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The Paradox of Alimony for Men The Supreme Court ruled that alimony is gender neutral in 1979. But, to some, [women having to dole out spousal support still comes as a shock.](the paradox of alimony for men https://nyti.ms/3blTUoV) 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:21 PM
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Lol I linked a news story to a study that you can Google. You just keep making yourself look worse to the anonymous audience of strangers you'll never meet. Peak shamelessness, impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:19 PM
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Gynocentric society of woman good man bad, give everything to women, where's the surprise? You get the society you pay for, and literally billions of dollars in intentional media and billions more in unearned media, occupancy in the political process, and more have firmly entrenched this reality Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:18 PM
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higher penalty for not maximizing income
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:14 PM
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And travel, and adventure, and any other type.of thing that doesn't involve maximizing your earnings in the endless rat race A thousand times yes Women have way more latitude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:14 PM
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Commitment = beta
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:09 PM
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And the response from women is that it's misogynistic, insecure, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:04 PM
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Ok, don't Google it and take your win. Some others of the audience will Google it and find the study and reach their own conclusions Others won't and will reach their own conclusions My work here is done
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:50 PM
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Cognitive dissonance gone wild
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:48 PM
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Apparently a lot of men and even women feel otherwise, and that's why they're MAGA-ing it back Yum tears of your ilk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:17 PM
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But in what way does that change visceral attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:17 PM
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You see it all the time on ppd that it is misogynistic for men to care about such things Maybe that is because ppd is filled with women who are autists/unwanteds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:16 PM
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I'm not following. It's literally funded by men for women's benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:16 PM
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People literally get married in current year lol it's cheaper than a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:13 PM
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I'm sure you can find it if you want 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:13 PM
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https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/#:~:text=Rosenfeld%2C%20a%20lead%20author%20on,to%2022%20percent%20in%202009.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:57 AM
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The conviction that caring about it is insecure/misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:57 AM
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entitled men who have nothing to offer but their trauma You first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:56 AM
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They're not even breeding at replacement level anymore fucking worthless waste of resources negative return on investment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:19 AM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:18 AM
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The person I responded to didn't invent their thing either so what
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:18 AM
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Her ilk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:52 AM
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How would it be discernible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:51 AM
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As do women, but men are net contributors to taxes and women are net takers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:42 AM
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That's how we got into this mess in the first place, too much cHiLlIN Also do you have the same energy for women not ChILlIN or is it only men you want to try to silence with your delightful irreverence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:10 AM
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ok so you think women are getting married for years to gain property from a partner who earns a few more thousand dollars a year? also i have never been the lower earner in my relationship. men aren't making as much as women these days. Single childless women outearn single men, which flips at marriage when they take the mommy track. However, the relevant question (at least for a woman who wants a child) is whether they come out better having a child alone, unmarried or married, and for most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:09 AM
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Like that's the mechanism of how it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:37 PM
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Whether that's true of the girl is for her to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:37 PM
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They sure do seem to like the money, and go do what they want with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:28 PM
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They're not able to afford it because they're competing with women in the workforce, which somen women also do not like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:25 PM
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In light of the above, it's the women who are in charge. Even the elite men are putting tremendous effort and sacrifice just to serve it up at the altar of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:25 PM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:24 PM
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All that work, all that hard earned money, just for 27 seconds of fuckyfucky Who is in charge again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:59 PM
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Even the elite men live to serve women (maybe even especially them)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:57 PM
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Just spreading the word one at a time 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:57 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:56 PM
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It's a democracy, and so whatever enough men and women choose, that's what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:55 PM
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Rent a nice car and a nice Airbnb, get it in, and then peace
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:55 PM
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Can't we just discuss without insulting and trying to tear each other down? Nope. These are the resentments that both sides harbor, and in anonymity it comes out of the shadows, stemming from the reality that the genders' interests are mostly zero sum and in conflict Oh sure some people try to pretty it up with nice facqdes and lies and misdirections, the heaving house of cards that is polite society trying to hide the ball to keep the Sisyphean wheels turning as ever But it's just a ruse. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:54 PM
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Hopefully in this lifetime/before too old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:51 PM
