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newbphil/r/seduction25/04/18 07:42 AM
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This is the post that I needed in order to push me to unsub. This sub has officially lost all credibility and usefulness to me. It's so painfully obvious that most of the top-upvoted posts on a day-to-day basis are written by guys who have no clue, and are upvoted by guys who have no clue. This is the perfect upvote-bait post; if you don't know anything on the topic it sounds right, but it's honestly hilariously wrong. Seriously, good luck to all the guys looking for actual advice here, you're d…
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:48 PM
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You build the rapport in person, this is what the guy was getting at in the first portion of his comment; if you have the number, it means you met her somehow, that is where you're building rapport. Texting back and forth endlessly is the best way to shoot yourself in the foot. Why would you want to "build rapport" over text when you could have, for example, simply invited the girl out to grab ice cream and walk in the park? Your rapport is going to be infinitely more valuable with that approach…
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:26 PM
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Hey edgelord, nobody is convinced by your tough-guy act. No wonder you are on this sub. I'll reply to whatever comment I fucking want, go fuck yourself. Imagine making your username "x_darness", Jesus Christ it's so obvious that you've never felt the touch of a woman.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:05 AM
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Damn that's rough, but honestly, if you've gone on enough 1st dates, I think we've all been there. I met up with a super hot girl from tinder once; first went to her place, then we were supposed to go to the beach together. Long story short, we drove separately, I get to the beach, she is nowhere and is literally fucking ghosting me. I sit on the beach by myself like a human tampon for about 2 hours before I decide to just go home. On the drive home, stuck in traffic for over an hour, I see her …
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:49 PM
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lmaooo what is this reply dude 😂😂😂 yeah FBI, this guy right here
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:40 PM
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... You sat through a first date after the girl explicitly told you she wasn't interested? Dude I'd be leaving immediately if that happened to me, I don't have time for shit like that.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:39 PM
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I live in Germany, it's fairly common knowledge here. If someone is so confident in a blatantly false statement that they say "100%", then yeah I'm gonna be a bit snarky. Why you so upset bro? We're not talking about "life information", we're talking about Aldi in a fucking /r/seduction thread. Someone said something patently false while being wildly confident in their statement, I politely corrected them with a sprinkle of snark. You really want this to become an argument? Go touch grass.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:27 PM
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Based and marketing-pilled.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:05 PM
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They actually aren't. "Aldi" in the states is owned by "Aldi Süd", which is the "nicer" Aldi in Germany. Trader Joe's is owned by "Aldi Nord" which is considered the not so nice Aldi. Completely separate companies that have stores in completely different states in Germany. It used to be one company, but split after the 2 heirs to the company had some sort of disagreement. Next time, when you don't actually know something about X subject, consider not making such a confident comment on that subje…
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:59 PM
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I know we use a lot of pickup-jargon here, but can we not call the women we wanna fuck "targets?" Super creepy subtext there god damn lmao
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:28 PM
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Something you tangentially touched on is that a lot of guys are just kinda shitty; I'm a guy and it's frankly super obvious. I've read articles/ seen studies that find that women are having a hard time literally just finding a decent guy (that is also in her earning class). Because of the liberation of women in the latter half of the 20th century, a huge portion of women are earning as much as or more than their male counterparts, which gives them a smaller pool of guys to choose from (because w…
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:14 PM
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Why the FUCK would you want to bang this loser again?! Go on a dating app and you'll find someone to bang you within an afternoon. As to you questions: Are you being used? Probably. Does he like you? Probably not considering he never tried to get you off. How do you fuck him again? If you have any self respect you wouldn't. Also, wtf is with the "I love you" thing, that shit sounds creepy.
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:17 AM
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Some points/ criticisms I'd like to point out: Many people who are desperate enough to go on a forum about seduction are introverts, who typically also operate more logically than emotionally; this means they have a much easier time with logically grounded systems instead of this amorphous "inherently attractive" concept that all of your advice hinges on. Give them a rough roadmap/ steps in order to get to their goal, tell them the data points to pay attention to in order to get better, and send…
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:33 PM
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Look up the DiCarlo escalation ladder, that's pretty much all you need. You try to get the interaction to be in-person as soon as realistically possible, then apply that to your interaction. Seduction is 95% in-person, texting is a tool you use to keep the relationship going along and to organize dates.
