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Former fat guy with no game here, who now can spin plates with ease, and no problems getting dates, kissing women, and having sex. Once you've lost the majority of your weight, the added attention will certainly help somewhat, but you'll still need to go the extra mile to capitalize on that attention. The suggestions to read The Game is a great one in my opinion as it reads like an inspirational story of sorts. You'll need to find your own inner game that works for you, something genuine and not…
/r/askTRP16/01/14 01:41 AM
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I've field tested this both ways. My personal recommendation is if you come easily, then do it, if not, don't. Why? Because if things go right, you'll be fucking a woman later that night and they fucking love it when you bust your nut in their presence. A few weeks back I went out with a girl whom I wrongly assumed wouldn't fuck me on the first date as she was religious and on her profile (Online dating girl) said no to sleeping with someone on the first date. So in addition to having jacked onc…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:58 AM
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Yes women care about looks, and yes if you have no game, or game that sounds rehearsed and not genuine you're going to fail. Will confidence help a guy with the face of a 4 or 5 get a woman who is a 9 or 10? Statistically no (unless he has money, or some source of power). Will it help him get a woman who is a 6? Yes (Help, not guarantee). Just think of game as the bait on a hook when you're fishing, it's going to make it easier to catch a fish, but it's certainly no guarantee, it just makes it e…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:42 AM
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If you want an alpha who wants to commit and has all the traits you've described, and yet you describe yourself as a 8 body and 6-7 face, you're going to have a rough time of it. You're going to have to compete against women who are 8+ in both the body and looks department for those same men, who have no incentive to settle down. If you want a higher caliber man you can improve your looks wherever possible, be more domestic, offer HIM foot rubs, be willing to put out frequently. But even with al…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 12:26 AM
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The girl I was fucking last night told me the same thing. She's like "make sure not to sign a pre-nup, marry her, and I'll be your sex bunny on the side"
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:59 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken. Having set up 7 dates in 7 days with 7 different women was KEY in keeping my frame on every single date. It helped me keep in mind that even if nothing happened that night, I had more women lined up to go out with.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:58 PM
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I've had a threesome before. That's just too much work for me. I'd rather fuck one woman really well 4 or 5 times, than 2 girls only so so, a few times. Edit: But yesterday I did hook up with one in the afternoon, and then have the second come by and hook up with me after her shift at work ended.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:51 PM
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I'm 31 and just recently started to learn RP behaviors and mindsets. In the 6 or so months I've discovered the community I've completely turned things around. One thing you have to realize is that although you enjoy things like drinking at home playing video games, if you REALLY get the hang of TRP you can STILL do those things, with an attractive woman sitting on the couch next to you waiting for you to be done playing the game so you can both go have sex. This is not about changing yourself in…
/r/askTRP01/12/13 06:13 PM
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My favorite is when a woman says to me "You're such an asshole, but I love it!" that's fucking game on!
