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| 2 | Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth."Absolutely! She's not cracking the door she kicked it wide open for you. She even gave you a second opportunity the next day by coming to you, actually physically touching you Bro, you got to close without hesitation | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?35 miles | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?That's just in the city limits of Atlanta you're dealing with the entire Atlanta region | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Need adviceYes, please hear this young lady, your not taking the lead, dude take the lead and she will follow, she wants you to, she is waiting for you to. Girls will not outright tell you what they want or want you to do when it comes to you and dating. Call her up.... You: You free Friday? Great.. I'm taking you out, you like to dance? Her: Fuck yeah, I love to dance! You like it too? You: I dance, but not with you yet.... Create that excitement, that anticipation create the emotional response from her t… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys “Set your intentions” ?This is a weird question because why would you set your intentions with her? Wondering who is control and who isn't. When you first meet a girl either just meeting her out straight up or your meeting for OLD meetup, your approach should be the same. You decide pretty quick which category she fall into for you She is girl that you want to have sex with because she's very attractive She's girlfriend material and your going to make your play for the next or second date I've never tried to lay out m… | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?2 years in Jacksonville Beach and the 5 and counting on Daytona Beach area. Jacksonville has a huge population. It's the dirty dirty south for sure. Wouldn't recommend it. Daytona is a pretty good place but you can live here on the coast anywhere with a decent population pool you would be fine | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?I lived in this city for 10 years and it was the ultimate city to be single for a male that I've ever experienced. It is still relatively affordable to live there, has everything you need a s more on a music scene and the resources that you would ever need Atlanta, GA Upside 1. 3.5 million regional dating pool 2016 stats 3 single females 1 single male High level of female and minority females with higher education Maturity level IMO much higher than for Ex: Seattle WA Drawbacks Traffic - This is… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Using touch as a way of flirtingMy secret weapon is when I have walked away from her to use the restroom or to talk to the bartender. I've made my way somewhere behind her. The seduction is in motion and I've gotten my confirmation from several non verbal cues. She has flipped her hair, shown her neck to me. She was sitting with her hips and feet pointed at me. She has adjusted her earrings and necklace. The subconscious can't lie and she's not aware of it As I walk by from left to right you put your left hand gently just abov… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Are dating apps even worth the headache?That's good use something on the profile in your opener. Use it to stir up her emotions. Getting a emotional response from her get you matches and replies. That's why sometimes even a cheesy joke will work. Is directed of stirring up that emotion and then she'll react | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Are dating apps even worth the headache?There are some adjustments that you can make in your texting game or message game on Tinder and Bumble that will help you. The reason that they're ghosting is because you're not gaining their interest and number two they've got three times the attention then we do as men. So don't take it personally, it's not about they might think that you're not attractive it's not that. 99% of those guys on Tinder and Bumble have no idea how to communicate or get in touch with a woman's emotions and stay out … | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Handling the girl "thinks you are a player and not sure you are committed" objectionMy apologies I thought that this was a girl that you were possibly interested in or at least wanted to have sex with her, but it seems like it's more of a transactional thing for you maybe feel ego, social status? That makes sense now why she would pose that challenge to you in that way. Do they have the reputation of a player and unless you change her perception of you you're not going to persuade her to do anything. Trust me if you really want the bag this girl or seriously date her ignore her… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 07:47 AM |
| 5 | Theory: Handling the girl "thinks you are a player and not sure you are committed" objectionBro, it's a test, thing such as this (especially with the newness of the whole thing) are a test.. I'm wondering why she would use this issue to test you? In your social circle are you considered a player? Have you broke a few hearts that she is referring to? Is your rep, that guy that hits on tons of girls? Lots of questions here. Which category does she fall into for you? is she a girl that you just want to have sex with? Or is she girlfriend material? You say that she has other suitors right … | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | She flaked in the week after verbal agreement and now I have her number, first text rules?You ran into her several times you let her dictate what was going to happen. When you should have taken the lead, tell her the place date and time for drinks In a flirty way, a girl hasn't acted like this with you before, so your kinda puzzled, say something about her clothing vs her body. Like: "It's just a bit confusing for me, it's not what I'm used to. But when we meet for drinks on Friday, wear those designer jeans you wore last Tuesday and all is forgiven | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 08:52 AM |
| 2 | The truth that turned me into a FboyAbsolutely and this goes for basically any single man even older men as well. I'm mid 40s and I have 3 (Ages, 29, 41, 54) gals that I see on the regular and are considered FWB I would imagine. I don't really give it a label. I've giving all three full disclosure. My intentions are I am not looking to be in a commited relationship. I would assume that they have told me their current situation as well. Is it exactly how they've described it to me? Who knows, that's there business. Their current si… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls avoid holding eye contact even when interested?Ahhhh! Get those digits son! | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 10:56 PM |
