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then you should have no problem responding since i give "unironic advice", back to the ad hominem shit. use you words buddy, your just a beta who cant formulate a real response and resigned before the debate even started. pitiful.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 10:39 PM
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u/Tiger_rider69 relax patrick star, you barely wrote a coherent comment. you must be foaming out the mouth and jerking off OP in his defense. u/jcfritz23 never said a man has to do everything himself, you missed his point, he said that being the best version of yourself will get you want you want. stop spewing your unsensible assumptions, ad hominems and projections and instead prove why he's wrong, since you're so apparently "alpha".
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 10:02 PM
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if ONS cannot be legislated. how do you differ between a woman "just having a ONS and getting pregnant" and "just having a ONS just to get pregnant and become a single mom"? its a loophole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:23 PM
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i see, i understand your reasoning better. still, i think if you want change, its through education not shame. teach people the risks of what they're doing. teach people why this isn't good for them, and if they resort to it anyways, figure out why because its probably something bad going on in their life. serious drugs have a ridiculous net-negative on society when it comes to addicts. shaming them will absolutely make the issue worse. these people need help. we realized cigarettes were bad for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:19 AM
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your strawmaning my argument. i never said we shoud ignore drunk drivers or anything that severe. i said we shouldn't shame people-within reason, and let people be to make their bad decisions, within reason, like my example said-cigarettes. drunk driving is obviouusly way different than cigarettes. i argue that things can be addressed much better than an immature and ineffective shaming technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:12 AM
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ill give you an example maybe your right, we should shame people over that. but i think not. you're free to make that decision if you want, but i think its a poor decision. should i start shaming you right now because i think your idea is bad? after all i believe it will obviously have a negative impact on your life. no, that shit sounds so self-centered. let people be and make their own decisions, even if theyre bad for them-within reason. shaming doesn't help for things. try shaming a drug-add…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:03 AM
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yes, you legally have the right, however reason takes that away , atleast if you want to be logical. if you like shaming people without good reason though, by all means you can. see how far that gets you in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:48 AM
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they are free to take that risk, it doesn't give you the right to shame them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:34 AM
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whether or not it's real doesn't matter, there will come a point in your life where others (including your loved one) will do something your not okay with and you will have to be assertive there. the way TRP encourages people to handle these situations (agree, and amplify) is not how i would handle the situation.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 11:55 PM
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i agree that casual sex is a concern and it could harm people. but, that’s their decision. we all know cigarettes are bad but don’t shame others for it, sometimes however- we might encourage them to stop, if we have grounds to do so. i don’t believe you have any good reason to shame them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:27 PM
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so why shame casual sex? what happens if both parties are in agreement to keep things casual and that neither want a committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:58 PM
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it’s known empirically that women are becoming more beautiful every year? how could it be that more men are facing this dilemma of having to “settle for less”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:23 PM
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in order to manipulate women, they have to be vulnerable to it. thats what i mean by manipulation of vulnerable women. something TRP engages in and seeks out. i already explained to you the various techniques TRP uses and you've yet to address it. ​ Tons of behaviors are intended to influence people to one's advantage, many if not most of these behaviors are widely regarded as benign. you tried to justify TRP's act of manipulation by saying many behaviors are manipulative and most of it is regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:19 AM
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your a moron. not once, before that, have i said " manipulation of vulnerable women is not regarded as benign. " how is the manipulation of vulnerable women comparable to benign forms of manipulation? or you could just continue to accuse me of missing the point, essentially admitting defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:07 AM
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It's functionally redundant because you just redefined it with the word as a noun instead of an adjective. okay this is flying over your head, this is a moot point anyways lets move on. ​ Tons of behaviors are intended to influence people to one's advantage, many if not most of these behaviors are widely regarded as benign. Like brownnosing your boss to get a promotion or something. okay? manipulation of vulnerable women is not regarded as benign.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:56 AM
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What exactly makes a strategy "manipulative"? no, you asked what makes a strategy manipulative. and i answered. it was not redundant, ur question was senseless. what is "manipulation"? dont take it from me, instead - the APA defines it as such "behavior designed to exploit, control, or otherwise influence others to one’s advantage."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:46 AM
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no way you made a post over what i said lmao. i guess i really struck a nerve. what makes a strategy manipulative is when it contains manipulation. tatics such as negging, hot and cold/silent treatment, and lying. the term "game" is almost synonymous with manipulation when TRP uses it. TRP actively encourages men to act in a psychopathic way to "game" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:33 AM
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you are derailing, do you think being manipulative is morally right? whats the issue with what i said? that's why you responded to my comment. you obviously disagree with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:15 AM
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agreed. but TRP is a whole lens of looking at the whole dating scene and they have a lot of opinons on what you should do, and one of them being "work on yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:02 AM
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you think being manipulative is morally right? it's not. and the type of people vulnerable to that aren't going to foster healthy relationship habits. it's obviously double-edged. you get what you want, but at the cost of a unhealthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:01 AM
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nice, you proved nothing. the definition of lust doesn’t contain anything along the lines of “being true attraction”. having a very strong sexual desire does mean your attracted to someone, in some way. but that doesn’t mean it’s “true attraction”. so try again, prove that lust is “true attraction”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:46 PM
