newbgainer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	I tend to be very confident and talkative around girls when I'm with friends, but not when I'm alone. How can I change this?	newbgainer	/r/seduction	31/07/14 03:00 AM
9	How do I/What do I say when approaching girls after class, or on campus?	newbgainer	/r/seduction	11/09/14 05:26 AM
2	What are good general discussion topics to use when first meeting a girl, especially ones that lead to interesting conversations?	newbgainer	/r/seduction	14/10/14 06:37 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I get out of my head? I keep making excuses to approach girls and want it to stop! Now that you mention that, I've noticed how much more relaxed I am when I'm talking to ANYONE I want to rather than just focusing on talking to THAT girl. Still though even when I am in that mood and I see a girl I'd like to approach it still is hard for me. I know the best way to practice is through experience and the worst that would happen is she would just tell me to fuck off, but I still can't muster up the motivation within myself to do it. It's so annoying.	/r/seduction	17/11/14 04:56 AM
1	Even though I know I shouldn't need validation from girls, I do. It drives me crazy when a girl doesn't reciprocate the same interest I do. I really want to stop this, how can I? That's definitely true, I got the book about two months ago and this is probably the hardest part for me. It's something I've been doing for years so to be able to change it instantly is definitely not possible for me.	/r/seduction	13/11/14 05:03 AM
1	Even though I know I shouldn't need validation from girls, I do. It drives me crazy when a girl doesn't reciprocate the same interest I do. I really want to stop this, how can I? I actually do have Models, it's a great book and has helped me in a lot of ways but obviously I still struggle with this. I'll definitely look into the other book. You make a good point, while I do receive validation from my friends and social circle, I have no real passion or work at the moment that I receive it from. I need to work on this. Thanks!	/r/seduction	12/11/14 06:47 PM
9	Even though I know I shouldn't need validation from girls, I do. It drives me crazy when a girl doesn't reciprocate the same interest I do. I really want to stop this, how can I? I mean that sounds very interesting, but how exactly? Could you please elaborate?	/r/seduction	12/11/14 06:24 AM
4	How? Step-By-Step. From Approaching To Getting HER Number Do you have a link? I also need help with that	/r/seduction	21/10/14 05:13 AM
2	What I've learned that might help you. Any advice on starting to get oneitis, or obsessed about a girl you've hooked up with a couple of times? She showed heavy interest in the beginning, and it seemed to fade out with my constant interest, what can I do to fix this?	/r/seduction	20/10/14 05:34 AM
1	How do I/What do I say when approaching girls after class, or on campus? Okay that sounds pretty good, thanks I'll use it	/r/seduction	11/09/14 06:19 AM
1	How do I/What do I say when approaching girls after class, or on campus? That's the thing though I can't think of what to say. I'd like it to be something that is related to the class somewhat and doesn't straight away come off like I'm coming onto her	/r/seduction	11/09/14 06:18 AM
1	I know everything I'm 'supposed' to do in my head, but can't actually DO it I'm sorry for the late reply but thank you! A lot of this applies to me and I will definitely keep this post in mind. I seriously need to work on just saying HI	/r/seduction	04/09/14 04:48 AM
1	I know everything I'm 'supposed' to do in my head, but can't actually DO it Lol, woops I actually wasn't sorry! I meant the poster above But thanks for your reply anyway haha!	/r/seduction	04/09/14 04:48 AM
2	I know everything I'm 'supposed' to do in my head, but can't actually DO it I'm sorry for the late reply but thank you! A lot of this applies to me and I will definitely keep this post in mind. I seriously need to work on just saying HI	/r/seduction	04/09/14 04:24 AM
2	I know everything I'm 'supposed' to do in my head, but can't actually DO it I actually have read it :( No but really I grasp a lot of the main concepts in the book, just the hardest thing is putting it into ACTION	/r/seduction	03/09/14 04:53 AM
1	I know everything I'm 'supposed' to do in my head, but can't actually DO it Thanks for the response. I am actually pretty good at being able to say Hello if it came down to it, but after that it can be pretty difficult. Usually I come up with a somewhat rushed topic usually related to the situation we're in, she responds, I start getting nervous about responding and keeping it going and the conversation usually dies. I really want to try and just approach loads of girls but am afraid of being labeled a creep, or further down the line a girl ridiculing me to other people…	/r/seduction	03/09/14 03:20 AM
3	I know everything I'm 'supposed' to do in my head, but can't actually DO it Start slow, start making some female friends and stop seeing every women as a potential girlfriend. It'll relieve alot of pressure off of you. Thank you that is good advice and definitely applies to me. Should I pretty much to this to every girl?	/r/seduction	03/09/14 03:18 AM