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:43 AM
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Starting with asking for notes is fine, but continuing like that for multiple days on end was a pretty big mistake; you should have moved the conversation to non-school shit within the first day or two and try to line up a date/ hangout within that time as well. You've set yourself up perfectly to be friendzoned. You might already be in it, but at the very least you are teetering on the edge. Show some initiative/ interest man, you asked this girl for her number because you find her cute, not be…
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:21 PM
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I will also recommend Todd V, he is a no bullshit kinda guy that breaks stuff down logically step-by-step. He has also mentioned multiple times that he's naturally an introvert, which I was drawn to because I am as well (and I'm assuming most guys here are). He is very obviously a fairly average looking guy; not tall, average face, not particularly muscular, he's just well groomed. He pulls pretty much entirely using social skills that can be learned.
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:59 PM
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The IG thing is fucking CRUCIAL and many guys here don't realize it; if all the girl has in her bio is her IG handle, she just potentially saved you a lot of wasted time texting back and forth with someone who has no intention of ever meeting up, or at the very least, swiping right on her didn't lower your algorithm score if she doesn't swipe right back. There is an epidemic of girls using dating apps purely in order to gain followers on social media. Avoid them like the plague.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:28 PM
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As the other guy said, people aren't mind readers. If there's an issue in the relationship, you bring it up, period. I think this whole "game" thing is partially responsible for getting guys into these problems; you don't have to "gamify" everything. If you have X problem with your girl, fucking bring it up. It's not rocket science. In the example above, if you feel like she isn't taking enough interest in your life, she isn't going to bring it up, YOU have to bring it up! If the girl really jus…
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:20 PM
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I have no clue what you're replying to in my comment. Sounds like you spend too much time online, many people have good relationships where they can communicate their problems effectively.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:55 PM
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I don't even know how to start unpacking this. It's only a problem if you care about it or expect her to be invested. True statement. Clearly, many of the guys in this thread do care or expect their partner to be interested in their life, which is reasonable. I see some people here bitching about their FWB not being interested, which is kinda cute in a naive way. Obviously, a FWB isn't interested in your personal life, but a lot of the comments here are talking about actual girlfriends. And yeah…
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:51 PM
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Sure, you shouldn't always be giving boring rundowns of literally how your day was; there are ways to make a boring day sound interesting if you just joke around a bit, but I don't think that was the sentiment of the comment you replied to. It's possible I'm wrong, maybe the guy was actually just talking about how work was (jesus christ, we can all agree, man or woman, that listening to someone bitch about work is nauseatingly boring), in which case we are totally in agreement, it just came off …
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:44 PM
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This sounds fucking exhausting bro; it's possible to have a simple person-to-person moment with a woman without having to gamify every little aspect of every interaction. I'm not gonna apply "game" to her asking me how my fucking day was. It shouldn't be, and isn't, necessary.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:08 PM
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I've never had this particular thing happen to me with someone where we were both interested in a LTR, but I've had some flings and LTR experience. Here's what my immediate thought is, and it may absolutely blow your mind; when you notice this lack of interest in you from the girl, why not, you know, bring it up and talk about it? I know that this gets harped on literally everywhere concerning relationships, but it can't be overstated how important communication is. If you bring it up and get so…
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:02 PM
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It's a copy-paste from a Wikipedia article, he's just being a cunt
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:38 AM
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This is why you're on this sub buddy, stop replying and start logic-ing your way to some pussy.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:44 PM
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Alright, I was trying to have some nuanced dialogue, but you had to go all /r/iamverysmart on me. Maybe try reading the 2nd and 3rd paragraphs again, because they kinda makes your entire autistic reply moot.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:02 PM
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Agreed to an extent, but I think guys like Todd V prove this wrong (or are at least the exception to the rule). The guy looks really average, he is around 5'8" and just grooms himself well, yet he can pull online and IRL; the difference is that he is super knowledgeable on social interactions/ social psychology. He even admits he's an introvert, so it's not even that he is super outgoing, he just passes the bar for looks and kills it socially. Realistically, anyone can do that with practice. Agr…
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:51 PM
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From your post, it sounds like you're trying to be basically exactly as direct in your IRL approaches as online; I think that's the problem. With the online dating, you have a profile that showcases your personality/ interests to some extent, whereas IRL, if you're doing the exact same thing, the girl literally only has your looks to go off of. You need to have a bit more rapport/ banter than just "hey, I like your dress. Can I get your number?" That doesn't mean you need to have a full-on conve…
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:44 PM
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This sub isn't about dealing with your partner. It's about getting a partner.
