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I don't text after. Its simple after that, she can either text/call back. Easy enough and then continue from there.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:35 PM
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haha...Sure, a really romantic love lorn poem. Jokes aside, its a confidence and comfort level thing. Where I am the leave a message after the beep thing is not a norm.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:32 PM
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It's like shooting fish in a barrel with visiting women. Very easy to identify which ones are looking for a night of fun and which aren't. Be fun, be flirty, be direct. Just don't stand in your own way. Be flirty, be fun and kino. If they are staying with friends, your place. Hotel room, well hotel room.
/r/seduction22/03/16 12:28 PM
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1- Dated a friend. Off-limits, unless I am looking at it from a relationship perspective and would be willing to ask the friend. 2- Hooked up with a friend. No relationship, all clear. 3- Another friend is interested? Is he getting anywhere? If not, be polite and let him know where you are at. Chances are he will tell you to go ahead. I am assuming you have time in between, if it were a situation where I met her at a club and all is hunky dory, taking her home. At that time I would just laugh of…
/r/seduction27/02/16 12:42 PM
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Seriously this ^ should be a no-brainer. But I think there is a possible red flag in what she said: "I don't like the idea of waking up in an unfamiliar place." May be she had too much to drink, could have a bit of an issue in the morning IMO. Don't text or anything, wait for a few days and then think about it again.
/r/seduction27/02/16 12:36 PM
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Oh..Ok. Thought it qualifies as one. Can't seem to remove the tag now.
/r/seduction26/02/16 01:15 PM
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Try a hostel for a change from mundane traveling. Lots of people, some you might become friends with for life. Others will give you a new perspective on life. Making more friends is easy, just head out and be open to people. There will be ups and downs. Sooner or later you will discover what makes you happy. May be its hiking, sky diving, blind tasting, river rafting. Keep trying things. The 10's never end up with a guy looking for 10's, its usually the guy who has himself figured out and knows …
/r/seduction26/02/16 01:14 PM
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Well done!! Just remember the PuA is stuff is just to get you to be confident. People are people, once you open a conversation just run with it. She likes Ellen type shows and you seem to know a bit about it. Run with it.
/r/seduction25/02/16 01:25 PM
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Work out, lift. Talk to people, asking for a small favor such as pass the ketchup is a brilliant way to get started. After that its just a nod or hi when you see them again. Eventually conversations. Some people you will like, some you won't, doesn't matter its just preparation for real life interactions. You can't change your co-worker at a job so learn to get along. Wish I had done the above. Things I did:(had no idea about /r/seduction or the infinite rules we have now) Girls are easy to talk…
/r/seduction11/01/16 08:20 PM
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I think you could possibly try recreating the easy in-out situation again. Assuming you two talk casually, mention a friend raving about some dish served at the place you guys were talking about. Should get a reaction, tell her lets go or dont depending on the reaction.
/r/seduction11/01/16 08:13 PM
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Your move, which you realise was weak, with the chair in between sets you back a thousand steps. Man, would you sit away from someone you knew? If someone I just met(introduction only) sat 1 seat away from me, I would think I smell or this person is weird. Seriously explain to me what made you do that? Learn from it, be confident and next time stop trying to talk to as many people as you could, a few I can understand. Those people are on campus, you will meet them here and there, concentrate on …
/r/seduction11/01/16 08:06 PM
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The boss likes you till you start dating/sleeping with his daughter. I would NOT do anything about it. Seeing that you do know about the above and seem to still want to go ahead: I don't understand why you wouldn't take the opportunity when she presented it to you. Right in the lunch room, simple statement to her question: I thought I would try it, lets go together? Gives her and you an easy out without making things too complicated. If she said yes, bingo you have a date. If she said no or may-…
/r/seduction11/01/16 07:54 PM
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On the 1% chance that she says no, things will get very awkward around the flat. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction11/01/16 07:22 PM
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1- Run a few miles(set an aim for June) 2- Lift 3- Inner game(The two above will already give you a boost, roll with it and do more) 4- Read(The classics, or anything else) in your down time. 5- Read the news from 3-4 different countries(the more informed you are the better) 6- Listen to great music, make your playlist. At the end of the day, the more goals(small ones to start and a large one to reach at the start of june) you reach, the better you will feel about yourself and that is all there …
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:46 PM
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Directly asking her out = Recipe for disaster. I would rather hang out with her and let her make the move while being absolutely alpha about it. Work on yourself in the downtime.
