neverbesmall Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	What sort of feelings are ok to let a girl know you have?		neverbesmall	/r/askTRP	17/07/16 11:02 AM
0	Why aren't women in the Western World shaking up with top 5% guys?		neverbesmall	/r/askTRP	15/06/16 11:25 AM

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1	Q4All: What is the profile of the typical Incel or ForeverAlone The biggest difference between Average looking dudes and Incels is social skills. Average looking dudes with some social skills tend to go through a series of intermittent monogamous relationships with average looking, usually shy, girls. Average looking dudes have little to no weight training, and can be taller, but only if they're fatter as they get taller, or just have bad faces. If you're 6'0''+ (legit 6'0'', not 5'10'' but 5'11'' in shoes which rounds up to 6'0'') then it's difficult to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/16 01:39 AM
1	What's with the hatred for single mothers? Throw every media image that has ever been force fucked into your head over the last 16-60 years and start to actually think about the actual single mothers you've known, or you've seen at the ________. Not the best possible example. Not the one cousin that turned out good and had a single mother. And forget about the single mother that had a marriage fall apart after 10 years. We're talking about the ones that never got married in the first place or only got married for 1-3 years. These people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/16 12:41 AM
1	Selfless people have more sex, study finds Not to mention that people do these things so that they can later tell other people that they're doing these things, meaning, they have other people to tell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/16 12:38 AM
2	What celebrities would rarely if ever get laid if they weren't famous? Joeseph Gordon Levitt I'm convinced women like him because he reminds them of some beta orbiter that they really wanted to like, but couldn't, but boom, add celebrity, and suddenly he's fuckable. Well, besides the super obvious ones like Seth Rogan etc etc Tom Cruise - 5'5'', and yes he has a great face, but I guarantee he's had work done. He'd still be very attractive facially, perfect for being a beta. Women seem to have a love of 'attractive' guys that are too small to make them uncomfortable…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/16 12:37 AM
2	Redpill Truths: My Experience as an Uber Driver In the two most expensive cities in the hemisphere, it'd get you nothing! Nothing I say!	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 12:13 AM
2	Redpill Truths: My Experience as an Uber Driver In addition to the other responses, I would add that an Engineering degree implies a lot of ability to motivate oneself and carry out what one conceives.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 12:09 AM
1	Women are "spreadsheet" daters. They want objective things that they can brag to their friends about. Height, salary, apartment, academic prestige, family prestige., etc. I got so frustrated on OKCupid that after awhile I started, not fully conscious of why, messaging girls that had this something like "You know, if you want a guy with a Bachelor's degree that is over 6'0'' tall, you're only looking at like 6% of the population." Which is true. Well, truish. Only 20% of the male population is 6'0'' or taller, and only 32% have a Bachelors or more. That's 6.4%. It's slightly unfair though, because those height percentiles come from accurate measurements, and every…	/r/MGTOW	13/08/16 06:14 AM
1	Women are "spreadsheet" daters. They want objective things that they can brag to their friends about. Height, salary, apartment, academic prestige, family prestige., etc. Give /r/theredpill a shot too	/r/MGTOW	13/08/16 06:03 AM
1	I came here to poke fun, found myself agreeing, and now it's a serious source of stress for me. How do I deal with this? TRP flies in the face of the establishment that doesn't recognize itself as the establishment. This establishment has built up a caricature of what people believed in the 50s, or whenever-yesteryear, and told us that anyone that doesn't believe in progressive feminism must believe women need to be x y z. Listen, don't do anything you read from TRP if you personally don't think it's what you want for yourself, but if you read a lot on here that you realize is more in tune with how you think you r…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/16 07:35 PM
1	Do you know your Myers-Briggs personality type, and do you think it has any bearing on your RP/BP alignment? I'm an autistic INTJ	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/16 08:17 AM
2	Do women life life on "easy mode"? Women experience the double edged sword of lowered expectations. No one expects them to, or really desires for them to, become exemplary at any one particular thing, and if they do, they're probably going to be valued for the qualites that drove them to do it, and for the work itself. Men are valued for being better than other men. You're a painter? Oh, ok, that's something I can tell people I guess. You're better in the sense that you have something, anything. Oh, you're a renown painter, now I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/16 08:12 AM