/r/seduction15/05/22 02:55 PM
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Here's the thing; if you truly believe that this study has merit, and that you could actually have a ballpark 50% success rate, there is no reason to not do it, those are insane odds. Roughly every other girl you approach agrees to a date/ gives you her number?! Insanity, you would be stupid not to do it. Who cares if you get rejected, do approaches for another 30 minutes and you'll have another 10 dates lined up! I think this kinda reveals that you know deep down that these numbers aren't reali…
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:24 PM
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Why don't you go out and try if you're so confident in these 40-year-old studies? I do find them interesting, but more in the idea that society has changed so much since then. I agree with the guy you're replying to, I've never heard of anything above about a 10% success rate, and that is only from literally the best of the best. I've been on-and-off into "game" for nearly 10 years now, and have never, ever heard of a 50+% success rate. Standard advice for beginners is to expect a 1 in 100 succe…
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:39 PM
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Bro use periods when you write Jesus Christ. Even if you had a good point, nobody is going to be convinced by your run-on sentence and not spelling out "you" as if you're writing your comments on a flip phone.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:04 PM
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(comment you replied to was deleted, so just gonna reply to you based on what you've said, not in the context of what you replied to) I agree with you to an extent, but I'd like to add some nuance. I just got out of a 2 year relationship; in that time, I've gained a bit of weight and have a little gut. Nothing crazy, but enough to notice I've gained a bit of weight. I've been to a few parties with my girl and talked to other girls at these parties. On a couple occasions, these (hot) girls actual…
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:28 PM
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... what?
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:24 PM
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Come on bro, every guy has a mental hierarchy in his head that goes roughly from "1 - would not even fuck for money" all the way to "10 - want to fuck so bad it hurts"; between 1 and 10 are girls that are anywhere from "would maybe fuck if drunk enough" to "would totally smash but not gonna get hung up on it". FWB girls are usually in the middle, at least in my experience. You could totally get a 10 as a FWB, but you're most likely gonna catch feelings.
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:38 PM
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Nah, gay guys are more forward because that's the culture; guys are generally fucking pigs, and there's subgroups/ niches of gay guys that have even owned that and made it part of their identity (as in, they get off on being complete sluts). Case in point; there are no glory holes made for women, and there's no such thing as "cruising" for straight people. They're forward because most of them just want to fuck. In the past, gay guys were obviously the opposite of forward, because it was super ta…
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:57 PM
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It is rare, just like it's rare to be naturally gorgeous. That's kinda the point of the comment/ thread.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:06 PM
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You're looking at this way too logically/ like a transaction; if you've been with a girl for years and are both in love/ emotionally invested, and you become disabled, odds are she will support you, not leave you. Now obviously, that does happen, but I highly doubt that the majority of people who become disabled lose their partner because of it. What about game or relationships has to do with the ability to do X physical thing anyways? Weird way to look at this. Also, the whole "how can I not de…
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:18 PM
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Wait, you messaged with this girl who lives close to you for MONTHS without ever meeting up? I mean, there's the primary problem; obviously I can't give you shit because it was the first girl you "talked to", and I'm sure you're already aware of this by now, but "talking" like this is an absolute no-go, you have to always be trying to set something up or close. But yeah, that girl sounds like your standard attention whore. They can be great for a ONS, don't get me wrong; I think a lot of guys di…
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:40 PM
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Absolutely listen to what a woman says. In a reply to another comment, I mentioned my experience on the topic, which is that every single time a girl has said "we aren't having sex" during a makeout session, it leads to the girl initiating the sex not long after; only one time has a girl said this to me and meant it, and obviously I respected that. Regardless, you should assume that she is serious, but I have found the "we aren't having sex" line to be a good indication that we are, in fact, goi…
/r/seduction11/11/21 05:02 PM
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In my experience, if things have escalated to a hardcore makeout and the girl explicitly says "we aren't having sex" that is almost a guarantee that you will be laying pipe. I don't know why, maybe it's a sort of last minute shit test to see if you get needy or some kind of rationalization, but yeah I think I've only had one girl actually mean it when she said that. The others all ended up actively initiating the sex in fact. The first time that happened I was in high school and it blew my mind;…
/r/seduction11/11/21 04:58 PM
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Absolutely, which is why I mentioned that I'm assuming we're talking super basic tying up by the wrists to the bed or something like that. No way I'm attempting some crazy BDSM shit on a first date. Either way, it's understandable if the active or passive person isn't down for that on a first date, and it's not a bad rule to follow.