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:22 PM
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Next time don't ask if the party is still fun, stay have some more fun and then continue leading to a more and more isolated place(Slowing down the pace). Ask then either back to yours or a more sit down place a couple of blocks away, say back in a couple of hours or something. Once you are on the move, back to your place or the eatery/bar/whatever is upto your lead. If you say back in couple of hours make sure you get her back if she says anything of the sort.
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:08 PM
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Do what comes naturally and get it out of your head that she is "stunning". I am sure she has some habits which you wont like and vice-versa. Do your thing, talk to her on/off, say what comes to your mind. If you feel like telling her you like her say it in a playful way and make sure you don't have oneitis. Might get tested here, simple answer to any question in that direction: Lets get to know each other. Girls like a bit of maturity, especially ones which are always chased. Talk, flirt, smile…
/r/seduction10/01/16 03:02 PM
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Tinder = Always looking for NEXT. Get it clear in your head. I met a girl, who liked a guy a lot(met on tinder), while banging another dude and looking for another hook-up. Seriously the chances of being together due to Tinder are well 0. I work with a very general philosophy, go out to have fun, see someone interesting approach like they are a friend. And then kino etc like normal. If it works great, if not there is always another interesting girl. Confidence is not I will approach everything, …
/r/seduction11/09/15 01:00 PM
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Say something along the lines of: Relationship? We are just getting to know each other, hold your horses. Leave it at that, suggest something fun after a few days(few, needs your input) and ask her out for something fun. This time, do the same as last but in the end, if the IOI's are there go for a kiss(not on the side of the head, thats BF/relationship stuff). If she rejects this time or you don't escalate, eject and freeze.
/r/seduction10/08/15 09:11 PM
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Give the massage, but DON'T slide it in. I am assuming these other girls(the ones who have had a massage from you) have been consensual sex partners. If the girls asking you for a massage know about the "whole experience" part they will ask you to straddle them the way you did it to [name] girl. Get the GREEN light and then go for it.
/r/seduction10/08/15 09:01 PM
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Phuket, Singapore, Bali
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:28 PM
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Hey Thanks for the info. The hotel bar sounds like the perfect place to warm up. Searching on google now for the party hostel. Cheers
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:13 PM
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Gotcha, I am thinking of getting a private room at the hostel or a nearby hotel incase I need one, when required. I will try to scope out a couple of hotels nearby in my budget . Thanks
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:12 PM
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Great!! Glad things worked out. Have a good one. And go out talk to another few hotties.
/r/seduction24/07/15 03:49 PM
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Update?
/r/seduction23/07/15 07:24 PM
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BE DIRECT, the conversations are usually so boring and bland at such places/parties that a direct approach works best. Think a girl is cute, tell her. Obviously you have to calibrate according to the girl etc. Once you have that going, kino a bit and move around(key). Go to a quieter section of the roof, or move closer to the action depending on the kind of girl you are hitting it off with. If the girl is the type that you move to closer to the action/busy part, hold closer, hand on lower back. …
/r/seduction20/07/15 10:25 PM
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Hit up other tourists and be friendly at the bar.
/r/seduction18/07/15 01:20 PM
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Uhhhh...ok didn't see this coming. Anyway I still hold the same opinion if she had to go she would have said it and left. Unless I am reading this all wrong, you made her go? If the logistics made you make her go, that's understandable. Go for it tonight. Update after.