2	[Discussion] Why does TBP not present an alternative to TRP? Blue Pill does have a philosophy. The primary bit that makes you a good partner is how well you're willing to treat your partner. Are you going to be kind to them, listen to them, work towards common goals, love them, work through problems, take their thoughts into account, let them know how much you mean to them, try to get to know all of them, and let them know all of you, etc, etc. TRP tells you that's a bunch of horseshit and that people make decisions based completely upon what is best for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/16 05:52 PM
0	TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALT I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALT I don't believe you	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/16 08:13 AM
1	To all men who think women automatically have easy lives, what do you have to say to this? Lol wut. This person's life isn't defined by gender, it's defined by being severely autistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/16 08:13 AM
0	TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALT If you don't know what he means by 'female nature' you have no business on this subreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/16 08:07 AM
0	TRP guys who say "AWALT", how'd you react if I said, as a woman, I have never acted anything like the women in posts that say AWALT My roommate claims she thought her 6'3'' 240 pound muscle bound, 8-12% body fat boyfriend wasn't that attractive, and she's surprised that I think he's attractive. She also says that she's only slept with 2 guys, including him. Now she's dating a trust fund baby for the last 4 months and she claims she doesn't have sex with him. But it's because she's a good catholic. And she values sex and marriage. That's why she doesn't have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/16 08:06 AM
0	Do women encourage nice guy behaviour? Because you're too clueless to realize attraction is what makes a guy interesting. You perceive men to be terrible and bland when you're not attracted to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/16 05:22 AM
1	So is it true that the average man can't get laid? Well. In high school my friends were pretty average, maybe a little below. They couldn't get laid regularly except the one that was a 7/8. Everyone else put a lot of effort in. One guy had a girlfriend, girl I know who posts on gonewild actually. In college I had male roommates. The were all average, and they couldn't get sex outside of a relationship except with 3/10s. At least in the first place. They were pretty average The next house was below average guys who couldn't get sex except from ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 09:54 AM
1	If a woman wants to fix some issues with herself, can she? I think it's more difficult for women to change because they get so much value for being women. Why should a woman become better? Oh, your relationship failed. Well, that's ok, you can get on OKCupid/Tinder and have 4 dates over the next two weeks and choose one of them. Oh, you got drunk at a party and acted a fool. No one cares. You're still young and hot, and all of your value is derived from that. People are still going to invite you places and want to be your friend. Oh, you act overly emot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 02:05 AM
1	Categorize these scenarios: rapey or no? 1.) Personal responsibility. This isn't rape. This isn't something that's going to hurt this person's livelihood. 2.) This is sexual assault 3.) Then break up with him. Personal responsibility....oh wait, it turned rapey at the end when she said stop and has to physically remove him. 4.) So drunk that she doesn't know what's going on, sure. White girl wasted, no. 5.) Not rape, not anything 6.) Sexual Assaulty	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 01:57 AM
4	Peak SMV for men Well, there are probably reasons for it not happening 1.) How many 40 year olds are in shape? like...20%....maaaaybe? 70% are overweight/obese overall, and that's higher for older, less for younger, so maaaaaybe 20%, but I would guess closer to 10%. 2.) Those that are in shape are going to be attached. Men do prefer to get in relationships with women they like. By 40 most of them are going to be married. 3.) Social Stigma coupled with lack of opportunities. The 40 year old that goes to work, goe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 01:52 AM
2	How to actually improve your intelligence (basic) Someone didn't do a STEM degree	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/16 01:48 AM
1	Experiment: Rate these men and guess their age (updated with proper links) First off, you can't rate men without seeing their whole body/height It's much easier to do that with women can't do it with men first picture...how tall is this guy. He looks chubby, but does he ahve any muscle? This is stupid. But (normal distribution, female shifted distribution) 1.) 5, 2 2.) 7, 5 (looks small, but nice face and clean cut so he's hte friend you take places) 3.) 6, 3 4.) 4, 2 5.) 6, 4 (prime beta orbiter material) 6.) 4, 3 (got a kind look, being asian is a novelty, no one is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 01:33 AM