/r/askTRP01/11/13 06:33 AM
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she was saying how she didn't see how her friends having to pay $1000 to join her on a cruise was that big of a deal. Like she didn't get that some people would have to save for a while to come up with that much disposable income.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 05:23 AM
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I went out on my last scheduled date today with a girl who was a nerdy librarian. I didn't have a lot of hope at first for it, since she seemed a bit cynical and closed off. Well.... I was able to let my inner nerd flag fly and we had plenty to talk about, I found her very attractive, and she found me attractive enough to bring me back to her place. We didn't have sex, but we kissed, and planned another date. I got lucky I guess being able to derail to a topic i had enough to contribute about. I…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 05:09 AM
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It sometimes feels like work. However I honestly just look at it as working and studying towards improving my overall self. Each date is a lesson that I pick apart and try to learn from. Before I was fat, and inept at even securing a date. Now I'm slimmed down, starting to look muscular, can get the interest of women, and even get them out on a date. Now I need to work on the next step which is keeping my confident frame in person. Once I've established a frame where she's intrigued by me, I don…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 09:47 PM
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Yep, that's my current trajectory. I've lost about 50 pounds since the beginning of the year, and put on a fair amount of muscle. But I'm also trying to make the most out of my time and work on my dating and pickup game in the meantime. I could honestly not give one shit if I had any bit of luck with any of these women I'm going out with simply because I see each one as a learning experience. I don't come home saddened or as a hit to my self esteem when they don't work out, I just replay the dat…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 09:43 PM
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Hmm, good insight, thanks! I used to do minigolf a lot on dates because It allowed me to tease them and make it competitive, also more excuses to get physical. However I had a date complain to me that it was too cliche of a date and pretty much reject me for that single reason. I have since though had a woman I asked out say it was in fact NOT cliche and a fun outting. So perhaps that needs to be my go to activity.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 09:38 PM
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just ease of access. I have very limited experience chatting up and asking out people i meet just out in the day. I'm reading the guide on day game so that might change at some point. I DO ask out friends of friends when it happens, but it's incredibly rare that my friends have single friends. They're all pretty much married with married friends. In person too where I live (Southern California) the women out and about are also extremely high maintenance, so since I'm not super alpha yet or cream…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 09:36 PM
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I can certainly see that. I still see myself as an obese guy just trying to get what I can. And the one I had mild success with was somehat overweight, which is a real deal breaker for me. Unfortunately this is one of the hardest mental blocks for me as it's developed over my whole life. Short of constantly improving my physical appearance and in turn my own self image (which I am of course constantly working on), I'm not sure how else to change this mindset. I can get as confident as I want wit…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 05:34 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I tend to have better luck with women who are nurses, vets, social workers, etc... Tonight's date is with a Librarian. But yeah I think the more successful ones are looking for a rich alpha it seems, which at the moment I am neither. As far as the date location is concerned. I typically go to a quiet lounge or bar for drinks, but this girl was a big science nerd so I was trying to do something that would be fun for her, but in retrospect I need to do stuff that helps MY frame, not h…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 04:25 PM
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Yeah. This was the first time after I lost a bunch of weight that I got a suddent influx of attention so it was sort of an addictive thing. But after tonight's date I think I'm going to cool it off a bit, be a bit more selective who I go out with, keep trying to tighten my game so that each interaction I learn something. All the while improving other aspects of my life with the intention of improving my quality of life, not doing it simply to appear more interesting to women.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 04:18 PM
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Yeah Cooking is the ONE thing I can talk about. I actually am an amazing cook and baker, and have a hobby where I bake all sorts of desserts with alcohol in them (I also used to be a bartender). So that DOES get me some points with them, it's a big draw to my online profile and seems to be one of the things that gets me the date in the first place, but I think I just need more hooks. I just want to make sure I choose things I have a genuine interest in, instead of doing it simply to show off. Th…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 04:16 PM
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Yeah I'm white, but sadly I just don't find asian women that attractive. I typically only find white and Pacific Islander women attractive. Thanks for the comedy advice. I'm typically someone who comments on everything and has a cocky assholish attitude towards my friends, I just seem to have this block that goes up when I'm on a date. It's like I'm a different person. Developing RP tendencies I guess just takes some work to break out of my old habits.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 04:13 PM
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Not super great game, but the combination of going from a fat guy to one who is in shape, and the subsequent confidence that goes with that. Just a good set of circumstances. And thanks. This is the first time in my life where dating seems like a really fun experience instead of a chore.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 06:14 PM
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Yep. If she wants to go out again I'm game, but I already have another date set up for this weekend with a girl who is all about being a lady, and wanting me to take the lead. I also just got the number of another girl that wants to go out on a date, a nerdier cute girl (which is my type). I'll just keep all my options open and not stress over anything.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 03:39 PM
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The date went decent. The girl was insanely smart and well traveled, unfortunately was a bit overwhelming. She seemed to have a good head on her shoulder, but not enough in common to really make me want to go any further. Cute though.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 05:20 AM