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The legal and sociocultural environment is its own beast. Men were also horny in the before times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:51 PM
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And they make the first move and go for the top guys AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:50 PM
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This is one of the only public places that exist where guys can express pro-guy views, even most subteddits that's too far
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:50 PM
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The bad kind
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:49 PM
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Step by step
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:48 PM
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CMV: society exists to serve women, men have the status of farm animals being harvested for women's benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:45 PM
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Seems like women think caring about such things is a pretty big deal: that it means the guy is insecure, misogynistic, etc. Apparently the women lack the courage of their convictions, can't put their money where their mouth is so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:43 PM
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this sub I'm talking about the mainstream overall...oh no a place where the peasants can actually voice their displeasure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:42 PM
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Just lookin out for the lads lord knows there's enough slaykwwweeen material out there for one million lifetimes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:38 PM
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hitting the wall, 2022 colorized
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:35 PM
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Lol women here in a nutshell: entitled, nothing to offer but their trauma Bravo on the projection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:34 PM
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There is a stigma about women who sleep with a man too quick. Yet there seems to be some kind of dispute over this, like oh no only MuHsOgYnIstS care Either A. All guys care Or B. Only some guys care, but then why wouldn't you be trying to filter for the ones who don't care? So to not have someone falsely assume something about them women might make a guy wait. Her saying she’s making him wait so he doesn’t think she’s easy is not an indication that she didn’t wait for someone else. It is, becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:33 PM
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Well it's a public forum, and so I'm public foruming 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:32 PM
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There's no objectively. It's whatever your target market wants. If you're a guy and your target market wants you to make a good living, it doesn't really matter what your objective value is for the purpose of attracting a mate, and same with any other preference of a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:30 PM
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Yet women are posting all the time "women can just lie, the guy won't know" or "I don't want him to think I'm easy so I make him wait" (i.e., she is easy, but tricking the guy) No problem, guy can rent a nice car and a nice airbnb and pretend to be ballin until he gets it in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:29 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:27 PM
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CMV ppd is way worse than porn subs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:19 PM
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Lol Guy: girls just want Chad Girl: that's not true, some girls want devoted servants
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:15 PM
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Encouraging to do that which was already allowed Can't let any kind of misgivings get in the way Just like what you're saying up at the top comment, you know that's allowed too, but you're saying the thing to encourage women to do it And I'm saying the thing to encourage men to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:15 PM
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It's up to the person to decide what they value, not you. For example, a woman might be looking for a guy who earns a good living. A man who earns below the threshold can jump up and down and stomp his feet until he's red in the face, but it doesn't matter, the pairing won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:13 PM
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MUh MuHSoGuNiSt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:11 PM
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Men, tell her you'd be interested in a relationship with the right girl, get it in, and then walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:02 PM
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First to say first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:01 PM
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Value to whom? The people you are trying to attract as a mate do in fact determine your value for that specific purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:00 PM
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That's the rub: it's not actually about true income but the perceived lifestyle being provided. A lot of folks who actually have money are very frugal. Rent a nice car and a nice Airbnb, get it in, and that's that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:58 PM
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Men care about it (across a spectrum of 1. Care about it and are up front about it/2. Care about it but pretend not to/3. Care about it but convince themselves they don't/4. Some, I assume, genuinely don't care.) What women do about that fact is up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:56 PM
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Society doesn't seem to think lying about n count is bad, it's all "if you care you're a misogynist"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:55 PM
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Usually people don't ask for a paystub lol just have to keep up the ruse long enough for "still counts had sex" and then whatevs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:54 PM
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It's the safest it's ever been. Perfection doesn't seem to be in the offing anytime soon. Time to get some pepper spray
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:53 PM
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If it's ok to lie about n count, it's ok to lie about income
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:52 PM
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If they're lying, it means they know guys care about it. Guys have the right to care about whatever lawful preferences they wish, just as girls do. It would be like saying it's ok for guys to lie about their income because somehow the number in your bank account determines your value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:51 PM
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Alas, being hit on is part and parcel of being a part of society You could always beg your legislator to make it a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:44 PM
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Lol yeah silly rabbit liars never get caught more lies the better Oh yeah and women never claim to have infallible women's intuition especially on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:43 PM
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Lol that your lies might be discovered = questioning your worth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:42 PM
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Lol went straight from 25-25 to 18-80, someone is tcuchy about their fading youth Don't worry, it's probably even worse than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:39 PM
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Now reverse the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:36 PM
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All lawful preferences are valid, or none are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:32 PM