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no it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:22 PM
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honestly i misread ur comment my bad
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 08:39 PM
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why do you think they fired him? 20 years was too long and they needed a change?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 08:19 PM
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What Red Pill advice, ideas, or concepts do you accept as at least partially valid and/or helpful for men? i'm no pill but i have consumed a enormous amount of redpill content out of interest. the redpill gets some things right. like better yourself, get a job, go the gym. don't be a weirdo and spam text a girl you like. there are more controversial ideas that are manipulative and do work to land them some vulnerable women, but its obviously double-edged and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:33 PM
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yes, men are. at the least they are doing significantly better compared to other enviornments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:23 PM
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"I only think there are 2 genders" or "I didn't want to get the COVID shot but they were forcing it on us and if we didn't we couldn't do anything and it's all control blah blah" if he said something like that, I can bet you he'll be fired. yes of course he'd be fired. you dont talk about politics at work- no matter what end of the spectrum. how disconnected from the world are you dude? also its not totally something different. your guy talked about a sensitive topic, the big R word, what happen…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 07:06 PM
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Attraction is meeting a guy and literally counting down the hours before you can go home and masturbate over him. you mean lust... ​ Attraction is feeling nervous and excited and tripping over your words. its literally the tingles you mean a childlike definition of attraction. something a child would have over their crush, almost an obsession/infatuation. ​ It’s purely biological and sexual. this is again lust. attraction is not purely biological and sexual. you can be attracted to someone's per…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:01 PM
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men are doing incredibly well on college campuses and the roles are reversed, because men are not doing well in education right now so a lack of supply means men have the luxury of choice and get to be picky. while in the real world it may be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:54 PM
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this is the empirical evidence. looks play a LARGE role in creating a relationship but little to NO role in how long that relationship will last. personality/compatability plays a LARGE role in if that relationship will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:50 PM
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exactly, workplaces are more lenient. anecdotally, sometimes i go out and am SHOCKED by the way employees treat me and others. I have had to narrow down where i go because I have little tolerance for poor customer service.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 06:42 PM
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that was a quick resignation have a good day
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 06:30 PM
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complete BS lmao. what happened is he told all of his minons to take everything he has ever said and put it all over tiktok. next thing you know, the government sees tiktoks from him talking about self-incriminating shit. THATS why hes a target, hes a victim of his own words, fame and actions but not because he "propagates messages which go against the societal mainstream". ​ nobody cares about his naive ideas and how it disturbs 20-year old gen z'ers. especially the government.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 06:26 PM
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whats so special about tate. your treating him like hes a fucking god or like hes Julian Assange. like actually, why would the government give a shit about him (beyond possibly literal criminal activity)? hes not as important as you and he thinks he is.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 06:16 PM
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men aren't even "going their own way" anymore lmao... how can you go your own way if you don't even have one to begin with???? statistically, the majority of young men aren't even having intimate relationships anymore, likely involuntarily.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 05:35 PM
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oh no, we have to act professional in professional settings 😭. we have to act diplomatic when the time calls for it. 😭 just do whats right and if someone demands something that is beyond the bounds of reasonable, you're free to refuse with little consequence. most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 05:09 PM
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you sought out a no strings attached realtionship dude. and then when YOU got feelings-got rejected, you're suprised?! and then accuse her of not caring about you? what kind of leap in logic is that? she probably does care about you but just because she doesn't want a relationship(which you agreed to), that doesn't mean she doesn't care about you. pick your posion, either you want no strings or you do.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 09:57 PM
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men do this to, and not all woman do this. pick your friends, and woman better.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:14 PM
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if you want a woman who will establish an emotional connection before having sex with you, you have to find one who’s willing to do that. perfectly doable, i did it myself. just stop going out with promiscuous woman.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:52 AM
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go to therapy, they’ll help you sort it out
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:25 PM
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just ask to go and see her response.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:19 PM
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dating apps can be pretty shitty, you can get some success if you come across correctly in your bio imo (excluding tinder). it's all about how you present yourself and what talking about you're looking for in that department. ​ idk what you're doing in real life, i'm not their but i suspect it's just the way you come across and present yourself. ​ anyways, you're a good looking guy. I think if you just find the key you're missing you'll be set
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:33 PM
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depends on what you’re trying to achieve, and how much risk you’re willing to take on?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:46 PM
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“it’s just a matter of time before i lose it” sounds like you have little control over yourself. you have a nice relationship with this girl and it’s just not enough for you huh? i think you have some things to work on within yourself.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:44 PM
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what kind of question is this? “do i need to work harder to get my smv higher so that women stop trying to chat me up?” you know that would probably increase the amount of women trying to chat you up, right? are you just coming on here for validation?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:47 PM