1	Is my friend an alpha? Tom sounds like a big talking beta orbiter. Plays music.....well? Codes.....well? Cooks........welll??????? Tom just sounds like he knows how to present himself. Women love guys that are good at lubricating social situations because they need to feel included and accepted, but they're not going to fuck him.	/r/askTRP	02/08/16 11:44 AM
1	Are there any books which discuss what women are attracted to exclusively from evolutionary psychology research? The thing I notice most when I do this is that there definitely seems to be a difference in what men think is attractive to women in men, and what women think is attractive in men. When I look at these guys faces a lot of times I don't find them striking.	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 07:20 AM
1	Men who have difficulties with women and getting sexual relationships, what do you think are the reasons? 1.) Body is skinny fat 2.) 6'1'' is a good height, but not having a build, and not really being that much taller than average doesn't really get me anything for free. It's 85th percentile. I'm usually not the tallest guy in the room 3.) The Autism. I am diagnosed with Aspergers. I don't know how to say hello, I don't know how to say goodbye, I don't know how to act in a group, I don't know how to react to a person that is looking for a reaction that other people naturally give, say laughing at a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/16 01:30 AM
3	CMV: Men care as much about the status of their sexual partners as women do. Men care about the status of their RELATIONSHIP partners as much as women do, and RELATIONSHIP status is determined by being attractive, feminine, intelligent (or at least as much as the guy is), and a few other factors. You can be a dirty trailer park whore and mildly cute and if we can fuck you and never talk to you again on a boring night then great. 1.) Because there is interaction and focus on the teachers. The upper status girls seem hopelessly out of reach. Also, a lot of those teachers a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/16 01:20 AM
0	What other red pills are there? Correlation does not imply causation. nothing says "I'm an idiot that doesn't have a point" quite like this statement	/r/MGTOW	30/07/16 03:35 AM
1	What other red pills are there? Brain size and encephelezation quotient though, those have a high correlation with IQ. NO WAI!!!!!!!!	/r/MGTOW	30/07/16 12:38 AM
0	What other red pills are there? That's a nice thought	/r/MGTOW	29/07/16 11:44 PM
0	What other red pills are there? Just race being inheritable. If your dad was a garbage man and your mom was a receptionist, you're not going to win a nobel prize. And then you start to explore questions like what if classes are separated for a reason.	/r/MGTOW	29/07/16 11:43 PM
0	CMV: TRPers hamster more than the women they accuse of hamstering You are not plating them, you are plating each other. No, because no woman I've ever had sex with didn't immediately start texting me all the fucking time, or hinting at a relationship. I can not talk to them for 2 weeks, go fuck them, leave, and not give a fuck about them,	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/16 11:29 PM
1	Q4RP: How well does r/TheRedPill actually reflect Red Pill theory? Nietzsche has a chapter in Thus Spoke Zarathustra called On Passing By where his avatar Zarathustra runs into a guy the people call Zarathustra's ape. This guy is saying the sort of things that Zarathustra says, but he just keeps going and going and going until Zarathustra stops him and says that he's not an ape, he's a pig, and all his grunting amounts to revenge. Here we go "Stop at last"! cried Zarathustra. "Your speech and your ways have nauseated me for a long time already! Why have you liv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/16 09:18 PM
3	Female hypergamy is incompatible with Alpha widowhood/TRP's views on reduced ability to pair bond Women are angry and resentful that they have to settle for men in the bottom 80% because they know that the men in the top 20% will fuck them, but, they have to make the decision, am I going to be alone without a deep relationship for the rest of my life. So, they eventually settle for those in the bottom 80% for various long term relationships. Personally I don't particularly believe in 'alpha widows'. I more believe in 1.) Post wall/wall approaching women that are starting to realize they're n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/16 09:01 PM
1	Why the fuck do I feel guilty? Just remember they have no honor and are going to tell their new beta orbiter that they're not ready for a relationship the next day.	/r/askTRP	29/07/16 04:55 AM
9	Could you date a girl that's been with black guys? No. At least not as a trend. First off they're only 12% of the population. Second off the average IQ is 84, and it fucking shows. How about this red pill, intelligence is inherited, Jews are at the top, Blacks are at the bottom. Obviously it's a distribution, and there are a few blacks smarter than the majority of jews, but the vast majority of jews are smarter than the vast majority of blacks. And, again, it shows. Everyone wants to think about the blacks as that guy that you went to University…	/r/askTRP	28/07/16 01:45 AM