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Yeah she was sharing her frozen yogurt with her dog when I was over at her place, like he would literally lick it from the cup, then she'd eat some. It was just too much. As for the weight thing, i did feel a bit bad since she had really fucked up her knee playing soccer a while back and still made an attempt to go to the gym, but sadly she would have had to make drastic dietary changes to make a big difference. I know the pain of having to make those sorts of choices, I essentially have to cut …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 09:09 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I'll see about doing that. I need to get more pictures anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 08:23 PM
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Yeah my friends give me crap for almost NEVER dating a woman who is older than 29, and I pretty much refuse to date anyone older. I did go out a few weeks ago with a 30 year old, and she had money, and such but had a scary close relationship with her dog. She was also pretty overweight, which I discovered is a stright up deal breaker for me but at least i tried.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 08:23 PM
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I find that although muscle mass is healthy, and certainly going to get you great results, being skinny isn't really too bad either, you just have to rely more on your style. So many of my friends are that skinny type, but they do fine because they know how to dress well. On the other hand if you're looking for more physically attractive women who know they're attractive, then muscles, tight game, style, and a confident attitude are not only preferred, but almost always required.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 08:01 PM
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Yeah, any women I feel was either fading, or not worth the trouble I just delete their messages or number and move on, no sweat off my back. Yeah i think it's just going to take practice for me to train those bad habits out of my system, but I have time, and I'm getting in better shape every day. As for online dating, yeah the odds are stacked against me, but fortunately when I'm not fat, I evidently tend to be an attractive man, and as such with every new picture I put online gets a whole new s…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 07:58 PM
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I work for a university (not a professor), where I have a LOT of 19-22 year old friends who are attractive women and holy crap are they the most annoying, entitled, high maintenance women I know of. While I'm not against dating or hooking up with that age group, it's often times a lot more trouble than it's worth, especially since they don't know what the hell they're doing in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 07:54 PM
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I hear ya. I only have 2 pictures taken of me since I lost a bunch of weight and got in shape so it looks kinda suspicious. But I mean my friends don't take pictures all that often when we're out, and I rarely think about it. On the bright side when a girl questions me about the lack of photos I tell her the stright up truth that I got in better shape and that my older pictures don't look like me anymore. To which they've been typically responding with "ok that's good reason" or a smiley face.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 05:56 PM
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Most of the women I meet think I look about 25-26 still which I think CAN play to my favor, as long as they see that I also have my shit together. Either way, now that I'm not a fatty and have a good job, a nice apartment, and a nice car, most girls in their mid 20s seem to see me as a pretty decent catch.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 05:51 PM
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Same here. I'm still learning about old behaviors that are counterproductive. I've also noticed that you have to be so much more careful about these missteps the hotter the woman. I know i did a few with one girl a few weeks back, but she was so incredibly into me that I could have been a complete blue pill tool and still kept her interest for a while. As a contrast I had a pretty attractive woman message me on an online dating site, and she was incredibly into me until I said one stupid blue pi…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 05:49 PM
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Yeah, I can see how that might be the case, especially since i live in a nice apartment, drive a nice car, and have a good job. But at least in online dating they don't usually know that.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 05:46 PM
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Don't get me wrong, women digging it is a nice perk, but the core self confidence is really what its all about, and yeah part of that is knowing you can pull a lot hotter women, and not give a shit if those hot women are too much trouble because you can always get another.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 05:45 PM
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I lost weight and posted new photos. I barely put any effort into my profile until the other night and was still getting messages. Like people say, online dating is always going to initially be about the physical. It helps if you can come across as fun and sarcastic in your profile though.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 05:44 PM
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I have 2 sisters, but about 13 years ago I went from being an introverted fat nerd, to an outgoing thin nerd. My sense of humor is incredibly over the top sarcasm and cockiness, I treat my friends this way, as well as my sisters. My parents were a bit weirded out when I started to call my sisters whores and sluts, but my sisters would do the same to me. It wasn't an attempt to shame each other, but more of an expression of "who give a shit what anyone else thinks" Both my sisters are married to …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 05:01 AM
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I'm 30 years old and work for a university where I am surrounded by 19-22 year olds. I've hooked up mostly with 22 year olds. If you go younger, they're annoying as fuck and just started drinking out at bars, which means they get all liquored up and then either want to fight you, or cry on the curb outside (assuming they're not puking out the side of the nice new car you worked hard to afford). The smarter guys know that although 19-21 year olds can be a lot of fun to hook up with, it's usually …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 12:01 AM
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Heh, almost all my guy friends are really into asian women. I tend to have good luck with latina women, but dear god are they terrifying down here if you fuck them over. Oh well, I guess I'll just keep up the workouts, and keep an eye out for job opportunities. I have a friend trying to get me a job in a few months that would pay a lot more, and would afford me the chance to travel all through the state of California.
