be that one secret thing that will let you get what you want without suffering. Another symptom of this is delaying approaching women until someone is jack…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 02:06 PM
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I feel like there’s genuine inability to understand the other gender’s point of view. Men are highly competitive and territorial. If another man has already been inside your woman, you feel like that’s conquering a part of your territory. Women don’t think that way. If her man has been with tons of women before and she manages to seduce him, she doesn’t see him as something that was “conquered” before. She’s just happy she now has a high value man to protect her and fuck her good. She might even…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 10:41 AM
8

Should’ve done the handstand
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 06:38 AM
75

Wouldn’t this apply to men with high N counts as well? STD risk, lower capacity for commitment, higher chance of cheating.. from experience, men who have insane N counts are usually either sex addicted or they have a chip on their shoulder from when they were young and got no pussy.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 05:20 AM
2

I meant to reply to the guy above you, saying there’s nothing from women that can’t be bought
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 12:24 PM
1

Sex with a woman that really WANTS to fuck the shit out of you is way better than sex where she’s tolerating your presence just to earn a few hundred dollars. In my experience at least.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 07:13 AM
1

I’m guessing it was figurative. No woman cleans a strangers house after the first time they hooked up lol. If anything that’d be a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 07:12 AM
4

Idk man some women I’ve had the displeasure of knowing really were just overgrown babies
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 07:10 AM
2

I’m not sure why this has so very few upvotes, I thought the message was solid, something the newbies will appreciate
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 07:08 AM
2

He got to be a part of the political elite for doing something I do for free on the weekends (I am not allowed within 2 miles of a cemetery)
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 09:47 PM
5

If you’ve mixed the right chemical cocktail inside the brain of a woman, she’ll be so obsessed she’ll mateguard herself. Mateguarding is beta because you shouldn’t be the one scaring off other men from your girl.. if she WANTS to cheat, she’ll find a way. If she doesn’t want to cheat she won’t even if she has guys around. By mateguarding you’re implying that you’re not the absolute best man she can get and thus need to care too much and mateguard. In fact this logic is what makes mateguarding un…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 10:29 AM
2

Here’s a door-to-door salesman who held frame in the face of complete rejection and pulled the woman into his own by making her smile even though she wanted to be a mean bitch.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/23 09:45 AM
1

I agree with you that this place used to be amazing a few years back. Every post was golden. And the type of content here really used to be next level shit you didn’t have a chance to see in mainstream manosphere outlets. Black knighting a high school girl? The guy asking if he should still act alpha around the chick that fell in love with him and was dying of cancer? The posts about how you’re better off having kids without marrying the girl? But as trends changed, this place fell off from the …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/23 09:43 AM
1

? I’m not sure what you’re arguing here. The basic principles still hold up. I’m 25 now, I started TRP at 18. Women haven’t changed that much in the last 3000 years. Holding frame is still at the core of what I do to this day to get laid. Albeit it’s not everything. Did TRP not work for you?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/23 09:23 AM
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[…] her decision to transition was heavily inspired by “Sissy Tumblr Pornography” Can’t make this shit up lmao. I was always sympathetic to people with gender dysphoria (AKA the actual mental condition where one believes they’re a different gender) but a lot of people who transition MtF do it out of fetishistic purposes. There’s entire porn subcultures on Twitter that revolve around feminising men and making them transition as a fetish, like this (warning NSFW) child grooming lolcow that was fea…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 06:39 PM
2

That’s an easy way to become an ATM for a girl. If money’s all you have to offer, you’re just a glorified beta bucks. Feelz trump everything, always have.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 06:39 AM
3

I highly recommend getting a personal trainer. And a competent one at that. I know it's expensive, but it gave me incredible insight and gains that I never managed to get just from advice off the internet. Also you can ask the trainer questions and gain actual, non-bullshit knowledge on how to gain muscle. However make sure the trainer is someone who knows his stuff. Also: Initially, I started to lose weight with a calorific deficit however now I am not losing any weight As you lose weight, your…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 09:32 AM
1