1	Incels after 30 have irrevocably missed the boat on youth, young love, relationships and socialising. I mean, it's so hard to get a read on this without knowing your height, weight, and overall attractiveness. fit, still good looking Are you though? Are you? And how tall are you. A lot of beta average males refer to themselves as good looking in a way that seems to mean not ugly. Are you top 20% good looking for men 18-45?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/16 02:12 AM
3	I come from a wealthy and prominent family and I feel it's hurting my ability to close You're probably overshooting your SMV because you come from a wealthy family and let women know that. You're like a guy that picked up a hooker and then complains that she won't sleep wiht him without paying her.	/r/askTRP	25/07/16 03:21 AM
6	Red Pillers, what parts of Blue Pill ideology do you believe are true? Am angsty sperge with high intelligence who will never be successful with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/16 04:12 PM
1	[Q4RP] What is your stance on women? What do you expect us to do? Men and women aren't the same. And the vast majority of men DO want LTRs, just not with 'you'. Men aren't responsible for the choices of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/16 08:26 AM
1	[Q4RP] What is your stance on women? What do you expect us to do? I mean that women do choose between these. Today it's more the former, or a brand of the former, is becoming more popular with dating websites, putting off getting married leading to, I think, a lessened ability to really fall for someone etc If I were a woman, and I took TRP seriously, I would only get into relationships and sleep with people that I felt like would be long term viable relationships, and I would be honest with myself about evaluating if they were.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/16 10:15 AM
1	What sort of feelings are ok to let a girl know you have? My roommate is experiencing this right now. She was with this 6'2'' 230 pound guy, all muscle, but 'he'd go to any lengths to make it work' and 'she just doesn't understand why she doesn't want him' etc etc. Meanwhile, she's all into this guy that 'doesn't have a kind heart'.	/r/askTRP	18/07/16 10:00 AM
1	[Q4RP] What is your stance on women? What do you expect us to do? You can embrace different parts of yourself. You can be 'an empowered woman' and embrace the part of yourself that wants to sleep with whomever you want, and be completely oblivious to what it is that you find attractive in them. And you can run through a bunch of X month long relationships. You can just run around life being led around by your feels. I should mention that acting a certain way year after year after year is likely to shape and define you as a person, how you see the world, your w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/16 02:44 PM
6	Where have all the good men gone? People just don't respect the percentiles. For instance, you want a guy that 6' or taller? Well, government data says that only 20% of men are 6' or taller. OF course, let's qualify that a little, becasue anyone that pays attention realizes that people tend to overestimate height by about an inch. So even if we drop down to 5'11'', call that 6'0'', you end up with only ~30% of men there. Well, they're probably going to prefer someone with a college degree too, but for men, that's only another 33…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/16 02:01 PM
6	What does she really mean? Take charge and sleep with me again. Tell me what I want to hear and absolve me of all responsibility when you bang me again.	/r/askTRP	16/07/16 06:10 PM
3	Another article on the new prostitution economy - RP truths, and "where the hotties at" answered The other one they like for "I like money" is comes from a good family Meaning comes from a top 5% family, and they probably went to a good university and are on the path to being wealthy too.	/r/TheRedPill	08/07/16 05:19 AM
1	Girlfriend calls me a total fucking bitch after I refuse to get involved in physical altercation that doesn't involve me Women key into the overall social dynamics of any group/room. She recognized a chance for you to become the dominant alpha male of the bowling alley, and was pissed off that you didn't take it, because then she'd be the girl with the dominant alpha male of the bowling alley.	/r/askTRP	05/07/16 12:11 AM
1	Successful neurosurgeon new to redpill, need some advice I think you want to lift because the way you want to be looked at by women is as an alpha, not a beta bux. You know there's a difference. In your case, assuming this isn't all bullshit, it's not about getting the women, it's about getting what you want from them. So my question here is how to to avoid being seen as a meal ticket. Well, see above. Imagine trying to attract a woman without the clothes and the car to indicate your wealth. Imagine answering the question, "what do you do" with someth…	/r/askTRP	05/07/16 12:00 AM