/r/seduction11/11/21 04:56 PM
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I think it depends on the level of tying up; considering she asked for it, and she is the one getting tied up, the risk is really all on her. If I were a woman I definitely wouldn't ask a dude I've known for a few hours to put me in a super vulnerable position like that, but hey clearly this girl is a freak, more power to her, but it is risky. I'm assuming we are talking like tying the arms to the bedposts or something, nothing crazy.
/r/seduction11/11/21 04:44 PM
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The definition for social media is broader than you realize. Coming from a digital marketer, Reddit is most definitely social media. If it isn't, advertisers and bad actors around the world sure as hell treat it/ manipulate it as if it were.
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:00 AM
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Oh you mean those old people who are someone's fathers, mothers, grandfathers, grandmothers, uncles, aunts, brothers, or sisters? You cunt.
/r/seduction05/04/20 11:02 AM
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Nobody is going to have tried and true advice for this because this hasn't happened in living memory. Here's your guide: they're putting fucking capitalism itself on pause for weeks/ months, you're not getting your dick wet. Most of us are here because we don't get much pussy to begin with, I think we'll be okay continuing to jerk off like we have since puberty for another couple months. Keeping interest up over exclusively text is hard enough as it is; even if you can keep up rapport, you're no…
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:22 PM
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Wow hey everyone this guy smokes weed!
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:01 PM
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In my experience a maybe is almost always a no. Good chance she's saying that so she can flake on the camping if she doesn't feel like it when the day comes. As far as I know there's nothing you can do about this other than making your dates "concrete," as in a specific day/time instead of "later this week" or something like that. Sounds like you did the right thing in that respect. From what you wrote though it didn't sound like you actually had real plans, especially if the camping thing is an…
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:29 AM
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Damn thanks for the article link, had some really interesting stuff. Was that posted here already? If not you should
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:07 AM
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You could definitely become "that guy." I've read multiple stories on this sub where guys tried too hard to do cold approach at their university & subsequently became "that guy." Some people here may tell you to have a no fucks attitude about that, but reputation is pretty important on campus/ in a small city. I doubt you'll have issues though as long as you aren't making cold approach into a "hobby" where you're spending hours a day in a busy area chatting up girls. That will become obvious & p…
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:20 PM
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Probably withheld sex to see if that's really all you wanted. Sounds like SHE dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:56 AM
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Who hurt you
/r/seduction16/11/18 10:47 AM
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Wow, a helpful, non-joke answer? This one OP. This is the only comment you need. The physicality should start immediately, even if tame.
/r/seduction27/09/18 11:07 AM
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Notice how you just completely wrote off everything I said in your first short sentence, & then went on for about a paragraph disqualifying yourself for the rest of your comment? There's your first, and largest, obstacle; your mindset and how you view yourself. I'm TELLING you, even if it doesn't happen often, there ARE girls that have fancied you/ have shown interest, & you simply didn't realize it. One of the ugliest motherfuckers I know is also one of the most experienced with the opposite se…
/r/seduction12/06/18 12:46 AM
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If you've never had a girlfriend/ had sex before, it sounds more like you don't know/ see the signs of attraction from a woman, rather than none being attracted to you. Especially if you've lost weight (like you mentioned in another comment) I guarantee that women that you know have taken notice. Your problem is most likely a multitude of problems, some of which COULD be; self esteem, self awareness (especially in social settings), lack of style, inability to convey your personality to women, et…
/r/seduction11/06/18 10:55 PM
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I believe he used the term "relationship" in the broad sense, all interpersonal relationships, not just romantic.
/r/seduction22/01/18 01:46 PM
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This has got to be a troll.