Can billy hook me up with a family discount?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 05:31 PM
1

People shit on this post, but they're forgetting that before the book Models came out, where the entire premise was being yourself in order to attract women, the pick-up artist meta was dressing up in welder glasses, big coats and show girls magic tricks in order to get laid. The thing is, newbies coming in don't understand the nuance and are confused what they should do. When you first start off, because you're heavily indoctrinated in certain ways of thinking, you're gonna have to start off by…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 12:32 PM
1

AskTRP existed and it was a really good sub. Sadly, certain things happened and they were forced to shutdown.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 11:53 AM
2

dunno man, that's the way it works
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 02:11 PM
3

I think you have to burn yourself a few times. You to keep reminding yourself that they only love you if you're aloof and not all over them. And that all women are basically the same.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 11:32 AM
3

Start fixing things yourself. Starting doing things in order to be happy and you’ll realise that you don’t need a mommy. In fact a mommy is never coming. You’ll either be stuck in a constant state of unhappiness all your life, or you solve it yourself
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 08:44 AM
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I didn’t mean IQ, I meant mommy/daddy issues, social awkwardness etc. A lack of “true love” (at least on the surface) between the parents can mess up the child’s perception of the opposite gender
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 02:50 PM
5

Are the children able to have a healthy upbringing in such an arrangement?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 01:11 PM
1

If you ask a man who wants to have kids if he has an idea of how he wants to raise them, he’s probably going to have some ideas and core principles, even if he’s young. Maybe he wants to do better than his dad did, maybe he has a strong belief set.. What most men DON’T know though is how to fuck a girl. Hence why that discussion is sought after on here and the how to raise your kids one is not.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 11:53 AM
1

Performance anxiety. That’s per common qctually
/r/TheRedPill05/05/23 07:25 AM
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I don’t judge you for paying for sex. To each their own. However what most men crave is not the actual sex part of the ordeal. That’s just the same as watching porn, maybe slightly better and warmer. Most men crave having a woman obsessed with them. To win over a woman and have her simp for you, want to be with you, one that drives to fuck you when you text her at 2 AM. That’s the real fun part, not the feeling of friction of a wet surface against your dick. However I do agree that most men over…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 07:46 AM
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Just read through the book and ponder on it a bit and your subconscious mind will use the knowledge when necessary. No need to list off the laws like an autist.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/23 07:13 AM
1

this isn’t /pol/ what the fuck are you doing lol
/r/TheRedPill02/05/23 07:10 AM
3

You don’t act weird and off putting, instead actionable and cool and what you’re offering looks like a fun experience. This goes beyond just seducing women too, everyone wants to be friends with the cool guy
/r/TheRedPill28/04/23 07:05 AM
4

I found out when I’m manic, I’m the most attractive to women. But it needs to be the cool type of manic. You need to be “abnormal” in the right direction
/r/TheRedPill28/04/23 04:39 AM
6

this is actually really good insight from the other side wow
/r/TheRedPill24/04/23 03:13 PM
5

time to stop looking for it
/r/TheRedPill24/04/23 02:17 PM
9

That’s what the book says too
/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 05:30 PM
6

you hate golf to this day
/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 01:48 PM
3

And these days when you can’t get pussy society abandons you? I don’t really get what’s being debated here.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/23 02:30 PM
5

Religious girls do anal cause that's not a sin
/r/TheRedPill05/04/23 08:16 AM
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I'm sick of this whole "muh olden days" mentality on here. Personal preferences and emotions did matter because women cheated a ton in a time where cheating was punishable by death. That's how strong the attraction to some good alpha cock was and still is. They would risk anything just to get fucked. The most the husband could do is beat her into submission while still having that dreadful feeling of feeling inadequate you get when your crush is out on a party grinding on some random guys dick. …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/23 08:14 AM
5

My target demographic are BPD manic pixie girls
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 06:13 PM
1

Miss, do not redeem the caaaaard!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 12:25 PM
1

Bro just hates Jewish people
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 12:23 PM
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