/r/askTRP22/09/13 10:06 PM
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Much appreciated.
/r/askTRP22/09/13 07:47 PM
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Much appreciated. Yeah I'm no body builder, but I have decent upper arm and chess musculature, and my legs are developing decently. My body fat percentage is still quite high. I'm under no illusions that I still have a ways to go in the weight loss area, and i essentially live a Keto lifestyle. I've been making decent losses utilizing it as a tool, while also incorporating weight training, and being more active in my daily life. It'll come off eventually, but just like putting the weight on, it'…
/r/askTRP22/09/13 05:35 PM
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I eat pretty strict Keto, that's how I lost the weight I already have. And i try to lift weights 4 days a week (each muscle group gets hit hard once a week). I'm not particularly musical, but I do own a guitar and always wanted to learn, it's one of those things I've not put enough effort into.
/r/askTRP22/09/13 05:30 PM
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That's the part of my game I'm learning to develop currently. I escalated, but not super far. I'm still trying to keep from putting them on a pedestal as I can escalate just fine on women I'm not overly physically attracted to.
/r/askTRP22/09/13 05:27 PM
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It's a shame some women will actively hurt a guy like that. Sure he might get a bit attached, but come on, the weight of that vs what you're psychologically doing to the guy? I got extremely lucky with my virginity, my roommate told a friend of his who was at a party of ours that I was a virgin, and she took it upon herself to rid me of my v-card. She grabbed her best friend and me, and all three of us hooked up. I was glad it was over with, and from then on out was more confident with escalatio…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 01:36 AM
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My first time was in a threesome with 2 pretty hot women. This of course is the extreme outlier situation.
/r/askTRP31/08/13 05:33 AM
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Thanks, I think that's really where my focus needs to be, plate spinning so I know I have options. Health is in check and slowly improving, I'm naturally pretty cocky and funny, the better in shape I get combined with the decrease in desperation due to knowing I have options should really help me with my overall inner and outer game.
/r/askTRP29/08/13 08:18 AM
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Much appreciated. You're spot on when I think about it. I think that I've been without anything for so long I'm not sure what I want. I've battled with my weight issues my whole life, it really consumes an extremely high percentage of my daily focus. I guess I'm just at that point where I've lost enough weight and put on enough muscle that women are starting to notice, and although i knew that eventually it would be a perk (I'm losing weight and gaining muscle for myself not for anyone else) I g…
/r/askTRP28/08/13 06:43 AM
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I usually don't mind leg day. I HATE shoulder day, but sadly love the results i get from it. Meh.
/r/askTRP28/08/13 06:10 AM
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Thanks. Yeah it's trying to get rid of so many of these blue pill habits. It's a slow process, just like working out.