/r/seduction18/07/15 01:18 PM
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Have done this a fair bit. Although, in my case it was more like asked the girl out. She said yes and then flaked. Didn't give a fuck about it. Saw her in group again. Was my usual fun self. Game girls in group for sure, but keep it light. If you have an interest in someone particular ask them out, if rejected, just be cool about it.
/r/seduction18/07/15 01:08 PM
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Remember three important things: 1- The person you have to live with the longest is you, so love yourself. 2- Love like respect should be earned and never given. 3- Women WILL walk all over you if you are always available, be romantic once in a while its great. All the time and you are a sap. DO YOU WANT TO BE A SAP.
/r/seduction18/07/15 01:05 PM
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Glad you had a good time. Why did you let/make her go, everything points to a F-close and you ducked out? Please have a reason other than "She told me she had to get up early in the morning" That's just one of the lines girls drop early in an interaction sometimes to get out of a situation later on if they don't like the guy.
/r/seduction18/07/15 12:58 PM
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Usually I am pretty good at reading situations, but this one in hindsight was a bit confusing. At the time this was happening I was sure of the vibe and going for it, then stuff just killed the mood.
/r/seduction13/07/15 08:09 PM
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Having a controlled passion while having a conversation is the key IMO. This makes the other side try and unlock the passion they notice is there but very controlled. Plus, gives the impression that there is an adventure being held out. Example: I was talking to this gorgeous girl about books, couldn't think of a more boring topic. I kept it civil, mentioned I have read the authors but their views seemed somewhat unconventional which I liked. Did not elaborate, this led to a very detailed and pa…
/r/seduction11/07/15 10:34 AM
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A good face is not equal to a great smile/disposition. I have a friend who doesn't look great but when he smiles its like he is a little kid and I have never seen a person not smile back. Check in the mirror and work out if your smile/usual look is not open/playful. Practice can work wonders on this. Confidence is key, height remains a factor for the lizard brain but confidence trumps it. Where are you located? I have heard that India is not the place to get a lot of eye contact and that its a b…
/r/seduction02/07/15 09:43 AM
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Eye fucking + moving closer. All there is to it. Make sure you touch her while there is any chance during conversation. Put on some music.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:39 PM
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Yes, girls are highly attuned to guys liking them. The distance + dropping the ball (as mentioned by you) might have been the catalyst. Sorry about it, but seriously don't become clingy or try to hard to hold on. Give her something to think about(why isn't he trying hard to hold on? etc). It gives you more value and keeps her thinking about you. When/If she talk to you about it, hold frame and tell her you like/love etc her but are not willing to become a wuss/cling-on, if she has feelings/wants…
/r/seduction30/06/15 02:54 PM
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Uhhh....I am sure you don't want to know hear this, but I think you are being naive. I am not sure how you should deal with this, but take off the blinders else the chances of getting hurt will increase 10 fold. Cheers PS: Hope I am reading it absolutely incorrectly.
/r/seduction30/06/15 02:16 PM
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You didn't mess up. Approaching is the first step. Abundance mentality is second. There are more women out there, some will like you others might not, just take in stride. The approach you mentioned was may be a bit direct for a girl at your particular age. Try the introduction only and start talking, build a little rapport and ask for the number at the end of the conversation. Or better yet, if my school days are anything to go by, don't ask for it. Meet her next day as a dear old friend(if con…
/r/seduction16/06/15 11:04 AM
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This FR sums up what not to do. Just IMO
/r/seduction15/06/15 03:19 PM
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It's only a negative if you let it be. Try harder, go for girls into the India vibe. Also, going with a text which asks for "hangout" as the opener would most definitely result in flaking. I have no information from you regarding the comfort/rapport level you had with these girls, but that text will get you absolutely nowhere unless you have built enough rapport/comfort. Why have you got only 3 numbers? Go out and approach more, rethink if you get to 30-40 numbers and no replies. It goes without…
/r/seduction15/06/15 12:42 PM
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1- Don't do date things. 2- Kino/Escalate/F-Close, tomorrow. 3- Don't talk about FWB till she does. 4- Don't ask for another date/hangout right after tomorrow. 5- Do bootycalls and keep everything else at friend level. 6- DON'T CHANGE YOUR MIND AFTER YOU ARE FWB.
