neverinamillionyr Archive

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123	Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men. I saw a therapist after my separation. The ex did some pretty crazy shit. Within the first 10 minutes of my first session after explaining what the ex had done, the therapist asked if I ever saw things that weren’t there or heard voices. She finished the session by saying my daughter likely wasn’t mine. I never went back	/r/MensRights	09/08/25 02:59 AM
1	She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. \| She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping? If you’re in it for the long haul, looks fade. If you’re just running up the body count go for looks, if you want someone to build something with, looks are definitely secondary to personality.	/r/seduction	25/04/25 01:04 PM
40	'The most chilling metric of all': Mike Rowe warns that 7 million American men are 'done' looking for work and have 'punched out' — why that's a serious problem I question how these guys are surviving. I’d love to quit work but I kind of like eating and living indoors.	/r/MensRights	07/03/24 04:53 PM
10	Kevin Costner has Child Support Reduced in Half from 129K to 63k/month The problem is that a forensic accountant is financially out of reach for the average guy. I had strong suspicions that my ex had been hiding money before we split. She was in charge of the bills from day 1. I know it was stupid but I wasn't good at remembering due dates and it made my life easier to let her do it. I had no reason at the time to not trust her. As time went on, I got promoted, made more money but we were always broke. Like no money for vacations broke. She would "borrow" money fr…	/r/MensRights	02/09/23 04:45 PM
7	Kevin Costner has Child Support Reduced in Half from 129K to 63k/month I barely qualified to refinance our home to buy her out. I purchased it 25 years prior when I was making maybe 25% of what I'm making now.	/r/MensRights	02/09/23 04:33 PM
15	Kevin Costner has Child Support Reduced in Half from 129K to 63k/month This was the argument my ex's attorney made. I was fortunate to earn enough so that she didn't have to work while we were married. Her not working was a unilateral choice on her part however. Her attorney argued that she was accustomed to not having to work so I needed to pay enough alimony to let her continue her "freedom". This freedom is what led to her having enough time on her hands to entertain several strange men and when she got caught she was the one who asked for divorce. Unfortunately…	/r/MensRights	02/09/23 04:29 PM
9	Hotel accuse man checking in with his daughter of being a paedophile I’m in my 50s and have a 16 year old daughter. We were at a restaurant and she was in a mood because I wasn’t going to take her shopping after lunch. A female cop was eating at the table across from us. She questioned me then took my daughter to the other side of the restaurant and questioned her. She said it looked suspicious and I was too old to have a kid that age.	/r/MensRights	16/08/23 12:50 PM
57	Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope? Mine got 50% of my take home pay. She’s using it like a vacation. She doesn’t work, just collects her check every month and lives it up. I’m living on half the money I used to, my mortgage went up substantially because I bought her interest in the house and I see my daughter on weekends. She’s the one who cheated and subsequently asked for divorce. The system is seriously messed up.	/r/MensRights	10/08/23 09:37 PM
18	My Alimony finally ended today! - Alimony is such an unfair situation…AMA Yeah. I’m at $3700/ month between alimony and child support for 1 teenage daughte. I pay for all schooling and medical and have weekend custody.	/r/MensRights	11/07/23 10:01 PM
2	Seriously, How Will We Know When Affirmation Action Has Reached It’s Goal? With the DEI initiatives reaching all the way to laws about giving to preference to companies who achieve DEI goals, there won’t be anywhere to work. It’s becoming entrenched in almost any medium to large company. It has strayed far from its original intent. It’s used as a corporate virtue signal. I’ve been told at work (off the record) that in spite of my glowing reviews and tackling extra work I’m not diverse enough to get promoted.	/r/MensRights	27/03/23 12:05 PM
11	Men are wallets and servants Not sure why this is downvoted. Not all women are like this, not all men are saints. Some people treat others like shit.	/r/MensRights	03/12/22 02:09 AM
8	Men are wallets and servants The teachings I’ve read made it a two way street. Women were supposed to honor their men as well.	/r/MensRights	03/12/22 02:06 AM
1	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? That’s messed up.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 05:00 PM
8	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? You nailed it. The laws were designed when most women were homemakers. Now many women have their own careers and can support themselves.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 03:38 PM
271	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? This is unfortunately true. In my case she got 60% of my take home between alimony and child support. She hasn’t worked in 20 years and her lawyer argued that she had become accustomed to the non working lifestyle and I should pay to maintain it. The real kick in the teeth is that I filed after learning she had been cheating on me for several years with many men.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 02:47 AM
2	I was considered a harasser because I said Hi in linkedin Maybe, maybe not. The company will take the path of least resistance. If it’s cheaper with fewer legal repercussions to terminate OP that’s what they’ll do. I’ve seen it happen like this a few times over the course of my career.	/r/MensRights	06/08/22 03:53 AM
9	Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude. I had one match with me. She seemed funny, not petite but attractive. When we met up I walked right past her til she said my name. She was both of the references combined, probably just south of 400lbs. She said the pics in her profile were of her cousin I kind of wanted to just leave because of the deception but I decided she has probably experienced enough cruelty so I went through with the date. She was fun and witty for about 5 minutes then her angry side came out. She was angry at men for n…	/r/seduction	15/07/22 09:24 PM
3	PSA: Hinge is the best dating app Hinge is the only app I’ve had any luck with. It hasn’t been a lot of luck but I’ve got a few dates from it.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 10:08 AM
1	She told me she wants to stay friends but I want another shot Don’t be anyone’s backup plan. It never ends well.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 01:55 AM
2	If 30-50% of relationships end and women initiate divorce 70% of the time, why do so many men so desperately want to date/marry? I was married once. I’m not in a hurry to do it again. I would like to find someone for companionship but the dating scene for guys 50+ isn’t too encouraging. I’m trying to slowly condition myself to accepting that being alone isn’t so bad.	/r/MensRights	12/01/22 05:13 PM
2	What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date? You know what they say about putting the d in crazy?	/r/seduction	31/10/21 12:44 PM
3	What’s your biggest piece of sex advice? Spend less time thinking about the mechanics and more time in making a connection.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 05:14 PM
0	“Say something nice” and “food.” How sad that the bar has been set this low for so many men. One commenter said a woman called him handsome 4 years ago and he hasn’t forgotten it. A small thoughtful gift. A book, anything that shows you care enough to understand what I like. As others have said, little acts of physical affection, a hug or holding hands. Guys are starved for that stuff.	/r/MensRights	14/05/21 05:34 PM
3	Obese landwhale, 34, with atrocious grammar and body even a woman 25-years older than her would be ashamed of doesn't have the patience to teach a man how to behave. Oh..and you better have a job to impress this angry hambeast. That profile was unreadable. I don’t care what she looks like. This is a hard pass.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/01/21 03:38 AM
3	Looking for further games To get it up in her presence.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/11/20 11:42 PM
1	How to introduce sex with the girls you meet/date? This may be an entirely different perspective: I’m in my 50’s and recently divorced after a 24 year marriage . I met someone on Hinge. The first date went well. I walked her to her car and we hugged. I leaned in for a kiss and she didn’t back away. It was brief but nice. The second date a few days later was even better. We were a bit more comfortable with each other. I walked her to her car again and this time the kiss was much more passionate. We both got home and I mentioned how much I enjoyed…	/r/seduction	05/10/20 06:47 PM
2	Whether men like to admit it or not, we DO feel entitled to women and it is a huge part of why we feel the way we do. That’s a pretty broad generalization. I’m sure some men have the “me Tarzan, you Jane mentality”. I think a large portion just crave the attention and affection of another human being. Loneliness sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 01:07 PM