/r/askTRP28/08/13 05:44 AM
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Oh I'm fully aware, there's no way I could land that where I'm at right now. But I also don't want to get stuck in an only satisfactory situation while continuing to improve myself. It's about trying to get over the whole idea that I might be "settling" until I can do better. Trying to stay out of a blue pill mindset that once I find myself in some sort of "relationship" that I'm stuck there. Trying to keep a red pill mindset that if I'm not happy, then things simply aren't working out and to br…
/r/askTRP28/08/13 04:16 AM
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True, but tell that to someone who just "has such passion for music" or whatever. While it wouldn't hurt for it to be a lot of people's plan A, it should most CERTAINLY be everyone's plan B.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 04:24 AM
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Yeah one of the districts my friend was in had to lay off like 1300 people, then had to hire a bunch back like that.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 04:23 AM
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Ah gotcha. I can completely understand that then.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 04:22 AM
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I think anyone wanting to get a liberal arts degree should most certainly get a bachelors in their primary interest with ONE caveat! If your creative outlet is THAT important to you, and you're spending all this money anyway, take the maximum credits possible and also get a bachelors of business. Musicians, artists, writers, etc... every single one of those professions can benefit greatly from a very strong background in business, it can help you manage your finances, teach you the basics of bus…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:56 PM
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Which is a completely valid viewpoint to have, however still technically not red pill mentality. To each their own though.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:45 PM
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A few years ago I may have agreed who heartedly with you, and this still might be the case in plenty places around the globe. However locally around my city since the economic downturn, almost all places are being flooded with job applications, and frequently those without college degrees are put at the bottom of the potential applicant pool. The degree doesn't even have to be in a related field to what you're applying for. My job just started ramping up their background searches, and now requir…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:26 PM
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I have 4-5 friends who are all teachers and they all make about 30-35k a year, but don't have much job security until about 5-years in. At least 3 of them all have been laid off at least twice in the last 3 years and had to find other schools with open positions. No idea if this is the norm for other places in the country, but all of these friends teach on the west coast.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:23 PM
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Not sure where you read those sort of requirements for entry level IT jobs. I work as a hiring manager for my IT department and our entry level jobs read mostly asking for customer service experience, and any certifications are a plus but not required. Now if you're referring to what YOU believe as entry level (Level 2 & 3 service escalations), then yes those are the sort of requirements you'll see out there. Entry is answering phones mostly and following basic troubleshooting scripts written fo…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:18 PM
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Please feel free to quote anything you'd like, the more the message gets out there, the more hope I have that my extended languish wasn't pointless.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 08:28 AM
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Describes me exactly. I work with young 20-22 year old attractive women on a daily basis at a university and after discovering and adopting TRP I became extremely angry to the point where I could see the exact behaviors described by RedPill in most of the women I work with. I stopped talking to them and started becoming angry and withdrawn. This phase lasted maybe 2-3 weeks but then I emerged from it realizing that I was angry about the lies I had been told my whole life (and continue to hear da…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 07:48 AM
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I've started to do that too. Women friends who know they're attractive try to slip things buy and try not to get called out simply by trying to manipulate me based on their looks. I've started flat out saying no, or being an outright asshole to them when they try to pull that. One of my biggest pet peeves is when I know someone is trying to manipulate me. People who try to bait me into asking them about something they obviously want to talk about I either ignore, or call them out on it. I realiz…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 05:55 PM
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You know what's so surreal for me? Knowing that before I fully embraced TRP I was a hardcore whiteknight and can actually see how I would have responded in the past defending her, and yet the current person I am is disgusted even at the theoretical white knight me that no longer exists. Blows my mind.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 10:56 PM
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Off and on most of my life I've been overweight, but also 6'1". I never realized how much of an asset being this tall could be in the dating game when you have such a huge roadblock (being fat) in your way. I'm looking forward to a life of being both tall AND fit, and being able to experience this promised land so many tall guys speak of.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 05:53 PM
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I'm aware, but it doesn't make it any less true of a personal mantra.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 05:54 AM
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My favorite one is along the same lines: A key (man) who can open many locks (a woman) is a master key, whereas a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:15 AM
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Heh, one of the girls said that the guy had to have no back hair, but it had to be genetic or lasered off, shaving or waxing wouldn't cut it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 06:34 PM
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Pshh, all they're asking for is a wealthy, fit man, who is over 6 feet tall, has no back hair, great teeth, dresses well, and is smart. Isn't that like at least 90% of the male population..... On the bright side TRP teaches us that women don't know what they actually want anyway. So the list is pretty much irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 02:00 AM
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The pure fact that h/she said "bunch of you self proclaimed alphas are fucking virgins in here anyway" means he/she doesn't grasp the red pill at all. it's all designed around building people up, improving one's confidence in who they are as a person. This is either a full on troll, or someone who doesn't get what this sub is at all.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 07:47 AM
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lol indeed!