/r/seduction14/06/15 06:30 PM
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Your ethinicity doesn't matter. I am not in the bay area, but I have met some really cool people from that area. It's only about being fun and having a good attitude. May be instead the numbers game will not be the same for you, but if you keep going at it a few of the women you meet will be fun and not the stereotype believing type. And those are the only people worth meeting anyway. Seduction is all about, imo, loving yourself and improving constantly(for you). The girls etc are just the gravy…
/r/seduction13/06/15 12:22 PM
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Kino
/r/seduction11/06/15 07:48 PM
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Stop doing FB and ask her out, after the initial approach on FB(I don't recommend anything FB related).
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:03 PM
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Try opening with something witty and a little sexual. It will improve. But carry through with it. I mean don't send a witty text and then start talking about mundane stuff. Set-up the date in 3-4 texts (max). Then see if it changes your flake rate.
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:02 PM
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Going to be extremely rude about this. What is the matter with you? She is in your bed, where you put here. She is expecting sex, pretty obvious from what you wrote, and you didn't follow through. Not even finger banging? You either get laid with this girl asap or you are going to get into the friend I cuddle with zone.
/r/seduction03/06/15 01:24 PM
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If you can then yes, I usually don't after a couple of times. Till then its usually friendly with the bartender and he/she refuses tips.
/r/seduction03/06/15 12:11 PM
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Yes, I agree with everything you have said. I treat bartender's as friends. The usual for me is a beer, and after a while I have established that if I am with a girl and signal for 2. It means the first round will be wine/sangria and a beer. I never send back the first round. Pretty easy to customize(incase the girl wants something else) after the first drink.
/r/seduction03/06/15 12:08 PM
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Uhhh...this is a seduction related sub, so yes, we are not talking about relatioships. That being said, follow the normal seduction routine/mindset. If you are attracted, you are attracted. What does it have to do with "pretty face". You want to hit and quit. Make your intentions clear and keep it fun. Some will go for it, others will back out.
/r/seduction03/06/15 11:30 AM
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Tell me whats the point of keeping a friend of the opposite gender whom you have feelings for. Its a shortcut to hell of a different kind. Anyway best of luck to you.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:13 PM
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NEXT I don't think this is salvageable. Cut all contact. Deep insecurities being shared before sex, hell even after years of being in a relationship are usually an attraction killer. NEXT
/r/seduction26/05/15 11:01 AM
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Yes, I use vPN for spotify. It works as my go-to. Its just a list would be a great community resource imho.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:30 PM
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Ah..Pandora doesn't work in my location. :( I was actually thinking of this as a good resource for everyone.
/r/seduction21/05/15 05:49 PM
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Try thinking of a night out as a night of fun and not pick-up special. Stop trying to approach on the dance floor, it seems thats really not your thing. Try it after a few of the smile and approach tactics. I have been in your position. Tall, slightly fat and have been skinny too. I use to hang out with a bunch of people who really always put me down. In response most of the women that I met with them thought of me the same way, because in my mind I was a boring ugly looking motherfucker. Nightc…
/r/seduction09/05/15 04:33 PM
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Get your head in the right place. Start running for 2-3k's a day for a week. Come back and post here. No money required for a run. Add a rule to your running routine. After a run you will talk minimum 2 minutes with random strangers. Just saying "Hi" also counts as some seconds. A week will show you change, a month will change your life. In 3 months you will be a boss.
/r/seduction21/04/15 06:37 PM
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