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no no, but your girlfriend should herself set a boundary about the way her friend speaks about you. she should not tolerate her friend speaking so shit about her boyfriend. and you should communicate that to your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:44 PM
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This OP and to add on, why did you let the relationship get so shitty. (in terms of the way your patented treats you) she has ZERO respect for you. learn to set some boundaries. you need to put a halt to this type of shit the EXACT moment it arises.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:41 PM
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if you wanted to be an a intimate exclusive relationship with her, you should’ve made that happen instead of playing the push and pull games seemingly indefinitely.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:35 PM
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it’s too much to explain in this reddit comment but to put it shortly. become a respectable person. start by reading 12 rules to life by jordan peterson.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:11 PM
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stop spending time with angry woman and stop entertaining silly men
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:10 PM
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the best response oftenly is to ignore it.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:09 PM
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who the fuck are your friends/girls that you hang around? why are people speaking to you this way? your teaching people how to treat you with everything you do give them a look and don’t say shit say “yeah i know” ignore if men, if it’s a girl tell her to stop the disrespect
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:08 PM
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jordan peterson explained this in one of his lectures. the easier/softer/safer life becomes, which we can see in western society, the less the women in that society are attracted to masculine looking and behaving men
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:57 AM
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they see you as a threat. i experience this as well... use it to your advantage. it weeds out the losers from the winners.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:33 PM
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sounds like her problem. tell her that she should work on her self esteem. this will get old fast otherwise.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:26 PM
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you explained your side of the story. now you remain calm and carry on with your life. nothing more you should do.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:38 PM
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what kind of shame/guilt are you holding mate? sounds like you need therapy NOBODY on here can fix you with just a simple post, this goes much deeper. all these other comments from people are nice and all, but it won’t solve it. seek a professional.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:08 PM
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get some self respect dude, what the fuck
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:35 PM
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oh of course, it’s not a bulletproof indicator. it would have to be taken in with many other things. if you’re a solid individual who conducts themselves as such, it doesn’t matter. and in your experience, they have become an admirable part of you.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:22 PM
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i agree, there is some men i’ve seen with arm sleeves and it goes on to their hands, it looks good on them. and i wouldn’t believe it would raise many red flags. (that varies see below) where i disagree is the part where nobody cares... tattoos can be used as a substitute for self harm, and people can, and will, pick up on that. (especially if you’re still in that state of mind)
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:50 PM
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what the fuck. where’s your morals? you’re choosing the weak, easy path. go become educated and actually add value to this world (and make money like that) instead of behaving like a bum. i’ve been there just like you, it feels like shit. go make an honest living.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:41 PM
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well put sir... OP, what kind of mates are you picking that are inciting you to these behaviors? pick your woman better
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:28 PM
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if you have issues connecting with people, learn to connect with people better. doesn’t matter if it’s a potential mate, or potential friend. connecting with people, even ones not on the same level than you, is an important skill, so learn it. (networking is everything in this world.) you’re intelligent, so you should pick up on it rather quickly
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:22 PM
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yes, obviously it matters where there are. i implied that when i asked it, which can be seen in the first sentence.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:41 PM
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where are the tattoos? honestly though, tattoos as a man typically gets looked over, and if someone IS paying attention, they won’t avoid you just based on that indicator alone. (unless it’s on your hands or your face or some shit)
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:22 PM
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amazing explanation
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:45 PM
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yeah just give him the right book lol just be like “dad if u don’t want women to be a mystery anymore, read this. it’ll change that.” the rational male
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:26 PM
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i needed this post the most right now. i had a good mindset for many years, but due to the circumstances i have ultimately let my self fall into a anxiety driven state and having negative thoughts. thank you
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 08:25 PM
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i like physical books too. if i were you i’d keep them out of sight
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:15 PM
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find your peace ✌🏼
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:07 PM
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i used to feel the same way, that it’s fucked that was have to do all this shit in our world. eventually, it went away though. it’s just the way things are. you can piss and moan about the world forever. or adapt and succeed. your choice you got this. ✊🏼
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:59 PM
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that’s tough man. i know how it feels. the glooming “if i just did this different then xyz” honestly, you made the right choice. you weren’t ready. who knows, she might’ve just been using you. this sounds deep enough for therapy, i’d consider going.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:55 PM
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your going to attract unwanted people by using money this way. you better tighten up your skills on identifying bad people if you want to do this. read some books. if your on instagram always posting your 200k audi r8 that’s cool but your life still sucks because you work at a office building for a rude manager. flash your lifestyle to dramatically increase your SMV. money is just a tool... you can have a lot and still be a fuck up. show any of these things: traveling, enjoying life, enjoying ho…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:46 PM