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 09:19 AM
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On the flip side I had an ex break up with me and tell me weight was a contributing factor. I appreciate that I can learn from it and have worked on it, but at the same time, it really fucks with your head. People know they're fat, they know it limits their options. If they are in a state of complete denial in which they believe that no matter what you look like people will only care about who you are, then yeah tell them, but in this case as a breakup I'm not sure it really does much to help th…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 01:26 AM
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That thread is quite a cluster. So many people are saying that it doesn't matter if the guy is rich, as long as he makes enough to show he has ambition. What the hell does that mean? What dollar amount does that equal?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 07:21 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily call it a sexist assumption. I'd call it a generalization based on a cultural observation that women tend to follow the lead of men. This isn't sexist, this is just the way many cultures behave. Men lead frequently when dancing, more women tend to allow the men to make the first move in physical escalation, or emotional escalation (marriage proposals). I wouldn't call that sexist at all. In fact in most cases that tends to be the preferred dynamic by women. Sure some women…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 06:45 AM
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I work FOR a college in the IT department and have almost all college friends. Here's the thing, while I do tend to see a greater portion of the "hot" women in communication studies, and marketing, that's kinda part of WHY they are studying what they're studying, they like to represent themselves in a very positive light, and want to do that for a living. But now you go to the sciences, and while there ARE still some hot women, they probably hit the gym only once or twice a week, wear less makeu…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 10:51 PM
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Back when I was 18-19 I had lost a ton of weight right before college, I had never dated and never even kissed a girl. Due to my lack of experience I didn't realize then that I had a fair amount of women really trying to get with me. The hilarious part is that due to the fact that I was so oblivious it came off as not giving a shit about the women hitting on me which made them want me more. I never really got anywhere with them due to my inexperience, but looking back it's funny what not giving …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 04:04 PM
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Thanks, I'm really trying to adopt this mindset since I discovered this community.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 04:02 PM
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Yeah most of my life my self esteem has been tied to my weight. I've been thin and getting laid a fair amount, and I've been morbidly obese and have people avoid looking at me when they walk past. I'm a lot healthier than I have been most of my life by this point, so once that's taken care of, I should have the self esteem, good looks, and hopefully (by then) a lot better sense of game so I can put my best foot forward and succeed.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 04:01 PM
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I did have one girl who was a more RP kinda mindset woman, and she fucked my brains out, so I guess that was a form of her telling me the truth...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:28 AM
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IT Supervisor, trying to work my way into IT consulting.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:11 AM
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It's not about being friendly that makes you a blue piller. It's about changing who you are to fit what you think a woman wants you to be. If you're friendly that's fine, but any time a woman asks you to do something you'd really rather not do, don't do it. You are your own person entitled to your own opinions and actions. That's not to say you can't compromise in situations, but make sure it's a fair compromise for you. Women respect a man who stands up for what HE wants, even if he doesn't alw…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:16 PM
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I changed my diet to one of high protein, I lift weights frequently, and am quickly losing weight, and my libido has shot through the damn roof (almost literally). May God have mercy on the next girl that I have sex with, because she won't walk straight for a year. Edit: And I'm 30
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 08:15 AM
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The funny part is that TRP isn't so powerful because it uses any brain washing techniques, or that it makes huge promises of getting laid with no effort. It sheds precise light on all the shit we've experienced our whole life. "Normal" women falling over themselves for an alpha man, asshole or not. We know that even if you're not a "fake" nice guy expecting sex for treating her with everything she wants, you will still not give a woman the excitement she craves. TheRedPill is popular because it …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 07:47 AM
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That sounds promising. I am an incredibly social person. After my first year in college I came to the realization that I didn't care what people thought of me in general (excluding women I was interested in of course) and adopted a not giving a shit mentality. All of the sudden I had tons of friends, friends who adored my don't give a fuck mentality, who loved my sarcastic attitude. I hopefully can learn to really love myself, constantly improve myself for me instead of the validation of women I…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 05:09 PM