/r/seduction28/07/17 06:21 PM
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Yeah, 95% of women date in social circle, because 95% of GUYS date in their social circle. Under 5% of guys even have the balls to cold approach. You won't have more frequent success with social circles, because you're working so hard for so long trying to make friends vs chatting up girls you see during the day. You're complaining about cold approach being inefficient. OF COURSE it is, that's the whole concept of cold approach. You have the freedom to talk to ANY girl you want, which means that…
/r/seduction23/07/17 01:14 PM
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This is pretty shit advice brother, and coming from a guy that has only done 50 approaches? That's nothing. Typically only 1 or 2 out of 10 approaches will even go somewhat well, where the girl will actually stop and have a chat with you. So what, you've had about 10 decent cold approach interactions, at best? And sure, your point is essentially that it's too much work to get results, but being good with women isn't a skill that should be easy to develop; not everyone deserves to have this power…
/r/seduction23/07/17 12:51 PM
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Love this. Short, sweet, and to the point. No bullshit half hour video for 30 seconds of useful info. Great little technique, probably wont help much if you don't already know a bit about pickup, but this has potential. Gonna try this out after exams are over.
/r/seduction06/07/17 06:59 PM
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This is pretty good advice, a lot of times you have to make it happen, there is no "moment." I usually just say something like "wait.." with my finger up & heavy eye contact, then lean in. As long as you have escalated up to that point you should almost never fail.
/r/seduction24/06/17 05:51 PM
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Did you even read the post? He got out of an 11 year relationship. Let the guy have some fun. And escorts don't address the need many men feel to prove to themselves that they can get pussy on their own merit.
/r/seduction24/06/17 05:48 PM
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Making the assumption that just because humans don't have absolute control over their meat-computers, with millions of years of biological programming, means that all humans then need psychiatrists sounds delusional. But you seem like a lost cause with clear RedPill-style poisonous beliefs. Please continue with the keyboard warrior courage that burns so passionately in your comments. While you do that, I'm gonna hit on girls.
/r/seduction22/06/17 10:33 PM
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You need a psychiatrist, friend.
/r/seduction22/06/17 10:25 PM
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Hi, I'm [your name], I saw you and thought you were cute so I had to come introduce myself. Normal and straightforward. If you're doing any opener outside of something to this effect, it should be observational openers, which cannot be memorized and repeated like a robot.
/r/seduction15/06/17 11:39 PM
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Trust me man, it's a hard battle that most go through. I am nowhere near over approach anxiety. It's a process. But once you start to get even the smallest results (getting good rapport, getting a number, girls writing back, not flacking, etc.) you will gain a lot of motivation and confidence. Similar to beginners gains with lifting. The beginning feels really embarrassing and honestly difficult, but after a month you look in the mirror and see that you're gaining results that were absolutely no…
/r/seduction15/06/17 08:25 PM
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Okay, what else are you gonna do? Approach her when she's alone on some back street or alley? Thats obviously fuckin weird. Be realistic man. Nobody gives a shit about you. In all honesty, nobody cares. This goes for everyone, even objectively cool people. If you're in an area where there are a lot of things happening simultaneously (Town square, park, beach, busy public areas in general) and you approach, you are near the bottom of the list of interesting things going on. This is all in your he…
/r/seduction15/06/17 07:46 PM
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I am in no way attemting to invalidate the Video because I did find it genuinely useful, but having learned about marketing & psychology, his constant, forced smiles reallyyy fuck with me, I can barely watch the video. Feels like an obvious "sell," (again, I found it very informative).
/r/seduction11/04/17 10:01 PM
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Most of Reddit believes The Red Pill to be a misogynistic cess-pool, and while this may be a bit exaggerated I do agree that there is a lot of negativity there. The general view there seems to be that love, dating, relationships, sex, etc. is a war between the sexes where we men must essentially submit the women and prove ourselves to be alpha. In reality (and a much healthier view), is that interpersonal relationships between the sexes are a mutual, symbiotic experience where both people benefi…
/r/seduction31/03/17 03:21 PM
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Of course it's okay dude, idk what vids you've seen but basically all todd ever does is do cold approaches with purely romantic Intentions, which he makes clear. As long as you arent actually a creep, you wont be creepy. The girls realize it takes brass balls to go walking up to attractive women like that, most will respect you for it. Just watch some more Clips, get a sense of the general process, go out and try it, and analyse your results so you can learn from your mistakes. It will take a wh…
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:59 PM
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Walking is pretty much the only thing you can do in a Campus, yes. During class ist definitely not what we are talking about here, but thats totally possible too. Literally, next time you're walking between classes and see a girl you find attractive, go talk to her. Now if you want help on what to say or how to do such a thing, definitely check out Bradicus's infield stuff on YouTube, and RSD todd is great with cold approach stuff as well.