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sort this out, or it could lead to your downfall. i was in a similar situation myself with friends. a lot of them saw my potential and would be like “don’t forget about me when your up there etc etc” most of these people don’t put in the work. they wouldn’t have helped you get to where you are and they would’ve slowed you down. you made the right choice. don’t feel guilty. they appreciate that your taking them under your wing. they get to have the guidance of a fellow friend who made a success. …
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:30 PM
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“are we really talking about weather” nobody wants to be around you if they can’t even talk about the weather. that teasing shit has its place but don’t over use it and you sound like your trying so hard. your even talking about joking with the waiters... you even know this. which is good. so fix it, relax dude. also read no more mr nice guy.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:23 PM
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if she really wants to figure out her problems she’ll figure it out herself. don’t bother dude srsly these people rarely change. she needs professional help. not your help edit: it also seems to me like you still care about this girl a lot... watch yourself now
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:12 PM
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“i been working on my text game” stop texting these girls man LMAO just use text as a way to set up a date. stop texting her all the time and the constant flirting. this isn’t middle school where you text ur crush after you just got her number. set up the date, make sure she’s down the day of. boom. simple. she probably thinks your a loser if you’re flirting and texting how you are. you got better shit to do rather than flirt over some pixels
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:33 PM
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comparison is the thief of joy stop being a little BABY and get over it. who cares about these other dudes. how are you supposed to live happy if you keep comparing yourself. FOCUS on you. if they thought the way you were thinking right now they wouldn’t have ever gotten to where they are now.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:44 PM
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stop whimpering on here, don’t be a little bitch. go listen to pop smoke and future and find urself a new girl. that one girl your talking about is not as great as u think she is.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:42 PM
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you seem to care what people think about you? this is your life not theirs. drop that thinking also you said that you were able to keep “certain guys away from her” drop that you’re the prize, not her. she’s keeping you not the other way around get your mindset right next time
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:01 PM
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seriously? just relax. don’t respond too quickly, go days without it. your busy and got better things to do then chit chat about the same thing everyday who cares if she dips LMAO. you are the prize man.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:46 PM
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try pop smoke
/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:36 PM
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keep going and don’t give up you aren’t alone, people are going through the same shit as you right now. get it together. in 5 years from now you may be a millionaire and you can tell your story to many people of how you got out of this situation.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 07:54 PM
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if she doesn’t say yes it’s a no
/r/askTRP18/10/19 07:50 PM
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i have to agree with your post. thank you
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:41 PM
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ok, believe what you want but i’ll have to carry on with my day now... goodbye
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:41 PM
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you’re talking about sonny? correct?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:34 PM
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what i believe is that when someone who randomly wants a “break” and then comes back has most likely left you for someone else to have sex or LTR and, for whatever reason, has returned. i’ve seen both woman and men do it. my posts are not based off of anger for women.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:23 PM
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i already said he could fuck just don’t get in a relationship with her after ur first comment lol
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:54 PM
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you clearly aren’t going to change your thinking, i feel as if it’d be a waste of time to explain
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:46 PM
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yeah, when/if the girl you get back with after a “break” leaves you ill be waiting for you to post and i’ll post the same exact thing ;)
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:38 PM
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many things
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:21 PM
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okay? lol my point still stands. if he gets back with her, the girl will still leave him again and come back with this endless cycle even if she didn’t cheat on him
/r/askTRP17/10/19 09:06 PM
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didnt even read the post, just the title... it was an assumption i made
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:55 PM
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going back to someone who cheated on you shows a lack of respect for yourself he can fuck, but it’s not a good idea to get in a exclusive relationship. (if he does just fuck, he’ll probably just get feelings for her again anyways)
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:17 PM
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stay. away. from. her. she did it once and she’ll do it again.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:05 PM
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not afraid to walk away? not standing your ground and sticking to what your saying sounds like the problem. if you say something you’re gonna do something you better mean it or else your words hold less value in her eyes. making it easier to put you in her frame
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:54 AM
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dude shut up you’re so beta to be serious though, your right. no point in putting people down when they’re trying to learn trp.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:29 PM
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hard next until further notice
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:06 PM
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this is so very true and a perfect explanation i see this type of behavior sooo much it’s insane
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:12 AM
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perfect
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:15 PM
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as others said already, do not stare into people’s souls 💀
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:53 PM
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dropppppp herrrrrr
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:22 PM
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best explanation imo ^
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:57 PM
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she stopped talking to you?? with no reason??? ​ if i were you i would just say you're going clubbing instead and stop talking to this girl
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:26 PM
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