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Makes sense. I work at a college in southern California, I think the demographic i'm exposed to skews my views a fair amount. I suppose the hardest part for me is to turn the focus from external validation into validation that I need to like myself, and be satisfied with me, and try to treat it more like the women should be privileged if I let them be part of my life. Pretty tall order. But like that stupid cliche thing says, things worth having don't come easy.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 08:37 AM
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I actually don't have an issue losing the weight, things are going well on that front, it just takes time to drop 100 pounds. I'm down to 255 from 295 about 4 months ago, this also after a good year and a half of light strength training, and then 3 months of high intensity training. Everything in life takes time, it's that period in the middle where you're doing pretty much everything you can but time has to physically pass for things to change.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 08:33 AM
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Yeah I know. My diet is rock solid. I'm down from 295 to 255 in about 4 months. Still got a ways to go, but it'll happen eventually. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 08:31 AM
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Being attractive makes you lazy often times. When I'm overweight I'm an average looking guy. When I'm in shape I look pretty hot (right now I'm somewhere in between but on my way down). When I'm hot life becomes easier, people are more forgiving, people want to be in your social support circle more, job interviews go better. When you're average or below average people often avoid looking you in the eye, they don't move for you when you're walking, and women tend to go out of their way to be less…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 07:26 AM
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The one thing that I find to be the problem with this is that in almost any field, you can be a supervisor, manager, CEO, etc.. If you're a good leader you can command the respect of your employees and coworkers. I myself command respect in a large enterprise environment, to the point where even though I'm a supervisor, the CIO of the organization regularly placates to me whenever I make requests. It's not about the career field, but the level of respect you demand from coworkers, employees, and…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 02:29 AM
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the "bitch behavior" will eventually decline as people will gravitate you for who you are, not in spite of it. You might be describing people who thought you were one way but then you changed, and lots of people don't like change. That happened to me a long time ago when I stopped giving a fuck what people thought of how I acted or spoke. My soft spoken friends were more distanced, but still remained around the periphery, and I gained a LOT more friends who loved my fun assholish nature. You WIL…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 06:03 PM
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Methinks the dog knew what it was doing when it bolted, trying to get the HELL away from that woman. There was a reason it was so skittish!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 06:25 AM
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I imagine it depends on the guy. Some just want any lay, or as many as they can get, others want a woman who can make him come by just looking at him. Some guys are willing to mold a young inexperienced woman into doing exactly what he wants in bed. To each their own. You'll probably be able to find a guy down the line anyway, but he'll likely be a beta who won't sexually excite you nearly as much as the guy's you're having sex with now. Thus is life. Have fun traveling!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 06:26 AM
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You're essentially following the exact pattern that the red pill describes. You want to have fun now, but then eventually find a good man to settle down with. You can do what you want, but it's like me saying "I want to spend every paycheck traveling and buying fun things in my 20s, but then when I hit 30 I want to be able to afford to buy a nice house" You have to make a choice, have a lot of sex and fun, and not be tied down in your 20s and have your value lowered in the eyes of alpha men, or …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 03:57 AM
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Yep! The last thing you need is someone questioning your motives of trying to get healthy. Good luck on your journey!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 07:29 AM
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Those are really good numbers. Most people shoot for right around those macro %'s for keto weight loss. if you want to build muscle you'd probably have to bump up the protein, but that's a whole different type of keto /r/ketogains can help with that, if that's your bag. I prefer the weight loss for now. Once I'm closer to my ideal weight I'll probably go back and try to put on some muscle with the help of that subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 07:22 AM
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Yeah I used to work as a bartender at a rooftop bar in gaslamp. A drunk woman once used me as a stripper pole. Ah to be 25 again.... Yeah I love San Diego, but it can do a number on a guy's self esteem. I had a friend who moved here from LA and told me he couldn't believe how SD girls were even WORSE than LA girls when it came to superficiality. Gotta love the eye candy though.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 07:19 AM