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:30 PM
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If you've only ever tried cold approach twice, I dont really think you've had enough practice to say it doesnt work. Campus shouldn't really be much different than, say, in the city. There's countless infield videos and field reports that show success on Campus, I think you just need to go out and do it more. Approach 10+ girls each time you go out (I dont like going out to solely approach so just do it whenever you see a hot girl while you're on campus or running errands in the city or whatever…
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:15 PM
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So many times I see people in seddit calling someone's example of a line "cringeworthy" or whatever. The fact is that just reading some words without a conversational context, tone, intent, etc. is going to come off much differently than it would in real life. If you've seen RSDTodd's infield videos he says shit that could be considered "cringeworthy," but his attitude and vibe make it socially accepted. My point is maybe just settle down a bit with the knee-jerk CRINGEEEE and try to understand …
/r/seduction25/02/17 06:59 PM
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If she's going to the party anyways, it would be much better for you to make moves there. If you "invite" her over early, I think it will seem a bit off or strange. Based on how you described it, it sounds like your intention with inviting her early is to make a move when it's just the two of you and have an empty place to fuck in. This will most likely not happen. Like the others have stated, just show her in the moment that you're interested.
/r/seduction19/11/16 12:17 AM
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I feel as though you're implying that the Benjamin Franklin effect is a bullshit psychological concept.. In High School when I took AP Psychology, they taught the BF effect and it was actually on the exam. Not to say a college course determines what is real or not, but it seems to be generally accepted to be a real psychological phenomenon. So no, it is not bullshit, however it may not be effective to use it in game, I wouldn't know, I haven't tried it.
/r/seduction19/11/16 12:11 AM
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It sounds to me like you have a mindset problem. The fact that you describe your high or drunk self as being "sleazy" for gaining the confidence to be open and sexual with women is a key insight into this. Unless you are being creepy, there is no reason to see this behavior as negative; on the contrary, the reason bars and clubs are seen as social environments is because alcohol is being served. It is culturally understood that this drug lowers your inhibitions and allows you to loosen up and ma…
/r/seduction18/11/16 11:57 PM
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Doesn't going back in for the girl you had a crush on sort of defeat the point of getting over her? I had a horrible case of oneitis in high school, and after a rocky situation at a prom, I decided to cut her out of my life entirely. We were very close friends at that point, so it was not easy. After about 6-8 months, I felt ready to begin being friends with her again, and we have been outstanding friends for years since (without me falling for her again). I believe a large part of overcoming th…
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:59 PM
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This is so important. OP, even if you aren't good in the sack (which you most likely won't be, considering it's your first time), if you can get her riled up & horny enough via foreplay (ie. kissing her all over her body, not touching her pussy for 5-10 minutes while you work every other part of her body, neck kisses, inner thigh kisses, etc.) she will literally be begging you to stick your cock in her. Even if you only last a minute or two, once she's horny & drenched it will be much easier for…
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:01 PM
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I wouldn't call "I'm on my way home," a shit test per se, but it can be approached with a similar approach as a shit test. Essentially, ignore what she said/ don't allow her answer to catch you off guard (in the same way a shit test would) and go about saying what you want to say. In this instance, I wouldn't have tried to "thread" off of what she was saying at all; with interactions like these where the other party isn't giving you much to play with, it's counterproductive to try and thread fro…
/r/seduction16/09/16 11:54 AM
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Right, it's the whole "fake it till you make it," cliche. What you described is essentially the idea, there's dozens of videos on youtube on this topic. One specifically on opening that I'd recommend for some inspiration is by RSDTodd called "from boring to scoring," it shows one of his students going from complete blowouts to getting numbers from some really hot girls within a relatively short timeframe. It's not unachievable or only for elite guys, Todd essentially just pinpointed the student'…
/r/seduction14/09/16 12:35 PM
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I think you may just be trolling with this comment, but in case you're not, you're looking at saying "hi, how's it going?" in a nervous manner as the problem, when it's really only a symptom of a larger issue... You need decent inner game & feel confident in the value you're bringing to an interaction/ woman, if you have those mental traits (which can be learned) then you are by virtue of those traits not going to come off as nervous or needy.
/r/seduction14/09/16 12:21 PM
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