| 10 | Why do girls avoid holding eye contact even when interested?Her eye contact in this scenario is nothing to worry about whatsoever. This is normal behavior for a girl who has just met a new guy and she is extremely interested. I notice myself that when I meet a girl face to face and use the eye contact, 3 second hold to break. Most of the time, there face will light up, hold for 3 seconds, they start to break at 2.5, you break at 3, she still saw you hold and break. Start your convo She's just a bit insecure (aren't we all) and that's about it. Now, what … | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Bro how do you keep them engaged?!This is the number one problem that I see as well and unfortunately this is a terrible reality for men when it comes to OLD. We can do all the right and suggested things, they initially engage and 2 to 3 exchanges, totally normal and to be expected, then boom they're gone, just disengage and vanish into the ether. I feel your fucking pain and frustration The comment of they are inundated with a million fuck tards and good looking fuck boys that can't see the good guy that you are. Well, they adv… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys CAN get laidIf you're a nice guy you can get laid, but the nice guy from the very beginning needs to "take the lead" women, even though the nice guy may not agree, want to be lead by the man. Regardless of what social norms may tell you You can approach a woman with confidence without coming off cocky but you need to take the lead. When you start to hang out, whatever that is, you take the lead. You can ask a woman what they like to do, then you plan it, you tell her this is what you're doing and schedule i… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to pick up women on Instagram and other social media?Both | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Any advices from the pros that pick girls ver often?Well you're going to need to get past that I blank out when the topics dies for several reasons. Getting a girl's # is not all about what you say in the pickup line, there is body language and facial expressions to be aware of. Especially the girl your talking to You have to first understand that girls at a party or an event and dressed, make up and sexy hair want guys to approach them and fucking talk to them. So by believing and knowing that, your anxiety should drop emmensly. And when you are… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | So do canned lines actually work?Are some other factors just don't let it come out clanky | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | All the girls hang out in groups. How do I just talk to one?Well I guess I'm from the old school, I wouldn't approach her in the group setting and here's why There are far too many people in that scenario that can completely fuck it up for you and you have no control over what they may say or do. It's one thing approach a girl and then just get shot down or rejected you're in control of that But not if you approach her or approach the group stone cold on who they are and who they are to you. The percentage of you going down in flames are pretty high. You… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | How should I approach this girl I work with at a restaurantThat's it...but since you know that she's got a thing for you, you can now be a little bit more risque and witty. When I've done this situation Im batting a 1000 and clothes will fall off..I would say this to her when things are winding down and you're about to be done for the evening/day "Hey, so when are we going to hang out? I know you like me just as much as I like you, its getting a little ridiculous, when is your next day off? Next week I'm off on Monday and Thursday, what are days off so … | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 08:50 AM |
| 2 | I’m confused why’d she ghostShe's just a flirt dude, she's a dick tease. So if you play it cool and don't chase her, she'll be back around, I don't think that she's done with you | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | I feel ready, but how do I get over this last hurdle?If you're debuting some of your material there that night as you mentioned, that should be a nice little conversation starter in your pickup game When up in the DJ booth maybe talking up your material etc. Look out to the crowd and look at the female's eyes. Scan the room and you can see who is giving you the sparkly eyes. Don't think this is stupid just do it you will get it Do everything you can to get up higher so you can look down. When you see that girl glaringl at you, go talk to her and t… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Help making contact with a girl in a class.If you have a friend or confidante somebody in the zoom group that you know that can helping you out? See if their in on helping you out. So when you contact her include them that they have the same question or issue and both of you had the same concern It's the same thing as just contacting her but using the friend will dilute that contact. I did this a long time ago and I used a female to help me out and it worked | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | was this flirting or nah lmaoLol right? You don't have to do anything just stare at him, really. He'll eventually say something | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | was this flirting or nah lmaoDo anything, it doesn't matter what you do just don't shut him down. What he said "I'd have to rob you, that's innuendo, you could Laugh (stop talking, let him respond) Say: Rob me? What if I didn't resist? Say: I seriously doubt those size13 feet you got would fit in my tiny little shoes Say: Your gonna rob me? Do see my bodyguard standing over there? Say: Omg, finally you come and talk to me (stop talking, let him answer, he will after the confusion wears off) | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | was this flirting or nah lmaoNext time, your alright just answer their questions and the best thing for you is less talking more listening, let him talk | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | was this flirting or nah lmaoIf a random guy that you don't know comes up to you and strikes up a conversation, of any kind, is interested | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | was this flirting or nah lmaoThat was flirting absolutely, with the sarcastic comment and putting your headphones back on, you skunked him | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Men that were absolutely terrified of rejection. How did you overcome it?He's right start find little opportunities in when you're out and about grocery shopping, the dollar store, Home Depot shit like that. Make little comments doesn't have to be sexual it doesn't have to be a pick up "Oh, you like stuff green olives w/pimentos? Me too, don't they give you heartburn though? Your In | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to pick up women on Instagram and other social media?Dude my ex wife who would have emotional affairs and after the fact some "dirty little secrets" She would use Pintrest Tumblr Postmark in order to accomplish this She told me , it's so I wouldn't be suspicious of those apps because I don't use them or pay attention to them or can see any activity like Facebook and IG Even after the fact she used LinkedIn and she didn't work I was the support for everything | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 4 | We’re all gonna make it bros. Got my first date tomorrow, please advise.When it comes to where you sit at the restaurant the hostess (if there is one) will ask if you want the bar or table, then pass the question to her. If she throws it back with "I don't care you choose" then you choose where and be confident in your decision. It shows her that you are confident have discernment Be confident and lead the date but you always give her equal decision and respect for as you confidentiality do that. Simply involve her in the decisions then when she passes back you deci… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 08:32 PM |
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