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Yeah on one of my alternate identities i frequently give advice in the /r/keto boards. I also visit another low carb forum that I am a long time contributor of. I also council friends and family members to help improve their diets and lifestyles. I can certainly say when I'm giving others advice, it's a GREAT motivator to keep it up myself. I really am hoping this time it sticks as a permanent lifestyle change, and I have the feeling it will, since I'm not longer doing it to look better, or try …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 07:17 AM
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I do Intermittent fasting so I skip breakfast. If I'm feeling hungry before lunch I'll eat something lovingly regarded in the keto community as a "fat bomb" which consists mainly of baker's cocoa, coconut oil, butter, and almond butter (about 1.5 carbs and 160 calories). For lunch I usually take a low carb wrap made from oat fiber (extremely low in carbohydrates) and fill it with shredded cabbage, cheese, lunch meat (usually turkey), mustard, mayo, and avocado if I have some around. Other lunche…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 07:12 AM
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Honestly, my friends all tell me I look great. And I actually have been lifting weights for nearly 2 years so I have some decent definition. But you have to understand I've battled weight issues my whole life. I was 350 pounds in high school and snapped a bench in half in the middle of the cafeteria. Hell, up until January I was tipping the scales at 300 pounds. On top of that, I live in San Diego, where the standard of beauty is so incredibly skewed it's insane! I am originally from the Pacific…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:57 AM
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It's short for "ketogenic" which yeah is the state of inducing ketosis. I've done it off any on over the last 13 years. The first time I did it I was in high school and went from 350 pounds to 215 in the course of my senior year (and landed me a prom date). It's a great thing for people who have issues with insulin resistance or hunger control. It made it so my first week of college I had 3 extremely attractive women ask me to walk them back from class, and one girl give me her number unsolicite…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:52 AM
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You are an inspiration. I'm really glad I've started to realize this at the age of 30, instead of something like 50. I don't feel like I was cheated out of too much in my 20s. I had a serious girlfriend at one point, and I've had sex with not a huge amount of women, but enough that I've felt somewhat accomplished, I've even had a threesome with 2 quite attractive women (around 7's). I really like this community of people, I'm glad I found it.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:40 AM
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Much appreciated. I think the metaphor at least holds to some extent, simply because it does give you a pretty big shock when you realize how much of your life was a lie. Yes you can't change your circumstance immediately, but you finally feel like you're not observing some weird dance you just can't get the hang of, and have no tools to make it any better. When it happend to me, my entire past experience finally clicked and fell into place, why certain things seemed to not work with women, why …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:34 AM
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Yeah, last week I asked out one of the previously mentioned hot blonde 21 year olds and got rejected and it's no skin off my back. I think it might just be my audience right now. I need to find girls whose SMV isn't in the stratosphere, not necessarily ones i'm not attracted to. Obviously as I lose weight and my SMV goes up, I can go after more attractive women respectively.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:55 AM
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I work at a southern California University so typically my circumstance surrounds me with those types of women. I am trying to find women in their late 20s, but it seems in this city all too often they are ones with some nasty baggage (or kids). I think working on day game though will really help me, since I'm sure in my day to day life outside of work there should be plenty of late 20s available women.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 04:22 AM
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In college I was HORRIBLE. I didn't completely unplug, but I started not giving a shit what people thought about me, I adopted an extremely sarcastic personality (not a fake one, it's who I was all along but was too afraid to be that way around people), and all of the sudden I went from having 2-3 friends, to TONS of people who all absolutely loved to be around me. To this day I have no trouble making friends, and some of the girls I've hooked up with have outright told me that I seem like a mor…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 04:17 AM
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Awesome, thanks for the link and the tip! It's funny how embracing the RP feels so liberating and exciting. I fully understand now why it's named that, like the haze has been lifted and I can finally begin my life.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 03:51 AM
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Yeah I'm doing full keto, I lose on average 2-4 pounds a week (I know it'll slow down the closer I get to my ideal weight). I feel fantastic health wise, and am going to do a Tough Mudder for myself in November. I'm trying to completely improve who I am for myself and nobody else, but if I can get a few sexual workouts with some women along the way, all the better.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 03:36 AM
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