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Doesn't change OP's thing that they would if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:27 PM
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if the men want to, most young women will not; they've got a fuckton of options; why would they seriously consider an older guy when they can get a guy maybe 2-3 years from their age just fine, who they have more in common with? I say that with much confidence because I've tried age gap stuff to see what the hype was about Just need enough women who like you will give it a try. They don't all have to be up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:11 PM
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Their hormones would have to be modified
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:00 PM
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and because a lot of people don't actually recognize good looking women in the 30s as 30—because they look more like 25, 26, 27, you get it. If anything this underscores the importance of youth rather than contradicts it. Few are out there bragging about how they look older than their age Maybe Leonardo DiCaprio, but most men are not him and there's a fair amount who don't have interest in seriously dating someone much younger than them. Would if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:57 PM
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Or women would just wait until a guy does approach, just like now. Abolishing gender roles doesn't change fundamental sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:55 PM
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Different groups I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:54 PM
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That's probably a swathe of the population as well. Like the OP said, you can always just not date. If you want a guarantee, don't date. Again, goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:54 PM
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They like them now because of the shared bond is the idea. Doesn't always work that way of course (both genders)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:50 PM
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Women would only have children when in a position to afford them alone, at least where abortion is legal (or maybe they'll just abstain until procreation anyway) Isn't this whole sub always up in arms about muh overpopulation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:49 PM
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If you're the lower earner (2/3 of husbands outearn their wives), the property is shared equally despite the higher earner's higher contribution to acquisition of the property There's also temporary alimony during the pendency of divorce. Do your 10% stats cover that? Attorney's fees payments to the lower earner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:47 PM
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Yes give up on dating The idea is "wife goggles" You paired young and have shared experiences and bond, that excitement that was there when getting together rosying the memories
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:40 PM
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The ones who get together are the ones who are truly ready to. It's already quite individualistic as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:38 PM
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Is irc still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:37 PM
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The lingering double standards of promiscuity are the shriveled threads restraining society from becoming a 95% of women pursuing the top 5% of men scenario. Each reduction in promiscuity shaming leads towards that endpoint I mean might as well go for the gold I guess but as far as the question being posed this "solution" would be a step in the opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:37 PM
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Dwight you ignorant slut depression is a serious illness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:36 PM
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Women do the same just over a (slightly) longer timeframe, the long con. Just think of pump and dump as an early divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:33 PM
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handsome educated successful men would have to date stinky fat ignorant basement dwelles like the females on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:30 PM
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Lol Women: do what you want when you want (well except where abortion is banned) Men: Sophie's choice of sacrifice and discipline and grind until heat death of the universe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:28 PM
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Didn't work perfectly every time isn't the same as didn't work at all ever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:26 PM
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That would just lead to even more concentration
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:26 PM
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Objectively or subjectively equally frightened? Just ask Cardi B, guys should probably be more worried than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:24 PM
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That would just mean more concentration
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:23 PM
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it is your birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:20 PM
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Grind more mule
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:17 PM
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And yet a plurality of couples meet online 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:16 PM
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The second would improve the first?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:15 PM
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it was never in a space that was basically for the purpose of having casual sex. What like eHarmony? Seems to me they're all pretty much on similar footing just with more or fewer euphemisms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:14 PM
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Seems like that would incentivize women to prioritize financial independence over getting married or having kids That's what they're doing anyway, except with these quickie marriages the guy is still stuck with the bill at the end Better to have a few good pairings than a bunch of awful ones, which is the motto of the day anyway as is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:10 PM
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Silly rabbit, only women can have preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:09 PM
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Why would such a thing happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:08 PM
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Take away that you have gotten more or less what you want (from the sound of it), and the question is would you have the same perspective as you exhibit on here on the daily? You ever think about that? May you never have to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:07 PM
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We all know they don't all function optimally. Bout to rig that election
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:06 PM
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Average men should rightfully realize that, if they want to use and even pay for these apps, it’s like playing the lottery and they therefore shouldn’t get disappointed when they lose. And yet a plurality of couples meet online?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:05 PM
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What are your thoughts on this? *A plurality of couples meet online *Dating apps are heavily skewed towards men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:05 PM
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I haven't been rejected in a very long time. Survivorship bias: the post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:04 PM
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Keepin it 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:01 PM
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