1	Update to SMV ratings but I don't know how	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/16 03:10 PM
1	Update to SMV ratings Could someone that actually knows how to break down data turn this into something legible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/16 02:47 PM
1	Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country? I think you should also do your best to evaluate his SMV. Women are hypergamous, and if he's better than you, then she knows it too, and what'll keep you together is her lack of belief that he would commit (though really more his unwillingness to make a move, but then, in a woman's mind that can be the same thing) and her belief that you would leave her if you ever found out. How tall is he? How tall are you? How good of shape are you in? How good of shape is he in? How much money does he make? …	/r/askTRP	17/06/16 12:10 PM
2	On the subject of fatal dating flaws, here's mine and I'm curious to see what PPD thinks... Everyone should always post their stats. I would guess that you're attractive, have a nice face, and get complimented on it regularly. I would guess that you work out, aren't big, are clean cut. And I would guess that you're also 5'9'' or less 165 max	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/16 02:15 PM
4	Women who always seem to get "bad apples": Is it a problem with how these women select their men, or is it a problem with men in general? Because Tinder filters 80% of women to 20% of men. That's online dating. It's expedited human nature. Women complain that these men don't act like their beta orbiters. The other thing is these guys are closing with women that are beneath them. Lots of 8s getting 6s and maybe a few 7s. So the problem is that 1.) these guys have an abundance of women to choose from 2.) these women aren't as high in SMV as the guys they're fucking quickly 3.) These women know this deep down, but they're just going …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/16 01:16 PM
1	Why aren't women in the Western World shaking up with top 5% guys? Well, 35k is the median male income if we go by the wsj calculator That calc is all incomes, not only full time, so it includes 16-25 year old students, but even if we go with 'gen x' to try to control for that a bit, the median income is still only 45k. That includes part time work, but why wouldn't you? There's some guy doing part time work out there, you're better than him. Even if we assume that 40k is kept despite taxes, and including tax return (silly) and the tax rate on the 500k guy is 3…	/r/askTRP	15/06/16 01:00 PM
1	Why aren't women in the Western World shaking up with top 5% guys? But it's an arrangement that was kept throughout history, and is still kept in other parts of the world. You can point to the negative, but obviously there are positives that many men have bought into, sustained, and passed down through generations. If the arrangement weren't overall beneficial, the whole system of polygamous marriage would have collapsed in all those cultures around the world, but instead they lasted hundreds of years and as far as I know only really came apart with Christianit…	/r/askTRP	15/06/16 12:00 PM
1	What is the science behind oneitis, as an evolutionary phenomenon in the male sex? Top 20% get pussy. Top 80% do not. Top 20% get to take girls out on the weekend and fuck them on dates 1-3, somewehre in there, and leave, and the girl might complain, but she isn't even that mad, and will just grab the next top 20% when she's ready, or call some previous one out of the blue. IT has always been this way. So, if you're in the bottom 80% what do you do? You latch on to one of the few girls in your immediate vicinity. Ta da. And hey, one day, she very well MIGHT fuck you, because i…	/r/askTRP	15/06/16 11:22 AM
1	Why are BP men fanatics for fictional RP alpha males but averse to them irl? Because they still have blue pill mindsets. The Hound is still a good guy for instance. He only ever kills bad guys, or people for orders, and if he killed anyone for any other reason, it was a sort of self-loathing I-Hate-Who-I-Am kind of way. They don't show The Hound going to the bar with your roommates and leaving with the girl that they brought with them.	/r/askTRP	15/06/16 11:14 AM
1	Wife was taken by my best friend who was probably on TRP, now conflicted You're the guy that buys some sort of luxury boat that is 70 years old and a threat to sink at any moment, and tries to get everyone else excited about it, and then it sinks and you act surprised even though in the back of your mind you knew you were lying to yourself the whole time.	/r/askTRP	06/06/16 01:19 AM
9	Asking a girl about her sexual past, ever? You're probably more likely to get an honest answer if you never ask. If you ask she'll key in that it's important to you and distort the truth. If you never ask, she'll always know in the back of her head that it does matter, that men would prefer a woman with a lower partner count, but at the same time she'll be able to take the lies modern day women are allowed and encouraged to tell themselves into herself, and she'll try to prove to herself that it's the nagging suspicion that being a whore…	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/16 12:47 AM